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Guys Giving Each Other Hand Jobs
My Most Awkward Sexual Experience (This One's a Doozy)
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Growing up, I was wildly inexperienced sexually. I had lots of guy friends, and I had crushes on guys, but I didn't even kiss anyone until I was out of college . So I was living in Chicago and started falling in love with a close guy friend. He was so wonderful in every way. And, to my amazement and happiness, he told me one day that he liked me, too!
We went on a bunch of dates, and everything was blissful. The only catch was that I was really nervous about hooking up. I felt like didn't know how. And since I was 24, I thought I should know. I had asked my best friend how to give a hand job, and she told me it was easy and natural. "You just move your hand up and down," she said. "It will feel right in the moment." Ok, got it.
One night soon afterward, we ended up back at his house. We started kissing, and then we moved into the bedroom. This is it , I thought. We stripped off our clothes and were rolling around. I reached down and put my hand on his, uh, manhood. And then I moved it up and down. Back and forth. Pushing it all the way one way and then all the way the other. Like a PARKING BRAKE.
The catch? He didn't seem to be getting that turned on. What am I doing wrong? I wondered. We kept kissing and everything else was romantic, so the night itself was great, but, in the back of my mind, I was still perplexed.
The next morning, I called my friend. "What gives?" I asked her. She burst into laughter. "Oh no!" she said. "I'm so sorry! You move your hand up and down. He stays in the same place."
Luckily, despite my parking-brake snafu, everything worked out, and now we're happily married. But note to friends: If you're explaining sexual moves, demonstrate on a banana ! These things can be confusing!
Wow! Thanks for sharing. Dear readers, who "taught" you how to do sexual moves before you had ever done them? Did you just naturally figure it out? Or did you get a sense through movies? Friends? Older sisters?
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Bud Sex: Why Straight Men Are Having Sex With Each Other
In it, she describes the work of the University of Oregon’s sociology doctoral student Tony Silva who looked at rural white men who identify as "straight" and have sex with other men.
Of course, "being gay" is an identity , not an objective fact. It's how one thinks of oneself, just as one might think of themselves as "Italian" although they're a 3rd-generation American and only one set of grandparents had entirely Italian blood.
One of the interesting findings about straight guys hooking up reported by Singal is that an important piece of preserving these men's identities as straight was that they themselves were "masculine" in their behavior, as were the men that they liked to have sex with, thus giving it the feel of sex between straight men.
This was a particularly interesting finding to me. It exemplifies that while sexuality in and of itself can be fluid , how one identifies or thinks of themselves may be more strongly influenced by the cultural demands around them.
One reported always meeting for coffee with his male sexual partner, another said he enjoyed shopping trips or weekends together with his sexual partner. And while the caring seems genuine, it also seems to be kept on the level of "buddies " and was not allowed to reach any deep emotional level that might be misunderstood as "being in love ."
So the idea of men occasionally having sex with other men is not what is abhorrent to the greater world, but rather a man acting in any way that would be considered traditionally feminine.
I have heard many men over the years laugh about a camping trip or being drunk and one of them giving the other a blow job . In the discussion, the sexual exchange is usually treated as a routine thing that is liable to happen in those circumstances.
Perhaps that explains why some straight men will have sex with other men but are terrified by romantic attractions to anyone, male or female.
Dr. Eli Mayer is a sex therapist for couples and individuals in New York City. If you’re looking for help understanding what’s happening in your bedroom , give Dr. Eli a call (212) 242-2219.
By Eliezer Mayer — Written on Dec 28, 2016
Why Straight Rural Men Have Gay "Bud-Sex" With Each Other is the title of Jesse Singal’s article on sexuality in New York Magazine.
The subjects of his work were 19-year-old straight (or mostly straight) men who had advertised for male sexual encounters in rural areas.
Perhaps the simplest way of describing the findings is that the men interviewed tended to be masculine in their behavior and enjoyed sex with other masculine men, but noted that it didn't detract from their heterosexual identity.
In my years of sex therapy, I've come across men who rarely have sex with women yet identify as straight, as well as men who have sex almost entirely with women yet identify as gay, and of course, all points in between.
There was a clear rejection of men who identified as gay or displayed stereotypical feminine behavior.
These men were from rural areas, and perhaps both due to prejudice and lack of exposure, may not have been aware that gay people come in all shapes and sizes, as well as likes and dislikes. ​
For me, as a gay man, an important part of that is that I enjoy masculinity. In my early coming out experiences, I sometimes felt pressured by other gay men to "be myself" and stop "trying to act so butch."
But that's who I was: a masculine man. It didn’t make me "less gay" or inauthentic. Nobody was acting. It is, in some ways, the inverse of what many of these men must have experienced where cultural demands for masculinity are at odds with identifying as gay or bisexual.
Another interesting aspect of the report is that the men almost uniformly denied an emotional connection beyond friendship to each other. Yet they also reported enjoying activities together that go beyond a casual sexual hookup.
Here. we brush across a very interesting key point: our masculine society holds stereotypical female behavior in contempt.
In fact, at one point in the article, sex between men is referred to as "helping a buddy out." Helping a buddy out is what men do for each other, like changing a flat tire. Baking cookies for him, getting "all sweet for him" are things a woman would do and therefore spoken of pejoratively.
Not a terribly big deal where all the guys involved are straight. But to walk like a girl, or throw like a girl or fight like a girl that is what makes you the object of contempt. It is that which gets you labeled a sissy or a faggot, and makes you the object of public scorn.
This article was originally published at Dr. Eli Mayer . Reprinted with permission from the author.
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Remember the First Kiss video of 20 strangers kissing ? That made some of y’all real mad. Yeah, it was an advertisement and everyone involved was conventionally attractive models and actors, but damn! Put away your torches and pitchforks caps lock and exclamation points — we were ALL duped. If you’re gonna be mad about it, maybe boycott the company or something, I dunno. Or take a nap. That’s what I did and I forgot all about it. I don’t even remember what we’re talking about anymore. (See?) This is video called First Handjob by comedy group Pimms Girls. It features 20 strangers giving handies for the first time. Unfortunately, I’ve got to make a disclaimer: yes, this is a parody. These people are not strangers and they’re not actually tugging on each other’s nethers. But if that’s something you’re interested in seeing, I’m sure there’s plenty of pr0n like that. *Googles* Yep! There definitely is. *Deletes Google history*

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It must be fun to pitch ideas for TV shows in Japan. You can literally take two completely unrelated things, throw them together and BOOM!—you're on the air. For instance: "cooking" and "balancing a live cat on your head"; "Playing naked Twister" and "your grandparents"; "Re-enacting episodes of Law & Order" and "swimming in a tank of pinching crabs". You get the idea. This literally must be how Japanese game show Sing What Happens , where male contestants have to sing karaoke while getting a hand job from attractive, semi-naked women, who often use their hands but also sometimes use their feet to give sexual pleasure. TV is officially too much to handle.
Here's how the game (porno?) is played: The contestants must remember all the words to the song they're singing while being jacked off, and in order to win, must also hit all the correct notes. It seems really hard (haw, haw). The aim is to not be distracted by the hand job, and sing flawlessly through to ejaculation, which brings whole new meaning to the phrase "belting it out". Welp! It looks like the Japanese have once again raised the bar for absurd game show premises, and also given Internet writing folks like me ample opportunity to really work in some erection puns. Thanks, Japan!
Watch a weird segment from the show below. There's no nudity but I still don't think it's safe for work if you're in a professional work environment:
Meanwhile, the Japanese aren't the only ones with weird karaoke shows. Of course, we have our quirks too. Here are some more hilariously odd karaoke shows from Japan, America and elsewhere:

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