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These sex positions will blow you out of the water.
There are few sexual positions more polarizing than 69. Haters say it's awkward to do and offers minimal rewards, since it can be hard to enjoy receiving when you're also focused on giving. To be fair, this position does take some multitasking. But instead of viewing the multi-tasking factor as a hindrance, we should celebrate it for its uniqueness. Let’s enjoy the fun, rather than focus on the need for perfection, you know?
In the 69 sex position, the two people involved (or three, if you’re feeling extra frisky) give and receive oral sex simultaneously. Fans of the 69 position "like that both partners can receive and enjoy pleasure at the same time,” explains Ashley Cobb , a sexpert for Lovehoney .
Sure, doing two things at once isn’t the simplest thing in the world, but it can still be fun if everyone's down. One of the best parts about 69-ing is that you're trying something different from your normal routine and enjoying it for what it is. And just because you do it occasionally doesn't mean it's the only form of oral you can have for all eternity.
In order to get the most out of this position, both partners need to practice in order to get the hang of it. There’s no need to rush. No one is perfect at anything in sex without time and attention. Honestly, that’s half the fun of sex stuff anyway: the exploration and trial and error. The key is to find a style that works for both of you, where both people can find a way to do that is physically comfortable, fun to do, and hot.
With that said, let’s talk about 69, and its many sexy-ass variations. This position can be a boatload of fun. It just takes enthusiasm and curiosity.
How it works : Two people align themselves so that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals. This is done by having one person lie down on their back. The other lies on top of them with their knees straddling their partner's head. The two people can then perform oral sex on one another. In opposite-sex partners, the woman is typically the person on top, whereas the man is on his back.
Pro tip : Use a pillow or a sex wedge if you're struggling to reach or find yourself straining your neck or another part of your body.
How it works: It's the same as the classic, however, instead of the woman being on top, the man is.
Perks of variation: While not inherent in the variation itself, the inverted 69 position tends to be a rougher experience. It's an ideal position for women who like to deepthroat because with the man on top, he has more control of his thrusting ability and can go a lot harder and deeper down the throat.
How it works : If you're lucky enough to have a sex swing , then you absolutely need to try 69 while using it. One partner lays back in the swing, with the straps around their back, lower butt, and heels. The second partner, with their legs firmly planted on the floor, bends over. From there, your genitals are in each other's faces, and you can start sucking!
Perks of variation: Typically, sex swing positions are much more about vaginal and anal penetration, so this is a fun way to include oral while on a sex swing.
How it works: Instead of positioning one on top of the other, both participants are lying on their sides.
Perks of variation: If you're struggling to reach each other's genitals with the classic 69, sideways 69 may be the position for you. In my experience, it makes it easier to reach everything. It also requires less work for the person who's traditionally on top. While on top, you're often on your knees and at least one elbow, which can get strenuous if done for long periods of time.
How it works: Assume the classic or sideways 69 position (or any variation that works for you). Grab your partner’s favorite sex toy to use on them, while you grab your favorite sex toy for them to use on you. Clit vibrators and penis strokers can be really great for this position. Then, feel free to go to town on each other. Don't forget the lube!
Perks of variation: Not all 69-ing needs to involve mouths. Sometimes it can be just as fun to use toys while assuming the same “naughty” position. Using toys is less physical work, which can lead to increased focus on your own sensations. The distractions that come with both giving and receiving oral can make reaching climax less simple, so anything you can do to make it more straightforward is a win.
How it works: Instead of having your partner lie on top of you, have them squat over you.
Perks of variation : This will require lower back, glute, and quad strength and flexibility, but if they have it, it's a fun variation on the classic. The squat variation also allows for better ass slapping.
How it works : Rather than lying on a flat surface, you actually hold your partner up-side-down while you're standing.
Perks of variation: You will feel like a god if you're able to pull this off.
Cons of variation: Unless you are a muscle daddy, odds are you won't have the strength to pick up your partner safely. That's why this position is ideal when your partner is particularly petite.
How it works : In addition to orally stimulating your partner, use either your fingers or a sex toy to penetrate them. If your partner has a vagina, you can lick/suck their clitoris while digitally penetrating her vagina. Or, if your partner is into it, you can eat their vagina while you finger their anus (or vice-a-versa). You can do this with men, too. While being blown, have your partner massage your prostate for more intense pleasure.
Perks of variation: With internal stimulation, pleasure rises exponentially for both parties involved.
How it works: While we're on the topic of anal-inclusive 69 variants, you can just eat out your partner's booty exclusively. Or, a variation that is common among two men is when the "bottom" (the one receiving anal) blows their partner, where the top (the man who will insert his penis into his partner) eats out their partner's anus. It's a form of foreplay to loosen and warm up the bottom for penetrative anal sex.
Perks of variation: If you're into anal and/or prostate play, this is for you.
How it works : Well, first and foremost you need to bring a special third in for the threesome 69. While lying on your side with your partners in a triangle formation, each partner performs oral on the next person. In this position, you will perform oral on one partner and receive oral from the other.
Perks of variation: It's hot to have a third person in on all the fun. It's also a threesome position that's equally inclusive of all parties involved.

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Bet you've never considered some of these.
69ing is a … controversial position. People either love it or hate it, but mostly, they hate it. Either way, you’re usually not going to get all tangled up in a 69 if you’re ambivalent about it. So while it has its fair share of vocal detractors, people who love it … well, they really love it.
1. It’s multitasking. He gets to go down on you while you go down on him. In this world, you'd like to believe that if you give, you'll receive, but sometimes people aren't always that thoughtful. With 69ing, there’s no waiting for his turn. No giving you your time and hoping you’ll return the favor. It’s just smart, efficient foreplay.
2. It’s hot to hear you moan while going down on him . Unless you’re an incredibly enthusiastic blow job-giver, this isn’t a noise he gets to hear often. And rest assured, it’s a super-sexy noise.
3. He’s up close and personal with some very personal areas. This is where 69ing gets so divisive. But if he’s into 69ing, he’s really into the view.
4. It checks off a few different fetishes at once. There’s oral, there’s some facesitting, maybe even some light domination in there in terms of having your thighs wrapped around his head. For the right person, it gets a lot right.
5. He’s in a more comfortable spot while going down on you . This one is huge. If he’s lying on a bed going to town on your lower bits, it can hurt his neck, it can be tough to tuck his erection anywhere, and a whole host of other issues. But when 69ing, all that goes out the window.
6. You’re all up against him while going down on him . In terms of oral, that’s incredibly unique, and incredibly intimate.
7. It’s way less boring than standard oral . No matter how much you like giving, it can sometimes get a little tedious. Tandem oral like this negates that issue entirely.
8. It’s great if you aren’t going to have (penetrative) sex. 69ing stands on its own. If you’re not going to have sex, it’s a great way to finish each other off close together, as opposed to leaving one person satisfied, and then having to flip and have them return the favor.
9. There’s less to worry about than with solo oral sex. No wondering if you want his hands playing with your nipples or not. No thinking maybe he shouldn’t shut his eyes so you don't think he’s sleeping while you’re going down on him. There are fewer factors to worry about.
10. It flips the whole thing upside down . We’re talking totally different angles here. You’re both approaching each other’s genitals from the opposite direction. It flips the whole game on its head. What isn’t there to like about that?

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Going down on each other at the same time is like making a blood oath that you're not going to punk out on each other when it comes to foreplay. It's the best way to fit some oral in before getting to the main event. Think of it like the fast food of pre-sex fun, except better. Like if, when you pulled around the McDonald's drive-through, they blew you. That's right: 69ing is the fast food of oral sex, except in an alternate universe where fast food workers give you oral sex. That doesn't make any sense, but what I'm trying to say is that it's great to go down on each other at the same time, and also maybe you're getting some chicken nuggets on the side.
1. Hey, so you know how, right now, I'm going down on you but my penis has nothing to do? Let's change that.
2. No, I mean, like, get all up on me. No! Put your head there, and I'll put my head here. Wait, hold on, I'm kind of wedged into the headboard and it's cramping my neck.
3. This is so much more efficient. Seriously, why not taking advantage of the fact that our mouths are the genitals of our upper-halves ... or are our genitals the mouths of our lower-halves? That's a question to ponder.
4. It's hard to focus. I have to imagine trying to do anything while getting your penis sucked is difficult. Like, math. I'm pretty confident Albert Einstein didn't have his penis in someone's mouth when he came up with the theory of relativity. There's no way he'd be able to dedicate enough brainpower.
5. I hope I don't get pink eye. I guess I should close my eyes. Honestly, now that I think about it, why did I even have them open in the first place?
6. I wonder if my nose is … helping. Because it's totally up in there.
7. This is kind of like a race where nobody can possibly lose no matter what happens. I wonder if it's better to finish first or second?
8. I've been at this for five minutes and I'm still not sure what to do with my hands. I feel like it's not comfortable for her if I wedge my hands underneath her, but it also feels weird to reach my hands around her butt so I can do ... hand stuff ... to her vagina.
9. I wonder how terrible it is for her to have her eyes basically on my balls.
10. What does my butt look like close up? Can she see it from there? I guess my balls are probably covering it, like the worst curtain ever.
11. OH, ARE YOU COMING? PLEASE DON'T CRUSH ME BETWEEN YOUR LEGS! I like knowing that I'm so good at oral you literally don't care if you inadvertently kill me right now.
12. OK, great. Now we can just spin around and get down to business. Let's reconfigure like we're a sex Voltron or something, and maybe match up our genitals and mouths this time. What I'm saying is ... let's have sex.

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