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Forty years ago, most Americans viewed vibrators as only a refuge for lonely or frustrated women. How things have changed. According to recent studies by researchers at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute:
Why Vibrators Boost Men’s Sexual Satisfaction
A generation ago, many men felt threatened by vibrators. I don’t want to be replaced by a machine. But in partner lovemaking, vibrators don’t replace men any more than power tools replace carpenters. On the contrary, as the studies just mentioned demonstrate, vibes add new dimensions of pleasure and satisfaction to partner lovemaking. Vibrators don’t hug, kiss, converse, tell jokes, take women out, or whisper, “I love you.” They do just one thing, deliver more intense sensation than fingers or tongues can provide.
Note the finding that men who incorporate vibrators into lovemaking enjoy firmer, more reliable erections. Why? Several reasons:
Simple Secrets of Pleasuring Women with Vibrators
Men interested in incorporating vibrators into partner sex can use them in several ways:
As couples incorporate vibrator play into intercourse, initially the woman should handle the device, and show the man how she likes to use it on herself. Men should pay special attention to how women want vibes used on them. Both the penis and clitoris contain around the same number of touch-sensitive nerve receptors, but in the clitoris, they’re packed into much less tissue, which makes the clitoris more sensitive to touch than the penis. Many women’s clitorises are too sensitive for direct touch with a vibrator (and sometimes with fingers or mouth). Discuss this. If the woman has a super-sensitive clitoris, use the vibrator around it, not directly on it.
For lovers new to using vibes during intercourse, the best position is woman-on-top. The woman can easily use the vibe on herself and show the man how she likes it touching her. And the man can easily hold the vibe near her pelvis and invite her to rock into it.
In addition to enhancing lovemaking, the discussion involved in partner vibrator play also increases couple intimacy . As lovers share how they’d like to play with vibes, they get to know each other more deeply. Intimacy is a key element of sexual satisfaction. Vibrators not only supply intense sensation. They also bring lovers emotionally closer.
But enough about the research and my advice. Now it’s your turn. Have you used vibrators during partner sex? What’s been your experience? Have I missed anything? Please comment.
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People often get confused and think of sex toys as something you use alone. They are a fabulous way to enhance your love making WITH your partner. I'm going to outline some ideas for how to use one of your vibrators with your lover. Obviously, they are fab for solo fun, but can REALLY amp up the intensity of partner sex. If you have a male partner that is a little bit apprehensive about incorporating a sex toy, just do as my friend Joan Price says and tell him you're ready for a "threesome." You, him and B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend)
If he is still hesitant, make it all about him.
1. While you are giving him a oral sex put the vibrator against your cheek on the outside so he can feel your mouth humming and vibrating. Just adds a bit of tingle and a new sensation for him.
2. Take your panties or g-string off and wrap a bullet style vibrator in your panties and then rub the vibrator on his testicles, the shaft of his penis, all over his nipples and then maybe a little on your nipples, too. He will feel the silkiness of your panties and the vibe! FUN!
3. For men who are more comfortable with a vibrator, rub it on his testicles while you are giving him oral. This can make a b.j. very efficient, ladies. (Some men finish much more quickly then normal when they have a vibe on their balls. Just saying.)
4. For men that are super comfortable with toys, rub a little lube on the perineum (taint) and rub that area with a small vibe. Make sure he knows he can trust you not to do anything he is not comfortable with while you are in that area. (Most men describe a prostate massage as one of the most intense orgasms they have ever felt, but not all men are ready for that and NOBODY wants to be surprised in that area.) But, light vibration under the balls on that little soft spot can be very intense for them.
5. How about giving him a massage and tucking a small vibe into your hands while you massage his inner thighs, his back, his neck and the back of his thighs with some oil and a vibe. There is also something called a massage mitt which you can use for massage and tuck in a vibe into the mitt.
6. While he is going down on you, have him slide a small g-spot toy like the Finger Fun into your vagina with the g-spot tip angled towards your g-spot which is on the belly button wall of your vajayjay. You will have a super intense orgasm and it will make oral on you VERY efficient. He can also tease your clitoris with it and help you to have a clitoral orgasm very quickly.... or maybe two... or three.... or four???
7. Give up total control and give him the battery pack. Try giving him oral sex or while he is inside of you, put it on you clitoris. Give him the control and let him turn the vibe up or down. (Very fun with the 5 speed bullet as it has 5 pulsations and escalations and can get you trembling and climaxing together!) You won't know where he is going with it and it can really add to the anticipation and the playfulness that will make your experience that much better.
8. Tie him up or maybe just blindfold him and make it all about him for an hour or a half an hour. Get him good and relaxed and touch every inch of his body with your hands, tongue and body...but occasionally slide a vibrator on low on his more sensitive areas.... but avoid touching his penis for a little while. Have fun watching his penis twitch, get hard, relax, get hard and repeat. You can get a feel for which sensations he REALLY likes and which sensations he really DOES NOT like by watching the reaction of his penis. FILE THIS AWAY ladies! Good info for later.
9. Last but not least, find your favorite toy in your dirty drawer and give it to him. Let him know you want a little warm up with your fave toy, but you want to include him. Have him strip down, lie next to you, cradle your back or neck with one of his arms so you are face to face and able to make out. He has the toy in his other hand and can use it on you while still feeling like is a part of the process. (Though some men love to be in the "catchers" position up close and personal with the toy and your clitoris.) It's a great way to feel very connected when you are using a toy with your lover.
For women, a small vibrator on their clitoris is pretty much a guaranteed orgasm. Our BONUS TIP #10. When you are making love, put a small bullet on your clitoris while you are on your back back, or while you are having sex doggy style, or on your side, you on top, reverse cowgirl... you name it, it works. You get the benefit of a clitoral orgasm from penetration which rarely happens. He gets the bonus of knowing you had an orgasm so he does not have to worry and ask that dreaded question. And, when a woman climaxes, her vagina contracts and tightens down on the penis and can really enhance his experience! It's a WIN WIN!
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Even for the most savvy sex adventurers, vibrators can be confusing. Where to put them, how fast to set them, and what exactly to do with them are all valid questions—and most vibrators don’t come with a full-blown how-to guide. Plus, if you’re going to invest in a good toy you want to make sure you’re getting the most, ahem, bang for your buck.
So, my sweet readers, I've put together this guide just for you—whether you're a newbie masturbator or a vibrator connoisseur—based on recs from sex educators and the badass women who literally design sex toys for a living. May you never have a drab vibe sesh again!
The clitoris is an iceberg—there’s much more going on than the eye can see at first glance. The clitoris actually goes all the way down the labia (those flaps of skin around your vulva), so pressing your toy on and around that area can feel excellent, says Alys.
“When you're oh-so close, back off a bit instead of increasing the intensity,” says Alys, “If you know a certain setting gets you off, try playing with a new vibration pattern first. Giving your body time to go through the build up again will make those incredible sensations even stronger.”
You can also go the remote-control route for teasing with a partner. Have your partner start and stop the vibration without touching you using the We-vibe app-controlled vibe . Better yet, wear the vibrator to dinner and let your partner tease you before you even hit the sheets.
Lie face down, put the vibrator underneath you, and grind into it for a fun new way to get off. And to to avoid overstimulation, Alicia Sinclair, creator of Le Wand , recommends you “keep the vibrator and your hips moving,” the entire time you’re playing. Plus, the more you move, the more spots you can explore.
A classic way to use a vibrator is putting it directly on your clit and moving it back and forth, or in circular motions. This is a great technique if you like a lot of direct stimulation, or after you’ve warmed up a bit and want a little more pressure.
Vibrators can also go inside of you! You can hit that G-spot by using a curved vibrator and pulling it towards your belly button. Or, mimic P-in-V sex by thrusting the vibrator in and out. Whether you choose to turn on the vibration, or use your toy as more of a dildo is up to you.
“Vulva-owners can use an internal vibrator to hit their G-spot while their partner uses their mouth on their clitoris," says Alys. (MysteryVibe's Crescendo can be bent into that just-right curve, while also staying out of your partner's face.)
“Penis-owners might also enjoy a vibrator against their shaft or perineum while their partner gives a blow job," she adds.
“Use a toy with a curve or your fingers to reach your G-spot, and add a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris at the same time,” says Sinclair. “Go one-handed by finding a toy that can do both at the same time." For example, Le Wand’s Curve attachment stimulates the G-spot while also sending rumbly vibrations to your clitoris.
By hitting two pleasure points at once, you automatically up the intensity. "And achieving that level of pleasure on your own can be so empowering!” says Sinclair.
Use a vibrator around the rim of your or your partner's anus for a lovely tingly sensation. This is also a great way to slowly introduce anal play before taking the dive into penetration.
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