Grindr Nsa Meaning
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Grindr, an app that is now at its 6th anniversary, has exploded into the most popular all-male location based social network in the world. It has over 5 million guys in 192 countries, and 10,000 new users (aka fresh meat for some Grindr users) signing up everyday.
The guys across the road, on the train, at work, at the gym, at the movies, at the footy, they are all on it. The men are gay, bisexual, closeted, married, and straight. Grindr has done one important thing, it has changed they way they all interact. It is no hidden secret that for the majority of Grindr users, instant gratification now rules.
If you won’t put out on the first date, during your romantic dinner or drinks by the beach, he will probably be receiving an influx of Grindr messages from men who will — many before the first date.
The men who are looking for that instant gratification, to indulge their horny cravings with some NSA (no strings attached) sex do not tend to be the best conversationalists and cut straight to the chase. “U free tonight? I’m keen for a bj,” and “wanna fuck?”
And the platform has become a haven for those for these men looking for casual sex. Gone are the days when men would have to approach each other in gay clubs. Gone are the days when men would have to try and gauge to see if that attractive brunette across the room is also gay.
Grindr is now everyone’s wingman, conveniently packaged into an app on your phone in your back pocket. You can find sex while sitting on the toilet!
It sounds like a godsend for gay men. For those who already have enough barriers facing them, at least now it will be easier to find love, right? “Wrong.” Is what many will tell you. “Those who are looking for Mr Forever will be told to look elsewhere as Grindr is for hooking up only,” says Steven, a 20-year-old gay man who has had the app for 3 years.
“For an app that does not allow you to post nude or sexually explicit images on your profile, it’s kind of ironic.”
As a young teen discovering his sexuality, Steven found the confidence to be himself and come out to his family, thanks to Grindr. “Grindr gave me the confidence to be the real me, with no apologies.” Getting a steady stream of messages from men showing interest in him was certainly ego boosting. “My ego got a little big, but it was hard not to with all these men saying how sexy you were or how they wanted to meet up with me.”
For Steven, Grindr was his coming of age tool the catalyst that created his current self. Having refrained from meeting up with people until he finished high school and started university, his first foray into the gay sex scene was terrifying. “I agreed to meet up with this guy. He was beautiful, ripped abs, chiselled jaw. I couldn’t believe he wanted me.” The fantasy didn’t last long.
“We met in the hazy back room of a gay club, the music was pounding through the floor. He pushed me against the wall and started making out with me, stripped me. I was so lost in my own fantasy that I didn’t realise there were other men in the room. Suddenly, it became an orgy. While I did end up consenting to it, it was certainly confronting and nothing like I had imagined my first time would be.”
But now, having played the game, Steven is looking for more than just a one-night stand. “I’ve found that sex is much more enjoyable the further it is from anonymous one night stands. When it’s with someone that I like, that I’ve had some previous interaction with, outside of the bed, it’s always better.”
“A great conversation is the best foreplay.”
Applying the rule of dieting to sex, it’s all about not being wasteful. Why waste calories on mediocre food? “It’s a waste of calories unless it is mindblowing.”
However, with the culture behind the majority of interactions of Grindr, Steven is finding it difficult to filter through the people that are in it for the sex and the people that are in it for the long term.
“All my friends tell me to get off Grindr and try more traditional methods. But I’ve never picked up a guy before outside of Grindr. It scares me. There are so many unknowns. I hear there are guys who find their husbands on Grindr, but it all seems like a bit of a fairy tale.”
Charlie is one of those guys who is now living his fairy tale. Bucking the trend of many Grindr users, Charlie found his husband-to-be on Grindr. “When people ask how we met, we say Grindr. This is usually met with some wry smiles and wagging of the eyebrows.”
“When you tell people you met on Grindr, they judge you.”
This kind of response is not uncommon, as the ubiquity of Grindr has played into the stereotype that is often fed to homophobes.
That gay men are always and only looking for sex. That they greet each other not with a hug or handshake, but with a hand job.
“I used to obsess and worry over the judgement of people upon hearing how Tom and I met,” says Charlie. “I was worried that they would discount the love that we have for each other, and that we’re just another hook-up.”However, for Charlie and Tom, this hook-up has now lasted for 4 years. “It took Grindr for us to find each other, so what? We are still together now and completely in love. I think that’s an accomplishment that we met under such circumstances. That first night when we rolled around in bed has turned into many many more,” says Charlie cheekily grinning. “Maybe we’ll recreate that first encounter on our wedding night.”
As for Steven, he is still looking for love. As the interview ended and Steven turns his phone back on, the all too familiar “brrring” of a Grindr notification echoes in the room.
“I think I’ll reply to these messages…” trails off Steven. “He’s hot.”
It seems Steven isn’t quite ready to give up the anonymous sex yet. But he hasn’t given up on the idea of finding that Mr Forever.
“I’m still looking for someone that will stick around and cuddle in the afterglow. NSA? Maybe. But I’d rather hang from this cliff top that is gay life attached to strings.”
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An abbreviation that is widely used in texting and, on Tinder, Instagram, Facebook and elsewhere on the internet, but what does NSA mean in slang?
NSA stands for No Strings Attached.
NSA is used in personal ads by people seeking casual sex without the necessity of having a relationship.
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Hook Up – A casual encounter, ranging from kissing to full sexual intercourse.
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