Golden Peeing

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Everything you need to know about piss play, including why people like this particular kink to how to do a golden shower safely.
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While to some, golden showers are the butt of a Donald Trump joke, to others, they are an extremely erotic experience. Golden showers are one form of piss play , which is exactly what it sounds like: sexual play involving piss. Though they may seem easy to make fun of because most of us grew up with bathroom humor, we should probably be nicer when it comes to the topic of golden showers because a lot of people are into them, and kink-shaming isn't cool .
Some people engage in golden showers as part of BDSM . BDSM involves a power exchange in which one partner is submissive and the other partner is dominant. In this particular scenario, the dominant partner typically pees on the submissive. Other people just try them out because they're horny and bored. Let's talk about all the reasons people love golden showers and what you should know if you're interested in trying out this particular kink.
This particular kink is actually incredibly ordinary, according to the experts. "Urophilia — golden showers, piss play, and the like — is such a common kink that there are piss parties full of folks who want to explore this," says New York sex therapist and relationship counselor Michael DeMarco . New York City-based professional and lifestyle dominatrix Goddess Aviva adds, "It’s so common! People love to be peed on. And quite a few of them also like to drink it." In fact, an Australian survey says that around four percent of men have a piss play fetish, and Pornhub stats show that searches for "golden shower" (along with related terms) increased exponentially in 2017 after it was alleged that Donald Trump enjoyed watersports.
There are also quite a few online communities for folks to go who are interested in golden showers. In fact, the "watersports" (another name for piss play) group on the kinky social media website FetLife boasts over 25,000 members. Additionally, there are dating apps and websites specifically tailored to folks looking to find other kinky people to hook up with, including KinkD , BDSM.com , Fetster.com , and more.
Any time you are exchanging bodily fluids, there is going to be some risk. According to Kimberly Langdon, an OB/GYN and clinical advisor at Medzino Health , it's only true that urine is sterile if the person peeing is completely healthy. "Urine can spread disease, including bacterial, fungal, and viral infections," she explains. During a golden shower, this most commonly occurs if the recipient has an open wound.
"Regarding skin contact , urine will usually cause no harm if there are no fissures, broken skin or open wounds," Langdon adds. "If this is, however, the case, then urine can cause infection if the partner urinating has a bacterial infection and the urine comes into contact with wounds and mucous membranes."
So, if you're enjoying golden showers with someone whose health status you are unsure of, make sure there are no open wounds on you, and ask them to aim somewhere besides the mouth, such as on your stomach. Discuss your health with your partner; professional dominatrixes are already on it.
"With anything where you're sharing bodily fluid, you need to make sure that you’re not sick or have any kind of infection. It’s also really important to hydrate. The other factor that you should consider, is how close you are to someone’s mouth. A way to avoid that is to be above them," Goddess Aviva says.
First off, the person performing the golden shower will probably want to drink a lot of water an hour or so beforehand. Like, a lot. It's also important to pick the right place — golden showers probably shouldn't take place in your bed. "If you’re curious about golden showers, an easy way to do it is to be in the shower or bath. And if you’re not really into it, you can rinse it off right away," Goddess Aviva says.
Once you've figured out where it's going to happen (and who it's going to happen with), make sure that all parties know what the plan is and are fully consenting. Consent is the most important part of any sex act, after all. Have everything you want for clean-up nearby, and everyone should have a safe word ready, too.
Remember what we've discussed above — that urine isn't sterile, and that the person receiving the golden shower shouldn't have any open cuts or sores. If this checks out, then you're good to go, but be patient, especially if it's the first time trying this for either of you. Lastly, when you're all done, clean off, and if you feel like it, keep the fun going .
Other than clean-up and potential risks from fluid exchange, should this be something you want to try, you just have to make peace with your desire to try giving or receiving a golden shower and then discuss it with your partner(s) so you can experience one from a place of mutual enthusiastic consent.
"Owning your sexual expression from the get-go will put you on more solid ground once you're in a relationship to be able to have awkward or challenging talks about sexuality and how your sexual expression might evolve," Langdon says. Now that you know all about piss play, there's only one thing left to do if you want to try it for yourself — go find a partner who is into it, too. Happy kink month , babes.
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If your Golden Retriever pees when you pet it you might want to know why and what you can do about it. In this post, I will show you common reasons why they do it and what you can do to stop it.
So, why does my Golden Retriever pee when I pet it? If it is young it is likely to be because it cannot control itself especially when it gets excited and it will likely stop as it gets older. If it is an adult, it would be more likely to be due to things such as being ill, fear or not being let out to pee often enough.
There are many different possible reasons why your Golden Retriever has been doing nit. However, there are some things you can consider when trying to figure out the exact reason. There are also a number of things you can do about it.
Below are a number of reasons why your Golden Retriever might be doing it and what would make them more likely.
If your Golden Retriever is still a puppy, it would be likely that it is not yet able to control its bladder. If your Golden Retriever is below the age of 12 months it would be likely that it will stop doing it as it gets older. However, it would help to train it to pee outside while it is young and to take it outside whenever it wants to pee so that it learns to pee outside.
If your Golden Retriever has started peeing when you pet it, suddenly, it might be due to having an illness. This would be especially likely if it has been behaving abnormally and if it has been peeing around the house. If it does seem like it might be ill then the best option would be to take it to a vet.
If you never trained your Golden Retriever to pee outside and it also pees inside when you don’t pet it as well, it would be more likely that you need to train it to learn to go outside when it needs to pee. In this case, it would be important to start training it to pee outside.
It could be that your Golden Retriever is doing what’s known as submissive peeing which is where dogs pee due to being submissive. This would be more likely if your Golden Retriever also shows signs of being submissive such as hiding its tail, rolling onto its back or lowering itself to the ground.
In this case, it would help to avoid punishing it when it does pee inside, reward it when it pees in the right place, to pat it under the chin instead of on the head and to let it come to you instead.
It might also be the case that you have encouraged the behavior. If you tend to give it things that it wants when it does it then it will likely do it more in order to get more rewards.
Instead, it would help to follow the tips mentioned below and to avoid rewarding it when it does pee when you pet it.
If your Golden Retriever doesn’t always pee when you pet it but it does when it has not been able to go outside in a while, it would make it more likely that it needs to be let outside to pee more often.
Below are some things to consider when trying to figure out why your Golden Retriever has been peeing when you pet it.
If it tends to do it more at a certain time, it would help to consider what is different at the time that it tends to do it.
If it tends to do it more when it has not been able to go outside for a while it would be more likely to be because it can’t hold it in any longer. Whereas, if it tends to do it when you approach it in a bold manner it would be more likely to be that it is doing it submissively.
It would also help to consider the age of your Golden Retriever.
If it is a puppy still it would make it a lot more likely that it is doing it because it can’t control its bladder yet but it will begin to do it less as it gets older. But, it would help to confirm that there is nothing wrong when you next take it for a checkup with the vet.
Whereas, if it is an adult it would make it more likely to be due to a disease especially if it has started doing it suddenly. But it could also be due to some of the other things mentioned above.
If your Golden Retriever did not always pee when you pet it, it would also help to consider what else happened when it first started doing it.
If it started doing it suddenly it would be more likely to be due to things such as not being able to go outside as much, becoming ill, you might have rewarded it for doing it once or something might have caused it to start feeling fearful. It would help to consider what else changed when it first started doing it. If it did start doing it suddenly, the best option would likely be to take it for a checkup with the vet.
Below are some options you have when getting your Golden Retriever to stop peeing when you pet it.
If you’re unsure of why your Golden Retriever has been peeing when you pet it, your Golden Retriever has started doing it suddenly or it has been showing signs of illness it would be best to take it to a vet. By doing so, you will be able to rule out the possibility of it being due to an illness and to get expert advice tailored to your particular Golden Retriever.
It would also help to make sure that it is able to go outside to pee whenever it might need to. If it is not let out to pee often then it will be much more likely to pee inside it will also be unpleasant for your Golden Retriever.
It would also help to train your Golden Retriever to learn to go outside whenever it needs to pee. One way to do this would be to wait outside with it until it pees and then to reward it for doing so. You can look here to see more on how to train your Golden Retriever to pee outside.
As mentioned above, it might be the case that you have been reinforcing the behavior by rewarding it. Instead, it would help to reward it when it does not pee when you pet it and to train it to wait to go outside as mentioned above.
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