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When it comes to the clitoris, that old saying "different strokes for different folks" has never been more true.
"Clitorises are very unique! There's really not one standard type of stimulation that works for all women," says Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and the creator of Finishing School , an online orgasm course for women. And, considering orgasms aren't even on the table for many women without some clit play, figuring out what makes you tick is pretty important.
"In general, most women are divided into two camps: those [who] prefer direct clitoral stimulation, and those [who] prefer indirect," says Marin. To determine which brand of stimulation your body likes, she suggests starting with two different strokes: "First, try circling your clitoris with one fingertip, without directly touching it. If you want more stimulation, make your circle tighter until you start touching the clitoris itself."
Once that baseline for pleasurable touch is established, feel free to get creative. Here are six new ways to stimulate your clitoris you may not have thought of before.
It may be tempting to just zero in on the clit and start rubbing away, but that may not quite be what makes your clit tick. Try building sensation first. "If you like direct stimulation, try stroking diagonally across the surface of your clitoris," Marin suggests. If you prefer indirect, try stroking the sides of the clit and the clitoral hood rather than the clit itself. Mix it up by using two, three, even four fingers if you typically just use one. Experiment with different patterns over your go-to.
A light touch may be best, but instead of just stroking your clit, try playing around with pressure: Try squeezing the clit, gently gripping the skin on either between your thumb and pointer finger. Once you've established what degree of pressure feels good for you, try manipulating the skin by moving your hand up and down—like a tiny hand job for your clitoris.
Edging means building up to climax, but then backing off just before you reach the point of no return. When you finally do cum, the sensation is...let's just say, worth the wait.
That said, it requires practice: You need to know your body well enough to discern how close you are to orgasm and exactly how much further you can go before pulling back. Try it on your own before you do it with a partner: start slowly, and build up pleasure with light touches around your clit. Engage in meditative, yogic breathing to help pace yourself. As you feel yourself about to climax, switch from whatever rhythm's getting you there to something else: pulsing over strokes; left hand over right; one finger from two; broad circles from a diagonal. Tease yourself until you can't hold back any longer.
Sex toys are, obviously, a reliable way to get off; most readers, however, will likely be most familiar with the penetrative Rabbit-inspired models, or maybe the iconic Hitachi wand. But for couples play, it helps to incorporate something smaller.
"In most positions, you can squeeze a sex toy between your legs to get some clitoral stimulation," says Marin. "My favorite vibrator recommendation is the Minna Life Limon ($119, minnalife.com ). It uses a squeeze technology, so the harder you squeeze, the harder it vibrates. It feels more intuitive than many other vibrators."(Or check out Squish ($99, u nboundbabes.com ), Minna's collaboration with Unbound.)
Or, choose a hands-free vibrator—like Dame's Eva ($135, amazon.com )—that's designed to stay positioned on your clit during sex. For solo play, the Satisfyer Pro ($48, amazon.com ) is designed to mimic the sensation of cunnilingus using air pressure. Stimulating!
Don't want to shell out for a sex toy? Maybe reconsider some of the stuff you have just lying around the house. "A lot of women masturbate by grinding against pillows, towels, hairbrushes, or TV remotes," says Marin. In case you were feeling weird about humping your duvet cover.
Certain penis-in-vagina sex positions work better for clitoral stimulation than others— Women's Health has a whole list for your pleasure—but in general, any situation in which the clit is grinding against another body part will be more likely to yield orgasmic results. Think: rubbing up against your partner's thigh or pubic bone.
"When you're on top during intercourse, have your partner hold his thumb upright against his pelvis. You want it located directly under your clit. As you move, grind your clitoris against his thumb," Marin suggests.
But if you prefer positions that leave your clit out in the open, like doggy style, "touch yourself!" she urges. "So few women actually do this."

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Oh, the complex mystery of female sexuality.
While men’s bits are all out on display, and are such visual beasts that they’ll happily jizz at the sight of some breasts poking out of a nice beer girl costume, women’s sexual pleasure is hidden away in a dark, narrow cave.
We’re not sure if the G spot even exists. Apparently we’re supposed to stimulate the clitoris, but how are guys supposed to do that when they’re thrusting their penises back and forth?
…except not really. A lot of people like to say that women’s sexual needs are impossible to work out because they can’t be bothered to try – or they’re frozen by fear of getting it wrong that they throw their arms up in the air in exasperation and declare that women simple don’t like sex or are incapable of orgasm.
It’s not that tricky, really. Yes, women don’t tend to orgasm as easily as men, but figuring out what works for a partner can be as simple as just asking them .
To make the mysteries of the clit a little less intimidating, we asked a bunch of people with vaginas what they actually want sexual partners to do to their clitoris. Read on, pick up some tips, and, most importantly, learn that everyone’s different and it’s okay to ask what feels good.
Holly: ‘Always through clitoral stimulation.’
Marianne: ‘Both but usually clitoral.’
Ella: ‘Usually vaginal, sometimes clitoral.’
Hayley: ‘Probably about 70% but that not including actual sex, more including sex sessions with foreplay.’
Marianne: ‘It’s changed tons as I’ve moved through my 20s so difficult to estimate. Now, probably 70% because I think I choose partners better and am more confident about making sure I also have a good time but it was probably more like 20% when I was in my early 20s.’
Ella: ‘With past partners, 0%. With current partner, around 40%.’
Paula: ‘Definitely about 70% perhaps a bit selfish but you know, a girl has to get her rocks off too right?’
Megan: ‘I would say about 40%, until I met my now husband.’
Holly: ‘Rubbing in circular motion with a finger but ONLY if they get the pressure right; not too rough or too gentle. Oral stimulation as well but again only if they get the right spot and aren’t too rough.’
Rebecca: ‘Vibrators, always. I can make myself orgasm in seconds. Otherwise it’s just a matter of grinding away on top on a guy while he reads an entire novel or something.’
Hayley: ‘Most apart from poking. Licking. Rubbing. Vibrating. It’s not fussy.’
Marianne: ‘Rhythm always with not too much direct pressure. Not feeling rushed makes a massive difference as well.’
Ella: ‘Licking with a flat tongue, rubbing with a lubed finger, tapping once I’m already really turned on.’
Liv: ‘Rubbing in a clockwise motion.’
Molly: ‘Vibrator but a very strong one. Missionary position stimulation is the only way I can orgasm through sex.’
Paula: ‘For me anything that is slow and sensuous. Too much prodding and poking is a massive turn off.’
Megan: ‘The smaller, slower and more precise the movements, the better. Varying pressure, sometimes delicate, sometimes firmer. Rhythm is important. Focus…. and that includes eye contact…(not with my clit, obvs! but with my eyes) because it’s massively important to me to feel desired. No physical touch could counteract feeling like someone was just going through the motions.’
Lucy: ‘Circles kind of around it, and vertical.’
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Roxanne: ‘Most men rub far too hard (perhaps most women touch their penises too softly?) and they seem unable to recognise the difference between speed and pressure! Faster doesn’t mean harder! They also tend to go in too fast, with no build up.’
Holly: ‘Bite it. Rub their penis against it – it does NOTHING and tends to lead to a UTI.’
Rebecca: ‘I really don’t like it when men feel obliged to go down on me till I come, it takes so long I get bored and feel too pressured. Let’s just stick to the action!’
Hayley: ‘Go straight for it without any warm up. Poke it. Burn it. Bite it. Maybe it is fussy.’
Marianne: ‘Anything involving teeth makes me cross my legs at the thought of. I hate when people think isolating it and sucking on it is a good idea – hate that.’
Ella: ‘Rubbing back and forth or tapping the second my underwear’s off. It’s seriously uncomfortable.’
Liv: ‘It’s not super sensitive, I’m into direct stimulation so I suppose the only thing that I wouldn’t like is aggressive flicking or biting… not that that’s ever happened.’
Molly: ‘Bite it. Touch it when it’s too sensitive after orgasm.’
Nina: ‘Hurt it, biting, or too much pressure.’
Paula: ‘Anything that is really rough or applying too much pressure, I respond best to delicate treatment in that area.’
Megan: ‘Bite it, pull it, anything painful.’
Lucy: ‘Bite it and in general be really harsh.’
Roxanne: ‘Oral sex can often be a bit dull, but when it’s good it’s great!’
Holly: ‘To be honest, no. I’ve always been better at stimulating it myself. The only thing I would say is that I’ve had perfect oral sex ONCE where the guy was like making out with my clit instead of just licking it in the same way for 20 minutes. That was amazing.’
Rebecca: ‘I told a guy that I couldn’t orgasm through sex and he laughed and said “you haven’t f***ed me yet!”, to which I also laughed thinking he was far too cocky (pun intended). He ordered me to come while I was riding him… I orgasmed 3 times that night! Not clitoral per se, but it certainly blew my mind.’
Hayley: ‘Not really, but I have high standards.’
Liv: ‘Aside from licking/sucking on it during oral the only thing that has “blown my mind” clit-wise wasn’t a person but a toy.’
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Ella: ‘Rubbed, licked, and breathed on to my clit through my underwear. Any kind of teasing is great, but that was especially brilliant. Also, any kind of vibrator meant for the clit used during oral or full-on sex.’
Sam: ‘My boyfriend massages my clitoris during regular intercourse and it’s incredible.’
Molly: ‘Used a cock ring in doggy style so it stimulates the clitoris!’
Paula: ‘I like a combination of tongue & the occasional vibrator, I find vibrating rings are marvelous.’
Megan: ‘Stimulating it with really small movements, varying pressure, slight variation in speed, using fingers and tongue, sometimes both sometimes one or the other. And I would say just treated my clit (and my whole body) with reverence (in a good, quiet, understated way). And in so doing, making feel like a goddess.’
So, what can we learn from all this?
First off, the clitoris tends to be pretty important, so it’s not a wise choice to avoid it entirely because you’re not entirely sure where it is.
Different people like different things, so your best bet is try things out and ask what feels good. If you’re not sure where to start, ask them – they likely have all kinds of masturbation techniques they know work for them.
Also, no biting unless it’s expressly asked for. Thanks.

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Age is not that important. As a girl I was able to reach strong orgasms at 5 years old while being orally stimulated by my aunt.
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I've explained that we have private parts, and we only do anything with those private parts in our private places. Private parts are, obviousely, chest\breasts, vagina\pelvic area, and butt. Private places are our bedroom, and the bathroom. I also explained that ...

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The clitoris is only “mysterious” because it’s been ignored for so long. This week’s Girl Boner Radio stories illustrate how mighty the clit truly is and how impactful it can be to discover and embrace it.
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