Girl Going Down On Girl

Girl Going Down On Girl

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We’ve all seen the stats about how faking orgasms is more common than you would think. And if you’re here, then you’re obviously trying to score some real points in the bedroom.
Sure, pleasing a woman isn’t exactly rocket science, but it does take some rock solid technique. Don’t think you can just go down there and do whatever you want. That’s a waste of energy. Going down on a woman requires a lot of communication and some experimenting.
But before you start performing oral on your girl, it doesn’t hurt to do a little research. Thankfully, plenty of Reddit users are willing to share some tips.
Here are 13 of the best ones we found.
“ Build up is key . Take a looooong time to explore other parts of her body first. When you finally get to the vagina, focus on other parts before zooming in on her clit. Start slow.”
“ Be gentle ! Whether you are going fast or slow, be tender with her lady parts!”
“When it sounds like she is really enjoying it, keep doing what you are doing , don’t speed up or slow down or try something new. She is enjoying what you are currently doing so why change it up?”
“Listen! Be keen on how your girl responds to what you are doing and make note of the techniques that make her twist with ecstasy vs yawn.”
“Tease her. The last place you should go is the clit , and she should be begging for it. Be attentive and enthusiastic. Tell her how good she tastes.
“On clit sucking specifically: Some women like this, others do not. Some like the clit sucked on directly, others it’s best to suck around the entire vagina . Also, if your whole mouth is around the top of her vagina, there will be a natural vacuum when you’re performing tongue tricks anyway.”
“Personally, I find that using fingers can be 1) distracting for her, or 2) gets in the way of my mouth’s rhythm (think patting head while rubbing belly). I actually think the Nina Hartley video does a great job of explaining some fingering options (come hither motion, pinching labia/clit, opposite come hither hold). However, again, because of #1 and #2 above, I typically use only my mouth when it’s time to get her all the way there.”
“ Try and find the g-spot with a finger and apply on-and-off pressure to it while you’re working the clit/labia. The g-spot isn’t hard to find, here’s how: if she’s lying on her back, it’s gonna be on the roof of the vagina. Put a finger in and press up, you’ll feel the pelvic bone through the tissue. The tissue where the g-spot is will feel really spongy and kind of rough. If you can work that spot in tandem with the clit/labia, hopefully you’ll get some good results.”
“ Make her feel totally confident in herself , totally comfortable and not self conscious. I can tell you that worrying if my SO is enjoying it or if he likes how I taste will absolutely ruin it. She won’t pay any attention to what you’re doing because she’s so worried.”
“When you can, breathe out of your mouth . Depends on the girl, but the feeling of heat from your breath can be very stimulating.”
“You take everything you’ve seen in porn and you forget it.”
“The best thing to do is ask , in my experience. Harder? Slower? Faster? You like that?”
“Asking beforehand is good but the best time I find is after (seeing as during is very distracting unless its openly expressed that your both doing it out of experimentational purposes).
“ Ask her how certain things felt . More than likely the most memorable parts will be the ending or the surprisingly good parts. [Then] focus on finding what those were and figure out how to fine tune them to her liking.”

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Submitted On January 03, 2011

It is true that most women do not climax during penetration. And as a man, it is your duty to pleasure your lady in bed. One-sided lovemaking is not the way to maintain a fulfilling relationship so both of you should enjoy it. If you want your lady to be happy you should learn how to give her oral sex. Here are a few tips on how to go down on a girl.
1. For beginners who might feel queasy on going down on a girl because of the possible odor, make sure to do it after she showered.
2. Communicate to her your intentions and most likely, you won't be turned down. If, however, she says no, respect her decision but try again some other time.
3. Start by gently licking and sucking the mouth of the vagina to the entrance. Do not be too aggressive. Women like it when you start as gently as possible.
4. Do not forget to stimulate the labia and the clitoris with your tongue. To do this, you can begin licking the inner lips and work your way to the outer labia, from one side to another.
5. Once she's fully accustomed to your tongue, try thrusting it. Your tongue is a very powerful muscle plus it has natural lubrication. This technique will send her to ecstasy. Go easy on the clitoris as too much pressure can irritate it.
6. Once she's in full rhythm with what you are doing, take her clitoris into your mouth. Then, suck it and start flicking your tongue around it. Depending on how she likes it, you can do this gently or very passionately.
If you want to learn more about performing oral sex on a woman, there are a variety of books about it that you can read. One highly popular book is Michael Webb's Lick by Lick. Michael Webb claims to provide you with surefire techniques such as 10 Little Known Tongue Techniques, and how to involve your fingers in the process to fully satisfy her. Webb has written best-seller books about love, sex and romance. Upon reading his book, it can be concluded that it is really a very effective book that touches everything you need to know about satisfying a woman through oral sex. The great thing about the book is that it comes with a full money back guarantee.
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What's played off as an expression of liberated sexuality can actually have the opposite effect in real life, found University of Victoria researcher Lucinda Brown
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When Madonna locked lips with Britney Spears on the stage of the 2003 MTV Video Music Awards, she catapulted a staple of porn into the mainstream. Soon, young, heterosexual women were making out with one another on the dance floors of clubs across the Western world — their grinding and tonsil hockey documented by the men cheering them on. But what’s played off as an expression of liberated sexuality can actually have the opposite effect in real life, found University of Victoria researcher Lucinda Brown, who presented her findings at the Congress of the Humanities and Social Sciences conference in Ottawa this week. Of 451 women aged 19-40, 71% of them said they feel today’s young women are under pressure to engage in public sexual behaviour with other women. More than 50% of the heterosexual women said they had done it for male attention, and reported lower levels of healthy sexuality. The educational psychology instructor spoke with the National Post’s Sarah Boesveld.
Q : Why did the straight women in your study say they made out with other straight women?
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A : A male had requested they do it, they did it because they thought it would turn men on. Things like societal demand – ‘Oh, other women were doing it in the bar and the guys were catcalling and it’s kind of the trendy thing to do, so that’s why I decided to do it.’
Q : Did some of the straight women report that after feeling some pressure, they ended up liking it?
A: Most of the heterosexual women who had engaged in this behaviour in my study really described the outcome in negative terms. They made comments like they were embarrassed – they felt awkward and regretful. Some of them said ‘I felt really coerced in this situation.’ One of the participants said ‘I was really confused because men asked us to do it and then called us sluts and nymphos after.’
Q : You point to that infamous Britney Spears and Madonna kiss more than a decade ago at the MTV Awards. Was that the beginning of this?
A: I think that might’ve been the most obvious place in terms of the media. It’s just continued on from there. We had Katy Perry ‘I kissed a girl and I liked it.’ Miley Cyrus is kissing everybody. Recently, Shakira’s video ‘Can’t Remember to Forget You’ [in which she lays on a bed with Rihanna and caresses her leg] caused an uproar, particularly back in Colombia where she’s from.
Q : Isn’t the lyric ‘I’d do anything for that boy?’
A: That’s the message – I’ll do anything for the boy, so I’ll subject myself to all kinds of behaviour I’m not comfortable with, I’ll do that for you, I’m willing to do almost anything for you. That’s maybe not the message we want to give to our adolescents and young women.
Q : Did you see any long-term impacts for these women?
A: Heterosexual women who had performed this girl-on-girl behaviour had less healthy perceptions of their sexuality. They felt more discouraged or unhappy about their sex lives. They weren’t as direct or assertive about expressing their sexual needs, they felt less confident. They were more likely to say their sexual behaviours were controlled by people more powerful than them. The heterosexual women between ages of 19-25 also described themselves as being more likely to take part in sexual acts in which they weren’t comfortable.
Q : That’s obviously problematic. How do you connect it to the bigger conversations we’re having about consent, sexual assault, being a bystander?
A : The results of the study really indicate that we do need some changes in the discussions we’re having with our children and young women and also in our sexual education curriculum. We need to really encourage girls and women to make well thought out choices that are consistent with their own sexuality.
Q : What about guys? Everyone seems to behave like it’s totally natural for men to like and encourage this.
A : Men need to realize that despite the fact that it’s a staple in pornography, their girlfriends, their mothers, their daughters may really not be enjoying this. It may not be something they want to engage in because it doesn’t feel good to them and it’s not authentic.
This interview has been edited and condensed for length and clarity.
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