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Mar. 10, 2011 | updated Aug. 7, 2021, 8:39 am
The Real World Las Vegas , the show’s 25th season, debuted last night, and while it all but dispensed with narrative and replaced it with montages of bodies, it did address Dustin Zito’s past as a gay porn star , or as he called it, being a model.
I haven’t watched the show consistently in years, but I was still surprised at what it actually was: a nearly non-stop montage of half-naked bodies in and out of the hot tub and beds. Even in public they were groping each other and the camera lingered over skin. I have no objection to pornography but it was so much–Cinemax movies have nothing on this–that it was unsettling, at the very least. And the episode spent basically no time on introductions but instead watched as the cast immediately began to start humping anything they could find, creating predictable conflict with relationships they have back home.
MTV’s initial bio for Dustin did not mention his porn past at all, which I referenced in this essay as an example of the cast’s lack of jobs or careers. But I was soon informed that MTV’s bio on their web site had a vague reference to it (it says Dustin was “a cast member on a web site that featured an uncensored look at a house of attractive guys living together”). The trailer for the season also obliquely referenced it, which I missed the first time around, in part because Dustin looks different in that quick moment, and in part because his castmate just says, “You got taped having sex. It’s all over the Internet,” which sounds like both revelations are surprising. Of course, they aren’t surprising to him, because he outright admitted his past, even in casting.
And because he performed for a web site, this wasn’t a secret. Dustin performed for Fratmen and in Frat Pad as “Spencer,” where he engaged in behavior that included randomly fondling his co-stars, performing oral sex on and masturbating another man, and giving and receiving anal sex. (While there are plenty of photos of him naked , there are surprisingly few pictures of his oral sex experience , as most of the photos from that video just feature him and his co-star naked together and the aftermath of their interaction . But other screenshots survive .)
But it came up in the first half-hour of the first episode, as the cast played “never have I ever” and Dustin admitted having sex in a hot tub, having a three way, and kissing someone of the same sex. That prompted Leroy to say, “I don’t feel that Dustin’s gay, but I do feel that that’s kinda weird.” (I feel like it’s weird that in 2011 male same-sex kissing still freaks out someone who moments later is seen making out with two female strangers simultaneously, but feel that it’s even weirder that the producers’ insistence on having the cast speak in present tense in interviews produces awkward sentences like that one.)
That kind of reaction prompted Dustin to say, “Oh god, I’m going to have a tough time talking about my past.” We then saw his casting interview, in which he said, “High school was over and I was like, all of the people were going to college, I don’t know what I wanted to do, so I did a webcam thing.” The producers then showed censored video from Frat Pad.
Dustin insisted, “none of the models are gay; it was a job for me, that’s strictly a job.” And he added, “For me, it’s such a big deal for me to be judged; I’m scared at this point to open up.” Dustin later encouraged fellow cast member Mike to drop his moral code and hook up with random women “in order to be a well-rounded person.” Really.
Later, Dustin gave in to “temptation” and started making out with Heather–there’s no character development any more so on-screen text reminds us of their names–and after a montage of them making out that was worthy of an R-rated movie, we saw Dustin say in an interview, “There’s still this secret that I’m hiding. And if we develop a relationship, I know I gotta tell her. And am I prepared for that?”
Apparently, that will be one of this season’s story arcs, if you can count whatever happens as a story or imagine the editing is actually constructing an arc. Instead, most of the show just looks like this:
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This just in: Toxic masculinity is still alive and well. Also, frat boys are the worst.
The Syracuse University chapter of Theta Tau was suspended this week after the school’s newspaper, the Daily Orange , published shocking videos of frat boys making racist, homophobic, anti-semitic oaths and engaging in truly deplorable behavior.
“I solemnly swear to always have hatred in my heart for n*****s, sp*cs, and most importantly, the f*cking k*kes,” one frat boy can be heard pledging in a video to thunderous applause.
The videos also include simulations of oral sex, masturbation, glory holes, and drug use, and cracking homophobic jokes: “Get together and [talk] about their significant others while drinking different wines and talking in gay girly accents!”
If that’s not disgusting enough, another video shows the frat boys mocking the disabled: “He’s drooling out of his mouth because he’s retarded in a wheelchair!”
Shortly after the videos emerged online, Syracuse Chancellor Kent Syverud issued a statement calling the videos “deeply harmful and contrary to the values and community standards we expect of our students.”
“There is absolutely no place at Syracuse University for behavior or language that degrades any individual or group’s race, ethnicity, sexuality, gender identity, disability or religious beliefs,” he wrote.
Michael Abraham, executive director of the Theta Tau Central Office, expressed sympathy for the men, saying many have become scared for their lives since the videos have hit the internet.
“They have been identified on social media, and due to the university having leaked this video to the press, they are now endangered,” he tells the New York Post.
Abraham adds that Theta Tau will do everything it can to help deal with the fallout.
“Theta Tau will fulfill the role that we would have expected of the university,” he says. “We will educate them.”
A huge chunk of Frat boys, without a doubt, are the weakest of all men – They act tough and manly because of just that, they are acting. Besides I never understood the point of being in a frat, whats the difference between a frat and a club?
Never underestimate the need for young men and their need to belong to something. This is nothing but High School part 2. I too think it’s stupid but then again I’m not a kid anymore.
I didn’t know the average college student is now 13 years old. Nothing else explains this. If they are any older, they should at least be performing all these acts for real, not simulating them. The racism, antisemitism and the “professed” homophobia are par for course, nothing new there.
I agree! Some frats actually try to do good things for their communities. This one has no sense of propriety or helping anyone but themselves.
They will all end up working for Trump and his people anyway
These jerk and what they have done are deplorable. I do take issue however with the term “toxic masculinity”. Its a bad term that should not be in existence and certainly not perpetuated by men. What they are doing isn’t authentic masculinity. Authentic masculinity isn’t toxic. What they are doing is nasty a** machismo. Big difference.
Exactly… but unfortunately, whenever I see “toxic masculinity” I know who wrote the story, and it irks me because I otherwise agree with a lot of things said, but then these dumb generalizations are used that put people on defense over the wrong damn thing. It stops being just about condemning these idiots and it also becomes an “I’m not like them” defense of one’s own masculinity. Not to mention, it’s a term that needs to be used in appropriate settings. This has nothing to do with masculinity, and everything to do with insecurity, over other races, over gays, etc.
If “toxic masculinity” exists (whatever that is), is there such a thing as “toxic femininity”?
Whenever I see “toxic masculinity” in an article, I think that the only thing that’s toxic is the unprovoked hostility toward men – gay men included – who are masculine and strong. There is this sinister force out there that has been pressuring men to be more feminine than ever before. That’s toxicity that needs to be reckoned and pushed back vehemently.
^CastleSF…. I actually agree with you here & also Xzamilloh…… There is a vibe underneath this article headline seems hellbent on squashing Masculinity. “toxic masculinity” here is really misguided: This incident is more about going on a rampage. And feminine women can go on a rampage as well about the same things….it’s about trying to feel superior.
My point wasn’t really about “masculine men Vs feminine men” because I think that masculinity comes in many different beautiful forms, including softer forms. “Butch” isn’t the only form it takes. I just don’t think the words “toxic” and “masculinity” really belong together, and as Xzamilloh pointed out, its a term that is extremely over used.
Super macho, self-absorbed men/boys are not truly masculine. They are insecure, unstable, lacking in integrity, and prone to violence. They pretend to be masculine but they are the antithesis of masculinity.
@DarkZephyr – Nobody’s saying “toxic masculinity” is authentic masculinity.
That’s why the word TOXIC is there – to differentiate it from just normal masculinity.
Masculinity isn’t bad – but “toxic masculinity” can be.
Just like how “water” is fine for drinking but “toxic water” is probably not.
It’s not dissing regular water to point out that toxic water is bad.
The same goes for masculinity vs toxic masculinity.
? FFS. If you think “toxic masculinity” shouldn’t be a term because- uhh- “real masculinity isn’t toxic,” then you must get really confused when people say, for instance, “don’t eat that bacon, it’s gone bad.” “Bacon is good, so it can’t be bad!” Cue food poisoning.
“Toxic masculinity” doesn’t *mean* “all masculinity is violent, bigoted, emotionally stunted, demeaning to ‘others,’ etc;” if you believe that it’s because you’ve gotten bad information from people who are stupid (or who are lying for the prupose of providing cover *for* toxic assholes). “Toxic masculinity” means there is a strain- a version of the ‘product’- that IS tainted. By violence, by bigotry, by the idea that the only appropriate way to express manhood is through domination, which renders everyone a target for hegemonic abuse and renders every emotion other than raging ego to be ‘womanly’ and ‘weak.’
That’s what the term means- not that “men are all necessarily this way and it’s *because* they’re men”- and if you resist its use because you misunderstand that, the problem isn’t with the term, it’s with your misunderstanding. (And the problem is with a society that largely enshrines the toxic variant and perpeturates it, and by extension seeks to provide cover for it by misinforming people about feminism and pitting them against it to preserve a shitty status quo.)
I do know what the term means. I don’t think it means “all men are a certain way, etc”. I actually do have basic comprehension skills. I just think its a crappy term. Terms like “machismo” are older, have been in use for far longer and are quite competent at getting the point across. Why not stick to the basics instead of inventing a new problematic term?
Toxic water and bad bacon are *still* water and bacon. They are just water and bacon with bad things mixed inside. You are comparing tangible consumables with something that is an attitude, a mode of being. These things aren’t comparable at all. Toxic water and bad bacon are still water and bacon, but “toxic masculinity” isn’t masculinity at all, as you admit, Lookyloo.
The biggest problem that I have with it is how it ties this “toxicity” to masculinity. Why do that? Why does jerkish behavior have to be described as ANY kind of masculinity? Toxic or otherwise? Few people outside of the men’s rights movement or fem shaming “masc” gay/bi men think that “toxic femininity” should be a thing, few outside of those groups would even dare suggest it. And it *shouldn’t* be a thing anymore than “toxic masculinity” should be. Jerkish behavior shouldn’t be tied to masculinity or femininity. We already have better terms with a longer pedigree. That’s how I feel.
“Nobody’s saying “toxic masculinity” is authentic masculinity.
That’s why the word TOXIC is there – to differentiate it from just normal masculinity.”
They aren’t using the word “authentic” of course and I never thought they were. I was using the word to make a point. But since its NOT “authentic masculinity”, something we both agree on, why do they need to use the word “masculinity” at all when its, as you basically admit, a misnomer? I already mentioned perfectly legitimate terms like “machismo” that are perfectly capable of getting the point across. Why do we need to reinvent the wheel and create these buzz terms that are so problematic and are admittedly misnomers?
Its jerkish behavior, not “masculinity”. Toxic or otherwise.
You don’t have to be a man or be any kind of masculine to be a jerk. Point blank period.
Does anyone really care? I’m sure allot of not so PC crap goes on these initiations. Frats are just an excuse for the kids to act like high schoolers anyways.
It’s funny how the right wing desperately tries to minimize blatant racial hatred and bigotry by calling it “Not so PC”
I mean its a fraternity..if ur looking for frats 2 be a ything more tha. Drunk as wholes ur an idiot..this clearly was supposed 2 be behind closed doors.. when i was n a frat they spanked one another..it was great..but i didnt take anything educational or how to behave in real life from it.. people should care about more important issues than what frat boys are doing
Can’t wait for the comments somehow blaming black people for this or complaining about other groups not being called out for racism.
I will say that is the most multicultural group of racists I have ever seen. Heh
Apparently, this was done in satire and not reflective of their true feelings, which of course makes sense as I said that this was real multicultural group of racists lol
I should know better than to think the full context is there when it comes to stories like these because the narrative can easily be spun. Do better, Queerty, because you sully your reputation by putting out stuff like this.
I don’t know where to post this, but since this the top story…how come the Amy Schumer story has the comment section closed now? There were 3 comments saying how awful the movie looked then when I was about to comment the comments section was closed.
Are we not allowed to voice opinions on here unless its the opinions shared with the moderator?
That’s probably because they get a kick back for promoting these movies.
Remember the last one with her (snatched). Queerty promoted the hell out of it. I watched it because I’m a Goldie Hawn fan but it was terrible.
The post is sponsored… it says so on the bottom of the link and thumbnail under this story.
You have to try harder to rein in your obsession with this “anti-lgbt” fantasy, DCguy. Cylest has warned you and I am reminding you again.
The comments were not closed by me. <3
Yawn… that video was an embarrassment, but for only them.
Honestly, 15 year old teenagers act more mature.
I’m not offended. I’d simply step over those losers.
The TYPICAL response of racists and bigots whenever they are caught. To always lie and claim their lives are now in danger. Funny how nothing ever happens to any of them that claim this.
It’s unfortunate there will be those involved who may never have thought to act like this,?but were caught up in group think. Now they know to think for themselves. If indeed they exist within this tribe
Oh, come on. They are very obviously ripping racism and homophobia, not extolling it. The “story” is about their “rival”, Tri Kappa – KKK – hence the reference to the white empire (“Inaudible” in the sub-titles).
Exactly.
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