Foot Fetish Rule

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Don't be embarrassed about having a thing for your partner's sexy, alluring feet.[1] There's a way to tell your special someone about your foot fetish without causing a sensation. If you want to know how to fess up about your love for feet, just follow these easy steps.
Don't fess up right away. If you want your partner to be okay with your foot fetish, then the worst thing you can do is blurt it out right away. If you're just in the middle of your first date, or even kissing for the first time, saying, "I have a foot fetish!" is likely to turn your night in the wrong direction. If you want to tell your partner about your foot fetish and get the best results, then you have to wait for the perfect time -- when you know each other a little better.[2]
Ideally, you should wait until you have a sexual experience before you discuss your foot fetish. Otherwise, it may be too much, too soon.
On the other hand, you don't want to wait too long -- if you walk down the aisle before admitting your lifelong obsession with feet, then you may run in to some serious trouble.
Start touching your partner's feet when you're ready. Once you've gotten more comfortable with your partner, it's time to test the waters. If you've found yourself in bed are in various degrees of undress, you can try kissing your partner's stomach, legs, and then move your way down to the feet. Don't go straight for the feet or you may freak your partner out. You can also just start touching your partner's feet if you're watching TV and you want to give him or her a sexy foot massage.
Don't start licking or sucking on your partner's feet yet -- this may be too much too soon as well.
See how they react. How does your other half react when you go for the feet? Do hear murmurs of approval, the occasional, "Oh, that feels good," and see a nice relaxed smile on his or her face? If so, then things are moving in the right direction. If your partner pulls away, or even outright says they don't like it when you touch their feet, then it's time to abort the mission.
If your partner reacts negatively, don't be discouraged. You may still be able to turn things around. However, this does mean that you shouldn't go for the feet again until you have the big talk.
If your partner reacts positively, compliment their feet. Don't go overboard -- just say, "You have such sexy feet," or "I just love your feet." Don't make it sound like a fetish yet -- just tell your partner that he or she specifically has amazing feet. This will make it easier for your partner to swallow the news than if you flat-out stated that you categorically love all feet before paying special attention to your partner's feet.
Additionally, if you're a guy, and really feel like you need to mention her feet, you can compliment her about it when you're having a night out. You can say, "Your feet look great in those shoes." But don't overdo it, or little will she know, you have a foot fetish and think you only like her for her feet.
Pick the right time to do it. When is the right time to admit to a foot fetish? There's no golden rule, but you probably should not do it in the middle of a hook-up. Instead, pick a time when you and your special someone are hanging out and feeling good about each other -- while having some privacy. You can tell your girl or guy when you're back at your place and you think you may be close to hooking up again.[3]
Fessing up in the middle of hooking up or cuddling may give you a reaction you may not be ready for, and can interrupt the mood (though not ruin it for good!).
Act a little nervous. Though your foot fetish may be something you've had for years and seems perfectly normal to you, you should be considerate of your partner. Sure, you think feet are hot -- plenty of people share your feelings. However, to a person without a foot fetish, this news will seem a bit unexpected, so you shouldn't just drop this comment like you're announcing that you think it's about to rain.
Say, "There's something I have to tell you..." and let your partner see that you have something important to say so you get his or her attention.
Don't act too nervous or your partner will be nervous too. Just act nervous enough that your partner will see that you really care about what she thinks.
Spit it out. Be honest. Just say, "Hey, I have a thing for feet." Or, "I want you to know that I have a foot fetish." That's it. There's no need to say why, or how long you've had it, or how much you love sexy, sexy, feet. Just tell your partner, let it out, and feel the relief of finally fessing up flood over you. Make eye contact, look at his or her face, and wait for a reaction.
If you hear nothing, you can ask, "What do you think?" But generally, it's a good idea to give your partner some time to process the news.
React appropriately to your partner's feelings. There are a few ways that this news can be taken. The best case scenario is if your partner says, "Really? That's kinky. I don't mind at all!" However, it's more likely that your partner will want more information or won't quite know how to react. The worst-case scenario is if your partner is completely not accepting of your fetish and thinks that feet are completely gross. You've said your piece, though, and now it's time to be mature and to deal with your partner's reaction in a calm and adult fashion. Whatever happens, you should be proud of yourself for being honest.
If your partner accepts your foot fetish on the spot, great. Prepare for a night of kinky fun.
If your partner needs some time to deal with it, take things slow. Don't try to touch his or her feet too much during your next kissing session -- wait for your partner to give you the green light.[4]
If your partner is just flat-out not into it, then there's no need to not try to force it. After all life is short and you have a foot fetish. Now, it's up to you to decide if you can handle a relationship that doesn't allow you to indulge your foot fetish. There is also a chance that over time they will warm up to it and become curious after a while.[5]
If a girl agrees to engage in my fetish with me but prefers to use socks, should I tell her I like barefoot better?
I would try it out with socks first and then work up to telling her that you like barefoot better. Let her get comfortable first.
How do I admit to a foot fetish to my parents?
You don't need to share this info with your parents, or anyone else for that matter. If you feel like you want to talk about it with anyone, sitting down for a one on one conversation may be best.
I am into some of my relatives' feet, how should I tell them so I won't get a negative reply?
Don't tell your relatives that you are sexually stimulated by their feet. You will get a negative reply, it doesn't matter how you say it. Keep your foot fetish between yourself and your sexual partners (who should not be related to you).
You can share it with your sexual partners and nicely ask if they are willing to try the things you enjoy. Start small.
Is a sock fetish the same thing as a foot fetish, or how different is it?
It's kinda the same thing, it's more of someone's preference. Just like how different people have preferences for small feet, fat feet, etc., some people have a thing for socks.
My friend told me he has a foot fetish. How do I stop him asking me for foot pics?
Just say no. There is no point in being vague about it. You set your boundaries and that is that. If your friend respects that, then great. If not, be really firm and ask your friend to keep the fetish to people who share it, and you simply do not.
What if I have been with my partner since first grade? Can I tell her in sixth grade?
You can tell her if you stay with her to the legal driving age. Until then, presume that it's not appropriate to share such information and may even be overwhelming for her.
How can I tell my girlfriend that I love her feet?
Wait until you are both in a romantic mood, then be honest with her about your attraction to her feet.
How can I know if I have a foot fetish?
If you find yourself being attracted to a woman's feet more than other parts of her body, or experiencing sexual fantasies that feature a woman's feet, then you probably have a foot fetish.
Would a close friend understand my fetish?
It's possible. If she is a good friend, she will accept it even if she doesn't quite understand it.
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Professional dominatrixes and fetishists open up about foot worship, their favorite shoes, and more.
When it comes to sexual attraction, we all have our own specific things that turn us on. For some, a good sense of humor does the trick, while others are all about physical chemistry. Others still have more specific turn-ons, including feet. This attraction is called a foot fetish, and to answer some common questions about it, Allure spoke with some men who proudly have foot fetishes and professional dominatrixes. They have plenty of interesting things to say about our southern-most appendages, from explaining the whole spectrum of foot fetishes to the reason for all the foot love in the first place.
In our conversation, foot fetishists explain what foot worship is, they talk about their favorite pedicure colors, and dominatrixes talk about what they've learned from some of their clients. Even if you're just interested in cute pedicures, Goddess Aviva, a New York City-based pro-domme, has plenty of foot-care secrets to share. And what better time to learn about all this than on I Love My Feet Day, a real holiday that occurs every year on August 17? Our feet carry us around all day and they deserve all the love they can get, so read on for a celebration of feet like no other.
"When someone has a foot fetish it means they sexualize feet to the point they become a strong trigger for arousal. For some, it's as extreme as there needing to be feet involved in order to experience sexual pleasure or climax," Goddess Aviva tells Allure. Though it's not necessarily true for everyone with a foot fetish, she says that some people with foot fetishes need feet to be involved in a sexual experience to achieve sexual gratification. If feet aren't involved, they simply aren't interested.
As for what a foot fetish actually entails, she describes it as a spectrum. "On the gentler side, perhaps your partner enjoys kissing or massaging your feet, and on the more extreme side, you have foot-gagging, stinky foot worship, and trampling," Aviva explains.
Kevin, a 45-year-old foot fetishist from California, explains that for some, it's all about worshipping a woman by paying special attention to her feet. "I absolutely have a foot fetish and love massaging and worshipping women's feet," he tells Allure. When asked what his ideal fantasy is, Kevin says, "You're soaking in my antique clawfoot tub after I've drawn a bath for you filled with sea salts and lavender oils, bubble bath, as you drink sparkling champagne." That doesn't sound too shabby.
If you find yourself dating someone with a foot fetish, you can likely expect many foot massages in your future. The fetishist may also share an exceptional love for pedicures, which is why pro-dommes such as Aviva put such care into their foot routines, and their efforts do not go unnoticed. "My favorite pedicure color is red or hot pink," Brent, a 29-year-old from Rhode Island with a foot fetish, tells Allure.
While it's all about the love for some, for others, foot fetishes are more about being submissive and may involve humiliation. "Not only do I have a foot fetish, but I also have a bondage fetish. I love to be tied up, having no say at all, and having a mistress have her way with me," Brent explains. Men such as Brent may enjoy being forced to lick and smell feet, ideally ones that are stinky and sweaty.
"There's something special about forcing someone to massage, lick, kiss, and smell my sweaty feet, while I have their hands tied, a leash on their neck, and there's no hope for escape," says Ms. Tomorrow, a professional dominatrix based in Nashville.
In conjunction with an attraction to feet, many people with foot fetishes are also into shoes, socks, and stockings — anything that wraps around the foot. "I have submissives who are very shoe-oriented. These submissives really get off on tying shoes and heels to their faces, to be immersed in the smell. They will also insert their penis (I mostly work with clients who have penises) into shoes, and use shoes as a masturbatory aid," Ms. Tomorrow says. She elaborates that she has a few clients who are shoe specific: Some only like heels, others are exclusively turned on by old, dirty boots. A few of her clients prefer clogs, house slippers, ballet flats, or sandals.
Physically being under someone's feet is as low as you can be, which is a beautiful metaphor for power dynamic.
Shoes aren't the only wearable item of interest. "There is a wide variety of oddly specific foot fetishists — same can be said for sock fetishists," Ms. Tomorrow tells Allure. "Socks stuffed into the mouth as a gag, dirty socks to be cleaned, even wearing certain kinds of socks can be a part of sock-focused kink play."
Though foot fetishes are sometimes thought of as taboo and those with them are often kink-shamed (especially those who lean toward the stinky, sweaty end of the spectrum described by Goddess Aviva), there's another side to them many people don't think about. You may relate to wanting to make your partner feel good by rubbing and massaging part of their body, such as their feet, or are excited about the idea of dating someone who wishes to do this to you.
Our feet carry us, and they deserve love and care. It's beautiful when someone can give you that as an exploration of their foot fetish.
Foot fetishes are just another way to be vulnerable with another human being when you get down to it. We walk around on our feet, all day long, and they carry us through most of our lives, and we ought to give them more credit. The intimacy of getting close to such an important part of the body is precisely what arouses foot fetishists, especially those who are also submissive.
"Physically being under someone's feet is as low as you can be, which is a beautiful metaphor for power dynamic. I also love when my submissive can make me feel good with foot massage and worship," Aviva explains. "Our feet carry us all day long, and they deserve a lot of love and care. It's a beautiful thing when someone can give you that love and care as an exploration of their foot fetish."
Now, regardless of your partner having a foot fetish or not (and regardless as to whether you have a partner or are totally single), is anyone up for a Netflix-and-foot-massage night? Happy "I Love My Feet Day," everyone.
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