First Spanking

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First Spanking
Well, I must admit I am pleased that it’s almost been two weeks and until today, I haven’t witnessed my wife break a rule. She has been on her best behaviour.
Tonight, there was a mishap that I still felt had to be addressed if my word is to mean anything. While I was watching the inauguration, my wife was preparing dinner, and I heard a loud bang followed a very loud, FUCK! Not once, not twice but I think five times.
I went into the kitchen to see a huge salad spilt all over the floor.
Not to toot my own horn, but I was very calm and asked her if she said what I thought she said, and she looked like she saw a ghost. I calmly told her to stand in the corner, the corner I showed which is the designated punishment corner.
She apologized and said she should never speak that way. I told her I appreciated her apology, but she needed to stand in the corner immediately. I lightly took her by the arm, and brought her to the corner, positioned her and told her to think about the language she used and not to turn around.
 Whew! The first step accomplished, and I had some time to prepare for the spanking. I decided to have her spend 20 minutes in the corner. I decided since it was her first spanking that I would use mostly my hand and then maybe 10 with the paddle.
After 20 minutes, I insisted she strip and stand in front of me.
I told her I was going to give her a spanking and I asked her why. She answered because I swore.
I put her over my knee and spanked her for about five minutes with my hand. She was quiet, but her behind turned pink.
I then grabbed my paddle, which I had next to the chair and gave her 10 fairly hard spanks. She was no longer quiet and begged me to stop. It was very hard for me, but I carried on and told her this would happen every time she swears. She started crying, and finally, I could tell by her sobbing, and the very red colour of her behind I had spanked her sufficiently. I sent her back to the corner and told her to think about her behaviour. She was crying still.
I made her stand in the corner for another 20 minutes. At the 15 minute mark, I made her turn to me, and I put a bar of soap in her mouth and told her to spend 5 minutes with it in her mouth.
She gagged a little and then I turned her back to face the corner.
I spent these five minutes lecturing her on how inappropriate it is for a lady of her beauty and intelligence to use such words. It will not be tolerated, and I hope that your behind will remind you not to. I could tell she wanted to speak but couldn’t because of the soap. When her corner time was finished, I let her spit out the soap and had her watch me put in a sealable bag reminding her that it’s her for future use.
I had her hang my paddle back up and put the soap in the medicine cabinet.
I then hugged her and told her she handled her punishment well. I told her to continue cleaning up and make dinner but to remain nude. And that is what she is doing now. I think I will let her put her clothes on after dinner and cleanup.
Well, for the first spanking, I think it went well. I remained calm, was very firm and gave her a good spanking. She was pretty submissive and very embarrassed. I think nude corner time with soap made her feel humiliated, which I feel was deserved.
I can’t deny that it was challenging to really spank her, but I am determined to steer her right and improve my marriage.
Domestic Discipline Lifestyle For Consenting Adults

Domestic Discipline Lifestyle For Consenting Adults
From the moment you start living your domestic Lifestyle, you will begin to see and feel the benefits of living a more structured lifestyle with rules; both partners will know what behaviour is expected. They will work together to achieve their relationship goals. But sooner or later, the time will come when one or more of the rules get broken, and a punishment spanking has to get administered. The first Spanking is something you should try and mentally prepare yourself for because, from this point forward, your marriage will be different forever that first Spanking will change the way both partners look view each other with one big bag of mixed emotions.
Your relationship will never be the same again after your first discipline spanking.
HoH / Husband
As HoH you will feel guilty you have just hurt the one you love, seeing your wife cry the first time after a spanking.
A spanking will be disturbing, never before will you have intentionally made her cry by raising a hand to her, all your life you will have been told you “YOU DO NOT HIT WOMEN” now here you are spanking her for her good.
Do not be tempted to say you are sorry, as HoH you have decided to punish her after breaking one of the rules you both agreed on. If you had not punished your wife you would have appeared to be weak, and that is not what your wife is looking for, she is looking for a strong HoH to guide her and help make her a better person.
You will also have to resist the urge to throw your arms around her, saying you are sorry and will never do this again.
Instead, tell her that you love her that you did what you had to do because you love her.
You will also feel empowered after your First Spanking. There is nothing like the feeling of knowing your wife love, trusts, respects you enough to allow you to pull up her skirt and pull down her panties, then spank her. Because she has broken one of your agreed rules, lots of husbands also find this very arousing, do not make the mistake of turning the Spanking into a lovemaking session. Making love would only confuse both of you; this is a Punishment and not foreplay.
Do not look for any excuse to repeat the Spanking as soon as you can, a good HoH is always fair and only punishes when it is necessary and not for the sake of his pleasure.
Submissive / Wife
What a significant change in your life this is going to be. The man who promised to look after you has just spanked you.
You have spent your childhood dreaming of Prince Charming carrying you off to his castle to live happily ever after and now you find yourself crying with a sore bottom.
At first, you will be shocked, how has this happened to you, why have you let this happen to you, all your childhood you have been taught that women are equal to men and men should never hit women, why have you allowed this to happen to you, you are not a weak, feeble person but a strong modern woman.
Remember you are giving him the consent to spank you if you had not broken the rules that you agreed with him he would not have had to discipline you. It is for your good. You want to to to be the best wife you can be.
You will also feel so emotional & tearful after, bursting into tears without really knowing why and that feeling of relief when suddenly a huge weight has been lifted off your shoulders. Life seems calmer; you are more relaxed and focused.
You will also feel guilty for disappointing your HoH, you have let him down, forcing him to punish you, you can see the concern and mixed emotions in his face, had you behaved as you should he would not be feeling this way.
A spanking also arouses many women; it is not just the heat and pain in your bottom, you feel. You will also feel a ripple through your body from the impact and the mental effect as well.
Do not be ashamed by this; you are not some freak that loves to get beaten for sexual pleasure; what you have just experienced is an extraordinary thing between husband and wife.
Hold on to those feelings for later when you and your husband make love to you; it will be one of the most intense lovemaking sessions you have ever had.
These are just some of the emotions you may feel after your first Spanking.

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I'm now 18 and while I was never spanked by my parents, I was spanked on one occasion by my Aunt Victoria. While I hated it at the time, now I am older I yearn to again feel the sharpness of a switch on my bare bottom and the humiliation I felt as my cousins looked on.

When I was eight years old I was sent to spend the summer holidays with my Aunt Victoria and my cousins Melissa and Sarah. They were seven years old at the time and are identical twins. I never really got on with them and they were always trying to get me into trouble and taunting me that they would see to it I was spanked.

And so it was that summer, Melissa and Sarah came up with a total lie that, not only had they caught me smoking, I had tried to get them to join in. After several hours of taunting about how I would get a spanking and how they would be watching, they told their lies to Aunt Victoria. I didn't think Aunt would take them seriously, but with their butter-wouldn't-melt looks on their faces, they were very convincing. So much so, Aunt Victoria demanded of me if it was true. My reply that it was not and the twins were nothing but liars made her very angry.

It was then that Melissa and Sarah acheived their goal and Aunt Victoria told me I would be spanked. My protestations that the twins had made the whole thing up fell on deaf ears as did my pleas that I had never been spanked and wouldn't be able to stand it. Even though I had no idea what was in-store for me, the thought of a spanking made me very uncomfortable and I remember dancing on the spot as I begged not to be spanked.

Resolute, Aunt Victoria told Sarah to go into the garden and cut a fresh willow switch for the spanking. Now I was really worried, a spanking was bad enough, but with a switch would be unbearable. While Sarah was in the garden, Aunt Victoria began to strip me of my clothes until I was totally naked. I was of slight build and very shy, so being stripped naked especially in front of Melissa was horrible.

Standing there naked and still pleading with Aunt Victoria, Sarah returned with a switch. It was about two-feet long, very thin and whippy. After handing the switch to Aunt Victoria, Sarah looked at me and gave a smile. She then went and sat on the sofa with Melissa to watch the main event of my humiliation.

Aunt Victoria sat in an arm-chair a told me to come over to her. Again I was dancing on the spot and begging, pleading that the twins were nothing but liars. It had no effect on Aunt Victoria and again she ordered me to go over to her. Reluctantly I did as I was told, even though I knew I was getting closer to the promised spanking. Once I was stood in front of Aunt Victoria she told me that before I was switched, she would warm my bottom. With that she guided me over her knee so that my bottom was pert, proud and ready to receive the warm-up spanking.

After what seemed an age of being in this vulnerable position, her hand came down with a mighty slap onto my butt. She paused for a few seconds to allow the sting to take hold before delivering another and another spank. In all I think I received six spanks with her hand and my bottom felt as though it was on fire. After the warm-up concluded she stood me up and my hands instinctively went to soothe my reddened bottom. I looked over at the twins who, with self-satisfied grins on their faces, were obviously enjoying the specticle.

Aunt Victoria then stood up and announced that I would now be switched. Again, between sobs I begged not to be switched, but it had no avail. Grabbing my arm she pulled me up so that I was stood on tip-toes. Not only did this stop me from running away, it had the affect of making my bottom stand out proud from the rest of my body, making it an easy target for the switching I was about to receive.

As an introduction, Aunt Victoria told me that this was known as "switch-dancing" and that I would be squealing and dancing by the time I received the third stroke. I remember thinking if the twins are also spanked like this, but that's a story for another day. So being dangled on tip-toes with my butt sticking out I sobbed while waiting for the first spank. I clearly remember the first spank and hearing the swish of the switch as it cut through the air before making a blustering contact with my bottom. It stung like crazy and yes, I squealed like a pig.

On the second spank I could stand it no more, I was sobbing, squealing and as predicted by Aunt Victoria, I began "switch-dancing". In all I received six spanks with the switch. At the conclusion of the spanking, Aunt Victoria ordered me to go and stand in the corner of the room and think very carefully about what a naughty boy I have been.

She then left the room to go and make a coffee or something, leaving me to the cruel tauntings of Melissa and Sarah. They not only mocked me for sobbing and begging, but for "switch-dancing" on the second spank. I was left to stand naked in the corner of the sitting-room for about 30 minutes before being allowed to get dressed and go to my room.


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As I've said, I hated this spanking at the time, but now looking back I would love to receive another humiliating spanking. So if you would like to sting my butt or chat about spanking and discipline, please get in touch. jamie....@protonmail.com

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The spanking, that first one, was such a surprise. Her reason for giving me the spanking was because i hadn’t emptied the trash, but She had not asked me to empty it previously. In fact, She had cautioned me not to act too pussy whipped in front of Her Mom, who was staying with U/us. i always was told Her dominance was private and i needed to keep it that way. A s I indicated earlier, She was raised by parents that felt that marriage should be male led, so letting Her Mom see me doing chores would cause problems. Well, at least that’s what i thought.
The day of the GREAT BIG SPANKING, She came home from work an hour after me, since i started 5 hours earlier, and She seemed unhappy. Then Her Mom complained about the trash being full, even though i had asked her if she needed anything an hour earlier. Wife confronted me as soon as Mom walked away, and I tried to explain to Her how i wasn’t at fault. When She marched me upstairs for a spanking, i kept thinking that i could explain myself, that She wouldn’t really hit me, because i still believed i had a right to an opinion.
During the spanking, i couldn’t think of anything because it was hurting so much. She is smaller than me physically, but i was incapable of running away or resisting because i just didn’t have it in me to risk losing Her as my dominant. After it began hurting so much, even that didn’t matter. It was overpowering. i wanted it to stop really badly and was crying long before it was over, but it wasn’t over until She decided i had been properly punished.
Afterwards, i was made to hold a penny up against the wall with my nose. She still seemed mad and i was so afraid She was going to beat me again. While i held that penny up, my butt was screaming, She had used a long leather handled shoehorn and it seemed each hit had been on either my left or right upper thigh, in that crease right by my butt.
After it was over it felt a little like returning to consciousness, or waking up. The first thought i had was that this was what i had begged for, what i knew i wanted deep deep down, to have Wife take control over me. She had done it, and the consequences were that i now knew that my opinion was forever irrelevant. She knew that She could beat me and i was afraid of Her. That changed everything, the game was over, my masculinity was shattered. W/we both knew it and i felt profoundly different, deeply ashamed for my words earlier in the day that appeared as if i had a right to an opinion. At that point i realized that i didn’t ever want another punishment, that i had better never allow myself to think i knew what was correct for me until Wife confirmed it, that from now on my focus was to be as obedient and humble as i could be. Though my butt hurt, i was intoxicated by subspace, enthralled and terrified at the same time.
When She had rested about 30 minutes, i was told to crawl over to Her and kiss Her feet. Though my face was still wet with tears, i no longer tried to protest my innocence, instead i apologized for not knowing how wrong i had been and begged on my hands and knees for Her forgiveness. She did grudgingly tell me i was forgiven, then instructed me in what chore She wanted me to attend to while She relaxed with a glass of wine, which i gratefully went to go get for Her. Besides losing my manhood, i received Her approval for eagerly doing menial domestic tasks, and this gave me the insight into my proper role, a domesticated sissy.
Already i had taken on a majority of the chores. She still cooked and did meal planning and prep until W/we retired. Then those chores were handed over to me. Sometimes She would cook if She wanted to, but She expected me to have the ingredients and a plan for dinner, and when i made the mistake of thinking i could wing it and She didn’t find my preparation sufficient, I got a beating that trained me to understand such willful pride was not to be tolerated.
Eventually, She has come to accept that i am a sissy, and has been a wonderful guide and teacher for me as i learn to improve, putting me into a chastity device, setting strict standards for me, helping me learn to sew and improve my domesticity. She knows that i am trying my hardest to be of value to Her. i know She would be better served sexually if She would take a real man as a bull and W/we have discussed this, but for now She is uninterested. Still, She isn’t above teasing me about what will happen when She does take a bull, the demeaning things that will be required of me.
In November of 2013, Wife had lost all desire for intimacy. Her libido crashed, and returning to a more vanilla dynamic was the only path to return to health. No longer am i subjected to physical punishments, I can spend my allowance and make social commitments without getting prior approval, masturbate, and ask for intimacy now (though She has always had control of that and still does decide if W/we have sex).
Still, i do the majority of domestic chores, She still decides how i look, from facial hair to what i wear. If She gives me permission, I can wear panties out, at home She will let me cross dress but i feel ridiculous when i do. She lets me have an apron collection but won’t let me tell most of O/our visitors that it’s mine, She pretends it’s Hers, even though She thinks it’s embarrassing to have one. It would just be more embarrassing to Her if O/our friends and family knew it was mine. That is sad to me, i feel like i have to live in the closet, but She knows best.
it served you right. you really needed the spanking.had i been in your place i would have received more than just a spanking. SHE would have whipped me mercilessly and kept me naked out of the house for a full day. SHE has done it on many occasions for the slightest disobedience from me towards HER. i think you have been lucky to have been let of with just a spanking. now you know better.
The reason her libido has crashed is because you are no longer a man to her.
Turn on her, refuse her humiliations, give her a spanking, and watch her libido return in an instant.
Women crave male domination. No matter what they think otherwise.
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