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What It Was Really Like to Try a Butt Plug for the First Time
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I’m a 25-year-old sex and wellness writer with a hearty (nay, adventurous) collection of sex toys, and yet I’ve never been able to make myself orgasm . I’ve masturbated with my hand, the cult-favorite Magic Wand , a crystal dildo, the clit-stimulating Satisfyer Pro Plus Vibration , a G-spot vibrator (or four), and while watching porn and reading erotica . But while I’m able to make myself feel good, I’ve never been able to take myself to the O-zone.
You’re probably wondering if I’ve ever orgasmed with a partner. I have. My first orgasm ever happened a few months ago during vaginal penetration with my partner of 18 months. And it happened a handful of times after that initial, um, release.
But now that I’m single again, I’m about as O-free as, well, a Disney movie. Honestly, I assumed that after orgasming with my partner, I’d be able to get there again on my own, but still nope.
My lifelong, not-a-medical-professional hypothesis for why I have a hard time coming is that in high school before I was sexually active I was on anti-anxiety medication for few months—meds that have a rep for messing with libido and sexual function . So when Alicia Sinclair, sex educator and CEO of b-Vibe , told me, “Women often report that their ability to enjoy anal sex and climax through anal stimulation is less affected by medication,” I decided to bring a second hole into my solo-time.
Without getting into too much detail, I’d played with my partner's butt (shoutout to Lelo’s Hugo prostate massager ), but beyond a lick and flick here and there, my butt never attended the party. Sinclair convinced me to get the party started.
While I have dildos in every shape and color (including rainbow !), Sinclair informed me that when it comes to butt play, you want to find something with a flared base. “Unlike your vagina, which stops at your cervix, your anus keeps going all the way into your digestive system, which is why you want a structure that keeps the plug from getting lost inside you.” Yikes.
Also, at risk of sounding like a size queen, all of my dildos are longer than five inches, which TBH intimidated the eff out of my peach.
I decided now wasn’t a time to be stingy. While I usually prefer sex toys made of glass or steel because I like the heft, Sinclair says silicone products are better for newbies, so I bought an “ anal training kit ” complete with three silicone butt plugs at increasing sizes (three, four, and five inches) and also a vibrating butt plug made of silicone (because I’m an overachiever).
Then, I stocked up on more of my favorite silicone-based lube . Why lube and why silicone-based? Not to over-hype it, but in my experience lube can take your sex life from a Charlotte to a Samantha in 10 seconds flat—or however long it takes to dig through your night table and flip open the top of the bottle.
Plus, your butt simply doesn't self-lubricate. “It’s imperative that you have some lube on hand to facilitate a smooth experience," says clinical sexologist Megan Stubbs . "I would recommend applying lubricant to both the toy and to your anus."
I decided a silicone-based lube would be best because Sinclair suggested that the first time I use the butt plug I do it in the shower, and I know from ~experience~ that water-based lube washes off in the shower, while a silicone-based lube has more staying power.
While Sinclair said I didn’t need to worry about making a mess (because I had to ask if poop was going to be an issue) and could play in my bed, she says showers are best for beginners: “It’s warm, which will help you relax, and there’s more flexibility for positions.”
Fast forward to a lovely January morning at the ripe hour of 10 a.m. when I knew my roommate would be gone for at least two hours—and also when I needed a shower (#multitasking). I (unironically) lit my favorite Boy Smell Candle , moved my speakers into the bathroom, and set up shop on the counter. I arranged my butt plugs from smallest to largest and tested the settings of my vibrating toy to get a sense of how it would feel (on my hand, it felt the same as any other low-powered vibe). Then, I stripped down and stepped in the shower, tube of lube in hand.
I closed my eyes and hummed along to The Weeknd, my self-pleasure soundtrack of choice. After sudsing up my hands, I ran them along my body (because, Team Foreplay) and remembered to breathe, thanks to Sinclair's advice. When I was thoroughly immersed in my go-to James Dean fantasy, I lubed up and got down to business.
Honestly, it wasn’t super intuitive. First, I tried standing with my feet shoulder-width apart, bending forward and trying to insert the three-incher almost as if I was inserting a tampon. But getting the plug at a 45-degree angle toward my belly button as Sinclair had instructed wasn’t working.
I tried again, this time with my hand behind my back. Success! Once the tip of the plug made contact with my anus, I made small circles, almost rocking it side to side against the hole. It took about two minutes of wiggling to get the plug all the way in.
How’d it feel? OK. Not painful. The best way I can describe it is that I felt full. And “stuffed” was the only sensation I felt—until I started touching my clit , that is. As I touched myself with the butt plug in place, it felt like the ring of nerves around my anus and the nerves in my clit were having a full-blown, sexy conversation. It was as if my clit was more sensitive because of the plug. I think how taboo the whole setup felt turned me on too. Here I was, a woman taking responsibility for her pleasure, and with a butt plug, nonetheless.
I wish I could tell you the butt plug brought me oodles of orgasms. It didn’t. After about 15 minutes, I added a dollop of lube to my finger, which I teased around the lip of the plug, and wriggled it out. Because I know you're probably wondering: There was no fecal residue on the plug, and my anus returned to its normal shape roughly five seconds after. (“The anal sphincter will always return to its normal size,” Sinclair says.)
So, no I didn’t come with a butt plug either. But overall, I’d call the whole experiment a success. While I can’t promise I’ll take my butt plug to the bathroom every time my roommate bops out for an errand, it is something I can see myself experimenting with again—especially because I haven’t tried the vibrating plug yet. And I'd certainly be open to finding a new partner who will want to give me some oral while I use that plug. Because that, my friends, is ultimate #bootygoals.
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T his might be a bit of a tender subject, but good journalism goes where angels fear to tread. Including the rectum.
The 21st century has been pretty good to the ass. Celebrities like Nicki Minaj have made the glutes a big thing (no pun intended), and the spread of porn has encouraged more people to try anal sex.
But this isn’t new — our ancestors got down in the brown in numerous ways, both together and solo. Their perpetually inventive natures had them developing methods for butt play a long time ago.
Come with us as we explore the history of the butt plug.
Sexual stimulation of the anus works in a few ways. First, the opening of the rectum is host to numerous sensitive nerve endings. Biologically, we’re not quite sure why that is — maybe to help you realize when you’re done defecating? Whatever the reason, that sensitivity is what you’re feeling when somebody eats your ass.
Deeper down, multiple muscles on the pelvic floor can be massaged by anal stimulation. Those are the same muscles that kegel exercises work to strengthen, and when you’re stressed the pelvic floor tenses up. Butt stuff relaxes them and make the whole body more receptive to pleasure.
For men, the real magic happens deep inside. The prostate gland is a little nubbin that produces seminal fluid. It also plays host to some potent nerve endings that can produce orgasmic responses when stimulated.
And, of course, a portion of butt play’s sexual pleasure is all in the mind. The taboo nature of the excretory system makes going down there seem deliciously wrong. Put all of these factors together and you have a can’t-miss recipe for an erogenous zone.
While it’s more than possible to get the job done down there with a finger or two, having a custom-built device makes things significantly easier. Some use traditional penis-shaped dildos for anal stimulation, but those have some downsides. Unlike the vagina, which is stoppered at one end by the cervix, the butt just goes right on in to the sigmoid colon, and if you put something too far up there it gets stuck.
That’s why butt plugs are made with wide, flared bases — to prevent such mishaps. The iconic “lava lamp” look has been in use for quite some time, as we’ll soon see.
Those things in the photo above — Dr. Young’s Rectal Dilators from 1893 — are the first documented butt plugs we’ve been able to find. These obviously weren’t marketed as a sex toy — instead, they were meant to be prescribed by a doctor to cure a number of conditions.
An article in “Medical News” from that same year quotes the good doctor in saying that “three-fourths of all the howling maniacs of the world” could be cured by taking one of these babies up the butthole. Obviously that’s a bit of an exaggeration, but the intense marketing made rectal dilators a hot commodity for almost half a century.
Dr. Young kept selling his medical butt plugs until the 1940s, when a shipment of them was seized by the Food & Drug Administration and destroyed for deceptive advertising. According to the report, the packaging claimed they could not only cure constipation but also acne and insomnia, among a host of other disorders.
Young wasn’t the only guy in the butt plug market. George Starr White sold a rectal dilator to treat prostate ailments until 1931, and the makers of the “ Recto Rotor ” advertised its efficiency in treating constipation and piles (inflamed hemorrhoids) as well. That one also came with an unguent chamber that would push lubricant through venting holes in the tip to aid its penetration.
So how did we make the leap from medical butt stuff to sexual butt stuff? It’s fair to say that at least some of Dr. Young’s customers were using them recreationally. But the birth of the sex toy industry was still a decade or so off. Dildos, vibrators and butt plugs would be sold by mail, advertised in the back pages of sleazy magazines but kept out of the public eye.
That all changed in 1962 when the first sex store in the world was opened in Germany by Beate Uhse, a former female pilot for the Luftwaffe. She sold a variety of items for “marital hygiene” that grew over the years to include dildos and butt plugs alongside lingerie and porno. As rubber and vinyl became cheaper to manufacture, sex toys began to take on new and different shapes.
The commercial plug industry took off in the 1990s with the introduction of silicone as a manufacturing material. It was durable, easy to clean and eventually low in cost, and soon butt plugs came in a flabbergasting variety of styles and sizes, from hollow models that squirt liquid when squeezed to ones with horse tails attached to the base so you can canter around your bedroom like a pony.
What’s next for the humble butt plug? Probably teledildonic models that let people control their thrusts and vibrations over the internet, or custom-designed models that come out of a 3D printer. Whatever shape they take, they’ll be making the journey down to brown town in style.
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Always, always, ALWAYS get one with a flared base.
Butt plugs and anal vibrators don't have to be an intimidating thing at all, and they can in fact be super fun to play with either during masturbation or coupled sex. They're not just sex toys for men and people with penises, either. If you're a beginner, and aren't sure how to use anal sex toys butt plugs are a great place to start. Wearing a butt plug during any kind of sex act can enhance your pleasure and potential orgasms, thanks to the tons of nerve endings around the anus. You can get silicone butt plugs, vibrating butt plugs, glass anal plugs and plugs that are designed for prostate massage . They're also great if you're wanting to learn how to prepare for anal sex . Lovehoney sex expert Sammi Cole explains everything you need to know about butt plugs - from choosing the right one, to using it safely and pleasurably.
"Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce its own lubricant, so liberal application of lube is a must for optimum comfort and safety," Sammi says. "For drawn-out anal play, regular lube top-ups are definitely a good idea."
Lube not only makes sex and play safer because it reduces the risk of injury, tearing and soreness, but it makes it feel way better too. Just make sure that if you're using a silic
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