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"If you’re just randomly bending your finger inside her vagina, she’s more likely to murder you than to actually orgasm."
Whether it's part of foreplay or the main event, fingering can be super pleasurable for people with vulvas—as long as it's done well. Bad digital stimulation isn't just a huge turn-off; it can also be incredibly painful! That's why we spoke with some sex-positive women about how men can up their fingering game.
Now, there's one big caveat here, which is that every woman and every vulva is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all method when it comes to fingering. Ultimately, the best fingering technique is asking your partner what feels good to them! Still, our sources said there are a few universal pointers that could help all guys get better with their hands.
Cherith : “I can always tell when the man I’m with is trying to treat my body like a video game that he needs to win, like if he just goes HARDER AND FASTER HE’LL BEAT THIS LEVEL AND I’LL CUM, but it doesn’t work like that. Even women who likes to be finger fucked into oblivion need a build-up. Start with one finger, until you see that she’s getting into it, then slowly insert another finger.”
Sofiya : "I think a lot of men start waaaay too rough, like they’re trying to unclog my vagina. Definitely make sure she’s super wet before you start trying to get even one finger up there."
Cory : "Remember that the vagina doesn’t self-lubricate all the time, so use lube or consider going down on her first to get things wet."
Sofiya : "I like to start with giving her head until she’s wet, then continue to gently lick around the clit while I trace a very wet thumb around the opening. Then I gently slide the thumb in and out until she’s responding by grinding on my hand and mouth. Then I add the other very wet thumb."
Courtney : “Oh yeah, I love a good head/fingering double whammy.”
Cory : "Before diving right into fingering, give the clitoris (which has 8,000 nerve endings) some attention. The clitoris is located above the entrance to the vaginal canal and it’s very smooth in texture. Check in with your partner to see what kind of motions they like."
Cherith : "Really, the game changer with regards to fingering is clitoral stimulation. We need it, fellas! So you have a couple of different options. You could go down on her while you finger her, which is always great. You could use your other hand to massage her clit (make sure your fingers have some sort of lubrication, please, yikes). Or she could touch herself, which hopefully she feels comfortable enough to do with you."
Courtney : "Know where the clit is and don’t be scared of it. Sometimes it seems like dudes are afraid to play with the clit, but that’s the button I want you to hit!"
Cory : "You’ll want to find the G-spot which is located on the upper part of the vaginal canal. Everyone’s G-spot is in a sightly different location, but generally, it’s 2-3 inches inside the body. While the walls of the vaginal canal are very smooth in texture, the G- spot feels like a wet sea sponge. To stimulate it, use the classic “come hither” motion with your fingers."
Cherith : "Curl your fingers inside her like you’re making that 'come hither' motion that people make when they talk. I have never told anyone to 'come hither,' but I have fingered a fair amount of people, so it works."
Courtney : "Making the 'come here' motion with your finger can be awesome, but it can also be a goddamn nightmare if the positioning is wrong. The whole point of the 'come hither' motion is to try to give her G-spot some love. If you’re just randomly bending your finger inside of the vagina, she’s more likely to murder you than to actually cum."
Sofiya : "Another good trick is to gently tweak/thumb her nipples while fingering her with your other hand and eating her out - but be careful, the amount of nipple play is highly specific to the girl; they’re our balls."
Courtney : "Yeah, I’m less of a nipple play gal—unless you’re lightly biting."
Cherith: "Or there are toys! Don’t be intimidated by toys. Trust me, they help everyone have a good time. A bullet vibrator + fingering will change everyone’s life."
Cory : "Using a vibrator on her clit while using your fingers to stimulate her G Spot is great because it allows you to keep your focus on her G-spot while she’s also getting clit-stimulation."
Cherith : "Dear God, make sure you wash your hands. Please don’t give me BV ( Bacterial Vaginosis ) in addition to fingering me badly. Trim your nails too! Get a manicure! Treat yourself! And me! Treat me to a manicure! When I go on a date with a guy with well-kept nails I’m like 'Oh, we’re about to have a good time.'”
Sofiya : "Also, if I see that your nails are too long or your cuticles are rough, you’re not getting near my vagina. Moisturize those hands, hunny!"
Courtney : "If you’re not interested in clipping your nails or lotioning your rough hands, I’m not interested in you touching my vagina."
Cory : "If it seems like they’re really enjoying a specific motion or sensation, stick to it! The easiest way to kill the path to orgasm is by changing up the rhythm or motion."

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In reply to Tanya Todd on 2013-04-22 - click to read

Thanks for your response !
I don't know what is right or not, I do know that if he was to slowly insert two fingers into her vagina for what ever reason, that she would most likely have an orgasm, no fault of his. The knee thing I do not know maybe she is having pain in her knees and ask him about it. I don't know. So your saying he should not have touch her nipples at all?

In reply to jojo93292374 on 2013-04-22 - click to read

In reply to Conard on 2013-04-22 - click to read

no he can touch her nipples but squeezing for long time that is more than one minute or pinching them for more than one minute is not right i myself had the same experience like your wife thats why iam that confident

In reply to Tanya Todd on 2013-04-22 - click to read

Tania T
My question to you is, When this doctor uses the speculum on my wife he stretches her to the limit, she says it's not really painful but it feels like he is about to split her apart. Is this how it's done ?
Please anyone may comment, Thanks to all.
Conard

In reply to Conard on 2013-05-31 - click to read

yes my wifes nipples were touched and the doc touched the insides of her thighs when she was in the examination table which i think was unnecessary as her thighs were spread by the leg support and the doc also strapped her leg at her ankle

It's very easy to understand why you feel the way you do, I really do not believe the doctor took advantage of your wife. My wife for years was on birth control pills. We have moved a lot because of my business, so she has had many different doctors over the years and it's always been men. During the time my wife was on birth control she was given these examinations very much like the one you described once a year. She now is on a hormone compound because she has had a hysterectomy the doctors now examine her as you described every six month's. I do not know why but my wife always finds a male doctor to get her hormone prescriptions, and she like yours always dresses nice high heels, dresses from a catalog called Venus.. She is a very attractive lady I feel like the doctor's mind their manners. But I'm also sure they notice. My wife's doctor also examines her hip and knee joints while she is still wearing her dress. I never let on that I wonder about the doctor's motives. But I did causally ask her once why during that part of the exam she was still wearing her dress. She said she didn't know, then after a few minutes she said it was maybe better that way, I said but your dress comes up above those skimpy panties you always wear and he see everything. She smiled at me asking are you jealous? And before I could answer she said next time I'll tell the doctor I want to change into the exam gown if that's what you want. Still smiling at me. I said I think that would be more appropriate don't you? she said I don't care whatever you want honey. Then she said the doctor still has to do the examination the same way and the exam gown is going to do the same as my dress does. I said yes but that's what the exam gown is for, she smiled then said once I have the exam gown on I'm naked and yes the doctor is going to see my vagina in the examination stirrups, so you want him to see me this way also? I was stunned. I didn't know what to say, finally I said you do whatever you think is best honey I guess I don't know what I'm talking about. The next time she saw the doctor when she got home, she said I did it your way, I didn't know what she was talking about, She said she went ahead and undressed and put on the exam gown. The doctor started his exam of her knees and hip joints then stopped when he realized she was naked beneath the gown. He then told her to put her panties on and that he would be back. So he examined her in the exam gown instead of her dress but it really was all the same. The breast exam, yes I know all those different positions that they have our wives expose their breasts for the doctor. I know but they can't examine them dressed. Now you talked about what happens once they get our wives in the stirrups. I thought the same as you when I was told how my wife was put in the stirrups. Like you, I've never been able to get my wife's vagina exposed like the good doctor does, but I guess he needs room to work. I've thought about buying an examination table and play a little doctor when she gets home and like you thinking about my wife being naked and exposed in front of a male doctor for some reason makes me turned on. I don't know our pretty young wives are stripped naked their breasts are fondled, nipples pinched, then their legs are spread wide and their vagina is stretched and fingered in ways we as husband do not do, such as a finger in her vagina and rectum at the same time, they call it a recto-vaginal and two fingers in her vagina while she is on display spread out in the stirrups along with his middle finger in her rectum. And we are supposed to believe no one gets turned on.
I do not blame the doctor for being excited and I can hardly blame my wife if she becomes aroused. Tell you what I do, I take advantage of it when she gets home we always have the best sex and I can tell by looking at my wife's vagina when I get her panties off, that she is more than a little aroused from what she has just been through.

In reply to Enjoying Life on 2017-08-10 - click to read

Maybe you should accompany her so you can assist the doctor.

In reply to Enjoying Life on 2017-08-10 - click to read

My wife loves getting a gyno exam, She also likes to look her best. My wife Michele and I are nudists so it she loves to be seen naked. I think that when she is in the gyno chair with her legs spread as wide as she can with the doctors face inches from her p***y it is a total turn on for her. She loves to tease and turn on guys but at the nudist resort she can't expose herself that much. So the fact that she is that exposed and hopefully exciting the doctor is a total turn on for her. I think she would get a gyno exam once a week if her doctor would let her.

In reply to anonymous on 2017-09-09 - click to read

I think pussies are the prettiest things ever invented, especially hairless ones. Women who shave them clean should be proud of them and should show them off as much as possible.

In reply to jojo93292374 on 2013-04-22 - click to read

Your wife was abused. Some people will tell you that it is not sexual to the gynecologist. That is a bunch of c**p. First and foremost he is a man and he does get excited. Don't ever let anyone tell you any different. Males are visual. You can never take the man out of the male gynecologist

In reply to anonymous on 2019-07-27 - click to read

The exam that was described is exactly what they do. This does not mean that all of those procedures are necessary. The American medical Association and the American College of physicians have both told doctors to stop doing routine pelvic exams. Through many years of study they have found that there is very little benefit and as often more damage, more exams and even surgical procedures are performed due to unnecessary exams.

To think that your wives and the doctors are not being sexually aroused is totally asinine. Anyone that gets enjoyment out of having their wife fingered and aroused by another man must be sick.
The medical abuse that takes place by male doctors with their female patients is staggering. Any woman with any modesty or any fidelity toward her marital vows should be seeking a female doctor for female exams. Doctors used to be predominantly male but in the last 15 years 70% of the graduates for gynecology are female doctors. This should tell you something by itself. If you’re excited by another man arousing your wife then you might as well just prostitute her out.

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