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"There are tons of nerve endings there and even the smallest amount of pressure can be pure heaven!"
Anal fingering isn't just for men and people with penises - though it is true they might get the added bonus of a prostate massage . While women and people with vaginas don't happen to have a prostate gland (aka a P spot), anal fingering or ass fingering still feels amazing for lots of people thanks to all of the sensitive nerves in the area. You can also use anal fingering to stimulate your supposed G-spot from the inside, too. And did we mention that it’s a good for a spot of warming up or foreplay if you are wanting to prepare for anal sex ? If you haven’t yet given it a try, you may be wondering what anal fingering feels like for women and people with vulvas. Well, we're ready to give you some answers!
Keep reading for people’s unfiltered opinions on what it feels like to be fingered in the ass during sex. But before you start cracking on at home, make sure you use lots of water-based lube because the anus doesn't self-lubricate like most vulvas do.
1. "I am now at the point where it's almost disappointing if [my partner] doesn't do something with my ass. I also enjoy when he circles it and then taps it with his finger. Luckily we are very open and he reads me very well so I don't have to ask for it, but I am definitely not shy about vocalising what I need." [via]
2. "I kinda like when he thrusts it in and out, but if he does two fingers that can be a bit much unless we're moving on to anal." [via]
3. "Love it when he's eating me out... these days I don't even ask." [via]
4. "When I’m getting screwed doggy style I love it!" [via]
5. "When it's good timing it heightens the pleasure immensely. It tightens everything, I'll feel every ridge and vein on his dick basically. It just makes the whole experience much more intense." [via]
6. "I like it best when I’m on top and I definitely prefer to have my partner do it rather than myself." [via]
7. "I prefer a butt plug or other anal toy, it feels much smoother." [via]
8. "I like very slight strokes when in my ass. I think he makes a circling motion inside. Definitely not the same fingering as my vagina... that's a bit too advanced for me as yet." [via]
9. "There are tons of nerve endings there and even the smallest amount of pressure can be pure heaven!" [via]
10. "If he’s fucking me and I’m getting really into it, he’ll slowly circle my ass and stick a wet finger in. I see stars every time. With the right build up it can be amazing." [via]
11."It's a huge 'yes' for me. My husband is an expert at fingering me, yet doesn't play with my ass all that often. I think it's mostly the position we find ourselves in, so when he can't, I'll often push my own finger in a bit. I'm also not shy about asking for what I want, so I think I'll request more of this from him. While it feels great when I do it, it's always amazing when it's his finger instead." [via]
12."I started doing ass play on myself until I thought I could let him touch it. Then I had him insert one of my butt plugs in my ass. I did the same to him. I can trust him... and it makes all the difference in the world. I ask for it. I have to mentally be in the right place. Sometimes I'm up for it in doggy." [via]
13."Just leaving the [finger] in and applying pressure is much preferred to any movement in my opinion." [via]
14."I haven't done enough receiving in anal play (aside from rim jobs ) to really understand very much how it affects sensations for me, but was going at it recently and the partner asked if I minded before pushing in. I instantly said I didn't mind because the idea was just freaking hot. Then he said, 'I can feel myself fucking you through your ass, it's amazing' and it went from a 'yes' from me to a 'HELL YES'." [via]
15."I prefer it when he’s behind me (spoon, doggy etc), and I like nudge fucking or gentle wiggling of the fingers inside, not in-and-out motions. I also love it when he takes my hand and forces me to do it to myself so that I can massage his cock from the inside and he gets a great visual. TBH, though, I prefer pressure on the outside. Finger rimming or a fist/few fingers (something that doesn’t penetrate too easily) putting pressure on and releasing it repeatedly." [via]
16. "You get your finger(s) or dick all the way in, and instead of going in and out you just push. But going all the way in and out like you would normally is pretty sensitive. Once you get it all the way in, just grind hard. I came so hard from anal once, and I've had it many times... the only time I came was the way I described." [via]
17. "Also a tongue or dildo feels amazing too." [via]
18. "I love it. But I find it's easiest to have a conversation beforehand as to whether they like it or not, that way just "slipping it in" doesn't result in a surprise [that you haven't consented to]." [via]
19. "I definitely love it. Any anal play is fun and when you're double penetrated, both holes are tighter and you can feel more! My only pre-requisite is to make sure you start out gentle, and that your girl is wet enough or use lube." [via]
20. "I've been trying to warm up to this one lately. I want to want to like it because he thoroughly enjoys it, but it's very new territory for me and very strange." [via]

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It's called the shocker for a reason.....
Yes of course some women like/love this but it's something that has to be worked out before the heat of the moment.

Hahaha! Yes...but probably don't just go for it like mossgard if you've never done it with her before. Go slow, get her curiosity peaked, and do a little more with each session (here and there). Ask her if she likes it while you're doing it. There is nothing hotter than those types of conversations during sex. Plus, her giving you feedback and vice versa makes you both better lovers.

Yes! Its awesome, if its done right.

@brwneyedgrl :
What constitutes being done right?

@Anonymous :
It will all depends on the individual. Communication is key! That and lubricant.

When I tried that, she barely noticed.

As I continued rooting around inside her with my tongue, I slammed my finger up as far and as fast as it would go but she acted like it was nothing.

I was puzzled since I had heard every women loves this, so I swirled it around , pulled it in and out a little but to no avail.

Next time I think I'm going to do it to her butt and see if that makes a difference.

You can never tell until you try, I suppose.

I had that had her best orgasm when I had my finger in her anus.

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Tempted to insert a finger into your (or your partner's) back passage when you have sex? Here's how to safely get the best out of anal finger play.
Thinking of experimenting with anal play, or perhaps your partner has suggested you give it a try? Anal fingering may sound like a more extreme form of sexual stimulation, but that’s a wild misconception. Done safely, anal play with fingers and sex toys can be very pleasurable for men, women and people of all genders and sexualities.
So why might someone want to try anal fingering? It’s a sex act many people enjoy during masturbation and partnered sex. ‘This is because it’s an area of our bodies which is packed with nerve endings, highly receptive to touch,’ says sex expert at Lovehoney Annabelle Knight.
💡 While some people may think of butt play as a gay sex act, a British Condoms survey in 2019 found 50 per cent of straight men and 47 per cent of straight women had tried anal play, so don't be afraid to experiment if it turns you on.
Anal stimulation has the potential to be pleasurable for anyone who has an anus, but for men and people with penises, it can be especially enjoyable thanks to the prostate (or P-spot). ‘The prostate is a gland within the male sexual organs. It’s a hubbub of nerve endings which, when stimulated, can provide intense pleasure and even orgasm,’ Knight explains.
Here’s an expert guide on how to prepare for, give, receive and enjoy first time anal fingering safely:
As with any sex act, it’s really important you have a good chat with your partner before any anal fingering happens. As Sexplain ’s Sarah Adefehinti explains, you must also make sure your partner is totally on board. ‘If they are into it but a bit nervous, ensure you talk them through it, and check in with them throughout - again, this can apply with yourself as well,’ she says.
And as Knight points out, as well as feeling comfortable, you should both be excited and enthusiastic about exploring anal fingering.
The anus needs a little more care than fingering a vagina, Knight explains. ‘Although it’s perfectly safe to explore anal play , an anus isn’t designed for penetration. Therefore the lining of the anus is more delicate and susceptible to injury,’ she says. To prepare, the giving partner should always:
It’s also really key for the giver to check their fingers for cuts or scratches. ‘Even with proper prep, all sex involves a transfer of bacteria, and this is even more likely with anal play. You really don’t want to get anything nasty in an open wound,’ Knight says.
For safety and hygiene reasons, some people like to create a barrier between their finger and their partner’s anus by using a condom or a small latex sheath called a ‘finger cot’. Knight says it is by no means necessary to do this, but it can help ease the mind of the giver and receiver.
As well as feeling comfortable, you should both be excited and enthusiastic about exploring anal fingering.
Sex educator and expert at Tenga and Iroha Alix Fox also recommends gloves, as they can help with hygiene and make both parties feel more relaxed and confident, knowing the giver’s fingers are protected from residues, stains or smells. ‘ Nitrile gloves are a great option for those with latex allergies,’ Fox says. The risk of mess with anal fingering is extremely low, especially if you follow this expert advice.
Fox adds, ‘It’s important to remember there’s nothing shameful about poo: it’s a normal, natural product of being a human being, so if you do happen to encounter a smidgen of evidence that you or your play partner are Actual Living Creatures, try not to make a big deal about it; you might like to keep baby wipes nearby.’
If your partner has expressed interest in playing with your anus and you're keen on the idea too, try the following tips to ensure you both have a good time:
Worried about poo? ‘The good news is, stimulating the prostate doesn’t involve deep penetration and thanks to the way our bodies work, waste is only stored in this area of your bowels right before evacuation,’ Knight says. ‘This means, as long as your partner has had a normal bowel movement that day, there’s no reason you should encounter any faeces when you explore.’
Nonetheless, if you're still worried about what your partner might encounter on their anal adventures, Knight recommends giving the whole anal area a good clean externally beforehand in the bath or shower. ‘You can even poke a finger inside to check that your inner-rim is sparkling clean, too,’ she says.
Shaving the area (carefully!) is also an option, which Knight says will make it more sensitive to touch which is beneficial for warm up and foreplay.
If the receiving partner is concerned about potentially expelling any faeces, they can use an anal douche for extra peace of mind. Again, this is by no means necessary, but if it makes everyone feel more relaxed and comfortable, go for it. Just be sure to read the anal douching instructions carefully before using it.
Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t naturally lubricate itself. So to lower the risk of injury (as the anus is very delicate), and heighten the chances of pleasure, use a good, long-lasting anal lube . Thick lubricants are the best for anal play, and are usually silicone-based to last longer. Be sure any condoms or sex toys you also use alongside silicone-based lubes are compatible. If in doubt, go for a thick water-based lubricant as these are safe to use with condoms and sex toys.
Go for a thick water-based lubricant as these are safe to use with condoms and sex toys.
For your first time, go for a plain but silky anal lube. Be sure to keep applying lube throughout, especially if you notice the anus becoming dry.
And, if it's the first time doing anal fingering, Adefehinti says, ‘Perhaps avoid any tingling sensation lube, eg hot or cold sensations.’ Fox agrees to keep it simple. ‘Proceed with extreme caution when it comes to lubes containing numbing ingredients: not being properly able to feel whether something hurts means you could accidentally damage yourself, so it’s best to avoid these formulations.’
While anal fingering is low risk when it comes to STIs , it is still possible to transmit infections through your fingers via bodily fluids like pre-ejaculate. ‘The bacteria that tend to live in the bottom can also cause problems if they get into the front bottom, so wash your hands in between switching from anal to vaginal play,’ Fox says.
‘In addition, there’s a very nasty stomach upset you can catch called Shigella if butt bacteria make it to your mouth, so again, hand-washing and bottom-washing is recommended.’
Before actually putting your finger in, it's important to know that the anus sucks into itself. To get started try the following tips:
The best position to explore anal fingering should be comfortable for both the receiver and the giver to hold. Knight says it should also offer easy access to the anus and preferably a couple of other erogenous zones. ‘Many people who enjoy prostate stimulation find that it’s most pleasurable when combined with nipple or penis stimulation ,’ she says.
Popular anal fingering positions include the receiver lying on their back with legs apart or on their stomach with a pillow under their hips, or on all fours. Experiment to find which works best for you both.
Rather than fretting about stimulating your partner’s prostate (if they have one) the first time you try anal fingering, instead concentrate on giving them pleasure. ‘Anal play without stimulating the prostate is still super-arousing and pleasurable. The p-spot is simply the cherry on top,’ Knight explains.
It’s best to help your partner’s anus comfortably open very gradually. Fox recommends the following technique:
✔️ With both your finger and their anal area well lubed, hold your fingertip just over the anal opening.
✔️ Push gently down onto the pad of your finger and hold that pressure for five seconds.
✔️ Release, then push a teeny weeny amount upwards with your fingernail.
✔️ Hold the pressure for five seconds.
✔️ Keep repeating this (provided you’re getting positive feedback from your partner) until you feel the sphincter muscles start to relax , and you’re able to slip inside a tiny bit.
✔️ Inch in this way, until you’re up to about the first joint of your finger, and you can feel their sphincter surround you in a ring.
✔️ Curve your finger to ‘tickle’ them internally for 30-60 seconds – with the same speed and soft touch as you’d use to tickle someone’s nose.
✔️ You may feel their body ‘yield’ and become softer and more accommodating to your movements.
✔️ If not, withdraw slowly, do some kissing/hugging/laughing/external butt massage and try again in a minute, if you both want to.
If you’ve comfortably followed Fox’s anal fingering technique for first timers and want to try something new, for a low-anxiety but highly pleasurable method, you might enjoy using a sex toy. There are plenty of anal appropriate sex toys available on the market designed specifically for this purpose. Fox recom
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