Finding Love Again at 50 Plus in New Zealand
Once it seemed impossible that someone in their 50s could find love again, yet here I am, living in the beautiful country of New Zealand, having discovered the most extraordinary partner in the world. The exciting thing is that even my friends in the 'real world' are challenging the old-fashioned notion that fifty-somethings are only good for knitting and cookie-baking – instead, they’re proving that age ain’t nothing but a number and that love can happen in unique and unexpected ways.
I won’t pretend that finding true love the second time around wasn’t daunting. When stepping back into the dating world after so much time, feelings of insecurity and uncertainty were present; especially since a lot had changed in the world of romance since I was last in the game. But, thankfully, a strong sense of optimism and resilience helped overcome any fear I might have had. I was determined to make the most of the situation and trust that love could once again be a part of my life.
That's when I found KiwiDateZ, the national online dating site of New Zealand that’s designed specifically for those seeking relationships in their 'second stage of life'. After creating my profile and doing a bit of 'window shopping', I eventually settled on giving a try to a man who seemed like a real gem, who was also in this country seeking the same thing I was – true love and companionship.
From the first moment of our first date, it was as if this was all preordained and fate had a hand in bringing us together. We had an instant and unparalleled connection, so much so that we both felt at ease right away and were able to become very open and vulnerable about our feelings for one another. That first night it was almost as if we'd known each other for years, instead of having only just met.
We’ve been going strong ever since, and are even planning our upcoming wedding. After so many years, I can still hardly believe it. dating websites ’m humbled and ecstatic to finally have found the love of my life and I can only attribute it to taking a chance and keeping an open heart.
Not all of my friends were as lucky as I was though. Like more many of us, they'd had some relationships that didn’t quite work out and had to start anew. Even when things felt like they weren't working, though, instead of giving up, they stuck to their guns and kept looking until they found someone who checked every box. And it paid off! All of them are now happily settled in, with amazing partners who light up their lives.
The most remarkable thing about ‘second chances in love’ is that it works just as effectively, if not more, for those in their 50s. As long as we’re patient and do our research, chances are much higher that we'll find someone who not only shares our values, but whom we’ll also find to be our soulmate. It’s an inspiring thought that can help to keep our hopes alive as we search.
Most folks never get the chance to relive their first love, and yet, here I am, experiencing something that I thought wasn’t possible at my age. KiwiDateZ helped me find 'the one' the very first time and the feeling of joy here is incomparable. It’s a reminder that it’s never too late to get back into what matters and that finding love at 50-plus is a reality worth exploring.
I also know that I’m not the only one lucky enough to get this chance. In New Zealand, and all around the world, there are thousands of us who are determined to find true love in our lives. We’re raising a glass of the bellissima Kiwi wine for those of us who are boldly living our best lives. Here's to falling in love, again and again!