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South Korea's quick economic growth has indicated some startling changes within its conventional social structure, consisting of the surge of supposed host bars, where wealthy females pay the equivalent of thousands of bucks for male company.
In the dim light of an underground area, a loads completely brushed boys stoop in rows, calling out their names.
Muscular, with glossy boy-band hairstyles, they cram side by side right into the slim space, waiting for us to make our option. Outdoors in the passage, more of their associates are arriving for another evening at job. It is 2am, and also we are their first customers.
Covert below the sidewalks of Seoul's ritziest postcode, Gangnam, the males at Bar 123 become part of an expanding industry, which outgrew the long practices of Japanese geisha and Korea's kisaeng houses but with one crucial difference - the consumers right here are all ladies.
Known as "host bars", these all-night drinking rooms use female customers the chance to pick and pay for male buddies, sometimes at a price of hundreds of extra pounds an evening.
Among the ladies I fulfill at Bar 123 is Minkyoung, a waitressing supervisor for a first-class hotel. She says she comes to host bars as soon as or twice a month.
Minkyoung is extremely quite and also her clothing are immaculate. She does not look like a person who would certainly require to pay for male firm. The appeal of host bars can be refined. Right here, she claims, she has more interest from her male companions, even more choice and also, crucially, even more control.
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" In normal bars the guys who consume alcohol with me have just one objective - to have a casual sex. But I do not want that, to ensure that's why I come here, I wish to have a good time," she states.
Hosts are hired by bars such as this one to supply friendship and amusement. Officially that indicates putting beverages for their consumers, dancing as well as speaking with them, as well as singing karaoke.
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Sex is not formally on deal in the majority of host bars. That would be unlawful but also Minkyoung seems happy to tease and touch with her host, and also the guys here estimate that around half the consumers wish to pay for sex, either on or off the facilities.
James has been functioning at Bar 123 for a pair of years. In Korean culture, he says, there is a lot of satisfaction as well as negotiating a price for sex is never ever done clearly. Instead, he informs me, it is all down to the host's very own assessment.
" The people below are pros - we recognize what we're doing," he claims.
" After talking with a lady for a hr we generally recognize just how much cash she makes as well as what she does for a living. We've already evaluated her individuality and what she's willing to provide."
James and also various other hosts state their clients include a few of South Korea's elite, and that the cash and also advantages on deal boggle the mind. One customer James met, during his first week in the job, asked him to authorize himself over to her for 2 years.
" She said 'allow's make an agreement. I've obtained this paper as well as I've numbered it 1-5. Whatever you create down following to those numbers, I'll obtain you.'".
James claims at the time he took it as a joke but given that learnt the very same female invested ₤ 60,000 ($ 97,000) on another host.
" If it occurred currently, I would certainly do it - I would certainly be believing straight.".
Actually perhaps, host bars expanded out of among Korea's most established as well as, some say, misogynist company customs - the room hair salon. These are exclusive drinking spaces where groups of guys pick, as well as are served by, appealing women hostesses.
It was the people hosting' demand to allow off heavy steam after work, claims expert host Kim Dong-hee, that produced the initial need for host bars, with all-male staff.
" What these people hosting desire is to [make us] do the very same point they had to perform in their own work environment. These ladies are compelled to do points they do not desire to do for cash.
" I assume a lot of them are in pain, and also a whole lot really feel lonesome. Put simply, they intend to acquire our time and our bodies.".
People hosting still compose a huge percentage of the customers at host bars below, however at Bar 123, as an example, up to 40% of the customers on a given night are now from various other profession.
The factors for that growing charm are bound in South Korea's rapid economic increase. Within 50 years, the country shifted from post-war devastation to OECD member.
According to Jasper Kim, head of the Asia-Pacific Global Research Group in Seoul, something vital was shed along the means.
" I assume that with all this quick growth comes rapid adjustment, and also Koreans simply do not recognize how to manage it. Increasingly, capitalism is overtaking basic social norms that you would certainly expect a number of decades ago.".
Jasper Kim states South Korea's notoriously lengthy working hrs have actually left many Korean females feeling lonesome, while the nation's technological advance has left numerous people feeling detached.
" The human aspect of Korean culture that existed before merely doesn't exist today. People are concentrated on modern technology, individuals are concentrated on their tasks, they aren't concentrated on human relations any longer.
" In many means, Korean society today kind of reminds me of 1960s culture in the US, where it's on the edge of some type of social transformation.".
The grandfather of Seoul's host bar scene, Kim Dong-hee, concurs that much of the women that involve host bars are not spending for sex yet for companionship, which is why he opened a brand-new chain of freshly-marketed electrical outlets targeted at the mainstream market - called Red Model Bars.
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Hosts at Red Model Bars can not touch customers.
" Men intend to have visual pleasure and also intend to really feel points, they're responsive. Women like to speak and to listen. Which's why I considered opening up a bar similar to this - a type of discussion bar.".
Red Model Bars are various to conventional host bars in one crucial regard - there is a no-touching rule. Hosts remain on one side of the table, clients on the various other, and no physical call is enabled, as well as definitely no sex.
Possibly consequently there is a lack of furtiveness amongst individuals who function or consume alcohol below - the lights are low, the design mostly dark red as well as the area is separated into discreet booths, however it is an open-plan space and hosts and also clients are separated in each cubicle by a large table.
This brand-new service version depends totally on females paying the equivalent of hundreds or even hundreds of bucks to talk with good-looking young men over a drink. Still, it appears to be working - three new branches are due to open this year.
Resting at a table at one end of the bar was just one of their routine customers, a florist called Kim Nayu. She tells me she comes below on a daily basis to fulfill her much-loved host and also go over problems she is contending work.
The price for this slice of male attention is $487-650 (₤ 300-400) a day.
" Talking to good friends would certainly be cheaper" she admits, "yet they do not pay attention as much. They're hectic, as well as quickly to speak about themselves. Right here, individuals will take notice of me as well as they'll listen to me.".
" I invest a great deal of cash but it's worth it wherefore I get psychologically. Individuals pay to visit see a psychologist or psychiatrist, so it's comparable however less demanding.".
Nayu's much-loved host Sung-il claims it can be tough to keep his individual and also expert life separate.
" Honestly I 'd be lying if I say I haven't been lured to take points better with some consumers, because we're human, we're guys, but there are rules.".
One of his consumers yapped to her hubby concerning him as well as when the 3 of them fulfilled, Sung-il and also the husband became friends.
" No one hides - the workers don't conceal that they work right here, and also customers can be open too.".
This visibility is presenting a new kind of obstacle to South Korean culture, different from the occasionally sleazy abyss of typical host bars as well as their hinterland of male hooking.
By supplying women a "decent" way to challenge standard sex duties and flex their financial power, these new bars ask inquiries of Korean society that are coming to be tougher to overlook.
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The allure of host bars can be refined. Right here, she claims, she has more focus from her male companions, more choice as well as, crucially, even more control.
James has been working at Bar 123 for a couple of years. Rather, he informs me, it is all down to the host's very own analysis.
And also that's why I believed of opening a bar like this - a kind of dialogue bar.".