Fetish Survey

Fetish Survey
The types of fetishes are numerous and diverse. But whatever they may be, they have something in common, namely, the "object" the appeal is directed to. It can be anything - from a body part to an act of nature, from a sound to a social situation. People's preferences are purely individual, take this quiz and find out your fetish!

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What picture you may put as your phone's wallpaper?
If you come to a shopping mall, what place do you visit first?
Which of these photos is the most attractive one in your opinion?
What this picture does remind you of?
You see a person you don't know but like a lot. What does attract you?
What will you give your friend for his birthday?
What will you pay attention to on the first date?
Which of these photos is an artwork for you?
What do you think about this picture?

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What picture you may put as your phone's wallpaper?
If you come to a shopping mall, what place do you visit first?
I'll go to the first store and then to the fitting-room. I like trying everything.
To a store with fine bags or shoes. I like the smell of leather a lot
Which of these photos is the most attractive one in your opinion?
What this picture does remind you of?
You see a person you don't know but like a lot. What does attract you?
He's very nicely and stylishly dressed.
His look is cool, he has trendy accessories
What will you give your friend for his birthday?
What will you pay attention to on the first date?
To my reflection in the mirror. I should be sure I look good
Is it a leather jacket? Not bad. Aye, an expensive belt and watch. Great
Which of these photos is an artwork for you?
What do you think about this picture?
I've got a great figure, I should show it
Details are the most important - belt, gloves and so on
Everything fits me. Whatever I put on, I'm unmatched.
As a rule, the things related to the representatives of the opposite or same sex (depends on the orientation) become fetishes. The common men's fetishes are, for example, underwear, stockings, tights, shoes. Probably, even uniform. This kind of fetishism can be accompanied by putting on other person's clothes. Cisvetism - the desire to wear clothes that don't correspond to one's age or social status - can be also be added to this category.
Sometimes the parts of the human body, such as hair, feet and legs, are of particular interest for a fetishist. The body's structure features, appearance details, the human body's anomalies and the state of pregnancy can become fetishes. The photo of the objects under question can also be a fetish.
You can talk about physical fetishism when a person is sexually aroused by particular areas of the body, the characteristics of his/her partner. It can take a shape of narcissism (one's own body or its movements are the object of desire) or can be even more complex if a person identifies himself/herself with someone else. It's usually achieved by make-up or changing clothes. Besides, a person with different skin color or, for example, eyes color can be the object of interest.
This fetishism is often equated with retifism - a drive, which people may experience for the pieces made of a particular material. As a rule, retifists are attracted to latex or leather. Or, rather, belts, gloves and other wardrobe attributes. Retifists want their partner to stay with the thing that arouses them and treat it as a necessary component of passion.
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The types of fetishes are numerous and diverse. But whatever they may be, they have something in common, namely, the "object" the appeal is directed to. It can be anything - from a body part to an act of nature, from a sound to a social situation. People's preferences are purely individual, take this quiz and find out your fetish!

Display intro (title, cover, desctiption)

Display author, date and views count

What picture you may put as your phone's wallpaper?
If you come to a shopping mall, what place do you visit first?
Which of these photos is the most attractive one in your opinion?
What this picture does remind you of?
You see a person you don't know but like a lot. What does attract you?
What will you give your friend for his birthday?
What will you pay attention to on the first date?
Which of these photos is an artwork for you?
What do you think about this picture?

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What picture you may put as your phone's wallpaper?
If you come to a shopping mall, what place do you visit first?
I'll go to the first store and then to the fitting-room. I like trying everything.
To a store with fine bags or shoes. I like the smell of leather a lot
Which of these photos is the most attractive one in your opinion?
What this picture does remind you of?
You see a person you don't know but like a lot. What does attract you?
He's very nicely and stylishly dressed.
His look is cool, he has trendy accessories
What will you give your friend for his birthday?
What will you pay attention to on the first date?
To my reflection in the mirror. I should be sure I look good
Is it a leather jacket? Not bad. Aye, an expensive belt and watch. Great
Which of these photos is an artwork for you?
What do you think about this picture?
I've got a great figure, I should show it
Details are the most important - belt, gloves and so on
Everything fits me. Whatever I put on, I'm unmatched.
As a rule, the things related to the representatives of the opposite or same sex (depends on the orientation) become fetishes. The common men's fetishes are, for example, underwear, stockings, tights, shoes. Probably, even uniform. This kind of fetishism can be accompanied by putting on other person's clothes. Cisvetism - the desire to wear clothes that don't correspond to one's age or social status - can be also be added to this category.
Sometimes the parts of the human body, such as hair, feet and legs, are of particular interest for a fetishist. The body's structure features, appearance details, the human body's anomalies and the state of pregnancy can become fetishes. The photo of the objects under question can also be a fetish.
You can talk about physical fetishism when a person is sexually aroused by particular areas of the body, the characteristics of his/her partner. It can take a shape of narcissism (one's own body or its movements are the object of desire) or can be even more complex if a person identifies himself/herself with someone else. It's usually achieved by make-up or changing clothes. Besides, a person with different skin color or, for example, eyes color can be the object of interest.
This fetishism is often equated with retifism - a drive, which people may experience for the pieces made of a particular material. As a rule, retifists are attracted to latex or leather. Or, rather, belts, gloves and other wardrobe attributes. Retifists want their partner to stay with the thing that arouses them and treat it as a necessary component of passion.
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BDSM, age play, furries, and cuckolding... just to name a few.
So you like it when your partner spreads your limbs, ties you to the bedposts , and talks dirty to you. In case you were wondering, you're not alone: People are pretty kinky, according to the latest sex research.
There are lots of different kinks out there, and it can be tough to measure how common they are. But a 2017 study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that nearly 50% of the general population has tried some form of BDSM in their lives. ( Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism is hardly the kinkiest kink out there, but it's among the most common.)
While there isn't a general consensus on how often people engage in kinky activity , there is one for how often people fantasize about kinks. A lot of the fantasy research comes from Justin Lehmiller, PhD, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute. For his book, Tell Me What You Want (now available in paperback) , he surveyed 4,175 Americans aged 18-87 about their sexual fantasies, and found out exactly which kinks people are dreaming about the most.
Just because you fantasize about a certain kink, it doesn't mean you actually want to act on it, Lehmiller notes. “If a fantasy is non-consensual or poses an unacceptable risk of harm, it shouldn’t ever be acted on,” he explains. “Keep in mind that fantasy and reality are two different things, and some fantasies are best left as fantasies.”
Below, in his own words, Lehmiller spells out the most common kinks and fetishes he came across in his research.
Bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism (BDSM) is the most fantasized about kink. I found that 93% of men and 96% of women had fantasized about some aspect of BDSM before. BDSM obviously reflects a wide spectrum of behaviors, from mild to wild, and most people are at the more mild end, with fantasies about taking on dominant or submissive roles, tying up a partner or being tied up, and engaging in light sadomasochism (think spanking and biting) being the most common.
People are drawn to BDSM for multiple reasons. For some, it’s simply an escape from the confines of traditional gender roles. For others, it’s about an escape from self-awareness or exploring other sides of the self. For yet others, it’s about the appeal of the taboo, trying something new, or a craving for intense stimulation.
Fetish fantasies involve a focus on specific objects (like boots or stockings) or non-genital body parts (like feet or armpits). I found that 45% of my participants reported having had a fetish fantasy before, with men reporting more such fantasies than women.
The single most common fetish fantasy involved feet, with about 1 in 7 adults saying they’d had a fantasy before in which feet or toes played a significant role.
Psychologists believe that most fetishes are learned—through experience, we start to develop associations between certain objects/body parts and sexual arousal. However, there can also be a taboo element to them, as well as an overlap with BDSM, such as when someone fantasizes about another person stepping or walking all over them.
Many people reported fantasies in which specific body fluids played a big role. Unsurprisingly, male and female ejaculate were the most common, with a majority of men and women having fantasized about them before. However, other body fluids appeared with some frequency, too.
For example, 45% of men and 35% of women had fantasies involving spit, 31% of men and 14% of women had fantasies involving breast milk, 32% of men and 15% of women had fantasies involving urine, and 6% of men and 2% of women had fantasies involving feces.
In many of the fantasies involving body fluids, they were used in an act of dominance/submission, so that seems to be a big part of the appeal here.
Fantasies about watching someone else undress or have sex are very common. In fact, 60% of my participants reported having fantasized about this before, although men had more voyeurism fantasies than did women.
Voyeurism is appealing to many because we are very visual creatures when it comes to sex—it’s sort of like watching real-life porn. However, voyeurism fantasies often involve sneaking around, too, so part of the appeal might be the thrill of doing something you’re not supposed to.
A lot of people fantasize about putting on a show. Specifically, 42% of my participants reported having a fantasy about publicly exposing themselves or having sex in front of an audience. I distinguished between consensual and non-consensual exhibitionism in my survey, and the 42% figure refers to cases where there is a consenting audience.
About 10% of my participants had fantasized about the non-consensual form, such as when they flash a stranger or masturbate in public.
Consensual exhibitionism fantasies are likely driven by a few things—amping up the excitement by having spectators and knowing that other people find you attractive or sexy.
Non-consensual exhibitionism is a totally different thing—that’s often driven by a desire to shock or offend someone else.
Some of my participants fantasized about taking on different roles and ages. For example, 11% had fantasized about dressing up and/or acting as a child.
I found a lot of overlap between these fantasies and BDSM because they often involved themes of dominance/submission and/or humiliation, so these fantasies are often just a variant of deeper BDSM interests.
About 9% of my participants said they had fantasized about dressing up as an animal to have sex.
Furry fantasies were related to a broader tendency to change oneself in one’s sexual fantasies, which suggests that they might often be about psychological escape. Many of us become different people—and sometimes different creatures—in our fantasies because it provides an escape from self-awareness, allowing you to focus more on sex rather than yourself.
However, furry fantasies might also be appealing for some as a form of novelty and adventure.
A lot of cisgender people use their fantasies as a way of exploring their gender role and/or expression. For example, I found that about 1 in 4 cis persons had fantasized about cross-dressing, while about 1 in 3 had fantasized about trading bodies with someone of another sex.
These fantasies are sometimes about a desire to break free of traditional gender roles or to explore the self; however, there was also a lot of overlap with BDSM. For example, several men reported what they described as “forced feminization” fantasies, in which a partner “forces” them to dress as a woman.
Fantasies about watching your partner have sex with someone else are very common, especially among men. In fact, I found that 58% of men and 33% of women had fantasized about this before.
Cuckolding fantasies can be appealing for a number of reasons. For some, it’s about self-enhancement—knowing that other people find their partner to be hot actually boosts their self-esteem. For others, it’s about wanting to see their partner sexually satisfied—they take pleasure in their partner’s pleasure. And for yet others, there’s a BDSM element—in many of these fantasies, the watcher is taking on a submissive role and is sometimes humiliated in the process.
It turns out that a lot of people are into the idea of incorporating food with sex . About 40% of my participants had fantasized about this before.
Most commonly, this included things like ice cubes, strawberries, and whipped cream.
The appeal of mixing food and sex is partly about novelty, or the desire to try new and different things. But it’s also about adding new sensations, tastes, and textures.
However, there is sometimes also a fetishistic element to the use of food, and sometimes a BDSM element—foods are sometimes used in a dominant/submissive or humiliating way.

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