Fetish Desires
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Fetish Desires
Every Bedroom Fetish And Desire Explained
Why are some people into what they are into in the bedroom?
We’re going to take a look at every bedroom fetish and desire from the man’s point of view to find out exactly what he is getting from it.
You might be wondering “what about the woman, what does she get out of it?” well ultimately she gets the privilege of fully submitting to a competent man who knows what he is doing inside and outside of the bedroom.
All of this knowledge has been gathered from working with 100’s of clients in helping them to open up their lovers in the bedroom.
Before we begin, we need to first understand this question…
What is a fetish and what is a desire?
They are both pretty much the same thing, but a desire would be something that is widely accepted by most people. Whereas a fetish would be something accepted by much fewer people.
But there is nothing wrong with fetishes at all, as you will see. And if you ever label a fetish as bad, wrong or evil, then you will simply never get to experience that activity for yourself as you’ll push it away.
There is one level above fetish and that involves things that 99.9% of people would consider as illegal or deeply wrong and harmful to others. These activities should be considered off limits as they involve hurting or coercing others to do things that could put their physical or mental health at great risk.
Now let’s get into the list of fetishes and desires and see why they are appealing to men and what benefits they can bring to your relationship:
Bedroom Desire #1 - Having More Sex
Most men want to have more sex as they are only doing it once or twice per month. They want the right balance between quality and quantity and they want to connect more with their lover in a physical way.
This is the most simple and the most common bedroom desire for men.
Bedroom Desire #2 - Having More Enthusiastic Sex
This is the 2nd most common bedroom desire for men because when they do have sex with their lover, they feel it is lackluster or that she is holding back. They want her full enthusiasm because that is a sign that she fully respects and desires him.
They want to be their lover’s prized possession.
Bedroom Desire #3 - Having Rough Sex
Men desire this because it is about fully stepping into their masculine role as their lover fully steps into her feminine role. Basically, it makes the man feel manly and is a very fun way for him to let out his aggression and unused testosterone.
It’s deeply bonding and balances out their more “vanilla” sex.
Bedroom Fetish #4 - Having Anal Sex
This is technically a fetish as it’s not super common and it’s not “natural” or needed… but it is incredibly bonding and dominating. Men desire this because it symbolises their lover fully submitting to them.
This symbolism can only happen with “pointless” or “unnatural” bedroom activities, as it allows the woman to go above and beyond what is expected of her.
Bedroom Desire #5 - Deepthroat Blowjobs
If a woman is willing to give you a blowjob, she should also be willing to deepthroat your penis. Men crave this because it shows her enthusiasm for both him and the blowjob. The man wants to see his lover very much into what she is doing.
Men also love the craziness of being able to choke his lover with his penis, it’s a kind of compliment for him.
Bedroom Fetish #6 - Having The Woman Wear A Collar
This symbolises ownership in a very literal way, which makes it so appealing to men, because they like very overt symbols of their dominance and a collar can’t be ignored. It is also very “humiliating” for the woman to wear a collar to show her obedience and willingness to do whatever he says.
Bedroom Fetish #7 - Using A Variety Of Sex Toys
Toys aren’t essential in the bedroom, but they are a super fun way to “humiliate” your lover and make her look “silly”. Men love these because when the woman is open to using them, it symbolises her sexual openess which then symbolises her eagerness for him.
Sex toys include everything from butt plugs, to dildos, to anal hooks and vibrating wands.
Bedroom Desire #8 - Having The Woman Wear More And Better Lingerie
Men love this because they know that lingerie isn’t practical or super comfortable and it presents the woman as very vulnerable. All things that make wearing lingerie super submissive.
Lingerie isn’t technically essential, but it almost is, and your lover should be willing to wear at least the basics.
Bedroom Desire #9 - Swallowing Your Semen
This isn’t a fetish, this is something that should be very normal if you aren’t trying to make a baby. Men love this because it shows the woman’s devotion to him. Semen isn’t always the most palatable, so for his lover to swallow this often and eagerly, shows him that she is deeply into things.
Of course, men love it even more when their lover begs for this and says thank you afterwards.
Bedroom Desire #10 - Having The Woman Talk Dirty To Him
Men love this because it is another direct expression of their lover’s sexuality. Men love directness and don’t really get hints, so to have their lover just say it all out loud is a massive turn on for them.
This will send the woman into a sexual frenzy too, as she admits to what is happening and how she is feeling out loud for her man to hear.
Bedroom Fetish #11 - Mid Sex Blowjobs
Men love it when their lover is willing to suck their penis after it has been inside of her. This is because it shows that she has minimal or no sexual limits, which then shows him that she is very eager for him. Women with sexual limits only have them for men they aren’t totally into.
This will really show you how much your lover is in a sexual haze and not even thinking about hygiene.
Bedroom Desire #12 - Restraining Your Lover
Men love this because it is basically the woman indirectly saying “do whatever you want to me because I can’t stop you”. When a man’s lover is open to being restrained with ropes or cuffs, she is fully submitting to him.
Submission is the biggest turn on for men because it is the complete opposite of masculinity.
Bedroom Desire #13 - Handling Your Lover Roughly
Men love slapping, choking and manhandling because it is a safe and healthy way for him to express his more animalistic side. And it’s extremely dominant and controlling. For his lover to be open to this, he must be seen as a super confident and sexually competant man by her.
Like with all things on this list, the craziest stuff must be built up to overtime. You should never make your lover dive in at the deep end.
Bedroom Desire #14 - Pulling Your Lover’s Hair
Women are very protective of their hair and would only let somebody pull it who they thought were a million times “better” than they are. So men love this because deep down it implies that the woman looks up to him. She is open to him doing something very disrespectful and risky to her, which makes it very submissive for her.
Bedroom Fetish #15 - Spitting On The Woman
Men love this because it is messy and very “humiliating”. When something is “humiliating” for the woman it is also extremely submissive for her, yet extremely dominant for her man to be carrying out. When a woman is open to this, she is open to the majority of things.
This doesn’t have to be cheesy in any way and the acting can be minimal, but what matters is that you use made up characters to do things that the real you (both of you) wouldn’t do. Men love this because it’s a simple way to open up their lover to new things in a playful and light hearted way.
Bedroom Desire #17 - Having Sex In Public
Men enjoy this because it is risky and mostly illegal (depending on where you do it) so it shows him that his lover really trusts him to be able to handle that kind of responsibility and risk. When a woman turns a man down for this it’s because she wouldn’t feel safe with him if something went wrong.
Bedroom Desire #18 - Having The Woman Dress More Feminine
This is something that happens outside of the bedroom and is then reflected inside of the bedroom later in the form of more passionate sex. Men love a femininely dressed woman because it makes him look even more masculine to be around her, which makes him feel even more masculine. The energies feed each other and create more sexual tension.
Bedroom Desire #19 - Having The Woman Call Him Sir, Master Or Daddy
Men love this because it is a deep sign of respect to address someone by a superior title. These kind of titles are also associated with dom-sub sex which reinforces the those kind of ideas when she uses your chosen title.
It makes the woman feel extremely polite and obedient when she does this.
Bedroom Fetish #20 - Making The Woman Comfortable With You Taking Other Lovers
Men love one sided “open relationships” because it allows them to connect sexually with other women, without having to be a sneaky cheat. Men who sneakily cheat ruin the sexual polarity of their main relationship because they appear to be out of control. But men who cheat openly (but discreetly) are extremely in control of all of their relationships.
Of course this is quite a taboo topic amongst most people, but some of you will understand it.
Bedroom Desire #21 - Having The Woman Give Wetter Blowjobs
Men love very wet blowjobs because it shows him that his lover is eager and willing for him. It’s almost like she is drooling over the thought of her favourite meal… which is him! Not only does this make blowjobs feel better, but it makes them more polarity boosting too.
Wetter blowjobs may seem insignificant, but they symbolise so much.
Bedroom Desire #22 - Getting The Woman To Scream More During Sex
This is another sign to the man that the woman is having a very good time and feels open and comfortable enough to scream around him. So the reason that porn actresses are instructed to do all of that fake screaming is to make things seem more exciting and to give the impression that she deeply desires the other actor. Well this works in real life too.
Bedroom Fetish #23 - Having The Woman Lick Up His Semen Off A Surface
This is a fetish because it’s “unessential” but when a woman behaves like this, the man is not going to get bored of her level of craziness anytime soon. Men love this because the woman is going above and beyond what is expected of her. It shows him that she is crazy about him and will do almost anything at all for him.
Bedroom Fetish #24 - Having A MFF Threesome
Men love this because they want to show themselves and their lover that they can handle 2 or more women at once. It makes them feel very desired and masculine. Whereas a MMF threesome can leave the men feeling not so good as they have to share 1 woman, rather than have 2 to themselves. It’s all very subtle but very important to know.
Bedroom Fetish #25 - Having Her Lick His Bum
Men sometimes don’t like to admit that they like this because they think it makes them look homosexual or curious. But this is almost never the reason why men like it, instead it’s about “humiliating” their lover and testing their obedience. It’s a crazy activity that isn’t essential to good sex at all, so when the woman does it, she is showing how willing and eager she is to serve her man.
Bedroom Desire #26 - Doing Things “Without Permission”
Just to clarify, ALL sex must involve permission and consent, but that permission and consent is often given non-verbally and sometimes a couple can pretend there isn’t any during certain kinds of roleplay.
Men love this because it makes them feel dangerously powerful and dominant, and women love this because it makes them feel extremely submissive and subservient to the man. It’s actually the most dominant-submissive activity you can enjoy, but you have to know what you are doing to begin something like this with your lover.
Men love doing this because it is about stretching their lover’s limits both literally and figuratively. They want to see how far their lover will go just to please them. It’s also an extremely dominant activity and think about how submissive a woman has to be to be open to this!
And again, this must be carried out smoothly by a man who knows how to introduce it.
Bedroom Desire #28 - Having The Woman Send Nude Photos
Men love this because it is the woman showing her submissiveness and passion from a distance. It lets the man feel like he is always on her mind and that she would risk sending vulnerable images on the internet just for his own pleasure.
This activity is underrated for how much of a polarity boost this will give your relationship.
Bedroom Desire #29 - Having The Woman Play With Herself In Front Of Him
Men like this because it shows how obedient and submissive their lover is for doing something so intimate and private right in front of him. It’s all about the woman’s complete vulnerability. It shows him that she trusts him enough to put herself in a position to be judged and checked out by him.
Bedroom Fetish #30 - Having The Woman Prepare And Clean For Anal Sex
This shows the man that she loves anal sex and wants to do an even better job at it by preparing for it. Men also love that when a woman does this, the sex can safely last for longer and he knows that she is 100% into it.
Bedroom Desire #31 - The Woman Having A “Squirting Orgasm”
Men love this because it’s a strong sign that she loves the sex and him. It also shows the man that she is very open minded and comfortable around him, as many women can “squirt” but try to hold it in for fear of their lover judging them.
Bedroom Desire #32 - Getting A Strip Tease/Dance From The Woman
Men love this because it shows them that they have a sexually confident lover who is eager to please them and “humiliate” themselves in the process. Men also prefer this when their lover is shy doing this at first, which tells him she has never done it before and it’s special for him.
Bedroom Fetish #33 - Golden Showers
This is certainly not for every man, but for those men who enjoy giving their lover these, it’s about extreme “humiliation” and submission. This activity is so crazy that it tells the man that she will do literally anything with him. When the woman is open to golden showers, she is saying that she wants to be used by her man whichever way he sees fit.
Bedroom Desire #34 - Having Her Wear A Ball Gag
Men crave this because it prevents their lover from being able to verbally turn something down, so when she is open to wearing a ball gag, she is open to being helpless. The more “helpless” a woman is, the more submissive she is.
And one other thing, men love how the ball gag makes her drool everywhere, this just adds to the craziness!
What About Men’s Non-Sexual Desires?
Men love certain behaviours from women outside of the bedroom too, so we’ll look into those now…
Relationship Desire #1 - Having Her Clean The House
Men love this because it frees up much of their time and energy so that they can focus on their “man jobs” more. This is one of the ways you become an elite couple, by sticking to your natural roles.
It also shows the man that she cares and is willing to make the effort.
Relationship Desire #2 - Having Her Cook The Meals
Yes, some men are great cooks and enjoy cooking, but many don’t and would rather leave this caring and nurturing role to their lover. This also frees up more of his time and energy to focus on his “man jobs” again.
Men find a woman in the kitchen very attractive, which is why the stereotype is so eternal and well known.
Relationship Desire #3 - Have The Woman Ask Him For Permission To Go Out
Men love being asked permission by their lover to do things because it is such a HUGE sign of respect for him. He doesn’t want to rule her with an iron fist, but he really appreciates her politeness and obedience, because it makes him look and feel good.
The man will very rarely deny her permission, it’s more about her asking him than him denying it.
Relationship Desire #4 - Having Her Obey Boundaries
Men love this because it shows him that he doesn’t even need to tell her to obey verbally, she knows the rules and happily obeys them. This isn’t solely about the man’s power, it is more about the woman showing her respect for his word and leadership. She knows that he knows best for her.
Relationship Desire #5 - Having Her Get An Ownership Tattoo
This isn’t for every man either, but for those who enjoy it, this is about the woman permanently marking her body for him. It is a mark that will last the rest of her life and although it can be edited or faded, it will never truly leave her. And he will never truly leave her head either. This is about a man’s total ownership and possession.
Relationship Desire #6 - Having Her Become Polite And “Docile”
This is a little bit like the Japanese Geishas and how they make themselves totally helpless and “weak” around their much stronger man. By making themselves “weak” they make the man look and feel even stronger, which skyrockets the sexual polarity. This is why men want this.
They don’t want an actual weak woman, they want a “weak” woman.
Relationship Desire #7 - Having Her Stay In Shape And Flexible For Him
Men love this because it keeps them very attracted to her and it makes him look like he is fully in control of her and a good leader. It’s a sign that she respects herself and her man as much as possible.
And the flexible part amazes him in the bedroom, he loves to see it.
Relationship Desire #8 - Having Her Become Very Needy For Him
Men enjoy a clingy lover (so long as they are sane) because it’s the ultimate sign of desire and obedience. Men want to be the “least interested” in the relationship so that it’s the woman chasing him and making him feel like the ultimate prize. This keeps the sexual polarity very strong.
Relationship Desire #9 - Having Her Quit Her Job To Depend On Him
Men want to be the breadwinner because it is a “man job” and they feel wrong if they are not. They also really want a lover who is fully dependent on them as it gives them more control in the relationship and it creates the right kind of sexual polarity.
This is also getting harder and harder to achieve, so it is becoming a status symbol of its own.
Relationship Desire #10 - Have Her Delete Her Social Media Accounts
Men love this because it is a strong sign that she wants to be loyal to him and she wants her best attention focused on him, instead of getting likes from other people. Men don’t want to bluntly force her to delete them, but they want to smoothly help her break her addiction and put down her phone.
Relationship Desire #11 - Having Her Become His Sidekick/Helper In Life Or Business
This is the ultimate goal for men because they want to build a family team and be really successful. They don’t want drama, they want cooperation, submission and loyalty. This brings out the best in men and it makes all of their friends jealous when they see how great of a lover they have and how they have a shared vision for their lives.
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