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Quick and simple guides to help turn that selfish and controlling man into a loving affectionate slave
Training his mind is just as important as his body. He will need encouragement. Constantly remind him how he's given himself to you and how you cherish the sacrifice -- but he needs this training to really become yours. Associating arousal with pain and frustration is vital.
There are some things that are mandatory tools to train your mate. These fall into the core categories below. These are the things that truly get into your mates psyche and allows you to dominate them thus making them into a more affectionate and living thing. There are other things that we can do just to push the boundaries of our control, although these are not necessarily they can help reinforce the dominance and at the very least could bring enjoyment and pleasure to you. The fall under the auxiliary category. I will give a brief break down in the next couple chapters of why each is important along with some suggestions for the activities.
This is one of the most intimate forms of dominance. Penetrating your mans arse encompasses many of the core values of this guide; dominance, humiliations, affection, pain, submission and more.
Although there is many stimulating parts of pegging that your man will enjoy it may be hard for him to accept at first. This is where your dominance comes out. It won't be comfortable for him at first, after all you have to break down all those societal taboos. If done right though he will begin to crave it as a sign of your dominance and he will even enjoy it.
To not fall into the trap of being a Dom solely for his pleasure though this is where you will need to change up the size and width of the strap-on at times to continue to cause some pain just to make sure he knows your in charge. Forcing him to suck the strap on before taking his arse is another way to take some of the fun out of things for him and show your dominance.
Below is some suggested scenarios. These often work well will bondage and ties because it creates a form of helplessness that reinforces your control of the situation.
- Gently fucking his arse with a small dildo
- Combining pegging with verbal domination (whose arse is this)
- Fast pace and deep fucking his arse
- Not tying him down with as many ties
- Have him suck the dildo before fucking his arse
- Have him put on your strap for you
- Have him hold his own ass open on demand while you fuck his arse
- Tell him to get on his knees and suck your strap
- Randomly tell him to bend over and fuck his arse
- Have him jerk off while fucking his arse
- Force him to cum without touching his dick just by fucking his arse
On the surface your love's semen can seem like an annoyance. It's messy, it tastes bad, and it stains linens. But actually it is a great tool for training & dominating him. The most common way to use it is to force him to eat it. Normally after a man ejaculates he wants to just relax and not think. He wants nothing to do with sex for a while nor does he have much of a desire to please and listen. So having him deal with his cum after an orgasm is something unnatural to him. He absolutely won't want to do it. Therefore, it will require your firm command and his submission. This is great training since he will be doing many more "unnatural" things later.
It may take a couple weeks, but when he can swallow his entire load you will know that you truly have dominated your man. Here are some quick suggested scenarios.
- Take A dab of his cum and make him taste it
- Kiss him with his cum on your lips
- Scoop cum into your hand and force it into his mouth
- Take his cum in your palm and rub it in his face
- If he cums in your pussy or ass make him eat the creampie
* Punish him if he doesn't obey(see level 2 also again)
- If he's wearing a condom, pour its contents into his mouth.
- Tie his legs above his head and make him cum in his own mouth
- Put his cum in the freezer into ice cubes and than have fun (tell him he can either have it melt in his mouth or ass
- Have him cum on your strap on and make him suck it clean
- Make him cum in a glass then drink it
This is a lesson of your domination and his respect of you. He will NOT want to do this, but he will on your command. Demand it! As he is doing it, enjoy it. Make this a positive event, and FROM THIS POINT FORWARD YOU MAKE HIM EAT HIS CUM.
Like other categories, this is a critical one to complete domination and will help train him to be more open to other activities like water sports.
All of the other core activities incorporate this core item as well. We have made it a separate category though because it deserves extra attention. To properly break your mate and get deep into their psych.
The various levels will also open up your chance for other parts of training. Such has having your mate clean your pussy after peeing will ultimately open them up to water sports. You won't need to fully experiment with full out water sports but should at least push some boundaries to fully train your mate.
- Calling your mate names (bitch,pet,sub,slave, etc)
- Having you mate sign a sub contract
- Write names on slaves private parts (your name, degrading works like slave, bitch, etc)
- Make your mate send you pictures of ideas of punishment for you to perform
- Have you mate crawl around with you on their back
- Take pictures of your mate in compromising positions
- Spit in your mates mouth and face
- Put mate in humbler and crawl to you
- Have your mate accompany you to the bathroom and lick you clean after pissing
- Have ur mate wear an anal plug for hours while running errands
A crucial part of breaking your partner is making sure they are gaining to much please. Denial and edging is a great way to increase focus on you and prolong the session. Adding a chastity cage to the session not only assists in the psychology of breaking your mate down but also forces their body to focus on whatever torment you choose to inflict. Also the cage allows u to hook a lease to your mates cock and have other fun with it.
There aren't recommended stages such as the other core sections but here are some ideas:
- Repeatedly getting your mate aroused than using ice to force them soft
- Locking your mate in chastity until they are broken.
- Teasing your mate by licking them while they are in a humbler or other form of torture
Punishment is the aspect that goes thru all the core categories. Here we will touch on some popular punishments that we haven't already discussed above. Combing multiple punishments are particularly effective.
- wax play (drip wax while your mate is tied down or while pegging)
- Clothes pins (attach them to you mates balls and body )
- Whipping, spanking, flogging & smacking (balls, cock, ass face or any other place desired)
- Using icy hot on testicals & anus
The act of peeing on your mate can be thrilling and give a huge sense of power because it breaks social norms, humiliates and dominates at the same time. While not necessary to break your make could be a good addition and an extreme fetish for some. Here are some ideas:
- start by peeing on your mate in the shower
- Make them knee and kiss knowing you are about to pee on them
- Hold their flaccid penis then tell ghem to start peeing. If their cock starts to harden with your touch, have them stop peeing until they are fully erect, then lie them on their back while holding their cock and direct the urine on their chest and face.
Some enjoy stripping their mate of their manhood entirely. Forcing you man into wings, dresses and heels. This is also a common fetish.
- try starting forcing your mate wear panties in public
Long term chastity is a good way of keeping your mates mind on you. For health reasons (if that matters) it is usually only suggested for those living together. Start off the program with a couple days than weeks and so on.
- The male sub is to put on a dry condom and proceed to cum into the dry condom. Put cum filled condom on dildo or strap on being careful not to spill a drop, poke small hole in tip of
- condom and proceed to face fuck male sub forcing him to suck and eat out all cum, when all cum is sucked out, sub is to remove condom licking clean both condom and cock clean.
- The male sub is to participate in various training exercises during the year including but not limited to; ball stretching, cuckold and femdom hypnosis, ass dialation exercises, kneeling and begging position classes, blowjob and cum consumption lessons, humiliation and pain training, cuckolding as well as other various physical and mental conditioning exercises to learn to bring more pleasure and pay homage to Mistress.
Being handcuffed to the kitchen pole naked for up to 30 minutes while she gets to relax watching favorite shows and sipping wine
Being forced to wear cock cage and a g string to work. Photos may be requested to ensure compliance
Writing on bitch's chest with lipstick or eye pencil. Derogatory names, such as bitch, cumslut, useless cunt & fuck face can be employed.
Being pissed on and made to clean up the mess afterwards. Bitch must also lick her pussy clean and dry after urination.
Forced to wear a dog collar while the bitch licks her pussy to orgasm. Her cleanliness will not factor in to pussy eating. He will then be disdainfully pushed away to concentrate on massaging her feet.
Made to cum on own face. Queen will jerk off disobedient husband and ruin his orgasm.
Made to cum on her feet and clean it up. Bitch must lick up and swallow every drop of filthy cum
Dismissed naked to the annex wearing face dildo. He will spend 30 minutes thinking of ways to improve whilst spanking himself.
Hog tied and left naked on couch. Queen will use this quiet time for activities that amuse her.
Spanking of ass, back and penis for minor infractions. Verbal humiliation will be communicated during training time.
My wife and I have begun this. Here's her rules (probably quite tame as beginners)
1. Husband must do all house chores completely NAKED at all times. No clothing may be permitted without asking Queen first. Husband must be QUICK and not fluff or dither around.
2. If husband is not caged, he MUST present a hard cock for Queen before asking permission to enter caravan. Husband must NOT touch himself to achieve hard cock. Failure within one minute to become erect will result in punishment.
3. Husband MUST satisfy Queen's pussy orally whenever and wherever she desires. Husband must eat her pussy and cum without question or complaint, and bring her to orgasm.
4. Husband may only be permitted to orgasm ONCE for every THREE times his Queen does, pending her decision. Queen's satisfaction must always come BEFORE that of his own. Moaning, complaining or sulking will result in extra days locked in cock cage or other punishment.
5. Husband is required to massage Queen's feet, back, neck, shoulders, arms, hands or wherever else she desires naked EACH DAY for no less than 20 minutes. Failure to complete fully alotted time will be punished at her discretion.
6. Husband must present himself naked in a high state of cleanliness EACH night before bedtime. Teeth and hair brushed, body clean - especially the penis, nails cut short, for her to inspect. Penis MUST be erect during inspection for her satisfaction. If body is unshowered or dirty, he will sleep naked on the couch.
7. Husband is forbidden to groom or manscape pubic hair around penis and balls without permission from Queen.
8. Whenever Queen is not present, dick MUST remain locked away in chastity. Husband is not to attempt to pleasure himself in any way or try to remove the cock cage. If so, he will be severely punished by the Queen. This could result in extra days being locked away in chastity device, among other things.
9. Husband MUST perform one small romantic gesture per day for Queen and one big gesture per week. Demonstrating his love and devotion to Queen is a must.
10. Husband gives full control to Queen of his cock. This is now hers, and hers alone, to enjoy at her discretion, and must be erect, clean and ready for her to enjoy. Premature ejaculation will result in clean up and punishment. Husband is NEVER to moan or whinge that his favorite toy is no longer his to play with.
I wanted my boyfriend to serve me more (he enjoys me being dominant). This gave me many great ideas, and he’s more affectionate & submissive then ever.
I would add making him suck your toes, give you oral every day helps institute that you are the focus.
What if the guy doesnt want to be femdom trained?
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This is an ‘everything you need to know’ training guide for people who want to submit to female domination and to also give you female dominants some amazingly cruel ways to train your sub into the perfect little obeyer.
In this guide you’re going to find EVERYTHING there is to know about femdom training, whether you’re the dom or the sub reading this or you are reading it both together it’s going to give you female domination insight, answer your questions, and leave you educated and very well informed on what it means to practice the femdom kink as a dom or as a sub. As always, if you have any questions feel free to leave them down below and I will get back to you instantly! ❤
It’s to teach you how to train your sub, how to embrace this kink, and how to find the parts of this kink that work for both you and your partner.
This is a guide for people just starting out and for the seasoned femdom queen and her well-rehearsed sub. You can read this from both sides, as a sub who wants to try this stuff alone or show his dom what he likes and as a dom who wants to find out how to blow their subs mind and assert their dominance.
This guide starts with the basics and evolves into the hardcore side of femdom, the important thing is that you take what you need from it and make it work for your dom/sub relationship. Every female dominant is different but when it comes to playing with my sub, the core of my femdom training is the following:
Femdom involves a lot of different things, some guys don’t enjoy everything, so the above are a must for me but the pointers you will find below are something I work in when it feels right. Which is usually most of the time:
This is a master guide to femdom training for doms and submissives alike.
What This Took To Make: I created this femdom training guide and it took over 50 hours to put everything together, I’m super passionate about this subject. I hope you can see. It’s completely free, if you enjoyed it then please let me know in the comments.
This kink has so many angles you don’t have to like it all, I want you to find what excites you and your sub/dom and roll with that, so if you aren’t into sissifying, chastity, and fisting, don’t fear, just skip to the next part and find what you do like and most importantly what turns you on too.
This is needed as this really is a master guide with everything you need to know to enjoy and become comfortable and more confident with this kink, even if you are history, this guide will fill you with pointers, fresh ideas, and lots to take away.
This is where all femdom relationships should start and so let’s kick things off with the beauty of a femdom contract.
You can either start your contract mentally (lay down your rules, wants, and desires) or a better option is to do this with a pen, paper, and clear rules. I’ve been super kind and decided to make a printable/online document that you can download and send to your slave or dom for them to fill in.
You can pick what you enjoy, what you might want to try, and then sign your sexual freedom away.
Disclosure: These contracts are for novelty and for educational use and are not actually legally binding. Just for fun and to add a little spice into the bedroom as you both take on your sub and dom roles seriously.
After the contract is signed it’s a good time to get yourself a collar, this is like a wedding ring or the bdsm and kink world to the sub from the dom.
This is worn in private, at lifestyle and pride clubs and events to show everyone you’re owned. Some take it a step further and wear an anklet, a chain around their neck, or a ring to symbolize this relationship, as you can wear it in public, every, single, day and others just keep the collar worn in the bedroom, whatever works best for you and your dynamic.
Everyone is different, before you do anything know the role you play and what role you expect from the other. This isn’t something I can show you, this is something that you know deep down.
Subs Role: Your role is to give yourself completely to your dom, submit, embrace, love deeply and be only hers (or his). It doesn’t matter if she isn’t your partner, you give her every part of yourself and obey your doms commands wholeheartedly. Let your dom know your limits, your safe word, and what you expect to really get things off to a clear and respectful start.
Dom’s role: As a dom, it’s up to you to define your role. Are you strict, forceful, highly strung, waiting for a mistake, or are you loving, wanting to deeply own your sub, wanting them to surrender and give everything to you? or, are you a switch, do you want to fuck his cute ass until it’s raw and then the next day have him fuck you to the point you can barely walk for a few days?
Find out what you are and what you enjoy and that will help you fulfill your role.
Remember to discuss your roles, communicate clearly and ensure you are both on the same page with what you want in the bedroom, and always have a safe word.
It’s a good idea for us to start right at the beginning of this guide with something very important. I am not talking about communicating your wants and needs, which happened earlier on in this guide, I am talking about now how to actually communicate to your submissive or you’re female dominant in a way that they understand in the bedroom.
There’s a way to speak to doms and subs, the keywords, triggers, and compliments are usually the first part of the training and this is the first thing you’re going to learn.
How to talk to your subby partner: They must learn to only speak when spoken to, treat them as less important as you, use diminutive language when speaking to them, ensure they use your chosen name (eg mistress), speak clearly to your sub with no room for confusion.
How to talk to your female dom: Address her as your superior in her chosen name (eg queen), speak only when spoken to, don’t forget your manners, and raise your hand to speak.
Harsh Dirty Talk: If you are a gentle dom this won’t apply to you but if you like to get a little nasty don’t forget to talk to your sub with harsh dirty talk, here are just some of my favorite words and phrases:
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