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Ceremony Ideas For Your Official Collaring
A collaring ceremony can be a symbolic gathering between two or more people and a group of friends to honor a commitment. It’s often compared to a wedding in that it involves a kind of jewelry and vows, except instead of a ring placed on the bride and groom’s finger, it’s a collar placed around the submissive’s neck. Another difference between a wedding and a collaring is that a collaring ceremony does not have to have one male groom and one female bride. It can be a ceremony between any number of people in a relationship with any expression of gender. A collaring ceremony is also usually somewhat kinkier, since it’s used most often by those in the BDSM lifestyle. Collaring ceremonies are not nearly as bound by tradition as weddings are. Each collaring is unique to the people taking part and can be completely different those that have come before it. Those planning the ceremonies are free to shape their ceremony into whatever they want. But to some ceremony planners, all that freedom without any set guidelines can be daunting. There’s an overwhelming amount of ideas for weddings, but the information available for how to plan a collaring ceremony is much more limited. Where do you start? Here are some things to keep in mind while planning: The Mood & Theme Nature, fairies, Star Wars, Happy Potter, steam punk, Mad Max, traditional wedding – any of these would make for a memorable party. Want the mood darker, kinkier? Leather, dungeons, whips and chains would make for some appropriately inappropriate decor. And no matter what the mood or theme, no ceremony would be complete without music and candles. Make a playlist of songs that are meaningful to your relationship, and light a few candles in a color that compliments the other decorations. Guests Who do you want to be the witnesses of your ceremony? Do you want to be surrounded by friends and family? Supported by members of your close community in the lifestyle? Or keep it very private - an intimate date only between the people who are exchanging the vows? Having the ceremony be between just those exchanging vows can be just as meaningful as a large gathering. Be sure to send out invitations! Save the trees and keep it green by sending customized evites from sites like Punchbowl.com . For something you can hold and keep, print invitations on anything from paper, to metal, photos, cloth, even glass at a handmade invitation design studio like Karenbartolomei.com/ . (Because who wouldn’t want to see a BDSM-themed pop-up invitation?) Location Having a ceremony at home is a big win for those looking for something intimate and low budget, especially if they have a dedicated room for the lifestyle. A yard or garden for an outdoor celebration is another popular location for ceremonies where being together in nature is a must – weather permitting. If you have it at a public to semi-public location, make sure to check with the location’s policies well beforehand. Discuss your options and plans with the location or event manager. Being honest about what you’re looking for in the ceremony or ritual will allow them to bring your plans to fruition. Don’t be too shy when discussing your ceremony with them. Some locations might have specific areas or times of the day that they’ll be more open to public displays of alternative lifestyles. Even the more lifestyle-friendly venues might have policies regarding BDSM and nudity. If you’re serving alcohol or if children will be present, discuss this with the event or location managers well beforehand, and get their answers and policies in writing if possible. Attire The Collar The real centerpiece of a wedding ceremony is the ring – so the collar is the most important part of the collaring ceremony. Which one is right for your relationship? Despite what they’re used to wearing for play or out in public, for a collaring ceremony most people want a new collar that symbolizes their eternal devotion. They typically want one that can be worn day or night, in public or at play, that works well in vanilla setting or lifestyle parties, just like a wedding ring. If the submissive already has a collar, sometimes a simple upgrade is needed to a newer design or finish. Or course, not all collaring ceremonies necessarily need a collar or necklace. Locking bracelet cuffs or anklets are perfect for many relationship types. An engraved pendant is a great compliment to a locking collar. Ceremony or anniversary dates are popular engravings, as well as affectionate pet names. Clothes What are you wearing to your ceremony? What would make both the Dom and the sub feel beautiful and connected? You don’t need to be constrained by black tuxes and white dresses – though if that’s what you’re looking for, by all means, go for it. Keep the theme of the collaring ceremony in mind. Some ceremonies call for costumes; Robes are great for a Druidic ritual feeling, for instance. BDSM-wear, leather, or latex befits many a fine kinky ceremony. And hey, nudity works great for many folks. The Dom, sub, both, or everybody at the ceremony can be sky clad if that’s what suits the nature of the party. Officiant The officiant has a place of honor. They’re the MC of the whole party. You can ask a friend or someone in the lifestyle to lead the ceremony. Some ceremonies only require the Dominant to do all the speaking, so an outside officiant isn’t necessary. In certain cases where the sub or subs are not speaking, an assistant can speak on behalf of the sub. This is the case in the ceremony between Ms Siren and boy john , where they use an assistant to speak for boy john and Ms Siren leads the vows instead of an officiant. Words Writing vows can be one of the harder, more personal tasks of any ceremony. These vows can be highly structured, full of high-minded speech and quotes. OffbeatBride.com offers “ My Vanilla, Polyamorous collaring ceremony ,” complete with Bible quotes and vows between the Dominant and the submissive. The vows could be simpler; a short speech where the Dom commits to protect and own the sub, and the sub promises to obey and be owned by their master. Though it’s riskier since it involves being put on the spot, but if they both have a knack for improv they could also just speak from the heart with nothing made up beforehand. The words might even be something written and signed together, like a contract. Contracts are desirable for some in the lifestyle because the provide written guidelines for all parties involved. Though some are not legally binding, it adds to the permanence for some relationships and clarifies grey areas. Collaredgirls.com discusses the importance of a contract within a 24/7 BDSM relationship. If you're interested in a more general BDSM contract , try the DominantGuide.com . Whatever contract you use, be sure to go over the terms with everyone involved well before the ceremony to make sure all parties agree and have time to discuss edits. Ritual The ritual is the procession of the ceremony from beginning to end. It can reflect you as a couple often at the same level of ritual as you have in your relationship. It could be simple, such as just placing the collar on the neck, locking it, and exchanging a few words. Or it could be highly structured and ceremonious, like this detailed breakdown of a collaring by DominantGuide.com: “Take bowl from slave and give slave goblet with lit votive candle in it, take incense stick or smudge stick and light it on the candle, take large feather and direct the smoke toward the slave, make sure to start at the feet and work your way up the body, try and cover all parts of the body with the smoke.” Reception This is your time to sit back and enjoy the party! It could just the those involved in the ceremony sitting back with a glass of wine to enjoy each other’s company. The reception could be a play party full of BDSM and kinky fun time (this is another time where checking with the location’s policies become very important). Or it could be leaving the ceremony altogether and going out to a bar or restaurant. No matter what you theme is or how many guests are there, collaring ceremonies are only about the people collaring and those being collared. The most important thing to plan for is that at the end of the day they feel content and connected to each other.
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The 10 For The Mistress Of The Household
It incorporates a physical component in the form of ten strokes applied to the husbands backside daily for six days each week.
The seventh day is left open as a day of rest, if he has performed well during the week and is making satisfactory progress, as judged by the wife. If this is not the case, the seventh day is reserved for more aggressive training in the form of the 10×6 (‘ten by six’). More on that later.
This is a daily reinforcement and indoctrination, not a spanking fantasy. It is not meant to be ‘play’, or part of foreplay. Ideally there is no ‘happy ending’, especially not to the man. As a matter of fact, it might be well for her to consider including orgasm control for him for the duration.
These ten statements to be recited daily, one after the each stroke applied by the woman, should be loud and clear, and ring truthful to the woman’s ear as evidence of his loving compliance and submission.
It should be carried out at the same time each day and should be ritualized to include step-by-step disrobing, positioning, implement selection and brief, private words that daily reaffirm their respective roles as controlling and submitting.
At the start, the woman selects an array of implements to be used (switch, paddle, hairbrush, cane or wooden dowel, whip, etc). These are used in a daily rotation as she sees fit. Part of the effect of The Ten is to give them both a very good exposure to these various tools.
It also has the effect of toughening his body to punishment, if that becomes useful or necessary in the future. Ten strokes each day may prove uncomfortable to him, and the cumulative effect may increase that discomfort. But the program has a fixed duration and he can deal with it, accepting it as a token of his love and submission. And the more confident she becomes, the more he can be assured she will have her way…or else.
As the power dynamic evolves, the daily practice also provides a ready way for her to demonstrate her resolve and express her dissatisfaction. If and/or when his daily activities don’t measure up, he should come to expect that the shortfall might be addressed in the application on the following day.
The compliance of the male is an important part of husband training. A willingness and interest in leading is also important, on the wife’s part. But, what if, after a few days, he decides he won’t participate, or she decides this is of no interest to her? It may spell the end of this iteration of The Ten, but hopefully the couple is strong enough and willing enough to elevate the conversation to what happened and why they feel the way they do. The basis is love, after all, and compliance. Revisiting The Ten may or may not happen, but talking honestly can’t help but lead to brighter outcomes down the road.
At the onset, and for the first 10 days or so, the printed list of The Ten is immediately in front of his face as he reads them aloud. After that, he should recite them from memory.
Failing that more than twice might invoke the ‘Ten x 6’, which calls for his reciting each item out loud, over and over for six minutes, then moving to the next. At each six minute point, he receives ten strokes, without warm-up, sympathy or constraint. And so an hour will pass during which she will deliver 60 strokes and he will have had opportunity to become well acquainted with each item on The Ten. He might expect that her frustration at having to spend her time that way will show up in the speed and intensity of the strokes. The entire event is intended to provide her with even more experience of elevated authority and intensity, and give him a memorable example of why he should really try to do as good as he can in everything he does.
At the conclusion of The Ten, there should be a commencement ceremony, either public, semi-public or private.
The daily application ceases. Whether any physical forms of punishment continue is not part of The Ten. Those are decisions made the same way the decision to embark on The Ten is made: In love, in trust and embracing one another and their proper roles in the unique relationship they enjoy.
And, of course, a ‘commencement’ is a BEGINNING, not an ending.
What would women think and do, if their man was thoroughly trained to respond and obey quickly, and their time was their own again?
To be recited by him in descending order during daily exercises accompanied by one stroke, and replacing the bracketed [] with her name or title.
1. I love [ ] with all my heart and all my soul and cleave only to her. 2. I honor [ ] and all women at all times in all that I do, all that I intend, in all my work and in my actions. 3. I obey [ ] at all times and trustfully follow her lead in all matters. 4. I accept, comply and embrace [ ] as the loving controlling power and ultimate authority in our relationship. 5. I recognize and accept responsibility for awareness and anticipation of [ ] needs and demands, meeting them before she asks. 6. I recognize and accept my role in maintaining the domestic bliss in [ ] household. 7. I pledge to work daily to form new habits and behaviors that are more supportive, and are pleasing to [ ] 8. I recognize my own habits and behaviors that are not constructive and see that they MUST be improved. 9. I recognize male habits and behaviors formed around those attributes and see that they can be improved. 10. I recognize male attributes that are not supportive of women, undermining a loving relationship.
The 10 For The Mistress Of The Household
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