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We all harbor secrets. Some are big and bad; some are small and trivial. Researchers have parsed which truths to tell and which not to.
Posted July 15, 2013
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Some women dislike providing oral sex, but many enjoy it.
“Lots of women derive pleasure from feeling a lover’s erection in their mouths,” says Fair Oaks, California, sex therapist Louanne Weston, Ph.D. “But few women relish what you often see in pornography —having their heads held firmly while men push their erections deep down their throats. That makes most women gag and feel used. But with the man seated or on his back and the woman kneeling or above him, she has a great deal of control and can be as playful and creative as she likes. Many women enjoy that—as well as seeing how much their lovers enjoy oral sex.”
“Fellatio,” comes from the Latin, fellare , to suck. Fellatio is popular but by no means universal. According to a recent survey by researchers at Indiana University’s Kinsey Institute, 60 to 90 percent of adult men have received it at least once, with 50 to 80 percent of those age 21 to 49 saying they’ve received it during the past year—20 to 50 percent of men over 50.
If your lovemaking includes fellatio, here’s how women can boost their own confidence and men’s enjoyment.
Every man should wash his penis and scrotum with soap and water whenever he bathes or showers. If a man neglects this, dirt and bacteria build up and make the penis smell and taste foul—and increase the risk of transmitting sexual infections. Some men are not as fastidious as women would like. In that case, a woman might suggest that the couple shower together before sex and wash him herself.
Some women worry than men might urinate during fellatio. This can’t happen. A valve in the penis allows urine—but not semen—to flow when the penis is flaccid, and semen—but not urine—to flow when it’s erect.
If providing fellatio gives you pleasure, say so. Most men get turned on knowing that their lovers enjoy giving head.
Men should feel free to direct women’s oral explorations in ways that heighten their arousal. But gentle requests are usually more welcome than terse commands. “Remember,” Weston explains, “fellatio is a gift, not something you demand of a slave.”
About using teeth: Many men prefer lips and tongue only. However, some men enjoy light nibbling with teeth along the shaft. Ask if the man is open to this. If so, keep it gentle and check in: “Is this OK?”
The 1972 pornographic film, Deep Throat , invented a character whose clitoris was supposedly located in her throat. To have orgasms, she had to take men’s erections deep down there. Deep Throat became the only X-rated movie to break out of the porn ghetto and play to mainstream audiences. It grossed $600 million.
Since then, many men have wanted to push their erections down their lovers’ throats, and many women have been interested in providing this variation. The problem is that deep throating—and some ordinary fellatio—triggers gagging.
Stick anything too far down the throat, and the result is gagging, a defensive reflex that helps prevent choking. In addition, some women are unusually prone to gagging, which can make them avoid fellatio. Men should never push themselves down women throats. But for women interested in deep-throating, here are some tips:
Some men equate ejaculating into women’s mouths with deep acceptance of them. If women enjoy this, fine, but men should not insist on it.
“A woman can be madly in love with a man and totally accept him,” says Palo Alto sex therapist Marty Klein, Ph.D., “and still not want a mouthful of semen. Men should respect women’s sexual boundaries.”
Some women forbid men from coming in their mouths because they fear injury from the force of ejaculation. It’s not forceful. It’s like biting down on a warm cherry tomato. Others don’t care for the taste of semen (more below).
If women dislike semen in the mouth, try condom-covered fellatio. That way men ejaculate inside the mouth, but not into it.
About swallowing: Semen is safe to swallow, but if women would rather not, they have every right to decline. Don’t badger them. But when women understand the composition of semen, some become less squeamish. Semen is:
Some women fear that semen in the mouth may spread sexually transmitted infections (STIs). It’s possible to transmit gonorrhea this way. However, the AIDS virus is highly unlikely to spread orally, unless the woman has bleeding gums or a sore that allows semen-to-blood contact. To eliminate the fear of spreading STIs, get tested and, if necessary, treated. Or the man can wear a condom.
Weston comments: “A man once told me: ‘Coming is the fun part. Once the stuff leaves my body, I don’t care where it goes.’ I wish men would let go of the idea that to feel erotically accepted, women have to ‘drink their essence.’”
Some women who feel fine about semen in the mouth complain about its taste.
Urologists say the taste can’t be changed, that seminal fluid is unalterable because it includes the precise mixture necessary to support sperm, and if its composition is constant, its taste must be, too.
However, many women insist that diet makes a real difference. Former porn star, Annie Sprinkle, who claims to have tasted 1,000 men’s semen, says vegetarians taste best, that drinking fruit juices improves the taste, and that smoking, alcohol , meats, and asparagus spoil the taste.
Internet discussions generally agree that semen can be sweetened with a diet high in fruit and fruit juices, especially pineapple and apple juice. They also generally agree on the foods that foul its taste: broccoli, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, deep-fried foods, meats, dairy foods, alcohol, coffee, and asparagus (which makes sense because of its well-known ability to alter the aroma of urine).
Cigarettes also make semen less palatable. While there is no authoritative research on the subject, it’s good for health to quit smoking , and to consume more fruit and less meat, fried foods, and alcohol.
The taste can be masked if the woman sucks on a lifesaver while providing fellatio. Women who do this tout peppermint and wintergreen.
If women swallow, they need not worry about gaining weight. The typical ejaculation contains only 25 calories.
Finally, some men who have no difficulty with orgasm during masturbation or intercourse have problems climaxing in women’s mouths. The usual reason is that oral caresses don’t provide sufficient stimulation to trigger orgasm.
Herbenick, D. et al. “Sexual Behavior in the United States: Results from a National Probability Sample of Men and Women Ages 14-94,” Journal of Sexual Medicine (2010) 7(Suppl 5):255.
Michael Castleman, M.A. , is a San Francisco-based journalist. He has written about sexuality for 36 years.
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How To Perform Fellatio With These 4 Techniques
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Before we get into the 4 fellatio techniques, let us spend some time talking about anticipation building before fellatio. Just as a man would warm a woman up before cunnilingus on her, a woman should also make some effort to warm her partner up before fellatio.
A great way to get your man aroused is to caress him gently but firmly, before performing fellatio. Caress areas like his inner thighs and abdomen, which have sensitive nerves that lead directly to his groin. Tease him by giving him short licks here and there on his manhood, but not performing fellatio first. This is to build up the sexual anticipation and have him wanting for more.
Once you see that he is aroused enough, you can now move on to perform fellatio for him. Let us discuss 4 techniques that can absolutely drive your man wild:
1. Lollipop Lick. Start by recalling those lollipops that you use to buy during carnivals, which you could not entirely fit them into your mouth. For this technique, you are going to imagine that you are licking a lollipop from the bottom to the top, following the swirl of the candy. Start at the base of your partner's manhood and lick all the way from the bottom to the top without stopping, while making a swirling motion while doing so. Spend a little mor
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