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Caught my 14 yr old Daughter having sex in my house
Last night my daughter her friend and her boyfriend were in her sisters bedroom watching a DVD. Her friend left to go home and I had a call from my uncle who needed advice. I was on the phone quite some time and when the conversation ended I went to see if her boyfriend wanted a lift home. I walked into the room to find them having sex in her sisters bed. I threw him out and had an arguement with my daughter. She subsequently ran out of the house. She did come back but I can not help how feel. When I look at her I feel physically sick, her sister and my husband want her gone from the house but Social services have refused to take her in the past even when she has been violent and abusive. I am at the end of my tether with her and this is making me very ill. What can I do ????
you cant kick her out for having sex!!!!!!!!!! what i would do is sit her down and talk about protection from stds etc!
Thats a pretty big shock. I think the first thing to do is take her to the Dr and get her some birth control sorted - she isn't going to stop. Do you think she is mature enough to have safe sex? A few graphic pictures of some STDs may bring the point home. I am sure you will get a load of responses saying you should report the boy to the police, but she was a willing participant, so i think you need to focus on making sure she does respect her body and her future. SS provide targeted advice services, which will come and work with the family - mediation etc. I would give them a call and see how they can help.
Personally I feel wanting her gone from the house based on her having sex in her sisters bed is a little harsh... I don't know if other stuff has gone on, im going on based on this post. She is 14 & had sex. If it were me I wouldn't be flying off the handle, I just think that gets their back up ( I talk from my own experience of myself)... I would sit her down & explain why you were concerned she was having sex, all of the risks of the stds, pregnancy, asking her why does she feel she needs to have sex at this age, maybe she is under peer pressure, perhaps she feels bad about herself so she is having sex to make herself feel loved and wanted, believe me this happens, sometimes young girls think that that is love, it's hard to understand at this age. I think a talk is needed more than a confrontation, understanding why she is behaving this way will help you both a lot in my opinion. Please do not throw her out though, this will only ignite any insecurities she does have or any feelings of being unloved. xx
you cant kick her out for having sex!!!!!!!!!! what i would do is sit her down and talk about protection from stds etc!
You would not acheive anything positive if u throw her out. Sit her down and remind her of the importance of contraception. At the end of the day, you did allow her boyfriend in the house and left them alone, what did u think theyd get up to?! If they wernt doing it in your house, would you prefer her doing it in a bus shelter or something? You might not like it but ur dd is growing up and even if u disagree and disapprove of her actions, she will probably carry on regardless.
Last night my daughter her friend and her boyfriend were in her sisters bedroom watching a DVD. Her friend left to go home and I had a call from my uncle who needed advice. I was on the phone quite some time and when the conversation ended I went to see if her boyfriend wanted a lift home. I walked into the room to find them having sex in her sisters bed. I threw him out and had an arguement with my daughter. She subsequently ran out of the house. She did come back but I can not help how feel. When I look at her I feel physically sick, her sister and my husband want her gone from the house but Social services have refused to take her in the past even when she has been violent and abusive. I am at the end of my tether with her and this is making me very ill. What can I do ????
you cant kick her out for having sex although i can understand how shocked you are i would be too , she needs to be educated put on the pill and she needs to be supervised IMO i wouldnt allow a BF in a bedroom at all underage , . why did ss refuse to get involved with her ,sounds like you are having a tough time with her all round ,
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It must have been a big shock for you but...she is still your child,and she still needs your support. All too often,teens are physically 'ready' for sex,but not emotionally,so this is where she needs you. When you have calmed down,you two really need to sit and talk. Ans as others have said,take her to a FP clinic and organise contraception and health advice. Good luck xxxx
Hi i think its a shame that you feel you cant sort things out with your daughter. Is there no way you can try to make your relationship better? I guess if you have had problems bonding then she probably feels very insecure at the moment so has seeked love elsewhere in her boyfriend . She may feel that to keep his love that if she sleeps with him it will strengthen their bond and she may keep his love for a little longer. Human nature is to feel loved wanted and protected so i guess this is what she is craving if within the family environment she has caused friction then she probably feels a bit of an outsider. Could family mediation maybe bring things back together.
Oh Hazel I really feel for you hunni:sadhug.I know it's really raw right now and everyone's obvously really angry but throwing her out is not going to help the situation at all.She's only 14 so still very much a child and that shows in her actions to have sex in your house whilst your down stairs shows someone that's very emotionally young. First things first I think you and your daughter need to sit down and have a proper talk together,preferably with no one else in the house.You need to find out if they used contraception if you don't allready know.Make sure also that it was consentual.Ask your daughter about how she feels about the boyfriend and how he feels about her.Tell her that you want her to be able to talk to you about anything,that your there for her and that just because she's older now that you still care about her and worry about her. With the other problems you've been having with your daughter have you all had any support?Has she been refered to see someone to find out why she's being violent and abusive? I know teenagers are hard work generally and that they're hormones and changes in the body and brain can attribute alot to the problems surrounding them but when things get this bad there really should be an investigation into why she's behaving like this! It could be a cry for help.I know that may sound strange but belive me young people have done some very extreme things in the past and unfortunatly probably will still in the future to be noticed to receive help with whatever's bothering them. If you have'nt received any support I would suggest that you make an appointment with your GP a.s.a.p and go and speak to the gp alone as they can make a refferal to CAMHS these people really know they're stuff and can be a great support to your daughter and the rest of the family.They could be the bridge between you all so it once again becomes a family instead of your daughter on one side and the rest of you on the other and you all desperatly trying to reach one another but remaining out of one anothers grasp. HTHxx
Hi All thanks for your posts, I should have said, this is the latest in a long line of problems we have hadwith her. It was a compromise for her to have her boyfriend and friends in the house. We have sat down and had the sex discussion, we have attemted to get help from agencies to address her behaviour. She has been arrested for violence recently, she has disregarded everything we have tried to helher with and now this. My husband and her sister are the ones that donot want her here because of how she is all the time and this incident is the las straw. I am caught between a rock and a hard place here I have the welfare of my daughter to consider but also the happiness of my family and right now we are not a happy family. I can talk toher untilI am blue in the face but she has no respect for me, her sister her family or herself.
sorry hunni ment to type Joanne my teenager was talking to me at the time about someone guess what name:)
When you've spoke to her Joanne as she ever given you any reason why?or is it allways :dunno:xx
you cant kick her out for having sex!!!!!!!!!! what i would do is sit her down and talk about protection from stds etc!
you must understnad what taking her in to care involves !!!!!!!!!!! if it is such a problem dont have the boyfriend in your home you need to sit with her explaine the problems if she is having sex you need to tell her about protection we have our 14 yr old niece living with us and because of her past she has the implant in maybe thats a option
Hmmm... I did suspect there may have been a catalogue of events going on. I was awful as a teenager, I did all this type of stuff, violent (not overly but very aggressive), arguing with everyone in the home, drinking, smoking weed, running away, staying out all night. I was very angry with everyone, I had no confidence, I really just felt useless. Now that im older i've assessed all of that as it appears due to instances in the past, these had affected me and caused me to feel this way, I wasn't aware of this as a teenager, I didn't know why I felt this way. Has something happened, no matter how small it may seem to you, in her past, say from the age of 3 upwards. Even if you don't want to tell me, please have a think yourself. I say this as everyone was looking at my behaviour and dealing with that, noone went deeper, no one asked how I felt, did I really feel good about myself, how did I feel about my life, was i happy. I hated myself and basically was trying to destroy everything as I didn't feel I deserved it. For whatever reason she sounds as if she's unhappy about somethign, whether it's current or from the past, as i said it could seem so small, she may not even know why she is so down about herself. Have you had any help regarding her mental health, has anyone been out to talk to her? Maybe there are people or organisations around by you who help deal with teenagers. Have you thought of getting her into some voluntary work which she would like to do, so if she'd like to do somethign when she's older, perhaps she could go and help out somewhere, this would have her mix with older, more sensible people. Good luck and hang in there, im 28 now and am a 'normal' person, a far cry from how I was as a teenager xxx
When you've spoke to her Joanne as she ever given you any reason why?or is it allways :dunno:xx
Its always because I wanted to. I have spent so much time trying with herthat now my other daughter is feeling sidelined. Its causing so many arguments with me and my husband and she seems to just revel in it
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He is a child too? That post sounds like he's a grown man!
So Sarah are you suggesting that a parent has no control over what a 13 year old gets up to? That's it's going to happen anyway, so we may as well accept it. Does the same go for a child drinking, smoking, shoplifting?
No, but I don't see having sex with a boyfriend, in a safe environment, in a relationship in the same category as shoplifting. There's an appropriate way to be supportive.
No, but I don't see having sex with a boyfriend, in a safe environment, in a relationship in the same category as shoplifting. There's an appropriate way to be supportive.
A 13 year old is a child . I could net condone a child having sex. If she like to get drunk would would you also see that is done is a "safe environment"?
Yes actually, maybe not at 13. But lots of teenagers start drinking before 18. When I grew up we would have a few drinks at parents parties etc aged 16- a safe environment. Not in the park with a litre of vodka, behind their backs.
Regardless of age, for parents it will always be difficult to come to terms that their children are having sex. 13 is young but I guess when we're all in our 20s, 30s, 40s 13 seems even younger. She may be 13/14 but to me sounds far more mature than any 13/14 year old I know My 20 year step daughter acts like she's 14 most of the time! And as for my husband he acts 18 [emoji13] As long as she's careful, sensible and has the support around her, that is all that matters Locking them up and stopping her from seeing him will only make matters worse. What will the outcome of that be? If you want to ruin the relationship you have with her then do just that x she will forgive you one day x
Yes actually, maybe not at 13. But lots of teenagers start drinking before 18. When I grew up we would have a few drinks at parents parties etc aged 16- a safe environment. Not in the park with a litre of vodka, behind their backs.
We are not talking of 16 year olds though- we are taling about 13 years olds. So you suggest getting drunk at home at 13 is OK. Sarah I would suggest that neither of these scenarios is appropriate- either drinking vodka at home at 13 in a "safe" environment, not in the park. Same with sex at 13.
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I allow my 14 year old step son have a taste of beer, although he hated it! I would much rather him start the occasional one at home rather than peer pressure by friends
13 year olds are children . Nothing will convince me otherwise. They need our protection.
Not particularly helpful I feel and I hope you never find yourself in the OPs unenviable position. Kirsty - I feel your pain. I too have a 13 yo daughter - shes not 14 until next august! - and she has recently got her first boyfriend. She lied about who she was out with for 2 weeks (not where she was,, just who she was with) and I KNEW something was amiss. Obviously I was not happy about it to say the least but what can you do? Lock her away? Ground her indefinitely? Shes still got to go to school right?! I found out on a Tuesday and on the Friday she was bringing him round to meet me. Meeting him made me feel very strangely better. He was no man, he was a gangly 14 year old kid with braces. It was her father I was more worried about and I truly felt for him when I rang and tell him. Don't shoot the messenger I said. And he was devastated to hear this about his little girl. But the week after he paid for them to go to the cinema together, and the week after that he met him - albeit briefly! Even though hes my ex and I could strangle him sometimes, I was very proud of him for that as it must have been hard for him. But I took stock and was grateful that, after the initial lying, she was now being honest with me. Obviously I initially went mad and can 100% identify with ALL of your emotions!! But like I say, I took stock and realized that I cannot lock her up 24 hours a day and that at least she was being honest and open - even though it is early days and she insists that they will not be having sex, I however am a realist and realize that that may not always be the case! But I will cross that bridge when I have to! With regards to the comments of her being a child yadda yadda yadda, yes, she is, of course, a child, but children will be children and at that age they think they know it all don't they? I certainly did at 13! I also have a 17 year old son, would he be described as "a child"?? In the eyes of the law he certainly is but somehow that's acceptable. Huh. I think you are doing amazingly - if only we could laugh at this over a glass of wine! - and I totally understand your feelings towards her initially but you've taken a huge step in speaking to her again and she must be feeling incredibly relieved that this is all out in the open now. As I said to my daughter, she is a child playing an adults game but what are you going to gain by going mad about it? Ostracizing your daughter, making her sneak around behind your back anyway and exposing her to more danger. I think your handling of it is spot on! You don't mention his parents? Do they know about this? Are you friends with them? Could you talk with them about them being round his house so that can put your mind at rest a bit? I would rather have them round my house than possibly unsupervised at his maybe? No one can criticize you about it until they have walked a mile in your shoes. And Ive just put my trainers on to run to catch up with you! From one frazzled mother of a 13 year old girl to another - chin up and as long as you keep talking your daughter will hopefully look back at this episode and realize why you were so worried and be grateful that she had such a supportive mum to guide her and keep her safe. That's what I'm hoping anyway! xxxxxxxxxx
We are not talking of 16 year olds though- we are taling about 13 years olds. So you suggest getting drunk at home at 13 is OK. Sarah I would suggest that neither of these scenarios is appropriate- either drinking vodka at home at 13 in a "safe" environment, not in the park. Same with sex at 13.
The legal ages are different, please don't be so patronising. I don't care what your suggestion is. I will class what I think is appropriate myself. I said a few drinks at home. In your world you can't do anything until the legal age limit.
How awful 13 is so young but having been a 14 yr old (almost 15) when losing my virginity. i can only suggest not to punish her too much because she'll resent you. I wish i had a mum i could talk to back so be firm but fair on rules.
We are not talking of 16 year olds though- we are taling about 13 years olds. So you suggest getting drunk at home at 13 is OK. Sarah I would suggest that neither of these scenarios is appropriate- either drinking vodka at home at 13 in a "safe" environment, not in the park. Same with sex at 13.
Might I suggest Maron, that rather than sounding like a disapproving grandmother, you stop with the legal age limit tut tutting and actually offer some advice to the OP? As so far you have merely made disparaging remarks with regard to it being "wrong" but with no actual advice on what the OP should do. Maybe a cage for her daughter might be more "appropriate"?? Agree with Sarah. Stop being so patronizing!!
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