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The oral sex move is way kinkier than you think.
The year 1972 will be remembered for a lot of different things. It was then that Bobby Fisher won the World Chess Championship. It’s also when the Watergate scandal broke. But let 1972 also go down as the year that forever changed our relationship with oral sex. Because that was the year Deep Throat premiered in New York City.
The film, which introduced the late Linda Lovelace to the world, and the world to hardcore pornography, follows the struggle of a woman whose clitoris happened to live in her throat. Eventually, she realizes that the only way to stimulate the misplaced pleasure point is to pivot her oral sex technique—She must learn how to open wider and go deeper than ever before. Not before long, audiences began to adopt the same style of fellatio. And that’s how the “deep throat” method trickled off screen and into bedrooms across America.
Today, the phenomenon continues to pop up in popular culture. In 2013, Amanda Seyfried starred in a biographical drama about Linda Lovelace (born Linda Boreman). The season-one finale of the HBO series The Deuce was structured around the Deep Throat premiere. The Chicago-based rapper Cupcakke has even released a song titled after the sex act.
Meanwhile, in the wide world of porn , “deep-throating” remains as popular a search term as “college,” “big boobs” and “masturbation.” Porn veteran Sasha Grey has a “ Vibrating Deep Throat Sucker ” made in her likeness. Benzocaine-laced sprays designed to ease the act of deep throating have become so popular you can pick one up at your local Rite Aid .
Kimberly Smith is an owner and instructor over at StripXpertease , an instructional studio that offers a variety of classes related to sexuality. She’s recently added a blowjob class to the curriculum yhat covers a series of tips to help clients perform a perfect deep throat. “No one really teaches us these things growing up so we have to fumble along, trying to learn as we go,” she tells Men’sHealth.com . “We get clients who are 18 and up and clients who are over 60. We get virgins, newly divorced women, those who want to spice up their relationship, curious, single gals and everyone in between.” Each student is instructed to show up with a dildo with which they can practice the techniques Smith demonstrates for them throughout the two-and-a half-hour lesson.
What these students may not realize is that what they’re learning is an act that rests well within the realm of kink. According to the Kinsey Institute , just 1.8 percent of the sexually active population admits to having been involved in any BDSM scenarios within the previous year. But, according Dulcinea Pitagora, an New York City-based sex therapist and host of the web series talk show Kink Doctor , “Deep throating is a hardcore form of play,” she insists. So, if deep throating is really as common as porn, pop culture and bedroom anecdotes suggest, then it would seem as there are generations of kinksters out there who don’t even know they qualify for the title. And are likely not incorporating some of the safety elements built into the practice.
For those who have a difficult time believing something as zeitgeisty as deep throating could actually extend into the sexual fringe, consider first that deep throating involves entering the trachea. That means whomever is on the receiving end of the act is going to have a hard time breathing, at least temporarily. One could argue that qualifies as “ breath play ,” a relatively common staple within the BDSM community. Deep throating also inspires the release of certain bodily fluids, something that’s often incorporated into the world of “ wet and messy fetishism .” Spit, phlegm, and, sometimes (sorry) even vomit, may accompany the act. “Happens all the time on set,” says adult film actress Sofia Rose . “That’s why I don’t eat prior to a shoot.”
Attempting to casually incorporate hardcore acts into more vanilla contexts can backfire for reasons more substantial than embarrassing bodily expulsions. “Explicit consent tends to happen more frequently in BDSM interactions than in non-BDSM interactions,” explains Pitagora. “Deep throating isn’t always thought of as BDSM-related, therefore one can surmise that there may be less explicit consent being given for deep throating in ‘vanilla’ bedrooms.”
Those who want to experiment with kink have to remember they can’t just borrow the moves. They’ve got to adopt the ethos as well. There’s a popular acronym that exists within the BDSM community: SSC. It stands for safe, sane and consensual. According to Pitagora, it’s best if couples find ways to apply the principle before engaging in any kind of kink, including deep throating. “One reason explicit consent prior to engaging in this form of play relates to what makes deep-throating so hardcore,” she says. “Once someone has something filling their throat, they are no longer able to verbally communicate, and non-verbal communication can look different.”
“As with any sexual interaction, BDSM-related or not, the explicit exchange of consent before engaging is paramount,” she adds. “Ideally, consent for specific types of sexual interactions, particularly one that for some is a form of edge play, happens in a neutral setting before one is in a sexual situation, as well as immediately before engaging in it.”
There is, of course, nothing wrong with dipping a toe in the kink pool. In fact, studies show that BDSM practitioners experience high levels of relationship satisfaction than members of other demographics. Modern sex research suggests that most Americans have participated in some kind of “deviant” sexual act. But how often do they realize that’s what they’re doing while doing it?
Deep throating has now been on the checklist of American bedrooms for more than 45 years. And still, it seems likely that some of its most dedicated practitioners opt to identify within the vanilla bubble. But if deep throating is in your repertoire with your partner, and you’re practicing it with proper consent, hey, wear your kind with pride.

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Sex is all about giving. It’s a two-way street, really. And that means if you want your man to do a little something for you, you’ll want to get great at giving head and learn how to deep throat.
One of the best ways you can make a blowjob feel amazing is to deep throat. The thing with this is that it’s not always easy for us ladies. The whole gag reflex thing can really put a damper on an otherwise fun and pleasurable thing for our men.
But you can learn how to deep throat without gagging. If you’re willing to work for it, your man will thank you in all the ways you desire.
The idea behind deep throating is to give your man a blowjob and then take him as far as you can into your mouth and the back of your throat. The sensation of this is unique to a man and it often feels better than almost anything else you can do.
That’s why it’s so popular. Whenever a guy wants a blowjob, they’ll always want you to deep throat him if you can.
The only hang-up with this is that if you’re a woman with a sensitive gag reflex or a well-endowed man, it’s always harder. It’s not fun for you if you’re constantly gagging on him.
And if it’s not fun for you, it’ll be less pleasurable for him.
Some people might not even think deep throating is worth it. Those people have clearly never seen the immense joy a man gets out of it.
Learning how to deep throat without gagging can help you connect more to your partner and spice up your sex life . It’s an act of selfless pleasure you can give to him.
Not only will he be really appreciative of it, but he’ll be down to reciprocate – excuse the pun.
Ultimately, it’s about give-and-take. Being selfless and giving toward your partner is a way to help the relationship last. The more you’re willing to give, the better your relationship will be.
It’ll take some time but it’ll be worth it in the end. Here’s how you can learn how to deep throat without gagging in order to give your man the best blow job he’s ever had.
One of the main reasons women struggle with deep throating is because they expect that it won’t be fun. They go into it with the mindset of gagging and being miserable.
So, of course, it isn’t fun when they go to do it. You have to remember to put yourself in the right mindset.
You have to remember that it will be fun. The more you dread it, the tenser you’ll be. That means your gag reflex will be super active because you’re not relaxing.
So think of it as a fun time . Remember how much your man will love it and get into a positive, sexy mindset. The naughtier you feel, the more you’ll want to deep throat and that’ll make it a hell of a lot easier when you get down to do it.
You’ve got to give yourself some time to ease into the deep throating. If you just go right to it the second he’s in your mouth, you’ll struggle with gagging.
Your throat has to get used to having something hitting it. That means you have to just slow yourself down and work up to the deep throating.
The benefit of this isn’t just for you either. Your man will love the slow progression to something so erotic and pleasurable. So take it easy.
Start with your typical blowjob and progressively go deeper and deeper while controlling your breathing.
The biggest thing you have to remember about learning how to deep throat without gagging is to relax. If you’re full of tension, your throat will be extra sensitive and you won’t give a good blowjob.
That means when you start the blowjob, focus on consciously controlling your gag reflex. The second you feel like gagging, stop and breathe.
This will help your body remember that something going that deep shouldn’t make you want to gag. Over time, this will stop the gagging altogether so focus on this above everything else.
You can’t try to breathe quickly or your body will tense up. As you already know, this will make it even harder to deep throat without gagging.
Focus on slow, controlled breaths through your nose as you ease into the blowjob. Keep it light and easy until you feel comfortable breathing that way.
This will not only make it easier on you, but your body will relax the slower you breathe. One of the best ways to do this is to start giving the blowjob slowly and time your breaths as you move up and down.
Some guys will want to force your head further down but that’s a sure way to trigger your gag reflex. If he wants you to deep throat him, it has to be on your terms.
The surprise and the force of going too deep too fast will always trigger your gag reflex. Make sure you communicate with your man that you’re the one who has to control it or you just won’t do it.
Later down the road, once you’re used to deep throating, he can have his fun with getting rough with you. But when you’re just learning how to deep throat without gagging, you have to be in control.
The main thing you want to do is retrain your gag reflex. Practicing on other objects does this best. So long as they’re phallic, they’ll work.
You can even use a toothbrush if you really don’t have anything available. Bananas work, dildos work , cucumbers, and really anything that’ll hit your gag reflex if you put it down your throat too far.
When you do this, focus on going as deep as you can until you feel your gag reflex triggering slightly. Then, hold the object there and breathe deeply through your nose.
Focus on relaxing your throat until your gag reflex is no longer active. Then pull the object out and repeat it.
Do this repeatedly over a period of time. You’ll find that eventually, you’ll be able to go deeper and deeper until your gag reflex no longer triggers when something is in your throat.
When this happens, you’ll be able to deep throat without gagging a lot easier. Just remember to practice and try to use something that’s the same size as your man .
There aren’t too many ways you can prepare for deep throating. The best thing to do is to focus on changing your mindset and practicing.
When you know you’re going to give your man a blowjob that day, take a few extra minutes to practice relaxing your gag reflex. Use an object and just relax and breathe.
This helps your gag reflex prepare for what’s coming. You can also prepare with a lot of foreplay.
This tactic helps you feel a bit naughtier. When your mind is so focused on being dirty and sexy, it’ll be less likely to worry about something hitting your gag reflex.
Plus, the naughtier you feel, the more you’ll get into the blowjob and that’ll really help you relax while deep throating.
Your man is the real expert here. He knows what he likes and he’ll be willing to tell you what feels good if you just ask.
You can even do this through some dirty talk if you want. Just ask him what he wants you to do for him.
The key to this is making sure you’re both communicating. If he thinks you’re doing something wrong while deep throating, he’ll be more than willing to tell you what should change so you’re doing it right.
Don’t take any of this to heart either. Getting offended about his corrections will only upset you and make you tense up and not want to give the blowjob in the first place.
Just remember that anything he tells you is coming from a place of wanting to improve your sex life. It’s good for both of you. So be open to it and work to listen to him.
This may usually be seen as a more advanced move, but it can actually be useful for beginners too.
While you’re giving him a blowjob, slowly take it deeper until you feel like your gag reflex is about to trigger and then start humming. It might seem silly but this can actually help open your throat and relax your gag reflex.
Not only does this help you not gag, but it also feels a lot better for your man. The slight vibrations will make it all the more sensational.
But first, practice on an object so you can get a feel for just how much you have to hum for it to take effect. Then give it a try on your man and see if it works for you.
The whole point of a blowjob is to give your man a good time. It can be used as a means of foreplay or you can just give
But he won’t really enjoy it if you’re not having a good time. The more you seem like you’re uncomfortable or bored, the worse it’ll be for him.
So have fun with it! Be enthusiastic. You can even get a little silly or you can up the sexy a notch and try to do some dirty talking to make it extra interesting.
Just remember that you don’t need to do this for him. If he feels like he’s forcing you to do it, it’ll lose its appeal.
Relax, have fun, and just try the deep throating. You’ll get the hang of it eventually and seeing how much your man love is will make you want to do it even more.
The first thing you can do is focus on your man’s reactions. He’ll point you in the right direction of what feels good and what doesn’t. You’ll also want to enjoy it.
The worst thing you can do during a blowjob is to look or seem bored. This is something that’s supposed to be fun for both of you. If you want him to enjoy it more, you have to be into it as well.
Another way you can make it even better is to throw some dirty talk in there. That can make anything a whole lot hotter if you know how to dirty talk the right way.
Be open to communicating about what your man wants. He could want something completely different than what you’re doing. Have a chat about it and see what he wants more.
Also, try to give some blowjobs in different places. There are a lot of options for giving your man head when you’re not at home. You can give him some road head, go see a movie, or even take a hike somewhere secluded. The more you get adventurous with it, the better it’ll be.
Learning how to deep throat without gagging can be super beneficial to both you and your man. Focus on keeping yourself relaxed and you’ll easily be giving him the best blowjobs he’s ever had.
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It seems to me every girl I know that can deep throat a lot is shocked to know that a lot of girls cannot, so I am curious as to what all you girls are able to do. If you are a guy you can answer the biggest you've ever heard of a girl doing I guess or just not answer.
I can only deep throat 3 inches or less (basically the head and a little of the shaft)
I can deep throat 4-6 inches but anything more is too tough
I can do 9+ (or just have no gag reflex at all)
I have only had smaller sizes but I think I can deep throat at least 7
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I love how women actually believe they've had a d*** over even 7 inches. Statistics alone says they're full of sh*t. The fact they probably just compare to other things from memory instead of measuring as well as the scientific fact that women have TERRIBLE depth perception is hilarious to me. Ah well. More lolz from this thread I'm sure.
I've seen p*rn girls deepthroat some 10+ d*cks. But they are like crying/vomiting or gagging at least. But I guess it depends on the girl's gag reflex and practice for them. I haven't had the pleasure yet unfortunately to have a girl deepthroat my sh*t. It's was a bit too much for the gf's I've been with who I've asked.
"... every girl I know that can deep throat a lot is shocked to know that a lot of girls cannot." Well I guess that just goes to show that some women can do it and some can't. I've tried lots, but I guess I'm just one of those who can't. Bummer.
YEAAAH BOIIIIIEEEEE! lol Sorry Just Watched "Take Me Home Tonight" And I Really Wanted To Do That ANYWAYSS I Have No Gag Reflex And I Have Done 9 inches
LOL. I have no gag reflex...but I never actually deep throated a dude..i have a cucumber and banana...they went all in...lol.
Girls, How much can you deep throat?
Guys if you had to choose between being deep throated or cumming in a girls mouth which would you choose?
Question about blow jobs, and specifically deep-throat blow jobs.?
Girls, have you ever gave head and the guy came so much, directly in your throat that it made you choke/gag/cough?
this is girl was able to deepthroat me, I wasn't expecting it and shocked but my mind went blank so that stunned mind didn't last to long.
My ex (the only d*** I've ever put in my mouth) was about 10 1/2, I could fit all that. I've only gagged on my toothbrush oddly enough, I still don't get w
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