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Try them all for a married-sex makeover, or grab just one for a wow-that-was-amazing night.
It's the little things, isn't it? Try all of these hot ideas for a married-sex makeover , or grab just one of the moves for a wow-that-was-amazing night. They require almost no effort on your part and they'll strengthen your bond outside of the bedroom, too.
Sharing a flirty smile with the hottie at the coffee shop can give you a confidence boost. "When you're in a trusting relationship, you can flirt in a harmless way," says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of Sex Recharge. "I call it 'transferable sexual esteem,' when you get a charge and bring those feelings home to your guy." Just keep the exchange brief and PG.
Cast aside your pajamas tonight and let nothing come between you and your sheets. Laying your skin against the linens is a sensory experience that will make you feel more connected to your body.
Taking sexy photos is a visual reminder — to you and your guy — of your sensuality. Keep it covered with a cami and boy shorts, or strip down to your birthday suit.
No, we're not talking about lingerie. The idea isn't to make him feel excited, but to make you feel excited, confident, and super sexy, so pick something that you know you look good in — that could mean a pretty new dress, or huge, movie star sunglasses. That confidence will go all the way to the bedroom.
Hit up a sex toy shop online (or in person), like Babeland and Lovehoney . Do it alone, or together — even if you end up not buying anything, the act of looking will help inspire conversations around what you both want in the bedroom. (That said, if you are determined to walk away with a new toy, we have a few suggestions …)
Book a mani, pedi, bikini wax (if you so desire) — or maybe even a blowout— you know, the works. By setting aside time to take care of yourself, you're taking ownership of your sexuality. And most importantly, you'll feel good.
...Yes, that means masturbating . Getting to know your own body is crucial to knowing what will make you feel good in bed when you're with your partner.
Yes — sex. But not just any type of sex. Put on the calendar exactly what you'll be doing tonight, or tomorrow, or later in the week — will it involve role-playing? A new location? There's so much to choose from, and you'll both have so much to look forward to .
Find a brand-new, grown-up crush (hello, George Clooney!). "It's great to fantasize," Kerner says. "Think of your imagination as your own private playground, and feel free to bring whoever you want along on an X-rated drama of your own creation."
Share a secret sex fantasy with your partner — and describe to him what would happen in detail. "By opening up with each other, you're building intimacy and proving your mutual trust," Kerner says.
"Sometimes couples in long - term relationships stop trying to look good for each other," Kerner says. "But when you're going out with friends, you tend to get a little more dressed up. And if you're looking better, you'll be more primed for sex."
"Many women say they get turned on by the smell of their guy's neck," Kerner says. Wearing his T-shirt to bed when he's on a business trip, or taking a shower with his soap, can make you feel closer and more attracted to him.
Draw two figures on separate pieces of paper, and then, without looking at each other's papers, mark the areas on the body where you think your mate likes to be touched. Now compare notes.
Tonight, do something a little different: Have him sit in a chair and enter you while you're facing away from him. "Couples often stick with what works," Kerner says. "Trying a new position creates novelty and helps you discover what turns you on."
"Technology is a great way to stay connected and build anticipation," Kerner says. Begin with something simple, like, "I'm thinking about you." Then, when he responds, tell him exactly what you're thinking about.
Revive the romance you shared on a recent trip by incorporating a special element from it — such as the margaritas you had in Mexico — into your evening. Or just book a trip to somewhere new!
"Start by telling him where you want to be touched, and go from there," Kerner suggests. Feeling shy? Simple statements like "harder" or "more" can be all that's needed to do the trick.
Get rid of the piles of paper, laundry in the corner, and kids' toys and make your boudoir an adults-only escape. "Having a place where you can relax and feel sensual is often the gateway to sex," Kerner says.
Pick up a book of erotica and take turns reading passages out loud to each other. You can find erotica at literotica.com or simply share extra-sexy passages from your favorite romance novel.
Watch your wedding video or read letters you wrote to each other when you first started dating. It will remind you both why you're a couple in the first place and get you excited about making new memories together.
Don't wait for a holiday to show your man you care. Even if the gift is not overly romantic, letting your guy know he's on your mind can give him a confidence boost that may carry over to the bedroom.
Post a few flirty messages on your husband's Facebook timeline (without being annoying — just something sweet). Complimenting each other in a public forum will heighten the buildup for when you see each other in person at the end of the day.
Take a dance class or see an improv comedy show together. When you take your relationship off auto-pilot, you create excitement and romance.
Re-create the evening with the same itinerary, including the awkward kiss at the doorstep. Following the same schedule — eating at the same restaurant or seeing the same movie — will give you a chance to reflect on how far you've come as a couple.
Doing it in a room usually devoted to paying bills or doing laundry can make you feel deliciously naughty.
Play mini golf or challenge each other to a game of Rock Band. Engaging in some friendly competition will get your adrenaline going. Raise the stakes by offering some X-rated rewards to the winner.
Go online. Watching a risqué video at a female-friendly porn site can get you excited and turn on — and it's a perfectly safe way to explore your fantasies. So boot up your laptop!
Playing footsie under the table at a café or giving him a hot kiss at the mall is a safe way to add some sexy to the everyday.
Bring yourself back to that state of nervous anticipation, Kerner suggests. "Spend time on foreplay. Don't go past second base and you'll find yourself wanting more." Kiss passionately, have him unhook your bra... and try to tame your desire. Or go ahead and unleash your passion.
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There is no one-size-fits-all way to have good sex, full stop. Considering the number of sex positions , sex toys , types of sex , and TV sex scenes out there to provide horny inspo, there's always something new and unique to try . So whether you're single or coupled up, one of the very first sex-related tasks you'll want to tackle is the creation of your very own sex bucket list.
Just like a normal bucket list, a sex bucket list is full of all the ~sexy~ things you want to try in your life. (I know, it's a lot.) You can fill your list up with whatever you want and tailor it to your own individual fantasies , and add new ideas as you think of them and keep an open mind as you discover new turn-ons.
What’s really great about a sex bucket list is that it's not at all set in stone. Since sexual preferences ebb and flow throughout our lives, chances are your desires might change and shift as you grow. Not only is that totally normal—but it’s actually pretty exciting! Weren’t into the idea of having a threesome but now find it low-key arousing? Add it! Loved the idea of having sex in public but now feel like you’re more of a sex-in-bed kind of person? Remove it! Have fun fantasizing about which ideas make you feel some kind of way, and revise your list as much—or as little—as you’d like.
As a jumping-off point, consider adding some (or all!) these 110 suggestions to your very own sex bucket list. 10/10 recommend trying them all…
Kinks are basically anything that arouses you, and there are tonnns of different ones out there. Maybe you like the feeling of latex against your skin? Or getting spanked? Or wearing heels in bed? Try some different kinky moves and ideas out.
Whether you strip down and get frisky or just soak up the, ahem, scenery, hitting up a nude beach is an experience you have to have at least once in your life (or more, if you enjoy it).
It's sexy! It's spooky! It's a fun reminder that life is short and orgasms are great! Just make sure to go when it's dark and remember, public sex *is* illegal, so do with that what you will.
It's like a hand job but done with your feet. FWIW: It's best to give your piggies a wash before bestowing your partner with a foot job .
These boots aren't just made for walking, bb. You'd be surprised at all that can be accomplished when you incorporate both hands and feet into the lurve making.
OK, if foot jobs sound too extreme, how about sensual foot massages? The feet have so many nerve endings, and some people actually orgasm from foot rubs alone, which means pedicures are about to become a lot more fun.
Ready to make a sex tape? Be sure to turn off your sharing, get enthusiastic consent from your partner (and decide what you'll do with the tape after), and start brainstorming names for your future reality show.
If you don't have a partner or don't feel like recording your coupled-up sex, how about some solo clips? Watching yourself masturbate is not only v hot, but you might also pick up a tip or two from yourself, which is like masturbation inception in all the best ways.
It's pretty much the most cliché thing you can do, but you gotta have sex on a pool table at least once to then never do it again.
Whether it's a cruise, a yacht, a sailboat, or a canoe, hook up on a boat to experience the ~motion of the ocean.~ Just be careful if you're prone to seasickness.
Virtual sex parties are a great way to dip your toes into the idea of swinging and/or getting it on in public, and the best part is you don't even have to leave your couch or put on pants to attend.
If porn isn't your thing or you're too lazy to go searching for what you like, challenge yourself to get off using only Netflix shows . You'd be surprised what a few select scenes of The Vampire Diaries can do for your arousal.
After watching some steamy scenes, try to recreate one. If you need some inspo, try some sex moves from Sex/Life or those steamy Bridgerton moments for some TV-worthy sexy times.
Whipped cream, chocolate sauce, strawberries à la Serena van der Woodsen —there are a whole lotta foods you can incorporate during sex that'll not only turn things up but also ward off any hangry feels that might negatively impact the horny ones.
It turns out, there are more aphrodisiacs out there than just oysters. Have a feast to discover what foods get you going.
It's an on-screen classic for good reason. Whether you go at it with a partner or solo, you gotta find out firsthand why washing machine sex is so majorly hyped. Also, you get to multitask doing your laundry and getting off, which sounds like a pretty successful afternoon if you ask me.
A yoni massage is basically a vagina massage that involves a mix of fingering, touching, and deep-breathing exercises to achieve all-over bliss and maybe a few orgasms too.
Try bondage, suggests Gabi Levy, a sexpert who also runs the erotic story platform Shag Story . There’s nothing like being tied up, she adds. Obvi, talk it over with your partner first, but if you’re both on board, go forth and bond (sorry).
They’re everywhere now, so it’s worth a try. Levy says this can help you relax while you get it on, and be useful for getting out of your own head if that tends to be an issue for you during sex.
This way, everyone wins, Levy says. There’s truly no such thing as losing with strip poker. If you don’t know how to play, don’t worry—sub out poker for any other game. It’s just the “strip” part that makes it exciting anyway, ya feel?
They exist, says Levy—and here are some tips on how to have a nipple-induced orgasm . We gotchu.
The sex will be worth the ripped T-shirt, explains Levy. Just make sure it’s an item of clothing you won’t be too bummed to part with.
If you’ve got metal and glass toys, you can run them under cold water for added sensation. If you don’t, you can always play with ice, as Levy suggests. Run an ice cube over your partner’s erogenous zones and then have them do the same to you. You can blow on the skin too for extra oomph.
Get some special wax-play specific candles (yes, the distinction is important!), and start dripping the warm wax on your partner and vice-versa. It might be a little hot (it's not supposed to burn you, thoughh but that’s part of the fun, explains Levy.
If you’re someone who experiences vaginal ejaculation , try this on for a new power dynamic. And if you just can’t bring yourself to ejaculate (not everyone does or can), at least getting to orgasm is still a win, right?
Work up a sweat before you get dirty together. In the wise words of Elle Woods, "Exercise gives me you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy!" Bonus if you somehow incorporate exercise equipment into your sex .
Resist having sex with your partner for a week, all the while the both of you tease and try to turn each other on. The resulting pleasure from a week-long foreplay session will be sure to result in a v memorable celebration at the end.
From head! to! toe! Take your time, tease them, and don’t stop when you get to their junk—like we said, head to toe is the assignment here.
This is something anyone of any gender can do to make their orgasms more explosive than ever, says Sarrah Rose, a sex educator at Tantric Activation .
Pompoir = squeezing your vaginal muscles during sex for added stimulation. There are lots of ways to do this—Rose recommends using a jade egg to strengthen these muscles—but you can also do this without any fancy toys. Just squeeze!
They might sound like A Lot, but the great thing about nip clamps is you can adjust the tightness so they’re like a light tug, as opposed to clamping . The light intensity of a clamp can increase pleasure sensation, Rose explains.
Sounds counterintuitive, I know, but orgasm denial can actually be the hottest thing you introduce to your sex life. If you mastered the art of teasing your partner for a week without giving in, try letting yourselves be brought right to the brink of orgasm but not orgasming—for a week.
“Liquid vibrator” sounds kinda too good to be true, but according to one of our writers, it delivers. After a few minutes, you’ll be beyond aroused and it might result in some v tingly partner play.
Yes, you can go to your local sex shop and pick up a new toy. But if you're nervous or self-conscious about it, order online! Plus, you can read up and comparison shop so you know you're getting exactly what you want.
Comparison shopping aside, sex toy shopping can still be a fun and spontaneous thing to do with your partner. And who knows, you might get turned on to a totally new kind of toy.
This is different than strip poker like above! See, by buying a game and waiting for it to be delivered, there’s a whole new layer of anticipation you can bring to the table. It’s like Christmas Eve, but for sex. And while strip poker works by making stripping something you can bet, a legit sex game straight-up tells you what to do, which brings a new level of excitement.
They say to write what you know, and what better way to do that than by incorporating what you know about you and your partner’s current sex life and injecting a healthy amount of fantasy into the mix? You can read it aloud or have them read it to themselves so you can watch their every reaction. Don’t worry about seeming silly, odds are they’ll be flattered and curious. P.S., if it becomes the next great Fifty Shades , I want a cut. Nothing absurd, but something reasonable like 10%.
Tell them exactly what you liked about it so they can try to recreate that for you going forward. Or use it in front of them if they're more of a ~visual~ learner. And if you really really liked it, use it while having sex with your partner. There's no shame in getting some so
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