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I’m not ready for him to graduate high school this June.
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02/22/2017 08:30am EST | Updated February 22, 2017
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“Mom, this was the first time we ever saw a movie alone, just the two of us.”
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I was watching my 18-year-old son, coffee cup in his hand, looking up at me between bites of his doughnut. We decided to grab a snack before heading home after watching “Hidden Figures.”
Wasn’t it just yesterday that I would walk him in his stroller to Dunkin’ Donuts? How could this man with the scruffy beard be the same toddler that I would hand-feed pieces of Munchkins to so he wouldn’t choke? And is it true, had we really never seen a movie, just the two of us?
“Yeah Mom. We usually are with Dad, or Lizzy and Peter, or Grandpa. This is the first time it was just you and me.”
The minute he said it, I couldn’t help myself from wanting a do-over. That’s it, he can’t be grown up, because we haven’t seen more movies together, just him and me.
It doesn’t matter that I’ve been an at-home mom his whole life. I got to see first steps, hear his first words, and watch almost every play, field day, and concert he took part in. We’ve had our share of mother-son dates. Who cares if this was the first time we saw a movie alone together? Kathy, get a grip.
I’ve had so much time with him. But selfishly, it doesn’t feel like enough.
I’m not ready for him to graduate high school this June and move on to college.
Yes, it was our first movie alone, but would it also be our last? It was just luck that we went to this one together. Usually he spends his weekends with his friends. But since he has been gone so much lately, he decided to take it easy and stay home with us. There’s no girl in the picture yet. Once that happens, I won’t see him much at all.
I’m ashamed to admit this, but I didn’t even really want to go with him. Or with anyone for that matter. I’ve been so stressed-out dealing with my daughter and her special needs as well as just the daily grind of being a mom of three that all I wanted was a few hours in a movie theater by myself.
I said a silent prayer of thanks that I listened to my better angels and said yes to a date with my son.
As my mind rambled on, I could hear Tom talking. The film moved him greatly. Of course he knew that racism and sexism existed, but it was different seeing it play out on screen. How is it possible that such abuse went on back then? Why is it that it racism and sexism still plague us today? He marveled at the strength of the women at the center of the movie’s plot and of the actors’ performances.
I had to keep willing myself to stay present because a part of me couldn’t get over that this young man who was so articulately discussing the film was the same kid who, as a small child, was so speech-delayed his preschool teacher told me she doubted he would ever lead a “normal” life.
I’ve watched him work so hard to overcome his dyslexia and do things that other kids took for granted. There were days when I wondered if I was up to the task of guiding this amazing person. Yet here he was, sitting in front of me, speaking of the history of NASA, and talking about about camera angles and set production.
I wish I could go back to that young mom who was terrified that her child would be OK. I would grab her and tell her that she should relax a bit and enjoy her child. It all worked out fine. He is getting ready to spread his wings and leave the nest.
Of course, knowing myself, I wouldn’t have listened.
So I snap out of my fog, and do my best to enjoy the moment I have. Sip my coffee and be glad for a date with my son.
This piece was previously published on Kathy’s site, My Dishwasher’s Possessed!
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My hope is that he's always comfortable talking with me about private things.
My son Noah is "all boy" — he loves sports and was in gymnastics for four years. He's always showing off his flips and being Mr. Center of Attention, which he usually gets to be anyway because he's my only child and the only grandchild in my extended family. Still, he loves our "cuggle" time, which is what he's called cuddling since he was a baby.
Back then and often now, we take baths together. It started out mostly as a matter of convenience and saving time, but he still prefers to take showers with me.
Around 4 or 5 years old, he started noticing things and asking questions. I tried to address them in an age-appropriate, non-judgmental manner: "These are the parts mommies and girls have, and those are the parts daddies and boys have." We also talked about who is allowed to touch our private parts. I'd gently remind him, "This is Mommy's private area, only for me to touch." I never want him to be ashamed or embarrassed of naked bodies.
Now that he's older, the questions have slowed down, but I still try not to make a huge deal out of anything. I see him naked when I help him get dressed, and if I'm changing, I don't jump and cover myself if he walks in my room. He knows Mommy wears clothes when we have company, and I expect him to be modest around others because his private parts aren't their business.
Around his fifth birthday, we started to run out of room in the shower and got more into the habit of bathing separately, but he still loves when I allow him to shower with me. It happens most often if I'm exhausted after work and want to go to sleep at the same time he does. But usually Noah bathes alone, at night. He just loves the water and can stay in the shower until the water runs cold or in the bath for an hour.
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Teaching my son about all bodies is very important to me, but especially women's bodies. We are in a grave age where bullying and unrealistic body images are increasingly prevalent. I want my son to know what a real body looks like — with fat, bumps, lumps, rolls, stretch marks and all types of "imperfections" — so that he will respect women and never body shame anyone. I don't want Noah's images of women coming from Victoria Secret catalogs, movies or even, when he gets older, pornography. Hopefully, this will also help him become secure in himself and in his own body.
Noah's paternal grandmother has been an example for me when it comes to body image and creating a positive, comfortable environment. She is often naked around family — including her four sons and grandchildren. She bathed with his cousins and Noah when he was younger, and I am perfectly fine with that.
I want my son to know what a real body looks like — with stretch marks and all types of imperfections.
My mom, however, is still freaked out about how open Noah and I are with being naked. She raised two boys and she would never let them see her without clothes on, only me. Some of my friends don't agree, but they know I don't really care what they think about my parenting styles so they don't say too much. On Facebook, I've connected with some other moms of boys who also want their sons to have a realistic, positive view of women's bodies. The topic is really close to my heart.
I don't sugarcoat life for my son. For example, we went to a new pediatric dentist recently, and Noah asked if it would hurt. I said, "Probably, and it might bleed some, too, but you will be okay." The dental assistant freaked out and said they don't call it blood at the office; they call it "tomato juice." Are you kidding me? The last thing I want is for Noah to be hurt and call 911 and say, "I have tomato juice coming out of my body."
Instead, I try to have age-appropriate but honest conversations about life with my son. If he asks me a question, I answer it. I use "big words" and then we pause so I can explain them. I probably overdo it, but I'd rather him be flooded with knowledge on a consistent basis, as opposed to me dismissively answering that something is too complicated or by saying, "It's magic." As a single mother, I desire to prepare my son for life as much as I can, because I never know when my time is up.
I'm Noah's mom first, but he's also my "go-to" guy. I never want him to feel uncomfortable or ashamed of telling me or asking me anything, especially when it comes to his body and sexuality. As a parent, I should be his "go-to" and not his peers, who have no clue about anything. We are connected with glue, and I feel that having zero unnecessary limitations has made us so much closer.
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