Edging Sex

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Edging , peaking , or surfing [1] is a sexual technique whereby orgasm is controlled. It is practiced alone or with a partner and involves the maintenance of a high level of sexual arousal for an extended period without reaching climax .

When practiced by males, direct sexual stimulation without the refractory period after orgasm is observed. [ citation needed ] When the controlled orgasm is achieved, the physical sensations are greater as compared to conventional orgasm. [ citation needed ] Orgasm control is referenced as "slow masturbation" in Alex Comfort 's The New Joy of Sex (1993) [2] and "extended massive orgasm" in Vera and Steve Bodansky's 2000 book of the same name. [1] It is similar to the Venus Butterfly technique used in the volume The One Hour Orgasm (1988) by Leah and Bob Schwartz. Detailed practices including exercises can be found in several books, such as Mantak Chia's The Multi-Orgasmic Man . [3]

Orgasm control involves either sex partner being in control of the other partner's orgasm, or a person delaying their own orgasm during sexual activity with a partner or by masturbation . Any method of sexual stimulation can be used to experience controlled orgasm.

During intercourse or other forms of sexual stimulation with a partner, one person stimulates the other(s) and reduces the level of stimulation when approaching orgasm. Erotic sexual denial occurs when the partner who is in control of the other partner's orgasm prolongs the orgasm to allow for an increased level of sexual tension. [ citation needed ]
When a partner eventually provides enough stimulation to achieve an orgasm, it may be stronger than usual due to increased tension and arousal that builds up during the extended stimulation. [ citation needed ] An example of the use of orgasm control in partnered sex can be seen in BDSM ; if the partner whose orgasm is being controlled (sometimes referred to as the submissive partner) is tied up , it may better control the orgasm [ citation needed ] (the activity is sometimes called tie and tease ; if orgasm is denied, it is then known as tease and denial).

When practicing alone in masturbation , orgasm control can heighten sexual pleasure. Another reason for practicing orgasm control is to extend the amount of time it takes to orgasm. [ citation needed ] For a female, the practitioner can enjoy direct sexual stimulation for longer periods of time, as well as increasing frequency and intensity. For a man, the speed of masturbation may vary to navigate right to the edge of ejaculation. With orgasm control, a male can experience a more intense orgasm, as well as a larger volume of semen expelled during his ejaculation. [ citation needed ] One technique, commonly referred to as 'edging', involves masturbating up until the moment before reaching the plateau phase just before orgasm occurs, and then stopping suddenly before experiencing a climax. [ citation needed ] Another technique, commonly referred to as 'surfing', involves reaching the plateau phase and slowing down the stimulation to maintain a heightened level of sensation for an extended time. [ citation needed ] Repeating either of these techniques many times during a single masturbation session may result in a stronger, more intense orgasm. [4]

Orgasm control is more often possible with masturbation . [ citation needed ] This is because masturbation allows for individual control and has no reliance on a sexual partner to achieve orgasm. Masturbation can be seen as the starting point in the technique of orgasm control. [ citation needed ] Self-stimulation can help people learn about the limits of their body and the techniques that may help them in controlling their orgasms. Recent research suggests masturbation may decrease the incidence of prostate cancer. [5]

As it has been described by Steve Bodansky and Vera Bodansky in Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure , masturbation practiced with the aim of orgasm control should be carried on with the purpose of endured sexual gratification and not to relieve tension, as 'simple' masturbation does. [6] In 2021, Masanobu Sato masturbated for 9 hours and 58 minutes at the 9th annual World Masturbate-a-thon. [7]

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This article was medically reviewed by Sara Rosen , LMSW, MEd, a certified sex therapist at the Long Island Institute of Sex Therapy.

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For many people, the goal during foreplay and sex is to orgasm as quickly as possible. However, for others, delayed gratification might be more of a turn-on than rushing into orgasm. Enter: edging.
Edging is when you intentionally stop stimulating yourself or a partner right before the point of orgasm, and then start up again and repeat the process until you're ready to have or give an orgasm.
Here's what you need to know about edging as well as how to do it either alone or with a partner.
Put simply, edging is the intentional delay and control of orgasm, says sex therapist Aida Manduley, LCSW , who practices at The Meeting Point . While to some people the concept may seem foreign and confusing, there are multiple reasons why you might want to engage in edging.
Depending on the situation and personal preferences, the duration of edging can vary.
"For some people, edging does end in orgasm in the same sexual session, while for some, the delay can span hours, days, months, or longer before an orgasm is achieved or allowed," says Manduley. Typically, the longer delays are a part of kink with power dynamics.
Despite all these benefits, edging may not be right for everyone. "For some people –– especially those who experience inconsistent arousal, difficulties staying present, or erectile difficulties –– edging can be tricky and lead to a 'lost orgasm' or 'ruined orgasm,' or getting out of the mood," says Manduley.
In and of itself, edging is safe, Manduley says. However, it depends on what methods someone is using for edging. If you're simply just stopping and holding off on stimulation, this is totally safe. But if you're getting kinky and doing something that meaningfully cuts off blood flow or numbs the genitals, for example, this could be dangerous.
It's a myth that people with penises can experience harm from being "backed up" with ejaculate due to edging. "Any sexual fluid that is produced but not expelled will get reabsorbed and/or broken down as needed," says Manduley.
The only other safety concern to consider is psychological. Manduley says you should never edge someone without consent. Always discuss edging with your partner first before doing it.
The overall concept of edging is not too complicated, and you can go about it however you'd like. "Think of it like driving around a house before pulling into the driveway. You can keep circling the house, you can pull a little bit into the driveway, then pull out, circle the house some more, and whenever you're ready, you can pull the car fully in. Or you can decide you just want to entirely drive off and not pull in at all," says Manduley.
It's a bit easier to edge during masturbation than it is to edge with a partner since there's no communication gap. Manduley says to follow these steps:
First off, make sure edging is consensual before diving in, and remember that communication is key. Our partners aren't mind readers, Manduley says. Follow these steps to edge with your partner:
Edging is an exciting and generally safe way to switch things up in the bedroom either solo or with a partner. There are multiple ways to go about it, and you can tailor the situation to your personal preferences for the most pleasure. If you're edging with a partner, remember that consent is key.

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