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Edge Play Bdsm
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Term for activity that may involve the consequences of potential short- or long-term harm or death
This article is about the sexual practice. For the film, see Edgeplay: A Film About the Runaways . For edging, see edging (sexual practice) .
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In BDSM , edgeplay is a subjective term for activity (sexual or mentally manipulative) that may challenge the conventional safe, sane and consensual ("SSC") scheme; if one is aware of the risks and consequences and is willing to accept them, then the activity is considered risk-aware consensual kink ("RACK").

Edgeplay may involve the consequences of potential short- or long-term harm or death, exemplified by activities such as breathplay ( erotic asphyxiation ), fire play , knife play , fear play , temperature play , wax play and gunplay, as well as the potential increased risk of disease seroconverting when the risk of bodily fluid exchange is present, such as with cutting , bloodplay , or barebacking .

The mindset of those involved constitutes what is edgeplay because knowledge of or experience with the activity or partner(s) may dictate what and to what extent they will act. The propriety for more dangerous or taboo-themed activities varies by individual, due to differences in moralities as well as trust between participants and experience. The only consistent rule of edgeplay is that activities (including in sadomasochism ) must not be coercive, deceitful, or injurious without prior agreement or knowledge. This does exclude how others may react to the outcome(s) of the activity if they go beyond what can be handled by the partners.

In the mid-1990s, the Living in Leather convention did not have discussion on ageplay , salirophilia or scat because, at the time, they were considered too extreme for consensual activity. By 2000, some considered them to be within the scope of edgeplay. [1]


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Safety is the most important part of it.
For some people, "living life on the edge" might mean going skydiving or telling your crush how you feel . But for other people, it could mean engaging in some hardcore kinks and sexual situations like edge play.
Edge play is an extreme form of sexual activity that falls under the BDSM umbrella, says erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven Taylor Sparks. It involves trying riskier activities for pleasure , arousal , and stimulation , explains Katie Lasson, a clinical sexologist and relationship advisor for online sex toy shop Peaches and Screams .
So whether you're interested in edge play or just want to know more about it, we've teamed up with the pros to outline everything. Let's get into it.
The first thing to know about edge play (which is also sometimes called “playing the edge”) is that it is very subjective, explains Sparks. The term essentially means to "push or be pushed beyond your own comfort zone," says Sparks—but that, of course, looks different on everyone.
“What takes you to the edge could be another person’s 'normal,’” says Sparks. And because people have their own personal limitations and definitions of what is considered risky, the the only person who can determine what your "edge play" looks like is you.
In general though, anything involving consensual intense physical or psychological pain is typically considered edge play, says sex therapist Liz Powell , PhD.
By now, you know edge play varies from person to person, but there are a few different types of sex and activities that generally always count. Typically it's anything that involves blood or breaking the skin, as well as the use of knives or needles during sex fall under the edge play category.
According to Sparks, here are a few of the most common variations:
Again, it’s super important to note that not only is enthusiastic consent an absolute must, but international sex educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro course, Kenneth Play , warns many of these acts can be super dangerous, especially breath play .
“Any time you are choking someone without the proper grip, you have the potential to collapse their windpipe, which can rapidly lead to serious consequences or death,” explains Play.
So even though breath play is commonly seen in porn or films, BDSM pros don’t really advise trying it, especially for newbies. A good alternative is holding your breath for 10 seconds on and off—this way, you're in control of when you can and can't breathe.
As for everything on this list, experts advise you and your partner agree upon a safe word prior to engaging in anything sexual. This safe word will let your partner know when something is going too far and you'd like to stop. Some examples of safe words are "red" or "pineapple" or a double tap on your partner's leg if you are unable to speak.
Even though edge play sounds a lot like edging , the two activities are actually very different. Edg ing refers to delaying orgasm for as long as possible with the goal of ultimately having a more intense one—it is actually a great way to increase the intensity and duration of your orgasms.
But could the act of edging be something you would consider to be edge play for yourself? Potentially.
Understandably, there are a lot of precautions you need to be aware of when practicing edge play. Knowing a person's physical and mental health history, having a deep understanding of the play you’re embarking on, having safety essentials (like scissors, if you’re practicing rope play) within reach, as well as having a first aid kit and information of how to use it is just the start, says Sparks.
Additionally, you’ll want to practice RACK , which is the most BDSM acronym that stands for "risk aware consensual kink.” The general premise of RACK is not that you find a way to eliminate all risks, but that you holistically consider all of the risks that might come up, Dr. Powell explains.
So before you start, you should "decide how you want to manage those [risks] and if that is a risk that feels good for you." It's basically like discussing the worst case scenario before the worst case scenario can happen.
And in BDSM, if someone's aware of the risks and consequences of the edge play they’re embarking on and they are willing to accept them, then the activity is considered RACK.
The biggest risk is seriously injuring your partner or being physically or physiologically injured beyond the agreed-upon expectations. This can result in lasting trauma and/or death, and it’s something to be taken considered with the utmost seriousness.
Discussing *exactly* how to handle an incident if something goes wrong, as well as implementing safe words and sometimes additional signals, is vital.
“When taking on this level of play, the plan is to push right up to the edge. Not over it,” says Sparks. But also, communicating your hard boundaries beforehand will better help you make your wants and limits clear.
Edge play takes a good deal of conversation, negotiation, understanding, and enthusiastic agreement, says Sparks. So much so that Play doesn't recommend exploring edge play unless you're very drawn to the idea and you have a deep level of trust and understanding with your partner.
"Edge play can damage even the most trusting of relationships, so doing it with someone you don’t know well, or if you’re not sure you want it, can lead to serious consequences," he explains. In other words, best to not engage in edge play with anyone you just met.
Before just jumping into edge play, Sparks suggests discussing the following with your partner:
Play says education should also precede the experience. He suggests reading books like The New Topping Book or The New Bottoming Book by Dossy Easton and Janet Hardy. You can also look up BDSM educators like Midori or The Kink Academy for guidance as well.
Bottom line: Figure out what you are interested in and make a detailed plan before attempting it, he says. Because the safest and sexiest way to experience edge play is to know exactly what you're getting into.


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The definition for edge play varies from individual to individual, each person has his or her interpretation of what edge play truly is. This may sound odd, but not for edge play, let me explain.
Edge play is any activity that pushes the limits of safety and sanity. The reason that edge play is so hard to define is due to the fact that everyone has different limits, and therefore they have different views of what is safe or sane. To understand what edge play is you must first understand that there are actually two types of edge play, personal edge play and general edge play.
Personal edge play is any activity that pushes ones personal limits. It can be anything; there honestly is no limit to what someone might consider stretching their personal boundaries. If someone were afraid of single tails, then using a single tail on them would be edge play to that individual. If someone were afraid of closed in spaces, then putting him or her in a cage would be considered edge play. So you see personal edge play is different for everyone, but one thing is true in all forms, this type of play is dramatic both mentally and physically.
General edge play is the second type and is what most people refer to as edge play. This is any activity that by common consensus is to be considered pushing the limits of safety and or sanity. Normally people consider such activities as blood play, breath play, gun play, fire play, needle play and knife play to be edge play. However there are a few things that I would like to clarify even with this simple explanation.
Within the vanilla world almost everything we do would be considered unsafe and insane, so how do we define unsafe and insane within the BDSM world. Let’s start with unsafe: to be unsafe an activity must be lacking in security or safety, it must involve or cause danger or risk; or be liable to hurt or harm. With this definition I would almost have to agree with the vanilla ideals, almost everything we do fits into this interpretation. However, this is not an accurate depiction of unsafe: unsafe should be described as any activity that is entered into without full disclosure of all safety issues, and a full understanding of any possible dangers or effects of said action. An activity should be considered unsafe if it will cause permanent physical damage, undue mental trauma, or unnecessary harm to an individual.
Breath play is considered unsafe due to the fact that the submissive/slave may end up with permanent brain damage if the play is not done properly or if the Dominant gets too carried away.
Blood play is considered unsafe for several reasons, the least of which is that an individual can die from blood loss, but also considering the list of blood born pathogens that can be deadly as well, like HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis. Another reason that blood play is considered unsafe is due to the high risk of infection, any time the skin is pierced there is a high risk of danger. If someone is a hemophiliac or diabetic blood play can be deadly.
Fire play is normally considered unsafe due to the risk of serious burns and permanent scarring. It only takes a second or two for a fire to get out of hand and cause serious damage.
Gun play is considered unsafe for the obvious reason, it may prove to be deadly, anytime a gun is used in play there is the possible risk of an accident. You can never be too safe when it comes to guns, even if you are sure the gun is unloaded. Guns are not toys and should be left out of play, but then again this is just my personal opinion.
Needle play is normally considered unsafe because not only do you run the risk of infection as well as the numerous diseases you expose yourself to, you can also do some pretty serious damage to someone if you don’t know what you are doing. Puncturing a vain or artery is a very real possibility, so is doing nerve damage even internal damage.
Knife play is considered unsafe for the same reasons that blood play and needle play is viewed as unsafe. When using a knife in a play scene you may accidentally cut someone severely before you realize what you have done.
Each of the above types of play has a logical reason that it is considered edge play: it is evident that unless one knows exactly what they are doing, and understands all the safety and risk issues involved someone could get seriously hurt, perhaps even die. Now comes the second portion of the equation, insane. Can something be considered insane if you are aware of the risks and accept all the possible outcomes…. ask a skydiver, or perhaps an astronaut, even a policeman or fireman. Every activity has some level of risk, it is only when one ignores the risks or does not logically think out all possible dangers that the action may be considered insane. If one enters into an activity informed, and educated of the risks then the activity should not be considered insane, but is should be considered dangerous, hence edge play.
Edge play is an extremely fascinating type of BDSM, it challenges us mentally, physically and emotionally. In the middle of a scene our mind is racing, our adrenaline is pumping or emotions are running at full force…fear, pain, love, trust, and anticipation all flooding our minds and overcoming our very existence. Edge play takes us to a level of experience that we can reach by no other manner; the level of trust one must have in their play partner is extreme. This activity will stretch all boundaries and affirm the relationship between two individuals in a way that no other activity can, it can also destroy what you have spent years building in the blink of an eye. Do not engage in edge play unless you are sure the experience is worth the risk.

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