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There’s so much more you can do than the simple up-and-down strokes of a typical hand job. We’re going to share several hand job tips and techniques that are sure to blow your husband’s mind.
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It’s very important to know about the parts of your husband’s penis and how they work. This knowledge will help you be a better lover.
The first thing you need to do is get into a comfortable position when giving your husband a handjob. Both of you would hate it if you had a cramp during a handjob.
Handjobs generate a lot of friction. The proper type and amount of lube are very important so that your handjob is a pleasurable experience.
Don’t want to deal with the mess of a handjob? Try our mess-free handjob technique .
Remember ladies that you’re handling the most tender and sensitive part of your husband’s body. Psychologically, he’ll make a connection between the way you take care of your hands and the care your hands will take of him.
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Filed Under: Handjob Techniques Published on July 16, 2015
Woah! I must try these out. I feel so dumb when it comes to hand jobs. Thanks for all the tips.
Pretty soon you’ll be an expert and he’ll be saying “ Woah! “
How long does a hand job usually last or go for? Is it awkward?
How long a hand job lasts really depends on you guys. It doesn’t have to end with him ejaculating, so you can stop and move on to other things whenever you like.
As for awkwardness, it might feel a little awkward the first few times, but it will become much easier over time.
5-10 minutes or till he can’t take it anymore and insists on you making him ejaculate
Using lubrication, grip his penis very, very loosely and barely touch the rim of the head with each finger as you move up and down the shaft. This will require less effort for you and greater sensation for him. His orgasm will occur much quicker and with much greater intensity.
Handjobs are very underrated. When my wife uses lube for them (we use Astroglide), they feel so good. To answer a question above: How long a guy will last during a handjob…hard to tell. Usually with me about 10 minutes but my wife tries to stretch it out by teasing me a bit. She knows I’m not a huge fan of cumming on myself so she always makes that part of the experience really fun.
A hand job, with a little bit of mouth action on the tip of the penis also works. The wife is stroking the penis slowly, but at the same time she’s putting the tip of the penis inside her mouth and licking it or sucking it every once in awhile. But only for a few seconds each time.
Re. Nancy’s comment about touching the penis very very lightly, my wife does this but without lube. Gently squeezing the balls, tracing her fingers lightly along the length and then lightly stroking the frenulum is exquisite. This is our sex life at the moment, usually once a week and it’s now starting to wear thin, only leading to orgasm about half the time (very frustrating!) Maybe we need to branch out, try using lube and different holds. Thanks for the great advice. I love this site.
When I give my husband a hand job I almost always alternate a little with my mouth, for lube and stimulation, also to give my hand an arm a little break. When he comes I catch it in my mouth to keep from making a mess and not to waste the semen, which I consider precious. Also, he loves to see that. A hand job can be quite messy no matter what precautions you take. I would surely hate a child or other friend or relative come into our bedroom for some reason (or where we just had it) and see semen or semen stains that we missed on bed sheets, clothes, hair or whatever. It’s neater, cleaner and a lot more fun for him to finish in my mouth!
[Edited] My wife really knows how to give amazing handjobs. Sometimes they feel like blowjobs – which is a good thing, beings how she won’t suck me.. at all. That part is VERY disappointing. But none-the-less I do enjoy the visual of getting a handjob and we both enjoy the cumshot. I asked her one time how she learned to give such good handjobs, she said “by watching you” hahah. We make love until she climaxes, then I pull out and she finishes me by hand, as she prefers not to have “my mess” leaking out of her. (I’m a big cummer)
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Out of all the go-to skills in your sex repertoire, giving a hand job is likely not one that you whip out often. Not because you're totally clueless about how to handle his penis, but because sometime after high school, the good ol' HJ lost its luster.
"The hand job definitely doesn't happen enough in adult bedrooms," says Vanessa Marin , a licensed sex therapist in Los Angeles. "It’s a huge shame because a hand job is a great way to bring pleasure to your partner."
The reasons are two-fold: One, he gets the opportunity to watch his sexy partner (you) take the reins on something he typically does himself. And two, when you do something that you don't engage in often, the act becomes infinitely hotter. Simply because it's novel.
"Our brains crave newness," Marin says—even for something that's totally old-school.
While you're revamping your sex life, you may as well know how it stacks up with others':
So here's how to give a good hand job, in case you (a) forgot, or (b) skipped that step on your way to be becoming a full-blown sex goddess...
Good sex starts with knowing what you and your partner want—and being able to talk about it. The hand job, despite its "basic" nature, is no exception.
"The easiest way to find out what works for him is to ask him how he likes to touch himself," says Holly Richmond , PhD, a certified sex therapist and licensed marriage therapist with practices in L.A., New Jersey, and Portland, Oregon. "Have him show you what he does when he's on his own, and really watch."
Not only will you get a general idea of the speed and motion he uses, you'll also likely be turned on.
"For many women [and men], watching their partner masturbate is a huge turn-on," Richmond adds. And getting in the mood to give a good handy is half the battle (amirite?).
Every man and every penis is different (obvs), but for hand-job purposes, you can divide them into two camps: circumcised and uncircumcised .
Circumcised penises (a.k.a. ones that have had the foreskin removed) are used to being touched at the tip, so you may want to spend extra time on that area, Richmond says.
Uncircumcised penises, however, can be extremely sensitive around the hood (because they're not usually exposed). So with this type, you definitely want to see how aggressively he tugs on himself before you jump in. He may not pull the foreskin down much, so take note.
If you haven't figured out by now that lube makes everything better, maybe you will now.
"When you're using your hands instead of your mouth or vagina, which are wet in nature, you need lubricant to minimize friction from skin-to-skin contact," Marin explains. "The hand job will become much, much smoother and easier for you and much more enjoyable for him."
Of course, you don't have to be a total traditionalist with your hand job. "There's no reason you can't use a little bit of spit to add moisture," adds Richmond. Just know that whereas spit dries/evaporates quickly, a good lube won't.
"A big 'issue' that comes up from men is that women are too delicate with the penis," Marin says. It's not really your fault: "Since the clitoris is really sensitive, we tend to approach the penis with more sensitivity than necessary. You can be a lot firmer than you think."
Of course, you don't want to squeeze your guy so hard that his eggplant actually turns purple. So a good way to tell? "When your partner is hard, wrap your hand around his penis and gradually increase the pressure. As you do so, have him tell you when it’s too much," suggests Marin.
You'll very likely be surprised by how much pressure he actually wants.
Chances are, your guy is used to getting himself off with a pretty straightforward up-and-down motion. (I mean, he's been doing this since, what, age 11? He's got it down pat.)
So when you're giving him a hand job, simple is better. "A lot of women get overly complicated with technique," Marin says, "which can be a little too much for him."
"A lot of women get overly complicated with technique, which can be a little too much for him."
Her advice: Switch things up a bit every minute-ish. That doesn't mean stop what you're doing and restart with an entirely different type of touch, but "make a slight tweak, like using a little more pressure or going a little slower or faster," she says.
Have two or three different techniques that you can alternate, and gradually transition between them.
For example, try cupping your whole hand around the base of his penis and doing a slight twisting motion (again, with lube!) as you move his shaft up and down. Then switch to sliding just your thumb and pointer finger (imagine the "okay" hand signal) up and down his penis, faster.
Speaking of technique, one way to make him finish fast (that is sorta the goal when your arms get tired, right?) is to bring both hands to the penis party.
"He's most likely used to just using one main hand when he masturbates, so if you use two, you're adding excitement and stimulation right off the bat," Richmond notes.
Plus, using two hands shows you're really, uh, invested in giving a good performance. "He will be much more into the hand job if he can easily tell that you are, too," says Marin. (True words.)
By this, I mean (mostly) his balls.
"Don't leave the balls out of it, unless you know he's not into ball play," Marin says. Balls are usually pretty simple: "Either cradle them softly in one hand, rub your fingers around them, or lightly stroke the area in between the two testicles, which is super-sensitive."
You could also try spreading your hand so that you grasp his balls between your fingers (do. not. squeeze.) or grazing a finger from the top of his ballsack down, she adds.
And don't stop there: "The area between his penis and anus, the perineum, has tons of nerve endings, so you can touch there, too," Richmond says. He could also like a little butt action —but always ask first. Never ass-ume (heh).
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