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Most men would enjoy nothing more than laying back and enjoying the slow, sensuous feel of a pair of wet lips wrapped around their penises. Unfortunately, some women aren't the biggest fans of the act, but worry not; there are others who would love nothing more than to greet a man's member with their scarlet lips.

Thus today's focus is on oral sex and what women adore and abhor about the sport, so to speak. So everything you've been dying to know about what your woman might be thinking when she's giving you a blowjob may lie in the answers the following women provide.
Thanks for joining me, ladies. Let's get started. To start, what do you enjoy about performing oral sex?

Nicole: I love the fact that I can make a guy squirm by using my mouth to caress his penis and testicles. Knowing that I have such control over his pleasure is flattering.

Bianca: I like doing it because he loves it. I know that when I'm getting down on my knees for him, he feels like a king and that makes me want to do it.

Toula: I'm not very keen on performing oral sex, but what I do like about it is the fact that whenever I do it, I can get whatever I want out of my husband.

Linda: I enjoy the taste and texture of certain penises. Some guys just smell great and taste sweet. Nothing compares to a smooth penis.

Uh-huh... my colleagues demanded that I ask the following... do you prefer to spit or swallow?

Toula: I've tried swallowing and I have to say, it was the most disgusting thing I've ever tasted. It was bitter and foul, not to mention I nearly puked. My poor husband was trying his hardest to comfort me even though I know I ruined his orgasm in the worst way.

Linda: I used to swallow my husband's, uh, "juice" all the time. It was a given that whenever I would fellate him, I'd swallow. It tasted amazing but unlike anything I've ever tasted before. But I wouldn't do it with just any man.

Bianca: Yeah, I agree, I think that swallowing is a very intimate thing and should only be done with a man that you trust and love. It's very flattering to a man that his woman would ingest his sperm, but if she did it with every guy, then how special is that?

Nicole: I don't see what the big deal is; I would never swallow. It's just disgusting. Even when I taste the pre-ejaculate, I feel like vomiting. One boyfriend begged me to and even tried to get me to do it by not telling me he was ready to release. I ended up spitting it out in his face. I'm certain he'll never try that again. That ought to teach him... Has a man ever told you that you were terrible?

Linda: I think that men are so excited to get you down there that even if you were chewing on his penis like it were a hot dog, he would grin and bear it. So no, I've never gotten any negative feedback.

Toula: I have. Considering my husband is the only man that I've experimented with, I used to fellate him on a fairly regular basis and one day he asked me to do it without using my teeth. Then he proceeded to give me more directions until I was doing something completely different than what I was accustomed to. That's when I realized that I sucked, both literally and figuratively speaking.

Bianca: I've gotten nothing of the kind. I've been told that I give the best oral sex ever. Although I did once fall asleep with "it" in my mouth. (The women look around in a confused manner.) Oh it's a long story... I was drunk — let's just leave it at that.

Nicole: I've never been given any feedback, good or bad. But the guys do reach orgasm so I guess I must be doing something right.

What's the kinkiest thing you've ever done when it comes to fellatio?

Toula: A friend of mine gave me this flavored, heating lube that I could use to enhance the experience. Although it was great at first, it ended up turning into a sticky mess and started to taste like saccharin. It was fun though, and my husband and I laughed for hours and still do whenever we talk about it.

Bianca: My ex always wanted to be in a threesome and although I would never let him penetrate another woman, I decided to bring my roommate into the room once and we both spent a long time pleasing his manhood. I would suck his testicles while she would suck his penis and then we'd massage the entire area with our hands. Needless to say, he nearly hit the ceiling when he ejaculated.

Nicole: I performed on two guys at the same time. While I masturbated one, I would fellate the other and then switch. As well, we were in a public place and although I would never do it again because the guys treated me terribly, I don't regret it.

Linda: I placed my ex on the bed on all fours with his legs spread, I placed myself underneath him facing his penis but with a lot of pillows under me so that I wouldn't have to strain to suck on him. And while I used my mouth, saliva and hand to massage his penis, I used my other hand to massage his prostate. Oh man, did he go crazy!

What do you dislike about fellatio?

Nicole: I hate it when a guy hasn't washed and doesn't tell me. And when I get down there, there's all this nasty dirt that ends up in my mouth. Oh, and the taste of semen, ugh!

Linda: That's called smegma and it builds up over time more often on uncircumcised penises. Anyhow, I think it's disgusting when a guy doesn't trim down there simply because it limits my ability to go crazy on him. I think all guys should be taught to keep that area clean and proper.

Toula: I dislike it when I get no feedback. When the man just lies there like a corpse. How am I supposed to know if I'm pleasing him unless he tells me? I don't have a penis; I don't know what the sensation is like

Bianca: I don't really hate anything about it, especially considering that I wouldn't wrap my mouth around just any penis. But what I can't understand is why a guy would refuse to kiss me after I'm done pleasing him. It's his penis after all, and I'm willing to kiss him after he performs on me. All my friends tell me the same thing about their guys. That trips me out.

Do you have a secret technique when it comes to performing on a man?

Bianca: Oh yeah. I usually rotate between my mouth and my vagina. I will wrap my mouth around his penis and get a good rhythm going. And when I know he's extremely excited, I'll stop for a second, massage his penis with my hand and then ride him for a minute or two. I'll keep bringing him to the edge until he finally can't take it anymore and throws me onto the bed and has his way with me. And sometimes I give my boyfriend a Popsicle and have him show me what he wants me to do to his penis. I get so excited watching him that I begin to play with myself while I suck him.

Linda: I love to put it in my mouth when it's soft and suck on it as it grows in my mouth. It's usually difficult to do because when my man knows he's going to get some, he becomes erect. That's why I usually do it when he's sleeping. There's nothing like waking a man up with awesome oral sex.

Nicole: I stroke the base of his penis with one hand, suck the top with my mouth and use the other hand to gently massage and tickle his testicles. As well, I sometimes squeeze the base of his penis trapping the blood at the top, and wrap my lips over my teeth and suck the head as quickly as I can.

Toula: Thanks for the ideas ladies (winks). The kinkiest thing I do, which may not even be considered kinky, is I massage his inner thighs while I fellate him. He likes it so I guess it's not that bad.
How long are you willing to stay down there?

Bianca: As long as it takes to please him. Once I did it for so long that my mouth was numb and my lips were swollen. Who needs lip injections? Suck on a penis for an hour, that ought to do the trick!

Nicole: I usually get bored after about ten minutes.

Linda: This may be hard to believe, but I really enjoy doing it. I feel pleasure giving him pleasure. So I wouldn't put a time limit on it, nor would I do it until I couldn't feel my lips. I treat my man's penis as though it were a precious commodity.

Toula: Oh not me. I mean, sometimes I'm in the mood to do it, but usually I do it just long enough so that he stops pestering me for it.

What advice would you give to guys when it comes to getting their women to perform on them?

Nicole: Keep it clean and if you know you're not fresh, don't let her get on her knees. Otherwise, she'll always remember that bad, stank experience.

Linda: Unless you want to be referred to as "Jungle Jim," I suggest you keep the area trim and proper.

Toula: If you want to receive, you have to give. And I'm talking with enthusiasm.

Bianca: React. Moan, say things like "yes, right there, this is amazing," women need to know that you're enjoying what they're doing.

Ladies, thank you so much for your candid answers and I hope we can do this again sometime.

Well there you have it gentlemen, things you've always wanted to know but were too afraid to ask. I hope that one of these women happens to fit the bill when it comes to what you want and if not, don't worry. There is someone for everyone and there is surely a woman who will be more than willing to please you.

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by Jordyn Taylor and The Editors of MH Published: Oct 20, 2020
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Ever wondered if she’s actually enjoying herself?
If you enjoy going down on the woman in your life , there's a good chance she wants to return the favor. But have you ever wondered if she's actually enjoying herself when she gives you a blowjob? After all, the oral sex move has "job" in its title—it's only natural to second guess her excitement as she makes her way below your belt.
Of course, every person enjoys different things in the bedroom, and it's impossible to make a blanket statement about whether or not women like giving blowjobs. But we can tell you this much: some women definitely enjoy performing oral sex on their partners. Just peruse the hundreds of responses to this Reddit thread , which asked: “Women who like giving blowjobs, why?”
The women who responded had a variety of reasons for their love of giving head. On a psychological level, some said they enjoyed the power of having their partner at their mercy, and being able to control their pleasure with the slightest tongue flick. On a physical level, others said they liked the taste and the feeling of a smooth penis in their mouth. And then there's the emotional side to blowjobs: a number of respondents said they use oral sex to show their partner how much they love and appreciate them.
Just remember, not every woman likes to give oral sex. If that's your partner, be respectful, and don't worry—you can always get yourself a blowjob machine .
Here's what 17 women had to say about why they like giving blowjobs.
"Because I like receiving, and it would be shitty of me to expect enthusiasm down there if I wasn't willing to go to town on a guy's junk myself." [ via ]
"Turns me on, makes me feel sexy. I love feeling a guy grow hard for me. I suppose its also a control thing." [ via ]
“I feel in control... but most importantly, I just love pleasing him. My boyfriend is currently working 65-70 hour weeks, manual labor. He’s exhausted when he comes home. He eats dinner, plays on the computer 30-45 minutes, then drags himself to bed. He’s doing all this so I don’t have to worry about working while I’m in school.
"So, a few times a week, he gets a BJ. He’s too tired for sex, but that release helps him sleep, and keep his stress levels in check. I occasionally get sex in the process but not like we used to. That’s ok. This season of our lives will be over soon, and things will get back to normal.” [ via ]
"Everything! I love pleasing a man. I love hearing him moan. I love being in control of his pleasure. I love insisting that he relax and let me do this! I love the feeling of him inside of me. I love feeling him grow as he becomes more excited! I love the intimate connection that we form. And I love the taste of cum." [ via ]
"It's intimate and deeply satisfying. I like the feeling of having a hard or soft penis in my mouth. It's fulfilling for me." [ via ]
"I love sucking it from softness to hardness. It's so exciting feeling it growing in my mouth." [ via ]
"I love hearing a man moan and cum because of what I'm doing to him...but the moans are the best part. It sucks when a man isn't vocal." [ via ]
"I always enjoyed the feeling of giving pleasure to my partner with oral, but only in the past few years did that grow into more of a serious kink. I only really watch blowjob porn. If I am thinking about sex, it is about blowjobs. If I am having sex, (not always but most of the time,) I am thinking about giving him head. It is pretty much my number one desire in the bedroom now. I love deep-throating the most and all the other frills that go with it. But light teasing sessions are also really great, the slow build up for both of us is very exciting. I have absolutely no idea why I like it so much, I just do, but I have never had any complaints so never really worried." [ via ]
"Guys tend to be quiet and reserved with most sex acts, except blow jobs. We get responsive as hell reactions from you in this activity more than any other with minimal effort or personal distraction. Makes a girl feel sexy, and as such more likely to want more. Theres also a sense of power." [ via ]
"We have you at our mercy." [ via ]
"Cum tastes amazing. There's something to be said about making a man quake when all you do is roll your tongue around and purr to make your mouth vibrate. I also love the fact that it drives him wild when I do it." [ via ]
"I've always hated blowjobs and refused to do it. The most recent guy I'm with has an amazing dick. Its so beautiful and looking at it makes my mouth water. I love how it feels in my mouth, how he swears when my mouth goes on him. He smiles so happily and it makes me happy for making him happy." [ via ]
Does penis size actually matter? Let's discuss:
"I'm a pleaser in the bedroom so it really turns me on when I know that I'm turning the guy on. I love preforming oral more than I like receiving it because of the reactions. I wanna see your head fall back, I wanna see your eyes close and open repeatedly, I wanna hear you moan and groan, I want you to tell me what to do and how to please you. Plus foreplay is my favorite part of sex. The simulation and knowing that someone enjoys what I'm doing to them. If my jaw didn't get so cramped easily, I'd do it for as long as the guy wants." [ via ]
"I used to find it very boring. I knew it should be fun, because you get to feel in control. But I didn't get that vibe.
"Then I realized: what's the point of a blow job if he's not tied up?
"With a new kinkier lover I can't get enough of it. Get those limbs under control with some rope and there isn't anything stopping me from playing for a couple of hours before finally allowing relief :)" [ via ]
"Personally, I enjoy going down in my husband because I not only have control, I am also showing him in action just how much I love and appreciate him and everything he does for our family. I feel that head is a very intimate act, and it definitely helps get the point across.
"I also enjoy giving him a blow job because it's a great stress reliever as well. I like knowing that he can come home to me and I can make his stress fall away with just one action. But most of all, when I take care of him, he always returns the favor. ;)" [ via ]
"The feeling of knowing my attention is solely concentrated on the most tender parts of him and he trusts me. The way he looks at me, the noises and movements he makes, knowing when he is going to orgasm and feeling this satisfaction that it's something we enjoy together. The fact he tastes amazing and it can be hot and slutty or sensual and slow. It's just the fucking best to be honest. And he knows I love it. Like I don't think I would ever say no to it because I just want him to feel that good because of me." [ via ]
"I like it because it's both dominating and submissive at the same time. I love the sounds he makes, and the way he grabs my hair. I love the way he feels in my mouth. He is so generous in making me feel good, that I like it doing it for him. And yes, I swallow." [ via ]
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