Do Women Like Receiving Oral Sex

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Cunnilingus is a magical thing, this much we know.
But what does good oral sex actually feel like?
So it’s high time to find out the truth about receiving head when you have a vagina.
What is it about the sensation that feels so glorious?
We asked a bunch of women to describe their oral experiences to find out. All names have been changed.
‘For a woman receiving good oral sex is waves of pleasure that build up to a feeling of release, which makes the vagina quiver as well as the rest of the body.’
‘When it comes to oral, because I’m so sensitive it’s just insanely ticklish at first. I can barely deal with the tickling sensation to begin with and my partner really has to move slowly and cautiously at first until I get used to it.
‘But when it’s good it feels kind of like a really warm squishy fruit. Like someone’s put a papaya or kiwi in the microwave for a few seconds and pushing it on your vulva.
‘It’s like, the more amorphous the mouth the better it feels. You don’t want to be able to tell the difference between the lips or tongue, just a nice, sloppy warm mess.’
‘I find good oral doesn’t start with oral. You have to get me going a bit with light touches, don’t just dive in there.
‘Then it’s a bit like a warm, coiled tension, and you feel your muscles start to tense up in anticipation.
‘It never feels very “wet”, probably because I’m already wet down there.
‘It feels incredible intimate, and for that reason I’ll only do oral with someone I’m in a relationship with. I don’t know why, but for me it seems even more intimate than standard penetrative sex.
‘When I eventually orgasm, I feel it most in my head, which is all full of lights and tingling, while all the muscles in my vagina contract – sometimes I get the hiccups after, which is weird.’
‘Good oral sex is unlike anything else. You feel the sensations not only in your vagina but all over. You feel light headed. Your toes tingle, your belly warms in anticipation of the orgasm you know is heading your way. You feel the pleasure in every part of your body.
‘You know where you’re on a rollercoaster and you have those moments of feeling weightless? That’s was it can be like because the pleasure is so intense. If they take their time it can take you to a whole other place.
‘They have to be into it. Not everyone is. Don’t just do it with someone who sees it as a quicker way to get to get to the main event. It won’t be the same.
‘When they’re into it and they are focusing solely on your pleasure everything else just drops away. If they also look like they’re enjoying it that just adds to it.
‘Tip: Make eye contact! It’s so hot when someone is pleasuring you with their mouth and you make eye contact.’
‘It’s quite soft and wet when you’re on your back when someone’s going down on you.
‘It’s more intense if their tongue is on your clitoris; it gives the feeling of sharp but pleasant heat.’
‘All the pleasure of clitoral stimulation, but with none of the friction of using your hands. Smooth, wet, warm.’
‘The best way I can describe the sensation is tickling, but good .
‘It feels really, really intense and can be overwhelming. I’ll often have to say stop for a bit because it just feels like too much pleasure, as weird as it sounds.
‘It’s warmth, tingles, intense pleasure, all that… when it’s good.
‘If it’s not good, it feels awkward and physically uncomfortable. Please don’t bite.’
‘So personally to me, oral sex, when done right, feels like warm waves crashing over me, it’s like a build up where the waves are bigger every time. It starts small like baby waves lapping and grows until they’re complete tidal waves, which then sparks the best sensation, one I can only describe as a release of tension.’
‘Good oral feels like a surprise but it also relaxes me. I often feel stressed when getting oral because most men don’t seem to want to be down there.
‘Physically, it’s wet (a good kind of wet) and tingling, with the added touch of the fingers making it absolutely amazing.
‘It’s almost like being a bit drunk when the orgasm starts to build, my head goes fuzzy, my eyes roll into the back of my head and BAM.
“I’ve only really ever had great oral twice in my life – and isn’t that just depressing?
‘Most men miss the mark completely – quite literally, they focus on one area (the clitoris) without using their hands elsewhere or even moving further down, and personally I find my clitoris is just too sensitive for that kind of attention.
‘I rarely come from oral sex but there have been two mind blowing experiences. The first was my ex-boyfriend back when I was 16, who spent a good half hour down there and had be orgasming so loud my neighbour dropped a note the day after asking us to keep it down.
‘It was partly his technique – use tongue on clit, fingers inside vagina, keep a steady rhythm – but also his enthusiasm. I still remember how proud he looked after I climaxed. I returned the favour, of course.
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‘The second time was with a man who claimed to be “the absolute best at giving head”, which is a very bold claim made by many a men in my sex life over the years – none of whom ever live up to it.
‘But this man did. He elevated the experience by using his fingers inside my vagina, pressing on my g-spot, but also used his tongue inside my vagina, not just on the clitoris.
‘And then he went for a bit of anal play too, just to mix it up.
‘Our relationship didn’t last because his personality was… disrespectful and boring outside of the bedroom, but I’ll never forget the oral sex.’
‘Honestly, oral does so little for me. It just feels like a wet, sloppy, swirling mess. Really haphazard and not making enough proper contact to get me off.’
‘I really like sex and I’m horny a lot but my vagina always feels ticklish when someone else touches it, especially if they are kissing it or licking it. It’s a mixture of getting more excited and feeling like I have to laugh.
‘But when the tongue finally touches the clit, it’s amazing. It’s a soft touch radiating pleasure throughout my body, like the most gentle and pleasurable massage ever.
‘I enjoy it the most when I feel like my partner is making out with my private parts, essentially, including giving it gentle pecks.’
‘Receiving oral sex is the most intimate I ever feel with someone. More so than giving oral sex or even full on sex. I feel at my most vulnerable.
‘In terms of sensations, it is quite varied. I love it when it starts quite gentle with a lot of kisses on my thighs and intensifies slowly with more and more pressure, and penetration with tongue and fingers. And the clit is so sensitive that you can feel the texture of his tongue, and it sends electric shocks all over your body. It’s great…
‘My favourite part is when I climax, he climbs over to me and kisses me passionately. I can literally taste how much I’ve just enjoyed myself.’
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‘I mean…they call it getting “eaten out” for a reason. It basically does what it says on the tin.
‘But I think you can tell immediately how much someone fancies you from how enthusiastic they are about oral sex and that’s half the enjoyment of it, no matter their technique. I think we can have so many insecurities about what our vulvas look like, taste like and smell like that there’s nothing more confidence boosting than someone going down on you and loving it.’
‘It’s ticklish! At first, that can feel weird and irritating, but then the tickling builds up into pleasure and it’s brilliant.’

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Ever wondered if she’s actually enjoying herself?
If you enjoy going down on the woman in your life , there's a good chance she wants to return the favor. But have you ever wondered if she's actually enjoying herself when she gives you a blowjob? After all, the oral sex move has "job" in its title—it's only natural to second guess her excitement as she makes her way below your belt.
Of course, every person enjoys different things in the bedroom, and it's impossible to make a blanket statement about whether or not women like giving blowjobs. But we can tell you this much: some women definitely enjoy performing oral sex on their partners. Just peruse the hundreds of responses to this Reddit thread , which asked: “Women who like giving blowjobs, why?”
The women who responded had a variety of reasons for their love of giving head. On a psychological level, some said they enjoyed the power of having their partner at their mercy, and being able to control their pleasure with the slightest tongue flick. On a physical level, others said they liked the taste and the feeling of a smooth penis in their mouth. And then there's the emotional side to blowjobs: a number of respondents said they use oral sex to show their partner how much they love and appreciate them.
Just remember, not every woman likes to give oral sex. If that's your partner, be respectful, and don't worry—you can always get yourself a blowjob machine .
Here's what 17 women had to say about why they like giving blowjobs.
"Because I like receiving, and it would be shitty of me to expect enthusiasm down there if I wasn't willing to go to town on a guy's junk myself." [ via ]
"Turns me on, makes me feel sexy. I love feeling a guy grow hard for me. I suppose its also a control thing." [ via ]
“I feel in control... but most importantly, I just love pleasing him. My boyfriend is currently working 65-70 hour weeks, manual labor. He’s exhausted when he comes home. He eats dinner, plays on the computer 30-45 minutes, then drags himself to bed. He’s doing all this so I don’t have to worry about working while I’m in school.
"So, a few times a week, he gets a BJ. He’s too tired for sex, but that release helps him sleep, and keep his stress levels in check. I occasionally get sex in the process but not like we used to. That’s ok. This season of our lives will be over soon, and things will get back to normal.” [ via ]
"Everything! I love pleasing a man. I love hearing him moan. I love being in control of his pleasure. I love insisting that he relax and let me do this! I love the feeling of him inside of me. I love feeling him grow as he becomes more excited! I love the intimate connection that we form. And I love the taste of cum." [ via ]
"It's intimate and deeply satisfying. I like the feeling of having a hard or soft penis in my mouth. It's fulfilling for me." [ via ]
"I love sucking it from softness to hardness. It's so exciting feeling it growing in my mouth." [ via ]
"I love hearing a man moan and cum because of what I'm doing to him...but the moans are the best part. It sucks when a man isn't vocal." [ via ]
"I always enjoyed the feeling of giving pleasure to my partner with oral, but only in the past few years did that grow into more of a serious kink. I only really watch blowjob porn. If I am thinking about sex, it is about blowjobs. If I am having sex, (not always but most of the time,) I am thinking about giving him head. It is pretty much my number one desire in the bedroom now. I love deep-throating the most and all the other frills that go with it. But light teasing sessions are also really great, the slow build up for both of us is very exciting. I have absolutely no idea why I like it so much, I just do, but I have never had any complaints so never really worried." [ via ]
"Guys tend to be quiet and reserved with most sex acts, except blow jobs. We get responsive as hell reactions from you in this activity more than any other with minimal effort or personal distraction. Makes a girl feel sexy, and as such more likely to want more. Theres also a sense of power." [ via ]
"We have you at our mercy." [ via ]
"Cum tastes amazing. There's something to be said about making a man quake when all you do is roll your tongue around and purr to make your mouth vibrate. I also love the fact that it drives him wild when I do it." [ via ]
"I've always hated blowjobs and refused to do it. The most recent guy I'm with has an amazing dick. Its so beautiful and looking at it makes my mouth water. I love how it feels in my mouth, how he swears when my mouth goes on him. He smiles so happily and it makes me happy for making him happy." [ via ]
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"I'm a pleaser in the bedroom so it really turns me on when I know that I'm turning the guy on. I love preforming oral more than I like receiving it because of the reactions. I wanna see your head fall back, I wanna see your eyes close and open repeatedly, I wanna hear you moan and groan, I want you to tell me what to do and how to please you. Plus foreplay is my favorite part of sex. The simulation and knowing that someone enjoys what I'm doing to them. If my jaw didn't get so cramped easily, I'd do it for as long as the guy wants." [ via ]
"I used to find it very boring. I knew it should be fun, because you get to feel in control. But I didn't get that vibe.
"Then I realized: what's the point of a blow job if he's not tied up?
"With a new kinkier lover I can't get enough of it. Get those limbs under control with some rope and there isn't anything stopping me from playing for a couple of hours before finally allowing relief :)" [ via ]
"Personally, I enjoy going down in my husband because I not only have control, I am also showing him in action just how much I love and appreciate him and everything he does for our family. I feel that head is a very intimate act, and it definitely helps get the point across.
"I also enjoy giving him a blow job because it's a great stress reliever as well. I like knowing that he can come home to me and I can make his stress fall away with just one action. But most of all, when I take care of him, he always returns the favor. ;)" [ via ]
"The feeling of knowing my attention is solely concentrated on the most tender parts of him and he trusts me. The way he looks at me, the noises and movements he makes, knowing when he is going to orgasm and feeling this satisfaction that it's something we enjoy together. The fact he tastes amazing and it can be hot and slutty or sensual and slow. It's just the fucking best to be honest. And he knows I love it. Like I don't think I would ever say no to it because I just want him to feel that good because of me." [ via ]
"I like it because it's both dominating and submissive at the same time. I love the sounds he makes, and the way he grabs my hair. I love the way he feels in my mouth. He is so generous in making me feel good, that I like it doing it for him. And yes, I swallow." [ via ]

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