Do I Have A Fetish

Do I Have A Fetish
Medically Reviewed by Brunilda Nazario, MD on January 27, 2015
While you might like the sight of your partner in a pair of high heels during sex, that doesn’t necessarily mean you have a shoe fetish.
A fetish is sexual excitement in response to an object or body part that’s not typically sexual, such as shoes or feet. They’re more common in men.
Many people with fetishes must have the object of their attraction at hand or be fantasizing about it, alone or with a partner, in order to become sexually aroused, get an erection, and have an orgasm .
A person with a fetish might masturbate while they hold, smell, rub, or taste the object. Or they might ask their partner to wear it or use it during sex.
People can “fetishize” almost anything.
There are many web sites about lots of fetish interests, says Richard Krueger, MD, an associate clinical professor of psychiatry at Columbia University. “Anything you could imagine.”
According to a study, the most common fetishes involve body parts, such as feet, or body features, such as obesity, piercings, or tattoos. The feet are by far the most common. Body fluid, body size, and hair fetishes aren’t far behind.
After body parts comes things you wear. The same study put clothes worn on the hips and legs, such as stockings and skirts, at the top of the list. Footwear, then underwear, ranked closely behind.
Fetishes that involve the feel of a certain material, often leather or rubber, are also common. Some people like dressing themselves and their partner in furry animal costumes.
Sexual behavior experts don't agree on the causes. Some people can trace their attraction back to early childhood, before they were aware of their sexuality.
A fetish can also come from seeing inappropriate sexual behavior during childhood or from sexual abuse, says Kenneth Rosenberg, MD. He's a psychiatry professor at Weill Cornell Medical College.
A sexual fetish is not a disorder by definition, but it can reach that level if it causes intense, lasting distress.
“Whether somebody is doing this by themselves or with a partner, if they’re happy with it, then it’s not an issue," Krueger says, as long as it causes pleasure and no one is being forced to take part.
“My patients come to me because they feel it’s a problem,” Rosenberg says. “Their behaviors are not interesting, fun, or even sexy. They are not simply experimenting with novel means of sexual expression. They are desperate, compulsive, and sometimes so distressed by their behaviors that suicide is a consideration.”
When it's a disorder, it feels out of control. Someone might disappear from work or home to practice their fetish in secret. This fascination could also keep them from doing their job.
“A physician could have a foot fetish, for example, and spend a large amount of time and attention on his patients’ feet,” Krueger says.
People with these disorders might also steal to get the object of their desire. Often, they can’t have meaningful sexual relationships with other people. They might prefer to have time alone with their object, even when they're in a relationship with another person.
“If your partner said, ‘Wear a pair of sexy shoes tonight,' you’d probably say, ‘Why not?’ But if your partner said, ‘You can sleep in the other room, just leave me your shoes,’ that would be a problem,” Rosenberg says.
Standard treatment includes medication and talk therapy with a psychiatrist or counselor.
Still, some fetishes can be harmless. A recent study on “adult baby/diaper lovers” found that among nearly 1,800 men and 140 women who report having this fetish, most said they were "comfortable" with their fetish and that it wasn't a problem.
The same can be said of people who enjoy bondage, discipline or domination, sadism, and masochism, commonly known as “BDSM,” Rosenberg says. As long as everyone agrees, then chances are “no one’s getting hurt in a way that is extreme or permanent, and everyone’s happy with what’s happening.”
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Richard Krueger, MD, associate clinical professor, Columbia University, N.Y.
Kenneth Rosenberg, MD, clinical associate professor, Weill Cornell Medical College, N.Y.
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I have several. The first one is that as an uncircumcised man, I like to keep my foreskin pulled back most of the time. This gives me the feel and look of being circumcised but without the permanent surgery. Second fetish is a pee fetish. I love to watch videos where a lady struggles to hold back her pee. As a bonus, if she exposes herself, I love to see how her vagina begins to leak. Added to that, I would love to get a lady quite desperate for a pee. I then would personally undress her lower extremities and get her to pee a small amount into a cup which I hold near her urethra. After an once or two, I would ask her to cut the stream. I would make her hold it again for a few minutes. Repeat as many times as possible.
Oh yes! Girls sitting gently on my face such that I can lick her, finger her G-spot with my right hand and finger her butt hole with my left hand. Imagine that!
That’s new ! I haven’t heard of this one, would it be hard to do?
Not hard. You sit on your knees facing forward gently lowering your pussy over the guys mouth. Everything is accessible. It is the willingness that counts.
Teasing (not edging; there’s a difference). And being teased, but there aren’t many people who are good enough at it to leave me literally dripping. That being said, I mostly prefer just regular sex, especially oral.
Please explain teasing vs edging difference?
@Guardian45 teasing is lighter. More playful. Doesn't always lead to orgasm, or even the edge of orgasm. Just gets one or both of you a little horny (sometimes in obvious ways ).
I guess I got an hand fetish, and biting one? Kink wise, I got a bad praise kink
I'm not not going to front I low-key have a foot fetish. or severe weird fetish but definently a turn on , when I'm on top of her ill lift her legs in the air towards my mouth and thrust inside her while sucking her color paintedtoe nails. fetish in a wayy
Not sure these are fetishes, because they are directly sexual.
There are five here. *Small breasts. *Pokey nipples. *Flat stomach/girl abs *Navel jewelry *Camel toe. If I saw her on the beach, I might forget to breathe and then I would run on home to "relieve tension".
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What about you doll what's your kink
Not sure if these are full on fetishes but... -giving a pretty girl who I’m hooking up with a facial because I’m blessed with being able to shoot huge cumshots -getting handjobs from girls with really nicely manicured nails -foreplay, sucking her nipples, kissing her neck, kissing every inch of her, licking her inner thigh, until the girl is practically begging for me to fuck -getting head while driving
I do, but I find it rare that other women have fetishes, it seems like it's mostly men... my fetish is that I get turned on by wearing winter clothes, or just dressing too warmly for the weather... (I'm serious)
I have plenty of kinks, but not really any fetishes besides being called Daddy
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Sex on th whole, but sucking my nipples ooooh boi... and chocolate... but on th good sense of things I'm weak to bible conversation
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No no... it hav good weakness to... not only negative
Yes , I'm really into women's asses the shape , size and so on stockings with garters is a must.
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Yes of course. My fetish is uncircumcised penis. Tight foreskin. Pull back foreskin. Playing foreskin. Girls pull back foreskin. Are you uncircumcised or circumcised. Watching circumcision. Nurse pull back foreskin
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To an object, body part, or action? People have preferences for certain things. Some call these preferences fetishes. The nature of what is considered a fetish changes drastically depending upon your culture. The word fetish boils down to liking / being attracted to something. So, do you have any fetish, or do you not know about it yet? Find out … Read More with this what is your fetish quiz! Read Less
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B. His/her look is cool, he/she has trendy accessories
2. You've just found out that your friend is celebrating his or her birthday. What would you like to give as a present?
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A. I like all the beautiful clothes
B. Everything fits me. Whatever I put on, I'm unmatched
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A. To a store with awesome mannequins
B. I'll go to the first store and then to the fitting room
C. To a store with fine bags or shoes
10. Which of these colors is the most attractive one in your opinion?
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