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The sensation of penetrative sex — sliding your erection in and out of a warm, lubricated opening — is hard to beat.
That’s the principle behind the popularity of Fleshlights, at least. Sure, a portable, customizable, reusable hole for guys to penetrate to their hearts’ content was a stroke of genius, but a brand-name Fleshlight isn’t the only way to achieve a similar sensation (and you don’t even need to buy one from a competitor).
As guys have been discovering for a long time, you can approximate the feeling of wet and warm penetrative pleasure on your own with some handy products you probably have at home already.
Sound shady? Well, making a DIY male sex toy in the form of a fake vagina (or anus) from household items isn’t the most braggable exploit, but if you’re dead-set on solo pleasure without breaking the bank, these options are guaranteed to make the tried-and-true hand-and-lotion method seem positively pedestrian by comparison.
If your curiosity is piqued and you want to know more about the domains of pleasure to be discovered with homemade Fleshlight alternatives, keep on reading.
A pocket pussy — also known as a Fleshlight or a DIY (do-it-yourself) Fleshlight, an artificial vagina, a fifi (a term used in prison), a stroker and a male masturbator, among others — is the rather unfortunate name given to any sex toy meant to be penetrated by a penis.
Whether it’s made by Fleshlight, another company or by you at home, it’s always an object that is made specifically for sexual purposes. It’s generally not much bigger than the penis that’ll be going into it (hence the word “pocket” in the phrase “pocket pussy” — it could literally fit in your pocket).
Now, there are all kinds of models designed to appeal to all kinds of people, and if you have the budget for it and are curious, you’re sure to find something you wouldn’t mind ejaculating into.
But if you don’t have the budget for it — most Fleshlights range from $60 to $100 — or you’re curious about what a homemade pocket pussy feels like, there are options in that department, too. If you’re willing to bring some arts and crafts skills to the table, untold worlds of DIY Fleshlight pleasure await.
How simple or complicated your DIY pocket pussy gets is up to you. The basic principles you need are a container (something that can withstand you thrusting your erection into it repeatedly), a soft material (something that’ll feel good when you put your erection up against it/inside it), and potentially some lubricant, depending on how slippery your soft material is. With that being said, let’s take a look at your of your options.
If you’ve heard of a cornstarch Fleshlight, it’s is a pretty clever idea — unfortunately, it doesn’t actually work. Instructions for making one appeared online at some point in the past few years and encouraged people to pour cornstarch in a glass of water, microwave it, dig out a penis-shaped hole, then microwave it again. However, the final product, while cool in appearance, is neither sturdy nor comfortable.
The sock Fleshlight looks way less cool, but it’s much more likely to be functional. You’ll need three pairs of socks, two rubber bands and a latex glove. Place the glove between two folded-up pairs of socks, then wrap the third around the whole contraption. Next, secure the third pair of socks with a rubber band, and place the second one around the top of the glove. Squirt some lube into the glove and you should be good to go.
Don’t have socks on hand? (Or… on foot?) Surprising as it may sound, the bouncy texture of sponges can go a long way towards mimicking the sensation of penetration. Stuff some sponges into a Pringles can or similar oblong object and wrap a condom or latex glove around the top. After that, fill that with some lube, wrap some rubber bands around the condom or glove to secure it to the can, and go to town. Make sure to buy big, pillowy sponges, though — thin or worn-out ones won’t do the trick.
In a rush and don’t have time for lengthy arts and crafts projects? Throw a towel in the dryer for a few minutes to get it warm, run it under hot water to get it wet after, then put on a condom and wrap the towel around your erection. The condom will give you some lubrication (and a place for your ejaculate to go without making a mess), and the warm and wet towel will simulate the feel of real penetration. You can add some lube inside the condom for a bit more intense of a sensation, too.
Sex is technically a flesh-on-flesh experience, so it makes sense to try to re-create that with, uh, actual flesh. Though this might be too out-there for some people, using room temperature or slightly warmed pieces of meat — such as wrapping liver or chicken skin around your penis, or stuffing something like a Pringles can or empty milk carton with pieces of raw meat — can help deliver a sensation you just won’t get from synthetic materials. Pro tip, though? Thoroughly wash your penis off before doing anything else, as raw meat can carry genuinely nasty bacteria.
In theory, this should be pretty straightforward, but if there’s anything you’re not clear about, here are some pointers.
First, you’ll want to make sure your DIY stroker is ready to go. Ideally, test it out with a finger to see if there are any sharp points (and to see how easy it is to put something in and out of it). If you feel anything painful or uncomfortable with your finger, you should probably not stick your erection in until you’ve sorted that out.
Next, lubricate the hole in your DIY pocket pussy with something safe like a sexual lubricant, which is designed for this very purpose, or a skin lotion. Don’t use soap or shampoo, as these can sometimes be painful on sensitive skin. You can also spread some of your lubricating agent on your penis for good measure as this can be a great way to achieve an erection prior to penetration.
If you haven’t already, get yourself at least somewhat hard before penetrating your homemade stroker. Thrust into it, moving the stroker and your penis back and forth to achieve a pleasurable sensation. If it feels good, keep doing it! Ideally, you’ll be able to bring yourself to climax this way. If you can’t, don’t feel too bad — homemade male masturbators aren’t for everyone.
Finally, if you do ejaculate, pull your erection out, clean it off, and either dispose of your homemade Fleshlight, or clean it out.
Reading all about those home hacks make you hanker for the real thing? Or you’ve just decided you’ll never figure out how to make your own Fleshlight at home? No fear! Real Fleshlights still exist. Check out these picks and see if any of them sounds like your ideal stroker of choice:
Fleshlight picks and descriptions by Lindsay Tigar
For: Decreasing sensitivity
With three different fits for the head, lubricant, a shower mount and a sex toy cleanser, this $105 buy will take your masturbation game from zero to all-star. The nice thing about having variety is that it help guide your next purchase and ultimately, help you discover the right kind of plastic for your bod. $109.95 at AdamEve.com
Best For: A cooling sensation
Like ice cube play in the bedroom? Or enjoy a cold shower after sex? This sex toy might be your best bet then, since it offers a cooling effect when you use it. And hey, maybe it’ll even build up your endurance for the next time you have intercourse, if you can master an erection, even with the lower temperature. $74.99 at Lovehoney.com
Best For: Vibrations
More movement means more intense orgasms, and this Fleshlight offers it all. While you’re jerking off, spines along the sleeve will pulse at your directed speed, giving you a whole other meaning to riding dirty. $119.95 at Fleshlight.com
Best For: Oral sex
For the nights when your girlfriend isn’t in the mood to go to town, or when you’re single and you really miss getting regular BJs, then consider this new buy as a good idea. It’s meant to recreate the feeling of oral sex, complete with suction. Add in some lube to make it extra slippery. $69.95 at Fleshlight.com
Best For: Customization
OK, so maybe this is technically DIY, but a little more advanced. Here, you can choose what matters the most to you, from how big and how fast to the lips and the special effects, and, depending on your budget, you can truly go to town creating an at-home vagina that’s just about as perfect as the real thing. And hey, if she’s into it, maybe your girlfriend will help you recreate her own, making sure that no matter what, she’s always on your mind (and in your pants). Find out more at Fleshlight.com
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If the phrase "homemade sex toy" makes you immediately imagine a trip to the ER, you might be surprised to hear they're not necessarily as questionable as you'd expect...if you choose wisely.
DIY toys for sex and masturbation can be a great option if you're just beginning to (literally) play with your sex life—solo or with a partner. They're a low-cost, convenient way to experiment with what you like in a sex toy in terms of length, girth, texture, and more. Or, maybe you've exhausted your drawer (or closet, or room) of sex toys and want to try something new. Plus, some options are even disposable, making cleanup a breeze.
If you're hesitant to try something mechanical, man-made, or explicitly created for sex play, going the DIY route may make you feel more comfortable, according to sexuality and relationship consultant Dr. Sara Nasserzadeh , PhD. "Homemade sex toys featuring everyday objects are accessible," she says. "Plus, they can bring lightness and laughter to the dynamic, which is priceless." Just imagine never looking at a wooden spoon or cucumber without getting turned on again.
That being said, it can be difficult to know where to begin when you want to branch out from traditional sex toys . It's important to not just grab any old household object for bedroom play. Luckily, your search for the perfect bedroom accessory (that you probably already own!) ends here. These 27 homemade sex toys are all expert-approved—so you know they're both fun and safe to use.
Unless they're crotchless, you have to take off your nylons to have sex, so why not involve them in the fun instead of tossing them on the floor?
If you have consent from your partner, use these to tie their wrists and ankles, or to blindfold them while giving them a lap dance or grazing parts of your body on their lips, says psychologist and sex therapist Rachel Needle , PsyD.
"Remember, all other senses are heightened when sight is deprived, so blinding them with something silky or sexy to the touch is ideal," she says.
"Get a clean PVC pipe with the circumference and length that fits his penis," Laino says. "Lube the inside and have him penetrate it." That gives an all new meaning to the word hardware, eh?
"Underwear can easily be used as a gag," Matatas says. "Just be sure to fold the underwear from its corners into the center, so that if it unfolds, the bulk of the material will fold out of the mouth instead of back into the throat."
Sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas recommends pressure point massage rollers. This one could easily be used in solo play to rub along your clit, nipples, or bum.
Chokers are super versatile in the bedroom, Morgan explains. Of course, they're a good option for people interested in collaring.
But even if that's not your style, Morgan says that just the act of putting a choker on can be exciting because it signals "'if you give me permission to collar you, now we're in active play, and you're going to take the submissive role.'"
"Some men will use a sock filled with lotion or lube and masturbate away," says Debra Laino , a sexologist as well as couples and marriage therapist. And, there’s no reason you can’t do that for them or have them do it next to you while you watch and stimulate yourself with your own toy of choice.
"Both partners using their own sex toys to mutually masturbate can add some diversity and spice to a couple's sex life," Laino says.
Sure, you can attempt to hold an ice cube in your mouth while delivering oral sex, or even swish ice-cold water in your mouth beforehand, but the thing about ice is that...it melts.
Instead, create that same effect by swishing your mouth with mouthwash before giving oral, says sex educator Laura McGuire. "It’s going to give off that tingling sensation that a lot of people really, really love," she explains.
But if you don't mind a little mess, ice is a great way to try out temperature play, says Tyomi Morgan , a certified sexologist and pleasure coach. "You can put it on any part of the body, any of your erogenous zones," she says.
She suggests using an ice cube to make trails on your body or your partner's body and then using your breath to emphasize that cool feeling.
This ice cube tray makes large squares that won't melt right away, so you can keep the party going all night long.
If you want to take your blow job game to a new level, this tool—er, jewel—is for you, says Laino.
"Slowly wrap it around your partner's penis and jerk them off," she suggests. Added pleasure bonus: Kiss and suck on the tip while you’re at it.
"The texture of the pearls gives the penis a very different and unique sensation," Laino says.
A wooden spoon is perfect for spanking because you can go soft or hard, depending on your partner’s preference, Laino says. Just make sure to have an open conversation about your sexual boundaries beforehand.
For another effect, Morgan suggests a silicone spatula. "It creates a different sensation," she says. The stinging effect and lighter impact, she adds, just can't compare to plain old wood.
Rubbing against a stack of pillows can stimulate the clitoris and serve as a stand-in for a partner, says Needle.
Pillows can also be great co-masturbation tools, says McGuire, who encourages everyone to think outside of the penetrative sex box. "People forget that a lot of pleasure can be derived with just friction," she says. Noted!
Don't want to mess with your expensive pillows? Needle also recommends using towels. The texture can feel great and the material is versatile enough to use it in any number of ways.
Things heating up too quickly? Use a fan to cool off, or use the rotating blades as another form of texture play, Morgan explains. Just make sure your fan has softer blades, like this pocket-sized one.
Morgan also recommends using a fan to cool off the part of the body that you're focusing on. "That way, some of the redness goes down," she explains. It's a win-win.
If swishing mouthwash pre-oral isn't as convenient as you'd like it to be, McGuire also recommends popping some mints before giving oral. It'll give the same tingling sensation without having to run to the bathroom mid-foreplay.
Want to get dirty while getting clean? Easy. Just use your shower head as a vibrator by pressing it up against, or directly spraying, your clitoris, Needle says.
"Many [shower heads] can be used at varying pressures and spray settings, so each individual can experiment with what feels best," she says.
If you like the feeling of exfoliating your face or back, you might enjoy a similar sensation on your inner thighs, between your butt cheeks, on your outer labia, or against your breasts, says sex educator Kim Airs.
"A scrubbie sponge can be used gently or firmly, depending on what feels good for the user," she says. Penis-owners may like it too, she adds, on their scrotum or shaft.
If it feels too rough, try adding a (scented, if you like) dollop of massage oil , says Airs. Just be sure to use a clean one that hasn't been used on dirty dishes or toilets.
Think twice before throwing that empty paper towel roll in your recycling bin. Morgan says it's actually a ready-made toy: just stretch an inside-out textured condom over one end and push the rest inside. Add a rubber band or two for security and maybe some lubrication, and you're done.
Whether you're using this one by yourself or with a partner, Morgan says it's sure to be a hit. And later, "you can literally just roll it up and throw it in the trash," she adds.
"Chopsticks can be squeezed together with a small rubber band at the ends to create easy-to-use nipple clamps or to squeeze the outer labia together," Airs says. Just make sure to stay away from traditional bamboo chopsticks to avoid uncomfortable and painful splinters.
You likely have several of these around your home already, but it's never a bad idea to stock up—and now, you have another reason to.
"If you want a quick, pinching sensation, a snap of a rubber band will certainly make one jump to attention," Airs says. Again, be sure your partner is cool with feeling a sting and potentially sporting a bite-mark-looking impression temporarily after.
Is there anything coconut oil can’t do? If you get one that's organic and free of all preservatives and other chemicals, it works great as an inexpensive lube, says sexuality educator Jane Fleishman , PhD.
"Just remember you can't use any oil or oil-based lube with a latex condom because the oil will break down the integrity of the latex," she says.
A cucumber is a great option for internal stimulation, says Morgan. And, you can totally add a barrier if you want to (textured condom, anyone?), but you don't need to.
A peeled cucumber was actually used as a vaginal cleanser in ancient times, Morgan notes. So, rest easy (and consider freezing it. Just saying).
Fresh out of cucumbers? Try a carrot instead, recommends Morgan. Put your refrigerator's crisper drawer to work!
If you want to get creative, your favorite head scarf can work as a gag or way to tie up your partner with their consent, says ob-gyn and sex educator Dr. Terri Vanderlinde, M
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