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Whether you realize it or not, there are many situations in which knowing how to convert household items into homemade sex toys is a real plus. Maybe you’re away from home and realize you’re without your favorite sex toy ; maybe things have gotten heated and you don’t have time to hunt for a vibrator ; maybe you’re looking to try a new kink without investing much money. Or maybe you just want to surprise your partner (or yourself).
Whatever the reason, Barbara Carrella , a certified sexologist and author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, says a DIY sex toy (which she calls a pervertible) is never far: “Pervertibles are every day, non-erotic items that can be easily converted into sex toys. They can be found absolutely everywhere, and once you start finding them, it’s hard to stop seeing the erotic potential in all sorts of everyday items.”
We spoke to a variety of sex educators and experts about their top picks for unassuming everyday objects you can bring into your sex life, either with a partner or by yourself. While there’s no true replacement for a body-safe sex toy , Rae Chen, sex and beauty editor of TheNotice.net , tells SELF: “There are a lot of household items that can double as sex toys for the brave (or very, very horny). Ideally, I recommend using only new, clean items."
From spatulas to throw pillows, Carrellas says once you start looking for pervertibles, “you can expand your erotic imagination and increase your pleasure possibilities.” (And save money too.) Below, we’ve rounded up a few of the best homemade sex toys, as well as expert recommendations for how to safely enjoy them. 
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Ice cubes are a great gateway to the DIY sex toy game because they’re not messy and can easily be tossed down the drain if you’re not feeling it, Gigi Engle, resident sex educator at 3Fun and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life , tells SELF. 
As for how to employ the ice cubes, she says: “The nipples are a hot zone (pun intended). Run the cold object around your partner’s nipples and then over each one, taking note of how they respond. If they’re clearly enjoying themselves, move down their body. Focus on the inner thighs and hip bones.” And if they’re into that sensation, engage their penis or vulva last. 
Be sure you always have fresh ice cubes ready to go—a task made easy if you own a useful refillable silicone ice cube tray like this one above. (Before you ask, they’re molded like coffee beans , we promise.) For more traditional shapes, try these freezer trays from Amazon .
“A wooden spoon is an excellent toy for spanking when you’re ready to move on from a flat palm,” Engle says. She advises that the spoon be on the newer side and finished, as you wouldn’t want to give your partner splinters in their rear. Once you’ve pulled the spoon out of its drawer, use the back of it as a paddle, but(t) don’t hit with full force. “Work your way up to more intense strokes,” Engle adds. “As beginners, it can take some time to get your bearings. Remember, always ask your partner if something feels good or is too rough.”
You don’t have to invest in a full-on BDSM kit to incorporate some light bondage into your play. Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations , recommends pulling out a bandana, which you might already have lying around (or maybe now’s the time you buy a cute scarf like this one from Madewell, which comes in an Afterglow Red colorway). 
Crucially, avoid bandanas made of fabrics as slinky as silk or satin, as those materials get dangerously tight when you knot them. “Fold or twist a cotton bandana or scarf, however, and you can tie wrists much more safely,” Queen says, adding that you should still be able to slide one finger between the scarf and skin.
Another way to use a bandana? As a blindfold, tied to the side so the wearer doesn’t have to place their head on an awkward knot.
“Swishing around mouthwash (or sucking on a mint ) before or during oral sex will create a pleasurable tingling sensation which will feel amazing for your partner if they’re into that type of stimulation,” says sex and relationship therapist Malika O’Neill , LPC, and founder and CEO of The Pleasure Collective, LLC . This homemade sex toy has the added bonus of freshening your breath too.
“ Humping items like pillows , blankets, and sofa arms can be perfect for external stimulation,” Chen says. “Just be sure to cover them with something you can launder.”
Given its length and rod-like curves, the phallic hairbrush handle makes for an easily accessible and dildo-like sex toy . Experts don’t recommend you insert anything that isn’t an actual sex toy inside of you, but if you must, Chen says: “Insertable household items like the iconic hairbrush, toothbrush, or cucumber should be covered with a condom to prevent yeast and bacterial infections.”
Be sure to wash and dry everything before and after use, and, most importantly, “For the love of the emergency room, don’t put anything without a flared base up your butt! That means yes to the hairbrush, but no to the cucumber.” Experts also recommend using a water-based lube .
Speaking of lube , a good go-to item is coconut oil , which Chen calls an “amazing lubricant you can find in the kitchen that’s safe for use on skin and sex toys and makes for a great massage oil too.” In fact, Chen says, any neutral vegetable oil (like EVOO) is safe for use just as long as it's not flavored. One more thing to know is that oil doesn’t mix with latex condoms—so if you’re getting kinky with coconut oil, be sure to pair it with a non-latex (polyurethane) condom.
Another fantastic spanker? A silicone spatula. “Make sure you choose a well-made spatula,” Queen says. “The danger with a cheap one is that the flexible end might fly off the handle when you’re using it.” To avoid accidents, we’ve got our eye on this lovely lilac model from Williams Sonoma, which has a cool stainless steel handle that you can personalize with whatever text you like. Go ahead—get creative.
“A bathrobe is something that lots of people have sitting around, and its tie can be used as a blindfold and for bondage ,” Jenn Mason, the owner of WinkWink Boutique , tells SELF. Just pull the tie out of any robe (or, hell, a wrap dress ) and use it to tie wrists together or to a headboard.
If a bandana isn’t nearby, another reliable blindfold stand-in is a good old cotton T-shirt, which Engle calls an ideal blindfold. “While spanking and wrist-tying is fun, start with the blindfold alone,” she says. “Once it’s secured over your eyes, have your partner kiss you and massage you with essential oils. Then, the sexy stuff can really get underway.”
Yoga and meditation lovers, put that bolster to uses other than back stretching. Bolsters are excellent for humping, Queen says, as they’re a bit like bunched-up pillows but firmer—meaning you’ll get better stimulation from rubbing yourself on them.
If you’ve got a foam roller on hand (or were looking for a reason to buy one), Queen notes that the more slender variety can be used for impact play (as can pool noodles, although they’re a bit on the long side).
“There’s nothing more erotic than getting oiled up for some sexual fun,” O-Neill says. Pro-tip for parents: The baby oil you keep around can be dual-purposed as a massage oil in a pinch.
One more blindfold option is a sleep mask . We’re partial to this soft, silky mask from Blissy, which is as great for hair and skin as it is at allowing you to try bondage play.
If you’ve got a penis and a plush toy nearby, “cut a hole so you can insert your penis into the interior and do your thing,” O’Neill advises. The stuffing and pressure should create an enjoyable sensation. While we’re not recommending that you go looking for your children’s stuffed animals, maybe you’ve got a plush prize from a county fair hanging around the house somewhere. Either way, O’Neill recommends wearing a condom in case you want to use the toy again.
Of course, if you don’t own any plush toys, a throw pillow works just as well.
Here’s a homemade sex toy idea that’s seasonally appropriate: “Those cheap-y thong sandals that so many people have for summer can be great for spanking,” Mason says. “They’re a bit stingy, and you want to make sure they’re not too dirty, but they make a really great spanking device.”
“If you want to have a ‘messy’ sexual experience that may include bodily fluids and don’t want to ruin your sheets, a shower curtain may be the thing you need,” O’Neill says. Opt for a plastic curtain over a fabric one, and cover your existing bedsheets with it before you get down and dirty.
At the bare minimum, you at least have a pair of socks somewhere in your house. While not especially glamorous, if you or your partner have a penis and are looking for a simple feel-good fix, O’Neill recommends filling a sock with lube or (unscented) lotion and masturbating away. “If partnered, have your partner give you a hand job, or you can use your own sex toy and join the fun,” she says. And if you’re short on sex toys, well, read this article again.
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Whether you’re strapped for cash or just looking for a discreet way to get off around the house, homemade sex toys are totally worth exploring. But sex means different things to different people, so we’ve put together an initial list that lets sexual variety take up the space it deserves.
Read on for suggestions for everything from homemade dildos and vibrators , to DIY BDSM sex toys, sex furniture , and more.
Warning: Your house may start feeling a little kinky the more you read. 😉 
Before you go on a sexy scavenger hunt to find sex toys laying around the house, you need to remember two rules:
While at home sex toys are cost-effective and accessible, they are not always body-safe. Some materials are more porous, and most of these objects are naturally more likely to come into contact with bacteria that don’t belong in your anus or vagina .
Err on the side of caution and cover your DIY sex toys with an external condom.
You’re not going to have a good time if you don’t consider the safety of the object you’re hoping to use by yourself or with a partner .
Here are just a few examples where something can go from super hot to super not in the blink of an eye:
If you’re into penetrative sex, these are the homemade sex toy for you...just don’t forget the lube !
Any number of phallic foods can offer some delicious dildo action:
Keep the ground rules in mind when playing with your food though; if your homemade dildo is too skinny it can snap and easily become a problem. We also recommend washing thoroughly before and after use, even though you’ll be using an external condom with it.
One of the beautiful things about hair brushes is if you flip them over and use the handle as a dildo , you’ve got a flared base. This makes them safer for anal penetration because they won’t be sucked up into your butthole.
Hairbrush handles also often have different girth and textures to them making them more affordable options that allow you to explore your pleasure .
If you’re looking for something smaller than a hairbrush or vegetable, look no further than what’s in the palm of your hand!
Tiny tools that can be used as penetrative sex toys include:
Opposite to our tiny turn-ons above, you likely have plenty of larger options laying around. If you’re into being stretched or challenging yourself, consider larger homemade sex toys like:
Perhaps penetration isn’t your thing and you really vibe with vibes. Worry not, you have options!
Whether you’re waiting for your favorite vibrator to charge, or just not in a position to buy one yet, you’ve got plenty of options for DIY vibrators:
Okay, so this one could technically be used internally as well but electric toothbrushes make one hell of a clitoral stimulator . Just flip it over, turn it on, and hold it up against whatever erogenous zone suits your fancy. (If you have a clit , this is a great place to explore.)
If you really want to get the most out of your electric toothbrush, consider buying an extra head or brush just for sexual arousal. Adding lube to extra soft bristles can offer a different vibration than the base of the toothbrush altogether.
No matter where you prefer your vibration, a showerhead is a great way to stimulate yourself or a partner! Experiment with water pressure settings and wash your stress away with a good ole fashioned water-induced orgasm .
Why have a smartphone when you can have a sex toy phone?
Okay, so you can have both but you may want to use your Do Not Disturb feature if you’re going to be using your phone as a vibrator - unless of course, you’ve got a partner who wants to call and initiate those vibrations.
Why spend tons of money on pricey sex toys and accessories when you can try things on for size with these DIY BDSM sex toys:
Make no mistake about it: neckties make great restraints. They’re long, they’re soft, and they may be laying around in your closet begging to be used.
If neckties are not available to you, some other options for homemade restraints are:
If you’re into impact play, your kitchen is ripe with sex toys . Experiment with spanking by using silicone spatulas or wooden spoons.
You can also use smaller wooden cutting boards with handles as paddles. (We dare you to see them as anything else from now on!)
If you’re into nipple play, look no further than paper clips and clothespins. These are great, cheap alternatives to nipple clamps that you can keep laying around the house...without ever being questioned.
So we may not be able to tell you about a Sybian hiding in your house, but we sure can help make your furniture and other household elements a part of your sex and masturbation :
Whether you’ve got a dildo to ride or not, your couch’s armrest is a great place to straddle and grind to your heart’s content. You can even experiment with sensations by including pillows or towels on top of the armrest.
Don’t knock a couch or bed covered in throw pillows; people pay good money for sex wedges when throw pillows make a perfectly usable substitute.
Whether you’re masturbating or engaging in partnered play, use throw pillows to experiment with angles. Getting head ? Consider placing a pillow under your lower back. Penetrating a partner while they’re on all fours? Lay them on top of a pillow or two and see how that feels for you both.
Pillows also work muck the same as a couches armrest can; that is, they’re excellent for grinding and dry-humping for stimulation.
If you’ve got either one of these swings available to you, consider yourself lucky. Both make excellent alternatives to sex swings and offer a few different ways to get down and dirty, whether it’s partnered sex, inverted masturbation, or even making certain positions more accessible for all bodies.
Pro-tip: If you’re turned on by suspension or binding, yoga silks are a great way to experiment with how you feel about taking part in it. They are great for simulating binding and suspension without needing knots or hooks, and allow more control than being bound with rope may allow.
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