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19 Household Items You Can Use as Homemade Sex Toys
You’ll never look at your spatula in the same way.
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Whether you realize it or not, there are many situations in which knowing how to convert household items into homemade sex toys is a real plus. Maybe you’re away from home and realize you’re without your favorite sex toy ; maybe things have gotten heated and you don’t have time to hunt for a vibrator ; maybe you’re looking to try a new kink without investing much money. Or maybe you just want to surprise your partner (or yourself).
Whatever the reason, Barbara Carrella , a certified sexologist and author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, says a DIY sex toy (which she calls a pervertible) is never far: “Pervertibles are every day, non-erotic items that can be easily converted into sex toys. They can be found absolutely everywhere, and once you start finding them, it’s hard to stop seeing the erotic potential in all sorts of everyday items.”
We spoke to a variety of sex educators and experts about their top picks for unassuming everyday objects you can bring into your sex life, either with a partner or by yourself. While there’s no true replacement for a body-safe sex toy , Rae Chen, sex and beauty editor of TheNotice.net , tells SELF: “There are a lot of household items that can double as sex toys for the brave (or very, very horny). Ideally, I recommend using only new, clean items."
From spatulas to throw pillows, Carrellas says once you start looking for pervertibles, “you can expand your erotic imagination and increase your pleasure possibilities.” (And save money too.) Below, we’ve rounded up a few of the best homemade sex toys, as well as expert recommendations for how to safely enjoy them. 
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Ice cubes are a great gateway to the DIY sex toy game because they’re not messy and can easily be tossed down the drain if you’re not feeling it, Gigi Engle, resident sex educator at 3Fun and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: A Guide to Sex, Love, and Life , tells SELF. 
As for how to employ the ice cubes, she says: “The nipples are a hot zone (pun intended). Run the cold object around your partner’s nipples and then over each one, taking note of how they respond. If they’re clearly enjoying themselves, move down their body. Focus on the inner thighs and hip bones.” And if they’re into that sensation, engage their penis or vulva last. 
Be sure you always have fresh ice cubes ready to go—a task made easy if you own a useful refillable silicone ice cube tray like this one above. (Before you ask, they’re molded like coffee beans , we promise.) For more traditional shapes, try these freezer trays from Amazon .
“A wooden spoon is an excellent toy for spanking when you’re ready to move on from a flat palm,” Engle says. She advises that the spoon be on the newer side and finished, as you wouldn’t want to give your partner splinters in their rear. Once you’ve pulled the spoon out of its drawer, use the back of it as a paddle, but(t) don’t hit with full force. “Work your way up to more intense strokes,” Engle adds. “As beginners, it can take some time to get your bearings. Remember, always ask your partner if something feels good or is too rough.”
You don’t have to invest in a full-on BDSM kit to incorporate some light bondage into your play. Carol Queen, staff sexologist at Good Vibrations , recommends pulling out a bandana, which you might already have lying around (or maybe now’s the time you buy a cute scarf like this one from Madewell, which comes in an Afterglow Red colorway). 
Crucially, avoid bandanas made of fabrics as slinky as silk or satin, as those materials get dangerously tight when you knot them. “Fold or twist a cotton bandana or scarf, however, and you can tie wrists much more safely,” Queen says, adding that you should still be able to slide one finger between the scarf and skin.
Another way to use a bandana? As a blindfold, tied to the side so the wearer doesn’t have to place their head on an awkward knot.
“Swishing around mouthwash (or sucking on a mint ) before or during oral sex will create a pleasurable tingling sensation which will feel amazing for your partner if they’re into that type of stimulation,” says sex and relationship therapist Malika O’Neill , LPC, and founder and CEO of The Pleasure Collective, LLC . This homemade sex toy has the added bonus of freshening your breath too.
“ Humping items like pillows , blankets, and sofa arms can be perfect for external stimulation,” Chen says. “Just be sure to cover them with something you can launder.”
Given its length and rod-like curves, the phallic hairbrush handle makes for an easily accessible and dildo-like sex toy . Experts don’t recommend you insert anything that isn’t an actual sex toy inside of you, but if you must, Chen says: “Insertable household items like the iconic hairbrush, toothbrush, or cucumber should be covered with a condom to prevent yeast and bacterial infections.”
Be sure to wash and dry everything before and after use, and, most importantly, “For the love of the emergency room, don’t put anything without a flared base up your butt! That means yes to the hairbrush, but no to the cucumber.” Experts also recommend using a water-based lube .
Speaking of lube , a good go-to item is coconut oil , which Chen calls an “amazing lubricant you can find in the kitchen that’s safe for use on skin and sex toys and makes for a great massage oil too.” In fact, Chen says, any neutral vegetable oil (like EVOO) is safe for use just as long as it's not flavored. One more thing to know is that oil doesn’t mix with latex condoms—so if you’re getting kinky with coconut oil, be sure to pair it with a non-latex (polyurethane) condom.
Another fantastic spanker? A silicone spatula. “Make sure you choose a well-made spatula,” Queen says. “The danger with a cheap one is that the flexible end might fly off the handle when you’re using it.” To avoid accidents, we’ve got our eye on this lovely lilac model from Williams Sonoma, which has a cool stainless steel handle that you can personalize with whatever text you like. Go ahead—get creative.
“A bathrobe is something that lots of people have sitting around, and its tie can be used as a blindfold and for bondage ,” Jenn Mason, the owner of WinkWink Boutique , tells SELF. Just pull the tie out of any robe (or, hell, a wrap dress ) and use it to tie wrists together or to a headboard.
If a bandana isn’t nearby, another reliable blindfold stand-in is a good old cotton T-shirt, which Engle calls an ideal blindfold. “While spanking and wrist-tying is fun, start with the blindfold alone,” she says. “Once it’s secured over your eyes, have your partner kiss you and massage you with essential oils. Then, the sexy stuff can really get underway.”
Yoga and meditation lovers, put that bolster to uses other than back stretching. Bolsters are excellent for humping, Queen says, as they’re a bit like bunched-up pillows but firmer—meaning you’ll get better stimulation from rubbing yourself on them.
If you’ve got a foam roller on hand (or were looking for a reason to buy one), Queen notes that the more slender variety can be used for impact play (as can pool noodles, although they’re a bit on the long side).
“There’s nothing more erotic than getting oiled up for some sexual fun,” O-Neill says. Pro-tip for parents: The baby oil you keep around can be dual-purposed as a massage oil in a pinch.
One more blindfold option is a sleep mask . We’re partial to this soft, silky mask from Blissy, which is as great for hair and skin as it is at allowing you to try bondage play.
If you’ve got a penis and a plush toy nearby, “cut a hole so you can insert your penis into the interior and do your thing,” O’Neill advises. The stuffing and pressure should create an enjoyable sensation. While we’re not recommending that you go looking for your children’s stuffed animals, maybe you’ve got a plush prize from a county fair hanging around the house somewhere. Either way, O’Neill recommends wearing a condom in case you want to use the toy again.
Of course, if you don’t own any plush toys, a throw pillow works just as well.
Here’s a homemade sex toy idea that’s seasonally appropriate: “Those cheap-y thong sandals that so many people have for summer can be great for spanking,” Mason says. “They’re a bit stingy, and you want to make sure they’re not too dirty, but they make a really great spanking device.”
“If you want to have a ‘messy’ sexual experience that may include bodily fluids and don’t want to ruin your sheets, a shower curtain may be the thing you need,” O’Neill says. Opt for a plastic curtain over a fabric one, and cover your existing bedsheets with it before you get down and dirty.
At the bare minimum, you at least have a pair of socks somewhere in your house. While not especially glamorous, if you or your partner have a penis and are looking for a simple feel-good fix, O’Neill recommends filling a sock with lube or (unscented) lotion and masturbating away. “If partnered, have your partner give you a hand job, or you can use your own sex toy and join the fun,” she says. And if you’re short on sex toys, well, read this article again.
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Last Sunday over video chat, my friend Lucia was sharing period jokes from her stand-up act in Barcelona, where she lives, and we got to talking about "Broad City." I asked her the moderately dumb question I ask everyone who watches the show but doesn't live in New York, which is, simply, whether it's as funny to watch from somewhere else, given its focus on the city.
"I mean ... it's just as funny when you are them in real life, which is how I feel," she said. "Like, Ilana's masturbation scene at the beginning of that one episode -- how could that not be funny everywhere? Who doesn't also have some bizarre, elaborate masturbation technique?"
Of course, this launched us into a half-hour-long discussion of our own masturbatory habits, which vary so much from one another it's almost impressive we have the same genitalia and can both achieve orgasms. Obviously, that's how it goes with sex and sexuality: Everybody gets off in a unique way, because we are all special butterflies.
But the way that special butterfly-ness carries over to masturbation, and creates all these differences in the ways we get about getting off — well, that’s just fascinating. Neither my friend nor I preps for "alone time" with oysters and green lipstick as Ilana Wexler does, but that lack of commonality is about the only thing our rituals share — and that’s to be expected.
Except maybe it’s not to be expected, because it’s so rare we talk about this stuff. The "Broad City" masturbation sequence was so funny and refreshing for that very reason. The scene highlighted the fact that individual quirks are what make for “normal” masturbation, but it did so in a way that felt comfortable and humorous for pretty much anyone — whether that person’s masturbation ritual is more, less or equally elaborate.
So, to open up a conversation about the ways we go about getting off when we’re alone (or when we have one or more partners watching, or maybe even a live webcam audience), Salon asked friends and readers to share their personal masturbation rituals. Below are 15 insights from anonymous people of various backgrounds, which have been condensed and lightly edited for clarity.
1. I hump. That’s the only way I can reach an orgasm. I hate penetration sex of any kind. I cannot reach an orgasm through oral sex, never reached an orgasm through penetrative sex. I hump my mattress, yes. No porn; I have images stored in my brain. I don't really hear of too many guys who hump like I do... I think of women when I’m doing this but I never think of myself and a woman having actual sex. Now, I hump my mattress feverishly, but I’m not a slob: I cover the bed with towels, wash them and replace them afterward (with new ones of course, quite frequently). Granted, I go through so many towels, but hey, it comes with the territory I guess.
2. I use a vibrator under a lot of blankets to muffle the noise (because I have a roommate) and watch porn with headphones. (My only demand for porn is genuine reactions from any women in the video. Bad actresses ruin it for me.) If my roommate isn't home I don't go under the blankets, but I still use headphones in case my dead relatives are paying attention.
3. I am a straight woman, but I pretty much need to watch lesbian porn because the men in porn are such turn-offs. Why do they all wear ear gauges now? I have a vibrator that's sold under the name "Butterfly Kisses," but it's much louder than any butterfly I've ever seen. It's helpful to play music loudly because I have a platonic male roommate. I think it's especially fun to play, like, opera. It was a New Year's resolution of mine to masturbate at least once a week, which is probably how often I do it. But it also makes me feel lazy. Like, I'm not an uptight woman, but sometimes I'll spend hours masturbating and then think, “Man, really wish I had used that time for taxes or something.” The absolute best way to masturbate as a woman is to smoke weed first. I believe this is a universal rule.
4. I'm usually good on the bed looking at porn on Tumblr, or sometimes a movie. I do it straight up most often, but my favorite times are when I can use my wife's toys. Either a vibe or anal beads that I'll use in my ass while I get off. Sometimes I'll taste my own cum. Also, although I consider myself straight, I must admit I have an affinity for MMF porn. I like the fantasy more than the reality. It really gets me hot, though, MMF. Damn, now I need to cum!
5. Lights off or a small light on, blankets pulled suspiciously high up on my neck, using a hand and reading erotic literature on my laptop like someone who's afraid of a parent or roommate walking in. My doors don't lock, so my ears are really alert. Recently I've stopped being lazy and invested in vibrators, cheap ones that die quickly and then an expensive one that was faulty (the manufacturer is still slowly going about replacing). If I'm using a vibrator I blast Grimes because that definitely covers up the low humming noise. If I do go the porn route, I watch about 10 seconds of a variety of videos, get disgusted, switch, try another, switch, until I give up and then half-heartedly try to make one work. I like it when the actors moan or seem like they're into it (like for real, not the creepy moans with the weird dead eyes). In terms of reading, I tend to like plots that play off of power imbalances and cheating, for some reason.
6. I'm in bed, lying down and reading (not erotica). I suddenly come across a paragraph of intense imagery, describing the scenery of, I don't know, the landscape (?!), and this somehow gets my mind on touching myself. I put down my Kindle, grab my laptop, pull up Tumblr GIF porn, then retrieve the Kindle, set the laptop so that the screen is in my peripheral vision, and lie down. Continuing where I left off in my book, I scroll through Tumblr with my right hand, reading with the book on my knees, and touch myself lightly with my left hand. This is a very well thought out process. I continue to read. (We're getting to heavy dialogue regarding the weather in Tokyo and what the characters are going to eat for lunch.) Continue to scroll through Tumblr. (We're getting to heavy fingering and butt plugs.) I hurriedly throw down my Kindle, and start aggressively attacking my body with my left hand as I try to find a good video with my right. Find it quickly, because (duh) it's bookmarked. I turn on my stomach, shoving pillows in my crotch and underneath me to -- fuck it -- emulate a human male with a pillow-edge dick. I hump in tempo with the kind people on-screen, feel silly, then immediately lose myself into clitoral-stimulus bliss. Then it’s over. Sandwich time.
7. I usually lock my bedroom door, turn on MTV jams or other music videos loud (so my roomie doesn't hear my loud vibrator), and play porn on my iPad. The porn ranges from three-ways with two girls and one guy or just a couple. I really enjoy the shots of couples doing it doggie style where you can see the guy’s abs and when the shot is from behind. I've burned out three vibrators in the past six years. On average it takes five to 10 minutes and I always crave chocolate afterwards.
8. OK, let's be honest - it takes a lot longer and specific techniques for a woman to get off. So, I'll take as many of those factors as I can without revealing what's happening to my husband (who would, of course, want to get involved, but if I'm not in the lovemaking mood and just want to get off, I don't want to bring him in on the event). So, typically, it's at night, in the den (while husband sleeps in bedroom), with a wide variety of porn and a vibrator. This gets complicated (and weird) if my cats decide that it’s a good opportunity for cuddle time. When that happens, I rely on the shower -- a good, solid hand-held shower head can go a long way, while really, really ensuring you're clean down there!
9. Lights on, door locked, TV on and headpho
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