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don't know if this will help or not, my former boy frind had a lg penis too, it would hurt when we made love, I talked to him and asked if he wouldn't put it in all the way cause it was causing discomfort fer me, he agreed and it was real good after that, you can try that and soo if it works and the other thing is before he puts it in, I'm not sure how to decribe it but the two pieces of skin that hanges in front of the vigina, kind ok looks like two balls thats been deflated, take a hold of them and move the out of the way, it may sound gross like clearing the path way fer the tree.I don't mean to affend you in anyway, but what do you expect from a hill--billy, just thought I'd give you my two cents worth. about seeing his penis through his pants, try having him wear black undergarments or what ever he wears, they are harder to see through, have a good day. heinzes57
As to the response of asking him not to put it all the way in...... you could use a 'sleeve' of sorts. I believe it is called GiGi and this could give him the feeling of giving it all without actually doing so. I'm friends with a girl who does 'those' parties...... here is her site www.DivaVal.com
Hello tarzbanan, I came across your topic and decided to give a man's point of view. I am a big man too, about 13,5in long, and quite thick too. And it's not easy to keep it 'hidden', I agree. I myself wear larger pants and shorts, and avoid pools. Other issue I have is large testicles, so the volume is quite difficult to hide. My girl always complains about it, so what I do?, I keep always calming her. I understand her jealousy, and she also got big breasts, so she is also "observed". We just let life go on. About pain, my girl says a lot too. She gets very lubed, this is not a problem for her, and we still use more lube, it's better for her. She loves oral sex, so we make our way around. Also, we never ever had - and probably won't have - anal sex.
While I have my doubts as to the validity of the original post, if it is indeed true I believe I can shed some light. First, how long have you been married? If it has been more than a few months your body should be expanding to accomodate his size. Much larger things can be inserted and removed from your vagina. If you actually "cry" from the pain sometimes, and your husband is not interested as to WHY therefore you have not worked things out I can only fathom 2 reasons; 1: Your husband is a bit of a jerk, probably fabulously good looking or at least the guy that every other woman you know wants to be with regardless of the size of his ****, 2: You have self esteem issues and don't think you can get anyone else so you accept the pain as necessary. You are accepting the pain as a sort of penance for everything else you feel is "right" with your relationship. Either way, you need to work this out with your husband. There are so many "other" things you can do sexually that are just as pleasurable (if not more so) than vaginal sex unless your husband is thick headed and only gets off on trying to give you what HE thinks you want! It's up to you to tell him that's NOT what you want, YET! If you talk to him and he is accepting to the issue you pose, you can do a few things to help. I can honestly say that unless you are 3 feet tall you can eventually accomodate his girth and most (if not all) of his length and do it in a very pleasurable and mutually enjoyable way. If you wish to actually do this, you are going to have to "stretch" your vagina. Make yourself more cavernous so that you can have sex without the pain. You can do this in several different ways depending on what you need. If you are going to stretch "with" your husband, he can use his fingers to stretch you wider much in the way a mid-wife prepares a woman for childbirth. Have him insert multiple fingers until the point of slight discomfort. It shouldn't really hurt, but stretching takes some effort. Have him use more fingers, then some off both hands. He can insert fingers from both hands and slowly pull apart, whatever BOTH of you agree upon as comfortable and pleasureable. Most women find it very pleasurable to be stretched open in this manner, and actually take to it like a duck to water! But it MUST be done with a careing partner, one you trust, or there is no bond and that is 50% of what you are building here. Do not do this every night unless you have NO residual redness or pain. If everything seems fine it is actually ok to do this as often as you like, just do your kegels daily! After a few weeks you should be able to accomodate his girth easily. Then you can both start working on the length issue. If he is willing, and believe me this will be difficult for him to do, he can begin stretching your vagina with his penis. However, I have to say, unless you are 9 feet tall, I don't see how you will ever take all 16 inches of him vaginally. However 10-11 should be easily within your reach after a few months. He will need to take it slow with deliberate pressure without a in-and-out motion. He needs to move all around and stretch you from different angles, etc.. In the end, if you just MUST have him inside you, you are going to have to do this "Anally" or use your throat. With time, your throat and or rectum can easily handle the size of him. If he is not willing to work with you, or you don't want to approach the subject, or you just want to speed up the process a bit, you can still stretch any of your orifices by artificial means. You can use your own fingers (or hand) on your vagina, but unless you are a contortionist there is now way for you to do anything else. Go online (or visit the grocery store) and purchase a series of increasingly larger items up to the size of your husband and a large bottle of lube. Then simply stretch whenever you feel like it, with or without your husband. There are many adult toy sites that have graduated versions of simple toys just for this purpose. There are even "inflatable" ones that insert small and inflate up to 3" wide or more. I can pretty much tell you from experience that you will like girth more than length and that you will far surpass his girth quickly. Be carefull, as you can stretch too fast by any means and end up with a tear that will take some time to heal and slow down overall progress. As long as you do Kegels daily you shouldn't have a problem working with the largest toys available. I hope your post was real, as you are in for experiences most women can only dream of. Bigger IS better!
The orginal posters is obviously lying. It is a man posting this. The profile picture is of a female and a male. The male poster wants females to desire his penis and have sex with him. His penis is not as big as posted. This is a lie.
False post. World record for largest penis is 13.5 inches.
Your vagina is shallow, not long enough. There is a surgery that you can undergo to expand it to fit larger/thicker sized men. Once that is done, you will never have these pain issues. All women/men are genetically designed to fit/insert different shaped organs. You just need to custom fit your organ to fit his.
I can totally relate to this situation as I dated a guy in that same size range. It can be very painful and tough to work through. Cameron's penis was simply too big to have pleasureable sex with. I struggled with that issue for a while but I finally gave up. So bigger is definitely good but not better in all circumstances. He even talked about getting a reduction althogh I dont' know if that's possible.
I have a similar situation. I have been married over 17 years and My husband is huge as well--not to get too much into numbers but he is over 14 inches soft (He used to be 13 soft but for some reason its grown) and hard--well its gigantic. we are alwasy getting in fights about him "bulging" too much in his clothes- and I know he does it to get a reaction from me! But as far as the lovemaking it took years for me to be able to "fit" him to where it was pleasurable. (Although now with his recent growth spurt I am back at square one!). Just take it slowly you will find yourself stretching to fit more and more. (My husband is crazy thick too which does nto help!). Just let him know that after you can fit him he can never leave you! Believe me there is a certain satisfaction that I am one of the only women that can satsify him fully! Just be patient!
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Hi My issues are two fold and kind of odd and embarrassing ,but here it goes. My husband has a freakishly large penis (10+ inches flaccid and 16+ when erect and very thick)and we are always having issues. When he is in clothes, I can always see his penis through his pants and I am obsessively jealous with the fact that I know other people see it as well. It causes big fights all the time. The other issue is that after intercourse (when the adrenaline wears off), very often I am in so much pain it brings tears to my eyes. I love my husband very much, but Im at a loss. Can you help?
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I am sexually active for more than one year with my ex and he is having a small penis (4.5") and very thin. Even he is small, sometime I still felt uncomfortable.
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When I have sex with my boyfriend, i think sometimes he goes too deep. He has a very long penis, and knows how to use it too. Certain positions I think he is going too deep. I feel pains in my abdomen. I am 23, and have only had sex with him and one other guy. I never felt these pains before, like his penis is reaching too far inside of me.

Sometimes it seems more painful than others, and he is so passionate, and caring otherwise, I can tell how great he is feeling so I dont want to aske him to stop. He does stop when I tell him it hurts, but as he gets caught up in our pleasure, and starts going deeper and deeper again. Is there any internal problems I should be worried about, or is it fine if he is reaching so deeply into me? I dont know for sure but i would guess he is more than 8 or 9 inches.

8-9 inchs is average size for an adult male so u have nothing 2 worry about
if hes 14+ u got something 2 worry bout...

In reply to godofthesun143616 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

So tell us, what color is the sky in your world and how many moons do you have?

In reply to godofthesun143616 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

For real? godoftheson: 1st - we try to provide factual and helpful responses to posts. 8-9" is no where near the average size for an adult mail. 5-6" is closer! 2nd - this post you responded to is OVER 1 year old. While there is no rule about that...the message was posted by a guest - so there is almost no chance they are still checking back daily to see if someone responded! AND - you responded with wildly inaccurate information on top of that!

6 is the avreage size, im sure a 6th grader would know that from health class

In reply to taz189094076 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

For a black guy 8-9 inches normal.. Cut godoftheson some slack.

In reply to anonymous on 2014-04-21 - click to read

Even though 5-6 is average. The distribution of penises is such that 8-9 is not uncommon. Perhaps 10-25% of penises are 8in or more. You should be able to find more accurate numbers online.

At any rate, vaginas vary as well. For some women 6in could be too big

In reply to godofthesun143616 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

OK I get it so he can't go 14 + I got to worry

In reply to subscribed mark on 2010-03-13 - click to read

In reply to anonymous on 2021-10-02 - click to read

Only put your fist 4+ not 14+ it hurts I'm a female to I had that happen before if you ever have sex

In reply to godofthesun143616 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

14" or 14 cm? You have no idea what are you talking about!

In reply to godofthesun143616 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

You didn't tell us your gender. Are you a guy and he is going 8-9" inside you anally? Happens to me too and I've been trying to find out what it is and do this is that I have found out so far. 5-7 inches deeper, depending on the person, there is a second sphincter. That pain is caused then the partner is trying to penetrate and open your second sphincter. Allow it to open just like you allowed the first sprinter to open and enjoy double pleasure.

In reply to taz189094076 on 2010-03-13 - click to read

Many things can be issues. Cervix infection, prolapse cervix or even iud placement. Please see your doctor
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