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When you hear the word “punishment,” sex probably isn't the first thing that comes to mind. But in BDSM —an umbrella term that encompasses bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism, and masochism—punishment can be a major component of sex. And a pleasurable one, at that.
“Punishment is a behavior modification tool used in some [dominant/submissive] dynamics to train or discipline a submissive when they’ve defied a boundary or disobeyed an order,” explains Charyn Pfeuffer, a sex and relationships writer and author of 101 Ways to Rock Online Dating . “There’s no one-size-fits-all playbook for punishment, and not every kinky relationship uses it.”
Every couple is free to determine the type and severity of punishments they want to use—and the options are essentially endless. For example, if the submissive partner is a "brat" (a sub who enjoys disobeying their dom’s rules), a dom might give you a spanking as a punishment for being naughty.
“Punishment can include spankings, slapping, choking, use of restraints, or (consensually) forcing your partner into sexual acts," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness , a private members Open Love club for the adventurous. "It's really up to you and your partner to set the limits of what's okay for punishment and what's not.”
Like with most deliciously kinky things, punishment is not just about pain, but also pleasure. It’s a dance between the dom and sub that allows them to explore sides of themselves they may not get a chance to express in real life.
“Sexual punishment is when you know there is a part of you that is under-expressed, maybe from shame or fear,” says Kenneth Play , international sex educator and and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series . “So, if you feel like you’re being a dirty slut, being punished by your partner allows you to live out that feeling, while also enjoying your 'dirty slut' side.”
IMPORTANT: Before you engage in any BDSM punishments, you and your partner must thoroughly discuss your boundaries and limits beforehand. Despite the connotation of punishing someone, the activity still requires enthusiastic consent from all parties; the punished wants to be punished, and the punisher wants to punish.
This is where you bring someone to the brink of orgasm, only to stop touching them right before orgasm. Oh, the sweet agony.
Put them over your knee and show them what happens to naughty people who break the rules. Just remember to aim for the fleshy parts of the body, such as the butt cheeks and upper thighs.
Or, you could deny them a spanking. “Sometimes a submissive will ‘act out’ to get the punishment that they really enjoy," says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven , the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shop. "One way to punish them is to NOT give them what they enjoy."
Force your sub to agree to keep their pretty little mouth shut. You can go a step further by not allowing your submissive to speak while in a public place without asking permission first.
This would be cruel outside of a consenting dom/sub dynamic, but hot as hell if both parties are into it. “[This entails] getting your submissive dressed up for an event that they really enjoy, but upon arrival making them sit outside on the ground with their hands in their lap and not allow them to come into the event for a specific amount of time,” Sparks says.
Make your submissive walk on all fours with a collar and a leash like a dog. You can incorporate a dog mask designed for kink, like this one , and even take the act outside for the public humiliation factor.
This is a form of public degradation: You make your submissive wear a shirt that literally says "slut" on it.
“Chain your partner to the bed and leave them there to wait for your return,” Saynt says. “Leave your home and decide how long you want to make them wait for you. Come back to them begging you to set them free.” Oh, the fun that can ensue afterward!
This is when you "make" your partner "take" the pleasure, even if it feels like over-stimulation. “Force your partner to have orgasms until they are completely overwhelmed—then keep going,” Play says.
This is when the dom has sex with someone else and forces the sub to watch. Cuckolding is a more advanced activity, and we suggest doing your research before bringing a new person into the bedroom. For a slightly tamer version, the dominant partner can make the submissive watch them get off with a toy.
“Refuse to let your partner pleasure you and make them beg for a taste," Saynt suggests. "Come within a few inches of their mouth, watch their tongue slip out and get just close enough but not quite there. Make your body their prize and make the longing for it the punishment.”
“Grab ice cubes and use them to run along your partner's body while they are restrained,” Saynt says. “Use the ice to stimulate their body and offer a chilling experience.” This can go really well with a blindfold—that way the sub’s other senses, including touch, are heightened.
“What chore(s) does your sub hate doing? Make them do it—meticulously,” Pfeuffer suggests. What better excuse to not have to do the dishes tonight?
If your sub is naughty, take away their table privileges and force them to eat off the floor like a dog.
Tell your sub to get on all fours and act as a stool for you to rest your feet. Dive into a good book and force them to stay still until you’re good and ready to let them get up.
Is your sub being a little brat? “Put your submissive in the corner for a time-out,” Pfeuffer says. “Being ‘grounded’ for a little while can be incredibly effective” in getting them to follow your rules next time.
Dribble hot wax on a naughty sub’s body. Be sure you’re using a body-safe candle (like these from LoveHoney ), unless you really know what you’re doing. You don’t want to cause burns.
“Only allow your sub to pleasure themselves with your permission," Pfeuffer says. "If rules are broken, that permission is revoked." This means you hold the power over whether they experience pleasure or not; their pleasure is a gift you’re allowing them to enjoy in return for good behavior.
Have your sub go to the grocery store, the dry cleaners, or some other ordinary place while wearing a panty vibrator. You can accompany them, if you choose. We love the We-Vibe Moxie , which comes with its own remote for the dom to control.
If your sub breaks the rules, write what they did wrong on their body in permanent marker. Make them wear it around all day so they don’t forget how naughty they were.
Have your sub sit in the shower or bathtub and pee on them. This kind of humiliation play can get messy, so you might want to do it in the nude.
This is a form of “restrictive discipline,” much like giving your sub a “time out” in the corner. If they break the rules, take away something they enjoy as punishment. This could be access to the show they want to watch, their cell phone, or even an orgasm.
This one is taken right out of the old Catholic school playbook. If your sub does something they’re not supposed to, have them write out what they did a hundred times as punishment.
Have your sub wear a collar around. This shows them that they belong to you and you are in control. If you want ideas, we love this one .

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One of the most important "rules" for making strict long-term orgasm denial work in a marriage or other relationship is regular and frequent tease and denial, or "edging".
After all, men who crave chastity are not saying they want to be "locked and left" when they beg you to take control of their orgasms: what they want is to experience the torturous pleasure of being taken to the edge of orgasm but not being allowed to cross over it.
For some men, this becomes a permanent fixture of their lives: in other words, their wives permanently withhold their husbands' orgasms (always with their man's consent) and instead limit them to strict tease and denial.
The effect this has on a man cannot be overestimated.
It's profound -- and it does wonders for your whole relationship.
But then the question is how do you keep your man sufficiently interested so he's willing to continue to allow you to withhold his orgasms?
The answer to that, in part, is with extreme and even cruel tease and denial. I'll now share three of these techniques with you now, all tried, tested and proven to keep your man permanently right of the edge of orgasm, get begging you not to let him cum:
It's one thing to play with a man's penis and masturbate him right to the edge... but it's another to use lube to drive him wild.
Here's what you do: liberally lubricate his penis then circle your thumb and forefinger into a ring and slide it over the head, drawing it down all the way to the root. Pause for a moment, then slide back up again.
The trick to making this almost unbearably torturous for him is to squeeze hard -- harder than you think you can get away with. You won't hurt him, and the sensation of you sliding up and down like this will drive him crazy.
And just before he cums... you stop, lock the device back on, and he lives to beg for another day.
This takes real skill to pull off and the chances are you'll have one or two little "accidents" before you get the hang of it.
First, make him please you orally so you've cum a few times and you're nice and wet. Then get him to kneel between your legs and allow him to put just the tip of his penis inside you.
Then you make yourself cum again by stimulating your clit either with your fingers or a vibrator (or for a real treat, make him do it for you).
As you cum he'll feel your vagina pulsing and tightening around his penis. He'll want to push all the way in and cum... but you simply tell him to stop, because cumming is not allowed... ever.
This isn't for every couple, but logically it's perfectly reasonable -- because why should you go without proper sex and enjoying a man having an orgasm with you just because your husband has begged you for chastity?
The secret to making this work is to ensure your hubby still feels secure as your "Number One".
If you can do that then he'll usually be more than pleased to watch you making love with another man.
His special delight will be actually seeing your lover cumming inside you, experiencing that one thing he will never be allowed to experience himself.
This will keep him totally focused on you and your pleasure, for as long as you hold his key.
There's a lot more to cruel tease and denial, of course, and this is just the beginning.
If you really want to play the game, then it's just a matter of doing the research and getting the information you need to make a properly informed decision...
So... click the blue link and claim your FREE step-by-step chastity guide and discover the truth about male chastity and cruel tease and denial .
... because right now I'm giving away this free Guide to anyone who visits my website, but this free offer won't last forever.
... if you're serious about strict and uncompromising chastity, be sure to get it as soon as you can.
Your FREE chastity guide is waiting for you here!
Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.
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