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I am an American guy married to a French girl. Ask us (almost) anything!
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I Am A, where the mundane becomes fascinating and the outrageous suddenly seems normal.
The title says it all. You can ask us about almost anything(Immigration journey, cheese and wine, etc) and we'll do our best to answer.
Does her long armpit hair come out through the shirt collar or does it come out the bottom (near the waist)?
Me: No, but I joke about that with her.:P She's well groomed (now)!
Nope. Just a regular old Joe from New Jersey.
Edit: Are you sure you don't mean Johnny Depp?
Does she understand when Quebecois people swear? Does she interact with the French community where you are?
She has had some Canadian friends in the past and she is well versed in some of their slang (not all) like "tabarnak!". She says the Quebecois accent is kind of rustic sounding to a person who might have never heard it before.
She does interact with them. She actually found a job working for an insurance company that provides services to French people outside of France, which is great.
Oh heck yes. She is an amazing cook and has treated me to a lot of great French cuisine. I think my favorite so far is a tie between her crepes with bechamel sauce or croque monsieur. Come to think of it, both contain bechamel. That stuff is like crack.
Me: I don't drink much wine, but I have learned a few things from her. We drink white wine when we have wine because she says it's best for warm weather (we live in Florida now).
Her recommendation(s) are forthcoming.
Edit: Her: Bourgogne, Riseling (Alsace), Sylvaner, Chablis, Pouilly-fume, Cole du Rhone, Sauternes
As a francophile, Where is your SO from France.
She is from Normandie, but has lived in Paris since 18.
Do you argue with her in French or English?
We don't argue very often, but when we do it's definitely in English because my French isn't as good as it should be. She'll definitely thrown in some French flare when she stubs a toe or something. I think her favorites are "merde" and "putain".
I think that French girls are definitely different than American girls, though. There's a sort of subtle sexiness to her that isn't overly pronounced, but is definitely there. The way she dresses is definitely much different than your typical American girl (not that I think American girls dress poorly) and she is definitely into different things (like culture and shit wtf yo) than some of the American girls I've known.
Does she sunbathe topless? Does she smoke? What does she think about Serge Gainsbourg?
Haha, she does occasionally (face down). She used to smoke, but she quit a few months back. I still smoke, though. :(
She's actually a fan. I didn't know who he was before I met her and now I feel like I know too much about him.
Bonus: She loves to dance to that Claude Francois song "Alexandrie Alexandra"!
How is her aim when throwing oranges at stop signs?
Be honest, how hot is her accent in bed?

I (American) am confused by French dating culture and would appreciate some insight.
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I’ve posted on dating advice, but I only get upvotes and no answers. I figured it’s best to ask people in tuned with the French culture.
I’m currently working in France. The cousin of the woman I work for lives/works at the same property as me.
After initially meeting him (very briefly) the woman I work for and her mother were speaking in French in front of me (which I don’t speak) and she said my name, his name, and rendez vous. The woman I work for said “no” and some other things. I’m really unsure about the context of any of it, and no one brought it up to me. At the time I was happy with this because I was not interested and it was better that I didn’t have to say no. This was a few weeks ago.
The last week I’ve had to go by his work every morning and he always comes out to say hi, just quickly, in French.
After this I started to develop some weird school girl crush on him. I can’t put my finger on why, but he seems sweet.
A few times ago he did bisous. I accidentally put my hand on his back when he did it. I didn’t even think about it, and felt a little embarrassed afterwords, I am not a touchy person.
The next time I saw him he talked a little more and all in English.
And then this morning I saw him and he offered to make me coffee and talked a little with me. He also said if I ever wanted to come to his work to hang out with the people or get a drink, I’m welcomed.
I’m really unsure if he is just being hospitable or if this would be considered interest on his part? In America, even being hospitable, this would most likely be seen as interest.
(I’m also unsure if I should talk to the woman I work for. She is just a little older than me and we get along well. I just feel embarrassed and don’t want it to get out that I have a crush on her cousin, because I’m trying to approach this very slowly.)
Well, in my opinion our dating cultures are very similar. In both country the situation is ambiguous and you can't know before asking.
Anyway, all the best in your endeavour
Clearly the best part of the question. This is a very cute expression.
Si ça ne devient pas du méta légendaire ça...
I don’t think our dating cultures are the same at all... Dating in America seems like a clusterfuck of unskippable steps that might somehow lead to dating. France is much more straightforward.
Oof. I’m not gonna ask. Lol. I guess I’ll just keep going with it and see. I think I’ll bring a book to his work and get a drink and see if he approaches again. Idk.
Lol. What’s wrong with he did bisous?
France is not like America. America is new and simple. France is old and full of dark secrets passed down for literally thousands of years.
Sounds like the old woman cast some kind of French magic witchery spell on you two. The rest is inevitable. Your only hope is to wear a silver cross around your neck and confront her directly, preferably in full sun.
This is the information I was looking for.
You're actually very right. America, thanks to the Salem Trials, does not have this issue anymore. Sadly, in France, we weren't that thorough so witchcraft is still at large.
"Rendez-vous" means meeting or appointment, it doesn't have to have anything to do with dating (it literally means "be there").
But his behaviour seems consistent with him liking you and trying to get closer in a not obnoxious way, so if you're interested just try to ask him out for something that's not necessarily obviously a date either (a walk in a park, an ice cream by the sea depending on where you are, I don't know). When you see him, be the one that goes for the bise without waiting for him to move, and see how he reacts, etc.
Dating doesn't have any kind of rigid rules in France, so don't really expect any obvious signal at any time. I don't think you have to ask anyone else around him either, it would probably be a bit awkward.
Ahh, ok. I knew the term was very loose in terms of being similar to “date”.
I can’t ask him or do le bise first. :( I’m shy.
I think maybe I will take a book to read in one of the sitting areas by his work and get a drink. Maybe he will approach.
A precision: "rendez-vous" in French is not "rendez-vous" in english. Yesterday I had a "rendez-vous" with my hairdresser. He just cut my hair, no romance involved. ;-) It's "appointment" in english.
Hard to tell. What he did there is something I could do with a foreign girl whether I'm attracted to her or not. But it sounds like a potential sign of interest. Let's say, there's something like a 75% chance he's interested.
Just one thing : "rendez-vous" in French is the word for "appointement", it does not always mean what you think. When I have "rendez-vous chez le docteur", it means I have an appointement with my doctor, not that we're a couple.
You guys are too nice!!!!! Very welcoming.
I guess I’ll just have to wait it out and see.
He didn’t ask me to have a drink with him specifically, just if I wanted to stop by there I’m welcomed.
Ahh, ok. Well I’m a nanny and he works at his restaurant, so I don’t think it was to do with work. Also this conversation happened after meeting him.
And yes, I completely understand this.
Do you mind writing in English? I’m on mobile so I can’t translate. Sorry. :(
Ben… quand même un peu ? Un mec étant un mec, je serais fort étonné s'il n'avait pas quelque part en tête des idées interdites aux moins de 18 ans. Ça n'empêche pas d'être sympa, amical et tout; mais ça se supprime absolument pas toutes ces pensées testostéronées ;)
"he did bisous", more like "he did la bise"
La naissance d'un nouveau meme sur r/france ?
If you have a "rendez-vous" and this RDV ends with voiced interest/kiss/sex/planning more RDV, it pretty much means you're an exclusive couple.
Heu alors je sais pas quel âge tu as mais si t'as moins de 30 ans c'est très, très loin d'être vrai de nos jours de mon expérience et celle de tous les gens que je connais, donc attention tout de même
The word "rendez vous" would in my opinion be weird to use if your boss/her mother were talking about matchmaking you with the cousin. Hard to tell with that little information but you may be overinterpreting it.
As for the "he did bisous", it's very normal to kiss people you're acquaintances-or-friends with as a greeting, especially man/woman, it doesnt mean anything by itself. He most likely didnt notice the hand on his back unless it was more than in passing and also most likely didn't interpret it as meaning anything (again, unless you let it stay there for a bit, and even then, eh, we boys suck at clues).
Again, him offering coffee/to come to his work & hang out with his colleagues could definitely just be friendly, or it could be his way of getting to see you more and maybe ask you out for an actual date then. Hard to say with your summaries though.
If you're of an age with your boss and you get along well, you could probably bring it up without much risk of adverse consequences, at least nothing more than you could get in the US if you've misread the situation.
I'm not sure what your culture is dating-wise, but if you do end up dating, it's generally assumed at your age that you're going to be fairly liberal with sex, typically after the 3rd date. "Saving yourself for marriage" is mostly a thing in theory in the US, but it's barely a concept that exists here. Beyond that, dudes will behave pretty much exactly as they would in the US, so your mileage may vary.

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The French don’t “date”… So what is a man to do? Here is how to navigate the French dating system… or lack of it!
It is so funny to see how some social behaviours are exactly the same between France and the US, and others are completely different. One of the very obvious difference is the dating game.
Well, this was a big shock to me when I arrived in the US. I had no idea what “dating” meant.
I understood of course a man and a woman could be interested in each other in a romantic way, let me reassure you.
But I was not aware that accepting to go out to dinner with a man alone gave the signal that I was possibly romantically interested in him.
Nor did I know about this first date, second date and third date business.
In France, it’s very common for a girl to go out to dinner with a male friend.
Even for a married woman to go out with a male friend who is single.
I often travel to Paris by myself; my daughter Leyla and husband Olivier stay in Paimpol. I often have dinner with one (or several) of our good (male) friend(s), whether they’re single or not.
Olivier trusts me, and we both trust our friend(s), who would never make a pass at me. I guess it’s much more accepted in France for men and women to be friends.
However, if a woman is dining with a man, you can bet he will pick up the check. Some old habits die hard. I usually trick them by asking to be excused (as if I was going to the lady’s room, grab the waiter and give him my credit card).
But I would never do that to my Dad who would be very upset if I did. But I digress…
When I meet a man and I am without my husband, I’ll place within the first minutes of the conversation that “my husband blablabla… and our daughter blablabla…”. That usually is enough to make my state of mind really clear.
I did the same thing as a girl, talking about my boyfriend (actually existing or not) early on in the conversation.
Now, not everybody does that of course, some girls like to play, and sometimes lose themselves in the game, or hurt people. Some boys never give up… and sometimes their tenacity pays off… And some people are just not faithful, but contrary to popular opinion, it’s not worse in France than anywhere else (and several studies demonstrate it).
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French people flirt . It’s in our genes and it’s socially accepted in France. A Frenchwoman is expected to play her feminine side, and be “admired” for her beauty and wit among other qualities.
Frenchmen like to flirt as well, even if they know very well there is no hope of it leading anywhere. The game is the main point, it’s relatively innocent and usually no-one gets hurt, just a little blushed :-)
With kissing hi and goodbye being the standard and French women being more “flirtatious”, it can be difficult for foreigners to correctly read a French woman’s body language.
I guess since there is no set protocol, French women are pretty obvious, and often more direct than other women.
You will know when a French girl is flirting with you: she’ll smile to excess, move her hair a lot, smile at you, blush, laugh hard and loud at your jokes, find occasions to touch your shoulder (or even your knee… oh la la),… and it’s not unlikely that she’ll make the first move. So relax and enjoy the show :-)
As for French men. Well, they are men. It’s unlikely they’ll refuse to take it further, but not unheard of. Again, the game is often more important than the catch, even to men.
It all boils down to this. The woman has all the power when it comes to dating. She decides whether she wants the guy or not, and may need more than one dinner to make up her mind… Then, she’ll make the situation pretty clear… or just keep on flirting for the joy of it.
It’s then up to the guy if the company of “la belle” is enough for him, or if the game has lasted long enough – in which case no-one is forcing him to continue to invite her.
In any case, there is no obligation nor expectation whatsoever for the woman to do whatever after any number of “rendez-vous galants”.
So, since there is no dating protocol, French guys have to work hard for it… They cannot just assume that if the girl accepts to go out with them three times, “c’est dans la poche” (it’s in the pocket, it’s a done deal).
Maybe this is why French guys have the reputations of being so romantic, and… tenacious !! We trained them well (with some exceptions of course… pretty much every politician :-(
Believe it or not, at the opposite of all the stereotypes, French people are much more about love than sex.
Talking about sex is not taboo in France as it is in the US, and it is much more present in humor, art, tv and everyday life than in the US… and so is nudity: children are often naked on the beach, women can go topless (although it’s less frequent now than when I was young)…
Still, sex is very much associated with love. I wrote an article about French Sex Vocabulary if you are curious – watch out, it is explicit and written for an adult audience.
Many of my French friends – men and women alike – have waited to meet someone special for their first time, didn’t just want to get rid of their virginity, and have never had one night stand.
If sex between consenting adults is very much socially accepted, a lot of French people won’t rush into it, and get to know each other before jumping into bed.
It’s only in American movies that I found out about this “let’s be exclusive” concept.
In France, pretty much once you’ve exchanged a kiss, it’s expected of you to be exclusive: you don’t chase several rabbits at the same time… Maybe that’s why things take a bit more time to develop in France – we like the game, and we like to take our time playing it.
It’s actually the first point they made in this video, which I really liked:
In many cultures, saying I love you is a milestone in the relationship. It doesn’t seem to be that important in France.
According to a show on France 2 national TV channel,8% of French people would be ready to declare their love on the first day!! Yet, France 2 also says many French feel comfortable saying “I love you” within 2 months of the relationship (Frenchmen: 88 days, Frenchwomen 134 days!)
I hope this article shed some light on the French dating system… or lack of it. Of course, this is only my opinion – please take it as such.
And if you like this article, you’ll probably enjoy my “ French women beauty secrets” article .
And for more about “l’amour” in France, check out my Saint Valentin article .
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