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What Is A Daddy Kink And How It Works In The Bedroom

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By Hannah Acton

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Sexual fetishes run the gamut from pretty basic to more taboo. A daddy kink is one that many women enjoy but not all have the courage to explore. If you want to know more about what it entails and how it plays out in the bedroom, read on for a rundown. You might just discover something you like.
What it means A daddy kink is a sexual fetish that means you get off from viewing your sexual partner as an authoritative figure while you’re submissive to their guidance and instructions. Sex therapist Amanda Pasciucco adds that it “implies you get excited from calling your partner ‘daddy’ and building your sex fantasies around it.”
Why does it exist? While many people automatically assume that someone with a daddy kink has issues in their relationship with their actual father, this isn’t necessarily the case. There’s no one reason why this is such a turn-on to many people, and it’s not necessarily worth overthinking. A daddy kink is just like any other sexual kink and you should be able to explore it freely with a willing partner.
Who tends to have this kink? The daddy kink isn’t just confined to straight women . Lots of gay men have this fetish because of their own complex relationships with their fathers. In fact, it’s one of the main connecting bridges between the straight and LGBTQ communities.
Related kinks A daddy kink is often accompanied by a praise kink, which is what gets overachievers all hot and bothered. By validating them or threatening that source of validation, it incites a sexual reaction in a person. Sometimes it takes someone spelling it out to make the connection between something that’s always defined you and a sexual preference. There’s a lot of overlap.
Asserting dominance We’ve all heard about “tops” and “bottoms” in both straight and gay relationships, and this is often where the daddy kink will make itself most known. It’s a simple power dynamic that asserts just who exactly is in control. It’s likely that both parties are turned on by their respective roles, because who doesn’t love feeling like someone’s about to put you in your place?
Roleplaying There are a few ways this can go, with varying levels of complexity and commitment. Usually, if you have created a safe space, in your relationship, the daddy kink can be embraced and explored in a totally non-judgmental way. That’s the key to any kink — the feeling of being able to totally give yourself over to something. It could be something as simple as calling your partner “daddy” while he refers to you as “baby” or his “little girl.” In more extreme cases, you may find yourselves roleplaying these parts. He may give you directions as your “daddy” and if you as his “little girl” obey him, you’ll be rewarded sexually.
Props to reinscribe that sense of control Maybe to add a little spice to the occasion, you want to include some more sensory play into your kink storyboard. Add some light batons or soft tassel whips with which your daddy can discipline you. Even some feather torture helps add intensity and aids that full body experience. The more you commit to the daddy kink, the more you will get out of it.
Folding in BDSM where appropriate This might be more of a specialism for some; it’s certainly not for the faint of heart. But, if it’s something that you think could appeal to you, it’s a very natural vehicle that can be used to explore a daddy kink for those more experienced couples. Once you really know each other’s boundaries, you can introduce a little controlled violence or violent play into your foreplay. Realizing that at its core, a daddy kink submits to trust and understanding is profound. BDSM will prove to you that this isn’t just succoring cruelty without a cause. It’s deeper than that.
Verbal play If the physical side of things seems like it might be a little out of reach for your bedroom, why not start exploring your daddy kink through verbal play? You can start in a validator or a condemning capacity. By using language and insults/praise, you can reinscribe that father-daughter power dynamic. Either way, it’s about control and approval, and authority. You can achieve that just as well with words as with physical touch.
Teasing All too often, sex is all about anticipation. This is no different from daddy kink-centric play. By building tension, teasing one another, and threatening to withdraw sex, you can play with the boundaries of control. Denying you. It always makes you want it more if you can’t take it for granted, anyway. Plus, how many of us associate our fathers with letting us down?

Hannah Acton
Hannah has a Masters degree in Romantic and Victorian literature in Scotland and spends her spare time writing anything from essays to short fiction about the life and times of the frogs in her local pond! She loves musical theatre, football, anything with potatoes, and remains a firm believer that most of the problems in this world can be solved by dancing around the kitchen to ABBA.

The love of degrading, spanking, name calling , or domination that may be associated with calling your s/o daddy. A daddy kink is not always characterised by its key word but its activities.
I know a group of girls with daddy kinks bro, they love being called a good girl and getting spanked
When your girl has a daddy kink . She will call you daddy as a sexual turn on. She will most likly call you “daddy” while having sexual intercourse.
“Last night my girl was calling me daddy when we were in the sheets. Bro Ik she had a daddy kink . But she got it bad .”
While having sex with a boy they may tell you to call them daddy as a turn on . A girl may also like to call a boy daddy as a turn on
by Jimins lost jams February 18, 2019
Where during sexual intercourse the male is being aroused when the female or cooresponding male called him " daddy "
When we were having sex the other day he said to call him daddy to get him off I think he might have a daddy kink
“ Idk man , just something about the way he chokes me makes me want to call him daddy.. maybe I DO have a daddy kink—”
When a girl calls her girlfriend daddy in the bedroom and a sexual turn on/kink. This may also be used in the ddlg ( Daddy Dom /Little girl) as an alternative instead of calling your girlfriend/ caregiver mommy, instead you call them daddy.
My girlfriend wants me to call her daddy , I thought that only straight girls and guys enjoy being called that.
Daddy kink- A kink involving the depiction of sexual activity or tension between a father figure and a (usually) younger character.
Lesbian daddy kink- a girl that calls her girlfriend daddy
by Lesbian daddy kink October 1, 2018

When you want to be the dad , but also date a dad and fuck the dad.
Yelah : Hey Amanda, don't you have a dad kink? Amanda: Yeah I do have a dad kink, not the daddy kink , but the d a d kink.

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When it comes to kinks, age play and the daddy kink are usually misunderstood. People assume if you’re looking for a “Daddy,” you have personal issues with your own father and are looking for a father-type figure in your intimate relationship. Listen, when it comes to kinks, people have them for all different reasons, not necessarily related to their real father-daughter relationship.
But first, let’s get a couple of things out of the way about what a Daddy Dom really is. A Daddy Dom, though is a daddy, is firstly a dominant. The “daddy” is a subcategory he chooses to live his life as within the dominance/submissive kink.
Now, there’s one major thing that needs to be cleared up. A Daddy Dom isn’t someone who’s interested in incest or pedophilia. Rather, a Daddy Dom is someone who likes to be called “Daddy,” while his submissive is called “girl” or “little girl.” It’s not very often you’ll find a Daddy Dom who calls their submissive “daughter.”
[Read: The kink list: 20 freaky fetishes that aren’t weird at all]
The 12 characteristics to look for in your daddy kink
Once you get past the rumors and misconceptions, you see it’s basically a dominant/submissive relationship between two consenting adults. So, what should you look for in a Daddy Dom?
It’s time to satiate your daddy kink and find yourself a daddy.
#1 He has sexual experience. Now, you can always have a Daddy who doesn’t have any sexual experience with his specific kink. Usually, if you’re new to this, it’s best to be with someone who has this kink experience. That way, you can learn the rules of this kink properly. A skilled dominant is always a good option. [Read: The step-by-step guide to start role playing with your partner]
#2 You’re sexually compatible. Having a daddy is great, but you need to also make sure you’re sexually compatible. He may check off everything from this list, but when it comes to the bedroom, there’s no chemistry. Make sure you’re both on the same page with your sexual interests and needs. [Read: The scary signs of sexual incompatibility and how to beat it together]
#3 He has life experience. Whether it’s a daddy-boy or daddy-girl relationship, they’ve been around for ages. Ideally, you want your daddy to have some life experience. If you’re in a gay, lesbian, or straight daddy-girl/boy relationship, your dominant will be able to share their experiences with you and help guide you through life.
#4 You have great conversations together. Yes, your Daddy Dom is someone who’s going to protect you, and guide you through life, but he’s also someone you can talk to. And it’s not as though the conversation is forced. You can stay on the phone for hours or sit together on the couch discussing world events. There’s more than just a sexual element.
#5 He takes care of you. I don’t mean he pays your bills and buys you expensive clothing. Of course, if he also does that, that’s also fine. But a Daddy Dom should be someone who cares about your well-being. He makes sure you’re okay and is naturally a caretaker. He wants to make sure you’re safe.
#6 He’s emotionally mature. You’re looking for a Daddy, not someone who throws a tantrum when the barista at Starbucks spells their name wrong on their to-go cup. When looking for a Daddy, talk to him, see what his experience has been like with other girls/boys, and just talk to him. Get a sense of his emotional maturity, and if it’s at a level you need it to be. [Read: When does a man emotionally mature? The 13 signs he’s grown a real pair]
#7 He’s a reliable person. You want a Daddy Dom who’s going to be there for you when he says he’s going to. A Daddy Dom is someone who will address your needs and be a rock in your life. If you need something, he’ll be there for you.
#8 You see each other as friends. Being in a daddy-boy/girl relationship is more than just having someone protect and care for you. This is someone you see yourself being friends with and vice versa. On the one hand, you two can be kinky together in the bedroom, and on the other hand, you can share your personal life with him and have his guidance and support.
#9 You feel safe. When you’re around him, you’re not thinking about whether or not he’s going to screw you over. In his presence, you feel safe and secure. A Daddy Dom should be someone you see as providing you the safe space you need.
#10 He pushes you forward. Sometimes, we get tired and want to give up. It happens to the best of us; life isn’t a walk in the park. Your Daddy Dom should encourage you to keep going and be your support when times are rough.
#11 He has his life together. A Daddy Dom isn’t someone who doesn’t know how to hold down a job longer than a week and lives in his parent’s house. No, a Daddy Dom is an independent person who has, generally, a stable life. He’s grounded, and he knows who he is and what he wants. [Read: 20 characteristics of a good man that make him desirable and reliable]
#12 He doesn’t overdo it as a Daddy Dom. Sometimes, Daddy Doms get a little too invested in their role and overdo it. It’s never healthy to overplay any role in the kink community, including the Daddy Dom. You do not want to form a codependent relationship with your Daddy. If you’re noticing it’s becoming a bit much, talk about it with them.
[Read: Your guide to building a healthy relationship]
If you’re interested in the daddy kink, it can be a great experience. But make sure you find the right daddy for you first.
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