Découverte des saveurs
Bakersfieldᜓ 𓌈᩼ Side muse : Lee Donghyuck, Lee Jeno, Lee Sangwon, Park Jisung, Park Sunghoon, Sim Jaeyun, Yang Jungwon, Anton Lee, Zhao Yufan (James), Ahn Keonho, Eom Seonghyeon, Kwon Ohyul, Kim Ryul, Joss Wayar, & All Manhwa/hua.
ᜓ 𓌈᩼ Available :
• Basic request (ava, name, typing, bio, etc).
• Add Group
• Move platform (discord).
• Stay up late (ask first).
• Pap activity (without face).
• On the phone & Sleep call (muted only).
• In character (based on au, novel, manhua/hwa, ex, crush, etc— gimme times).
• Movie date.
• Listening date.
• Reading date.
• Food & Coffe date (bill on cust).
• Game date (@. gamee, plato, roblox).
• Imagine sfw—sfw.
• Deeptalk.
• PDA (V/VIP Only).
ᜓ 𓌈᩼ Intro :
INTRODUCTION
With quiet reverence, I offer my greeting. May this moment arrive with the calm of Berlin at dusk. Grey skies above, city lights slowly coming alive, and for a moment, nowhere that either of us needs to rush toward.
Allow me to step forward and introduce myself. My name is Gideon Sadewische, though you may simply call me Sades. Either name feels familiar enough, but I would not mind if someday you found another one that belonged only to the way you know me. I am a Sundanese boy, though not exactly the kind who would make Sunda his entire personality. Indonesian is the language I use most naturally, while English occasionally slips into my sentences when the mood feels right.
At first glance, I suppose I might come across as someone rather calm. I enjoy stillness, conversations with meaning, and moments that do not need to be rushed. There is something comforting about quiet evenings and the kind of silence that does not demand to be filled. But that is only one side of me. Give me enough time, and you may find someone considerably more random than expected. I can go from talking about life at midnight to suddenly wondering about something completely ridiculous five minutes later. I enjoy deep conversations, but I also enjoy nonsense. I can be thoughtful, slightly poetic when the moment allows it, and then immediately ruin the atmosphere by saying something that makes absolutely no sense.
When it comes to people I grow close to, however, there is one thing you will probably notice about me fairly quickly: I stay. Not in a way that demands your attention or makes you feel as though you constantly have to entertain me, I simply like being present. If you are having a bad day, tell me. If something has been sitting heavily on your mind and you finally decide to talk about it at twelve in the morning, I will listen. Your thoughts do not have to be organized before you bring them to me; they can be messy, emotional, and completely out of order. You are not bothering me. I think everyone deserves a space where they can speak freely and simply be themselves. Perhaps that is the kind of presence I try to offer quiet, but real.
I can appreciate and express all five love languages, though Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, and Physical Touch come most naturally to me. Sometimes it simply starts with, “Kamu free? Ngobrol yuk, lima menit aja,” and somehow five minutes turns into an hour. I enjoy chatting until one of us falls asleep, watching movies from different cities, playing games, or simply staying connected while we go through our separate routines. I may be a slow typer, but I try to respond sincerely and make the people I care about feel heard. And when words are not enough, I am naturally affectionate in simple ways: “Peluk dulu sini,” a hand on your back, or a little pukpuk followed by, “Kamu udah keren hari ini.”
Music is also a pretty important part of my life. My playlists include The 1975, Cigarettes After Sex, Wave to Earth, NIKI, Rex Orange County, Arctic Monkeys, John Mayer, Chase Atlantic, Justin Bieber, Fred again.., The Millennial Club, FSTVLST, Dewa 19, and plenty of K-pop along the way. My taste can be a little all over the place, but that just means there is always something to share. So, if you have a song you really like or one you think I should listen to send it to me. I am always open to exchanging playlists and discovering new music together.
So this is Gideon Sadewische or Sades, if that is easier for you. Whether you come to know me as a friend, family, partner, or something that slowly becomes more difficult to name, I would rather let things unfold naturally than rush them into becoming something they are not. Some stories are better that way slowly and deliberately, like a city that reveals itself over time.
After all, an introduction can only tell you so much. Perhaps the rest is something you will have to discover for yourself. A restrained smile, shared beneath the evening sky.
Danke.