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10 Cunnilingus Myths Everyone Needs To Stop Believing
For the sake of clitorises everywhere.
1. Myth: If you don't orgasm from oral, you have a defective vagina.
2. Myth: You need to chug pineapple juice so you taste/smell better down there.
3. Myth: Whoever is face-to-vagina with you is thinking, "Damn, what is UP with her labia, I liked the ones on the last woman I was with so much more."
4. Myth: You're going to hurt your partner's feelings if you tell them what you want.
5. Myth: You should be so loud during oral that running into your neighbors becomes really awkward.
6. Myth: You should be all about that direct clitoral stimulation.
7. Myth: The only thing that matters is their tongue.
8. Myth: You don't need to worry about STIs.
9. Myth: You're not a feminist if you can't get on board with cunnilingus.
10. Myth: Receiving oral sex is the most intimate thing you can do. No, wait, it's actually NBD.
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Although I think its official name could use some work, cunnilingus is a gift. People with vaginas obviously deserve to experience just as much sexual pleasure as people with penises do, and receiving oral sex can help make that happen. But destructive sexual myths abound, and they can affect many people's sex lives. That's especially true for something as vagina-centric as oral sex. Instead of being able to enjoy it in all its glory—or not, because some people legitimately aren't into it—we often worry about things like whether we should smell "better" while ignoring that, yes, you can get a sexually transmitted infection from cunnilingus. (Sorry, buzzkill, I know.) Here, the truth about 10 oral-sex myths you never have to believe again.
Sex is supposed to help you escape from the pressures of everyday life, not add to them. Sure, some women who can't orgasm from intercourse find that oral sex is their vaginas' golden ticket. But even if you think oral is enjoyable, it might not work for you orgasm-wise, and that's fine.
That's not to say you should be satisfied with not getting off if orgasms are indeed your goal, but that you shouldn't feel like something's wrong with you if cunnilingus doesn't immediately do the trick. It can take some time to workshop what exactly gets you there, and that should actually be fun .
First of all, there's nothing that can make your vagina taste like a piece of fruit. Except, well, putting a piece of fruit in it, which is dangerous , so don't do that. Second, you don't need to alter how you smell or taste. Unless you have some sort of infection, whatever's going on down there is completely normal.
Unless you're hooking up with a jackass, whoever you're with is probably enjoying themselves too much to think anything remotely critical about how your parts look. (And in case you were wondering, your labia are probably normal .) Unfortunately, assholes do walk among us. If someone says something rude about the way your vagina looks, they don't really deserve to experience its greatness.
Constructive criticism is great! Sure, it might be a little embarrassing for them when you correct their technique. But they should promptly get over that upon realizing how hot it is that you know what you want and are able to describe it.
Thank you, pornography, for spreading this falsehood. Cool if during good oral, you moan, scream, or get particularly inventive with your dirty talk at top volume. Also cool if you're pretty silent as it happens because you're concentrating on how good it feels, you're just not very vocal during that kind of sex, or because every time you get really loud the person you're with changes what they're doing and chases away your orgasm.
True, a lot of people need intense pressure on their clitorises to orgasm. But the clitoris has around 8,000 nerve endings , meaning that for some people, anything more than a feathery-light touch feels like someone's trying to break their vagina. There's no "one stimulation fits all" rule with oral, so don't feel weird if you need someone to either barely touch your clitoris or go at it with the suctioning power of a Hoover.
Humans have been blessed with entire faces and hands, not to mention the brains to figure out how to use them during oral. Plus, vibrators and dildos exist! If you're frankly a little bored with tongue-only action, ask the person you're with to change things up.
Oral still counts as sex, and dental dams count as protection (even though people make fun of them. Why?). Sexually transmitted infections can be passed along during all kinds of oral, so give yourself the peace of mind that comes with practicing safe sex.
Maybe you're (rightfully) obsessed with your vagina and don't think it's anything to be ashamed of, but you still don't like how oral feels. It might feel too ticklish, or you might not be able to shake the thought that someone's rubbing spit all over your most intimate parts. Much like you don't need to adore giving blow jobs to be sexy, you don't need to love receiving oral to be hot/feminist/anything at all.
Really, however you view oral sex is right. Maybe you always check it off the list before moving along to another sexual activity that's more intimate in your mind, whether that's intercourse or something else. Or maybe you don't do it until after you've already done everything else, are falling in love, and are finally ready to have someone get up close and personal with you. As with all other types of sex, as long as what you're doing makes both of you feel comfortable, it's the right choice.
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The head of a woman’s clitoris, which is only about the size of a small pea, has a staggering 8,000 nerve endings, twice as many as her husband’s penis! Her clitoris‘ sole purpose is to give her pleasure. It serves no other function than to bring her pure bliss.
A husband’s tongue can create more sensations than any other part of his body. It’s warm, wet, soft, and the textured surface is the perfect tool for pleasuring a woman's clitoris. See where I’m going with this? Yes, a husband with a skilled tongue can give his wife great blessings in their marriage bed.
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Pancake Pull is a cunnilingus technique that provides broad, rhythmic stimulation that feels absolutely amazing.
On Top and Just Inside is a cunnilingus technique that stimulates her entire vulva and pays special attention to her vaginal opening.
Suck is a cunnilingus technique that concentrates on her inner lips and area around them. It’s a great technique to begin with and help awaken her senses and get aroused.
Blackout is a technique that helps the shy or apprehensive spouse feel more comfortable while giving or receiving manual sex such as a manual stimulation or a handjob or oral sex such as cunnilingus or a blowjob during foreplay. This is an excellent technique for couples who are trying something new for the first time.
Flappytongue is a cunnilingus technique that uses both sides of your tongue to create an intense, fluttering stimulation. This is an excellent cunnilingus technique with mild to moderate stimulation intensity.
Blackout is a cunnilingus technique that heightens her sense of touch and soothes her apprehensiveness while receiving cunnilingus from her husband.
Get to the Point is a cunnilingus technique that is ideal for when you are transitioning from stimulating all-around your wife’s clitoris to direct clitoral stimulation.
Great cunnilingus leads to great sex. A husband’s mouth can create more sensations than any part of his body. Many women will agree that what makes them the hottest and come hardest is a skillful tongue.
Suction Pucker is a cunnilingus technique that stimulates and increases blood flow to her clitoris, which significantly increases its sensitivity. This technique is great for revving up the stimulation during foreplay.
Licking the Alphabet is a cunnilingus technique that uses repetitive tongue strokes from the alphabet to stimulate your wife. This technique is great for building tension during foreplay.
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Why Do Women Prefer Cunnilingus to Intercourse?

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Most women prefer cunnilingus to anything else during the act of making love, in fact over 80% of women would rather have cunnilingus than penetration. Why do women prefer cunnilingus to regular intercourse? There are two main reasons lets look at them.
1. Amazing orgasms. While only a small percentage of women receive regular orgasms through normal penetration a significantly higher percentage receive them through cunnilingus. When you bear in mind that the clitoris alone has tens of thousands of nerve endings then it is little wonder that cunnilingus is desired so much by women. But be warned, with so many potential pleasure spots down there make sure you are not to rough with your tongue, as this could ruin the whole experience.
2. Receiving Without Giving. Women are by their very nature inclined to put their partners pleasure before their own. So when receiving cunnilingus they can forget about pleasing their man and drift away in a world of pleasure. This means a lot as they can see that the man is very unselfish and is willing to give up his own pleasure to concentrate on hers.
As you can see there is much more to cunnilingus than just licking a woman, when a man is skilled in this art then he will have a woman who feels loved and not just wanted for his satisfaction. This can also have a positive effect on the mans sex life as women who are given good cunnilingus are more likely to return the favour by giving her partner fellatio.
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