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Cuckold Popularity
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This article is about the term. For the 1997 novel by Kiran Nagarkar, see Cuckold (novel) . For the 2015 South African film, see Cuckold (film) .
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A cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife; the wife of an adulterous husband is a cuckquean . In biology , a cuckold is a male who unwittingly invests parental effort in juveniles who are not genetically his offspring. [1] A husband who is aware of and tolerates his wife's infidelity is sometimes called a wittol or wittold . [2]
The word cuckold derives from the cuckoo bird, alluding to its habit of laying its eggs in other birds' nests. [3] [4] The association is common in medieval folklore , literature, and iconography .
English usage first appears about 1250 in the medieval debate poem The Owl and the Nightingale . It was characterized as an overtly blunt term in John Lydgate 's "Fall of Princes", c. 1440 . [5] Shakespeare's writing often referred to cuckolds, with several of his characters suspecting they had become one. [4]
The word often implies that the husband is deceived; that he is unaware of his wife's unfaithfulness and may not know until the arrival or growth of a child plainly not his (as with cuckoo birds). [4]
The female equivalent cuckquean first appears in English literature in 1562, [6] [7] adding a female suffix to the cuck .
A related word, first appearing in 1520, is wittol , which substitutes wit (in the sense of knowing) for the first part of the word, referring to a man aware of and reconciled to his wife's infidelity . [8]
An abbreviation of cuckold , the term cuck has been used by the alt-right to attack the masculinity of an opponent. It was originally aimed at other conservatives , whom the alt-right saw as "insufficiently committed to racism and anti-Semitism", according to The New York Times . [9]
In Western traditions, cuckolds have sometimes been described as "wearing the horns of a cuckold" or just "wearing the horns". This is an allusion to the mating habits of stags , who forfeit their mates when they are defeated by another male. [10]
In Italy (especially in Southern Italy , where it is a major personal offence), the insult " cornuto " is often accompanied by the sign of the horns . In French , the term is " porter des cornes ". In German, the term is " jemandem Hörner aufsetzen ", or " Hörner tragen ", the husband is " der gehörnte Ehemann ".
In Brazil and Portugal, the term used is " corno ", meaning exactly "horned". The term is quite offensive, especially for men, and cornos are a common subject of jokes and anecdotes.
Rabelais 's Tiers Livers of Gargantua and Pantagruel (1546) portrays a horned fool as a cuckold. [11] In Molière 's L'École des femmes (1662), a man named Arnolphe (see below) who mocks cuckolds with the image of the horned buck ( becque cornu ) becomes one at the end.
In Chinese usage, the cuckold (or wittol) is said to be " 戴綠帽子 " dài lǜmàozi , translated into English as 'wearing the green hat'. The term is an allusion to the sumptuary laws used from the 13th to the 18th centuries that required males in households with prostitutes to wrap their heads in a green scarf (or later a hat). [12]
A saint Arnoul(t), Arnolphe, or Ernoul, possibly Arnold of Soissons , is often cited as the patron saint of cuckolded husbands, hence the name of Molière's character Arnolphe. [13] [14]
The Greek hero Actaeon is often associated with cuckoldry, as when he is turned into a stag, he becomes "horned". [15] This is alluded to in Shakespeare's Merry Wives , Robert Burton 's Anatomy of Melancholy , and others. [16]
In Islamic cultures, the related term dayouth ( Arabic : دَيُّوث ) can be used to describe person who is viewed as apathetic or permissive with regards to unchaste behaviour by female relatives or a spouse, or who lacks the demeanor ( ghayrah ) of paternalistic protectiveness. [17] [18] Variations on the spelling, including dayyuth , dayuuth , or dayoos. [19] The term has been criticised for its use as a pejorative while also suggestive of acceptance of vain paternalistic gender roles, stigmatization of sexuality or overprotective intrusive sexual gatekeeping. [20]
Unlike the traditional definition of the term, in fetish usage a cuckold (also known as "cuckolding fetish") [21] [22] is complicit in their partner's sexual "infidelity"; the wife who enjoys "cuckolding" her husband is called a "cuckoldress" if the man is more submissive. [23] [ page needed ] [24] [25] The dominant man engaging with the cuckold's partner is called a "bull". [24]
If a couple can keep the fantasy in the bedroom, or come to an agreement where being cuckolded in reality does not damage the relationship, they may try it out in reality. However, the primary proponent of the fantasy is almost always the one being humiliated, or the "cuckold": the cuckold convinces his lover to participate in the fantasy for them, though other "cuckolds" may prefer their lover to initiate the situation instead. The fetish fantasy does not work at all if the cuckold is being humiliated against their will. [26]
Psychology regards cuckold fetishism as a variant of masochism , the cuckold deriving pleasure from being humiliated. [27] [28] In his book Masochism and the Self, psychologist Roy Baumeister advanced a Self Theory analysis that cuckolding (or specifically, all masochism) was a form of escaping from self-awareness, at times when self-awareness becomes burdensome, such as with perceived inadequacy. According to this theory, the physical or mental pain from masochism brings attention away from the self, which would be desirable in times of "guilt, anxiety, or insecurity", or at other times when self-awareness is unpleasant. [29]
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By theundiedrawer , February 12, 2014
Playboy recently posted a thorough study about ‘cuckold porn’ and its (for me anyways) surprising popularity amongst regular porn watchers. In fact, it was discovered that the term ‘cuckold’ is one of the most searched pornographic terms on the internet.
For those who don’t know, or haven’t seen any of the porn in question, being cuckolded essentially means being cheated on. Normally, a meek-looking man confronts his pornstar wife, revealing his deep dark secret to her: he has always fantasized about watching her have sex with a virile male porn actor, usually with a huge penis.
Without thinking twice, the wife embarks on an adventure of sexual exploration with this new man (who happens to be hanging out in the room), having never experienced such an extreme level of fulfillment. The husband sits quietly in the corner, masturbating and watching his wife have sex with this alpha male, the likes of which he could never aspire to.
It seems very odd to me that this type of porn would be so popular, because it seems to feed so directly into the insecurities and jealousies that many men in relationships seem to possess.
ABOVE: There is also a large market for erotic/romance novels that explore the concept of ‘cuckolding,’ implying that this is a popular genre of erotica for both men and women.
Most interesting to me is the following quote from the Playboy article: “Indeed, internet search trends reveal that interest in cuckold porn has surged in the last decade,” which seems to imply that this type of pornography has become especially popular with the rise of social media, increased ease of accessibility for internet pornography, and the further establishment of the internet space as a necessity in our lives.
I never quite realized that porn-watching went through ebbs, trends and fads just like anything else.
It makes sense, in my opinion, that the rise of social media may have impacted the desirability of this type of porno, because it gives one immediate access to all of their partners’ friends and acquaintances, breaking down some kind of wall. Before, not being able to physically see, say, your wife’s male co-workers and friends probably bred increased jealousy and resentment towards those people. Being able to associate a name with a face perhaps quells some of these doubts, and allows these fantasies to form themselves.
I wonder also if most people who watch these pornos associate themselves with the man getting cheated on, or if they associate with the man having sex with the wife? This is an important factor that isn’t explored in the article, and one that I don’t have an answer to.
Ultimately, I don’t really understand people’s desires to fantasize about their wives getting fucked by some porn-star stud. I guess it stems from a man’s insecurity about being able to satisfy his wife himself?
How about you, do you have any experience with this kind of pornography? Do you have any insight into its appeal?
I’m really confused about the perspective of the person who watches this, too. To me it makes more sense that this is popular with men who seek out to be the cheater, not the cuckolded party. But! There’s also the idea that it could be women seeking out this porn because they’re looking for the fantasy of some hot stud doing them instead of their meek husband.
That’s also a good point – in general, porn is viewed less by women than by men, but it is highly possible that this is a popular fantasy for women as well, and I would be interested in reading some research about it.
I would love cup know how playboy know who us accessing the material. My internet is in my partners name but I watch most of the adult material . Perhaps worm are watching lots more porn than people are aware of and it is indeed a female fantasy that their loving husband wants them to get a good hard screw???
The article was based on a study conducted by a ‘sexologist’ who anonymously polled a bunch of men about their sexual fantasies. Apparently cuckold porn is one of the most common fantasies submitted!
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For my wife and I, we view this porn as it excites us both, we have experimented in the past but changes in lifestyle have made it difficult. I had big jealousy issues altho my ex never saw this and I never saw it as that in a previous relationship before marrying my now wife. I identified these traits when I first met her and she was “down for it and me” (being honest when you first meet is my best advice) now married 7 years. You know what tho, its not about my insecurity its about how my wife is soo hot and i want to show it off and share it and at the same time i do like when she teases me so there is a sexual humiliation side sure, but its not in hate or spite or because im inadequate. We love each other dearly and this is what porn is. Fantasy, detached from the reality’s of a 9 to 5 life with 2 kids.
Cuckold porn is a mental trick men play on their physiology. Men produce more sperm when they think their women are cheating. This evolved so they can then have sex with her and have a better chance of impregnation and not the other guy.
Simple as that.
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For years I have had a fantasy of being cuckolded. I wanted an attractive woman to tell me that even though she loved me, I wasn’t endowed enough or talanted enough to satisfy her. I wanted her to find an attractive man, force me to watch them and then haven’t me clean her afterwards. For over 20 years I thought there was something wrong with me and that I was the only guy in the world with a fantasy like this. About 5 years ago I found out that I was not alone a that other people were into this. I felt very relieved and now I just want to live out my fantasy. Hopefully someday I will find a woman willing to help me. I don’t mean an escort or pro, just a woman or attractive couple who would enjoy cuckolding me.
I watch a lot of this type of porn, and fantasise about my wife having sex with other guys. I like the thought of watching but also taking part as a threesome. I keep it private but my wife knows about this fantasy but doesn’t want it to be a reality. Most guys, I assume, are the cheated party in the fantasy and i reckon make up most of the viewers. For me, I’m turned on by my beautiful wife, being given immense pleasure, and being promiscuous with well endowed men. In most videos they are black men which is probably a bit taboo for guys. I’m not bothered by the race, rather that they are satisfying her in ways I can’t because of their large cocks. I’m secure in how my wife feels about me and I’m comfortable with the idea of her being with other men. In reality, I have no idea how that would work, so i’m cautious to push the issue with her. The consequences can’t be predicted, and neither can I predict the emotions. Either way it’s a fun fantasy for both of us, probably more so for me. I would never discuss with any friends, as people in general think it’s shocking that I would let her be with someone else… The fact that it’s a bit wrong adds to the fantasy. I’d love more research to be done on it as I think it’s very sexy, thinking of my wife being fucked by others but she loves me no matter what.
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