Cuckold Interview
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Cuckold Interview
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Welcome to my new cuckold interview series!
Interviewing couples in the lifestyle is something I’ve wanted to do for a long time so this is something super exciting for the blog.
Anyways, the big goal of this new type of content is to:
1. Help people better understand the cuckold lifestyle – what it’s really like, how it can be different among couples, how it’s not like that the media portrays, etc.
2. Help promote the couples’ content and social media.
So I recently had the pleasure of interviewing Roxy & Benjamin Dover – a couple who have been in the lifestyle for a number of years.
They lead super busy lives between the kids and work and family BUT still have time to find kinky fun!
It was a blast listening to their story and they are definitely down to earth people we can all learn from.
So I’m super excited to share this interview with you all!
Be sure to check out their incredible content on Twitter and OnlyFans !!
Without rambling on too long, let’s get into the interview!
Roxy Dover: I like to think of myself as just a normal suburban housewife with all the normal problems of any mother of 4. My vanilla life takes up a majority of my time. Sexually I have a high sex drive and love kinky dirty things.
Benjamin Dover: Same here. Our family and full time jobs dominate our lives. We are just a normal everyday family trying to navigate life and raise kids. Sexually we just have some crazy kinks and fetishes.
RD: Well Ben got me into it. We met while swinging with our Exs which is a whole other story. When we got together he told me what he was into and it sounded great to me.
Ultimately, I have always cheated on my partner. I just can’t help myself. The more wrong a situation is the more I want it. So this set up seemed perfect.
BD: For me cuckolding is all mental. I’m alpha in every other situation in our life and at 6’7″ people have always looked at me as a natural leader.
Every aspect of our vanilla life I’m in charge or Roxy prefers to differ to me. So sexually I love the loss of control. Its to a point where I crave it. Having a small dick also helps with this lifestyle
I imagine it’s pretty difficult with 4 kids and it would be a little hard to explain a non-traditional relationship like this with them especially if they are younger.
RD: That’s simple. With the kids being from previous marriages there are custody agreements and we lined them up so we don’t have any kids every other weekend. So our playtime and content time are limited to 4 days a month. Not a lot of time but more then come parents.
RD: Well there was a lot of cheating on my ex husband. So technically that was cuckolding but the first BBC I took in front of Ben was at our house. We were out for the day and we were talking about me being with a black man and he asked if I wanted too he would set it up that night.
I told him there was no way he could do it and if he did pull it off and find a guy then I’d be down. Well I was new to the lifestyle and didn’t understand just how well the old Craigslist ads worked.
So a few hours later I’m on all fours on the bed making out with Ben while cumming all over a BBC bareback in me. We never looked back after that.
BD: I tried to get my Ex into it and she would do it but was never like really into it. I realized I liked MFMs and then realized I liked to watch her with other guys.
One of the first hookups was with a white bull and he had us DV my wife. Only I kept slipping out. So he took over and had me get outta the way. He knew how to be a bull and was very vocal. It was so unbelievably hot, I was hooked at that point.
RD: The ability to fuck sexy men whenever I want. The sexual freedom. How turned on it makes Ben. I get to live out any sexual fantasy I can come up with.
What I dont like about it is vanilla chicks think I will steal thier men and it causes issues making friends. I don’t like that every guy thinks I will fuck them.
I don’t like the stigma of a cuck being a loser because I become very defensive of my husband. He is my rock, he is a great father and provider, he is not a loser.
BD: I love the loss of control and not having any choice in the matter. I love to see the pleasure she gets. I love the humiliation when she’s getting fucked.
I love someone doing something to her I can’t. I also agree with the stigma piece. The humiliation piece is great in the bedroom and obviously some guys are far better equipped then others but guys need to learn how the couples operate before they just start trying to dominate.
Cuckolding is really a range of submission and kink and each couple is different.
RD: Honesty. Lots of communication and being open and honest.
BD: The real key is before you can do that you need to make sure she feels comfortable with herself and feels good in her own skin. If she doesn’t feel beautiful she isn’t going to be ok getting naked with a stranger.
RD: She also needs to feel secure in your relationship. If you don’t make her feel like she’s your world then she’s not going to trust you. She’s going to think its about you looking for someone else. Really the guy is in the driver’s seat. Make her feel beautiful and loved before you even try to bring it up.
RD: Honesty and trust. That’s the foundation to be able to do any of this.
BD: Go slow. Ease into it. Start with going to a lifestyle event and just watching. We throw BBC parties and often get couples who just watch. That’s an excellent way to start. Go watch and then talk about what you saw.
RD: There’s a bunch, DDLG, bondage, knife play, gun play. I would love to go to a real dungeon at some point with a real Dom.
BD: As you can see on her page I have a smoking fetish. I also enjoy a lot of the cuckold fetishes like breeding, sph, bondage, and humiliation.
RD: I to find a group of guys, like a football team, and be passed around all night. I have had gangbangs but think it’d be fun to be a total slut for a group of friends.
BD: We had Danny Blaq come stay with us for 4 days and it was fun. We had talked about a live in bull and it was kinda like that. I would like to do a trip with a Bull sometime.
RD: I love being watched. I love meeting new sexy men. I love money. So it all comes together nicely on OF.
BD: We like to share our experiences and have decided that I will be taking a more active role in the videos as well. The content with me in it seems to be much more popular so you will be seeing more.
RD: Solo stuff, thats the easiest to make. Timing is always an issue with trying to create content with others. That said I do have a ton of IR scenes and cuckold content. My OF has 2 pic sets uploaded a week and a video. I also upload throughout the week just normal day to day stuff. I have actually recieved complaints that there is too much content.
BD: You’ll also see me cleaning creampies, being used as human furniture, and a jerking off to her getting fucked.
P.S. Don’t forget to check out their content on Twitter & OF!
Also, if you want to read more about cuckold experiences, be sure to check out my “ Real Cuckold Experiences ” blog post – It’ll be updated with content several times a week as I get submissions from readers!
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Being a cuck myself to a wonderful take charge bitch is the most elevating and freedom creating thing inmy sex life. we have been married 21 yrs and have no kids to be concerned about. I love to find her regular black bulls (2) who fuck her ass and cunt together, mouth and ass, mouth and cunt with her tied unmovable in any position they and she wish. I am dressed in her dirty knickers and bra and i am masturbated to exhaustion by either, both or all three, Whwn all the cum has been shot it is my pleasure to orally clean all three, at the same time offering myself as their personal full service toilet and I never spill a drop or smear a brown streak while swallowing. I am then washed, placed back in chastity until next time.
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