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Some might find the idea of watching their partner in bed with someone else as nightmarish, so unthinkable that the mere thought triggers intense jealousy. For others, it could be a total turn-on. Unfamiliar with this particular brand of kink? Well, there’s a term for it: cuckolding.
Maybe you heard the word in 2011’s “Crazy, Stupid, Love” as Steve Carrell moaned violently at the bar about his wife’s affair. Perhaps you learned of it just recently via the scandal involving Jerry Falwell, Jr. , his wife, and the pool boy. Or maybe you've heard the term "cuck" thrown around by Internet trolls and got curious. Either way, you should know that cuckolding is actually a surprisingly common fetish, and there are many misconceptions about what it entails.
According to certified clinical sexologist Dr. Dawn Michael, PhD , “cuckold” is the second most looked-up porn category. In other words, whether or not they act on it, there’s plenty of individuals out there that are titillated by the idea of a person watching their spouse get frisky with an outsider.
But what about this particular fetish exactly makes it so popular? And can it ever actually work within the framework of a healthy relationship? We spoke to three sex experts to get the lowdown on cuckolding (especially why some people find it hot AF).
Basically, cuckolding involves someone getting aroused by observing their partner having sex with someone else.
Not to be confused with a threesome, in a cuckold situation, the cuck doesn’t get in on the fun — they get off merely by watching the escapades that go down in front of them.
Cuckolding isn’t technically considered cheating as it doesn’t occur behind the partner’s back. in fact, not only has the cuck given permission to their partner to have sex with another person, they’re also typically encouraging it.
According to Dr. Michael, cuckolding is primarily a male-driven fantasy. However, that’s not to say there aren’t ladies with this fetish as well. When a woman enjoys watching her husband with someone else, it’s known as “cuckqueaning.”
A survey of about 4,200 Americans conducted by Justin Lehmiller, founder and editor of Sex and Psychology, revealed that more than half of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding .
Keep in mind that just because they thought about their partner with someone else doesn’t necessarily mean they went through with acting on the fantasy. Interestingly, Lehmiller’s study also found that gay and bisexual men are more likely than heterosexual men, while lesbian and bisexual women are more likely to have cuckolding fantasies, too.
There are a wide variety of reasons why someone might be into cuckolding.
Clinical sexologist and relationship expert Dr. Laurel Steinberg, PhD , notes that for some, the act serves as a confirmation of just how hot their partner is, which can be a nice ego boost. Another scenario might have one partner with an insatiable sexual appetite that the other can’t fulfill, and since they want to make them happy, they get off vicariously by watching someone else pleasure them.
“For one of my clients who is a male cuck, he revels in the humiliation that the woman is getting greater pleasure than he can provide,” says Davia Frost , certified sex & relationship coach and founder of Frosted Pleasure . “[Men] see a cuckold scenario as a safe way for their woman to have relations with such an individual without love or conflicting feelings. It can be more animalistic and sexual and stimulate partners mentally.”
But for lots of people, the enjoyment that comes from cuckolding stems from the thrill of breaking conventional societal rules around monogamy and marriage.
For cuckolding to go down as part of a healthy, happy relationship, both partners need to be on board. Similar with threesomes, and other fantasies or fetishes involving outside people, it’s crucial to talk it over with your partner to make sure it’s something you both feel comfortable with.
“One misunderstanding can cause a partner to feel terrible emotional pain and have bad memories that last a lifetime, so plan carefully,” says Steinberg. “Have many, many conversations during which you detail exactly what you plan on doing and what the other people will be doing. Be as descriptive as possible, including discussing how you relate to the event when it is over.”
Additionally, their trust should be rock solid before bringing another person into the bedroom.
“Boundaries must be discussed beforehand,” states Michael. “The couple should also talk about why they want to explore cuckolding and what the turn-ons are for each other. With many cuckold experiences, the husband is the one wanting to watch his wife have sex with another man, and in many instances be submissive and either just want to watch or have some involvement. Not all situations of cuckold fall into a specific category, so it really needs to be discussed what the expectations are.”
Very often, cuckolding works out better in fantasy than it does when it plays out in real life. Just because you enjoy the idea of your partner getting it on with someone else in front of you doesn’t mean you can actually handle it in real life.
“The few cases where it has worked out was when the couple was older, the kids were grown and out of the house, and the man was no longer sexually performing as he wished to be,” adds Michael. “The relationship between husband and wife was solid and mature.”
Since acting on this fantasy can be a big step in any relationship, Frost highly advises starting slow with a gradual ease into the full thing.
“I recommend watching someone give your partner a sensual massage, setting the whole scene and everything,” she explains. “If that’s too much for you to handle, please speak your truth with your partner.”
Frost also points out that for some couples, just talking about or entertaining the possibility of cuckolding can be enough to turn them on. An example could be discussing what they would want to see their partner do with someone else, or by having their partner tell them about past sexual encounters.
Is cuckolding for everyone? Certainly not. But if you decide to boldly explore this fetish, heed the above advice and just be sure cover the two C’s: communication and consent.

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One of the reasons I held off on cuckolding my husband for the first time was a fear of feeling terrible after it was over. I worried I’d feel like I had betrayed him or crushed his spirit and soul. I worried that I’d feel slutty in a way I wasn’t at all interested in, too.
Ultimately, it was probably a good thing that I took a handful of years before actually taking the plunge with a new guy. My husband and I indulged in various fantasies during that time and I’m sure it helped me get more comfortable with actually going ahead with it.
The actual act of sleeping with another guy was great. It w
One of the reasons I held off on cuckolding my husband for the first time was a fear of feeling terrible after it was over. I worried I’d feel like I had betrayed him or crushed his spirit and soul. I worried that I’d feel slutty in a way I wasn’t at all interested in, too.
Ultimately, it was probably a good thing that I took a handful of years before actually taking the plunge with a new guy. My husband and I indulged in various fantasies during that time and I’m sure it helped me get more comfortable with actually going ahead with it.
The actual act of sleeping with another guy was great. It was blissful, to be honest. The sex was amazing and it had the kind of heat that you only find in new relationships.
Afterwards, I did feel a rush of guilt as I drove home (though I didn’t feel slutty, just satisfied). I worried that despite his desires, my husband might be crushed by the actual act. Thankfully, he wasn’t.
The moment I came through the door he was on me. He was full of eagerness and lust and passion. He assuaged my fears instantly and I was once again awash in pleasure as he kissed me all over and eagerly worshiped my body.
I think his reaction is a big part of why I was happy to continue. Had my sleeping with another man hurt my husband or damaged our marriage I wouldn’t have done it again. Instead, it turned him on more than anything ever had. Our marriage actually got better. We were connected on a deeper, more intimate level because I’d been with someone else.
There’s a staggering array of feelings associated with doing something like this for the first time. Some are difficult, some are wonderful. You’re probably going to experience them all if you dive into this lifestyle, but that’s okay. I know I’ve enjoyed it so far.
One of the reasons I held off on cuckolding my husband for the first time was a fear of feeling terrible after it was over. I worried I’d feel like I had betrayed him or crushed his spirit and soul. I worried that I’d feel slutty in a way I wasn’t at all interested in, too.
Ultimately, it was probably a good thing that I took a handful of years before actually taking the plunge with a new guy. My husband and I indulged in various fantasies during that time and I’m sure it helped me get more comfortable with actually going ahead with it.
The actual act of sleeping with another guy was great. It w
One of the reasons I held off on cuckolding my husband for the first time was a fear of feeling terrible after it was over. I worried I’d feel like I had betrayed him or crushed his spirit and soul. I worried that I’d feel slutty in a way I wasn’t at all interested in, too.
Ultimately, it was probably a good thing that I took a handful of years before actually taking the plunge with a new guy. My husband and I indulged in various fantasies during that time and I’m sure it helped me get more comfortable with actually going ahead with it.
The actual act of sleeping with another guy was great. It was blissful, to be honest. The sex was amazing and it had the kind of heat that you only find in new relationships.
Afterwards, I did feel a rush of guilt as I drove home (though I didn’t feel slutty, just satisfied). I worried that despite his desires, my husband might be crushed by the actual act. Thankfully, he wasn’t.
The moment I came through the door he was on me. He was full of eagerness and lust and passion. He assuaged my fears instantly and I was once again awash in pleasure as he kissed me all over and eagerly worshiped my body.
I think his reaction is a big part of why I was happy to continue. Had my sleeping with another man hurt my husband or damaged our marriage I wouldn’t have done it again. Instead, it turned him on more than anything ever had. Our marriage actually got better. We were connected on a deeper, more intimate level because I’d been with someone else.
There’s a staggering array of feelings associated with doing something like this for the first time. Some are difficult, some are wonderful. You’re probably going to experience them all if you dive into this lifestyle, but that’s okay. I know I’ve enjoyed it so far.

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By Madelyn Rennie — Written on Feb 02, 2017
Everyone has their own wants and desires in the bedroom. Sometimes your needs are pure and innocent — just the gentle touch of a loving man. But other times, your inner wild child comes out and you just want to be punished — or do the punishing.
Here's the thing about cuckolding , there's no real physical pain or abuse going on. It's nothing like BDSM, 50 Shades of Grey , or anything like that. You're just taking part in intercourse with someone other than your husband ... while he watches.
Cuckolding has actually become a really common fetish amongst married couples and single people alike. No surprise it's popular for married people as they can often get bored in their marriages and want to spice things up a bit. But I guess single people take pleasure in getting with someone's wife , too.
I say, to each their own. Fetishes are normal and everyone has their own unique tastes . If you want to be spanked repeatedly while having intercourse or watch your wife get groped by another man, who are we to judge? You're not alone in these cravings , there are others out there who appreciate what turns you on, too.
Take a look at these 7 excerpts from erotic cuckolding sex stories we collected just for you!
“I will tell you what to wear each day and if you need to buy clothes I will give you the money.” Generous. “I may ask you to take some clothes off during the day, such as now for example, I might suggest you go to the ladies room and take your bra off. And by the way, Chris, your wife is soaking wet between her legs.” His upward groping had reached their purpose and I had noticed Karen move her legs apart to provide him with access. He continued rubbing her. “Always wear stockings. Now go and take your bra off and meet us over there by the lift, we are going to my room and Chris can watch while I fuck you.” Karen leaned towards Jack and kissed him on his lips, her red lipstick leaving its mark. Not long after, Karen walked towards us from the ladies. Her leather jacket was gaping open to disclose her pert boobs to anyone looking. I was. Jack was. Another couple were who had joined us just as the lift arrived. Jack put his arm around Karen’s waist and pulled her jacket more open leaving her utterly and hopelessly exposed. The couple with us in the lift certainly noticed Karen’s naked boobs through the sheer silkiness of her blouse and her stiff nipples couldn’t be hidden. Out of the lift Jack removed Karen’s jacket and passed it to me and we attracted stares from maids and guests as we progressed down corridors. “But I felt so alive and so sexual,” Karen said later. “I loved being so vulnerable; I so wanted it badly.” READ THE FULL EROTIC STORY HERE: My Boss, Jack (Not To Mention My Wife)
Margaret leaned into Gary and said something to him and then got up off the chair and headed down the bar past me and towards the bathroom still without making any suggestion that we knew each other. She returned a few minutes later and as she passed behind me I felt her reach over and slide her hand into the outside pocket of my jacket. She quickly removed her hand and walked back down the row of chairs to sit beside Gary again. As soon as she sat down Gary reached over to caress her leg again and was getting bolder by the minute. As I watched the two of them work themselves into a controlled lather, I reached into my jacket to see why Margaret had put her hand in there. I had trouble keeping my jaw from falling open when I discovered her soaking wet thong bunched up in my pocket. Obviously Margaret had gone to the bathroom to remove it so she could give it to me and let me know that Gary now had open access to her dripping snatch. READ THE FULL EROTIC STORY HERE: Older Couple Has Sexy Fun In The City
She is a receptionist in a doctor’s office, and they close down the office every day between 11:30 and 1:00. About once a week, he would pick her up in a small RUV when she got off for lunch and they would drive to a Wal Mart close to her office. He would park the van in a remote corner of the lot and they would close all the curtains in the van. They would then get completely naked and he would fuck my wife for about an hour in broad daylight, until she had to return to work. A few months before this, we had started a relationship in which she was free to have sex with anyone she wanted, and we were to be honest about it. She didn’t mind telling me about her adventures, even took a lot of joy in it. So we were both excited about her new “toy.” She said he had a very nice package, and his cock was so big that she liked to suck it before they had sex, to get it lubed up with her saliva so it was easier to get it in her pussy, even though her pussy gets pretty wet on its own. After she had been fucking him for a few weeks, she told him about our relationship, and that I knew she was doing him and I didn’t mind. So, on a few of their “excursions” she would ring me up on her cell and lay the phone in the floor of the van while they fucked. Needless to say, this was very hot for me, sitting at work and listening to all the stuff they were saying, and her moans and whimpering. One of these times, I actually came in my pants when I could tell she was having an orgasm. I had to
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