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A Cruel Technique for Male Orgasm Denial

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Submitted On April 30, 2012

Male orgasm denial is actually harder than it seems, and for two reasons.
First, you can't simply "lock him and leave him", because he'll get bored; and secondly, you can't just get him to please you... because he'll get bored.
In other words, he wants you to tease him, edge him... and leave him unfulfilled.
And here is a great way to do it (and I've tried, tested and proven it myself).
For this tease, you'll usually need the belt or device off, but if you have one of a design where you can touch the penis (like with a Lori cage and some belts where you can reach down between the legs and behind the crotch-piece) you can do it that way, too.
First , you'll need some lube. You can do it without and his leaking will provide lube all of its own, but it's much better if you have it there from the outset. I find the more lube the better because the smoother the glide, the more exquisite it is for him.
I use ordinary water-based lube, like KY. Some men use silicone-based lube on their devices, so I suppose you could use that, but it's more expensive and I don't think you'd be gaining anything from it.
Next , get him to lie down on his back with his hands behind his head.
This isn't to stop him touching himself so much as it's to get him into the mindset that you are in control. By all means experiment with handcuffs and restraints if you like. I confess, it does add a certain spice to things.
Gently grasp his shaft in one hand and with the other slowly start to trace with your nails (gently!) over the head of his penis (this is why you need the lube - it makes the nails slip and slide and feel exquisitely torturous for him).
I find it most effective if I start at the tip and move all my fingers and thumb out together, sliding down over the head to the top of the shaft and then back again (at some point you might lose contact with your nails - it depends on how long they are).
What I love about this technique is it's almost impossible for him to come like this (at least John never has) and the level of control I have is incredible.
And of course this means you can do it for as long as you want and hold him right on the edge.
I have never timed it, but estimate I tease John like this for maybe 20 minutes to half an hour at a time.
And by the time I'm done he is begging for release - I mean really begging for it.
I simply let him cool down and either take him back to the edge again... and then let him cool down... or, if I've done with the session, when he's ready, I'll get him to put his Lori back on again.
Have your man stand up or kneeling on a chair or sofa while you do this, again with his hands behind his back or head, restrained or just clasped there at your discretion.
Do this a couple of times a week before you drift off to sleep, and you're well on your way to getting him to beg for permanent denial... and, believe me, that's something you should both be aiming for if you want to make the most of the male chastity game (he won't necessarily agree with that immediately, but he'll soon come round to your way of thinking).
So... click the blue link and claim your FREE male chastity guide and discover some seriously cruel techniques for orgasms denial.
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Many a professional dominatrix will tell you she will not allow submissives to orgasm during the session. I did.
Mainly because if they did cum halfway through, it meant I could clock off early and get on with a nice boxset.
Of course, if they specifically asked for orgasm control or chastity then we could start to play with a variety of devices – both physical and psychological – that come in pretty handy for me.
Orgasm control is basically what it sounds like: you control whether your partner can cum or not.
This doesn’t have to be in the midst of a BDSM activity – after all, who hasn’t asked him to keep his boner a little longer while we edge ourselves a little closer to the finish line with a gentle ‘not yet’?
I’m going to go through a few things you can also try if you want to get a little kinkier, and especially if you want to try long-term orgasm control – otherwise known as chastity.
No bells, no whistles. Just tell him he’s not allowed to masturbate for a certain amount of days.
Start off with just a few days though, as you might find he wakes up to a ‘wet patch’.
I used to tell a lot of subs not to play with themselves until our session as it would increase both the anticipation, the sensation, and my chances of having an early night.
Plus, it will also help to make orgasming a much more intense experience.
A fun one for Skype, or if you want to make a little pre-recorded video.
You are, as the name suggests, literally instructing him on how you want him to w*nk off.
Start from right at the beginning – he’s fully dressed and you want him to rub his hands over his crotch. Demand he undresses slowly, before you tell him if he’s going to grip hard or soft. Stroke with a hand, or just a finger.
From there, it’s just a series of ‘harder, harder’ or ‘slower, slower’. There are plenty you can watch on websites like ‘clips4sale’ if you want some inspiration.
If you’re playing the Domme, don’t be tempted to start getting your boobs out for titillation. The fact you have control over how he’s doing such an everyday, personal task is the turn-on.
There are a wide range of chastity devices for men, which will see their junk safely away from anyone’s trunk.
A word to the wise – you get what you pay for.
Cheaper chastity devices might be good for an hour or so of play, but they will start to chafe. There will also be hygiene issues if you want him to keep it on for longer.
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My advice is to check reviews on the sites that sell them and see how long someone has managed to keep it on for. You can always get advice from various forum boards and social media groups too.
Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it.
Also, remember that consent is key and there are several health issues to be aware of – if it needs to come off, it needs to come off.
As ever, the language used changes from person to person, but as you can probably guess, this is about getting someone closer and closer, before denying and cutting off their orgasm.
This could be seen as the pinnacle of orgasm control – after all, it’s easy to just stop someone from w*nking off, but how do you get someone close to the edge and know when to stop, or even how to stop them?
There are a few ways in which it can be done; sometimes just ceasing all activity will do it, or there’s the old ‘pinch the tip’ trick (which you literally pinch the tip of the penis).
The aim is to get as close to the point of no return as you can, but leave him begging for more.
Fortunately, as you learn about ‘edging’ your partner, and what amount of tease and denial he can take, you will still be able to give him a ‘ruined orgasm’.
Nope, it’s not a cocktail at Wetherspoons, unless you’re really unlucky.
The trick here is to read your sub, and get them to that brief moment between the point of no return but before the orgasm starts. Without that final bit of stimulation, he’ll find it pretty hard to cum and can be extremely frustrating.
In the world of orgasm control, where, when and whether you want your sub to orgasm or not is completely up to you. It’s great fun to try over long distance, or just to see how far you can push your sub.
You don’t have to be cruel, and you certainly don’t have to listen to anyone tell you ‘you shouldn’t let him cum’. I never understood that as a working practice anyway.
Have fun with the timings, and you’ll soon turn your guy into a geyser.

This club/blog was started as a result of interactions with other, like minded people on my regular blog ‘Wistful Denial’ . Quite a lot were expressing desires for more strict and complete denial - Fully clothed tease posts are always popular.
I do not wish to give away too much of what I intend to do here, as that will lessen the impact of new images and captions. However, the general aim is to provide a more intense denial experience.
All images will adhere strictly to the blog title other than the obvious exceptions of faces, hands and arms.
Absolutely NO female nudity or visible ‘private parts’ (as on the main blog).
All females will be fully clothed or censored in some way (where necessary).
Fully clothed means exactly that. NO lingerie or underwear pics and minimal bare skin on display. Legs and feet will usually be covered in some way, but there will be exceptions to this for certain themes I will wish to explore.
Anything else can be discovered along the way.
I hope my efforts are pleasing, and that you enjoy the blog.

Another old story of mine I hope you enjoy:

It was 6:30pm I just finished up at the office when my cell phone rang. It was Carol a lady I had met last week at a conference.
Hi Carol how are you? I'm fine she said what are you up to? Oh just finishing up on a few things then heading out. She paused for a second. Why don't we meet for a drink at Gillys? I hear they have a pretty good band. I hesitated, I was thinking well if I go my wife will be upset, she probably has dinner waiting for me. Then I thought well, I don't think one little drink with a college was going to make any difference.

So I went ahead said sure. Ill meet you in a hour. She hung up. I called my wife and told her i had to stay at the office late tonight, ill catch you latter on tonight.

Got into my car and headed over to Gillys. I went into the dark, almost empty lounge. There she was sitting in a booth in the far corner. She kind of looked like a younger version of Cathryn Zeta Jones.

I sat down and ordered a glass of scotch she had waiting for me.
How you been Dave you look a little tired today. Oh I said, trying not to stair at her to long. She was way to good looking for me to hang out to long, my wife might get the wrong idea and i might get to many wrong ideas. We had a nice time for a couple of hours. I was feeling a little tipsy and decided to head on home.

When I stood up to leave she gave me one of those light but slightly seductive French kisses on the side of my cheek and I left.

A week or two went by, when I cam home, I dropped my brief case through my jacket on the chair next to the door and sat down to watch TV. My wife and teen daughter came in from the back porch. They sat next to me and kicked off there shoes. How was your day to day hun ...my wife asked with a soft smile. Fine I said wirily, just long. I could smell there un washed feet on the coffee table in front of us. SHeesh you two did you just get back form the gym? your feet kind of smell i said in a polite but somewhat serious way. I got up and went to take a shower.

The following weekend one of my wife's sisters flew in from New York to spend some time with her niece and sister. She was a psychologist employed by the state for some sort of trial study that from my understanding had something to do with behavior modification for criminals who either were violent or committed to prison for sex oriented crimes.

I never did like her very much she seemed kind of creepy when she looked at people as if the people she was looking at were a hamster in a maze and not really a person to interact with.

One night I came home and over heard my wife and her talking in the back porch. She looked destressed and angry. I came out to see what happened. Hi honey what's wrong? Oh nothing she said wiping her eyes. I almost caught a nonverbal look at me like she was angry with me about something. Her sister was being as weird as ever given g me that cold clinical but some what knowing look.

The next night I came home and saw all three girls sitting out on the back porch. My wife looked up and noticed me coming in the door and asked me to join them out back. I put my stuff down grabbed some juice and sat down with them.

We started to talk a little about nothing when the conversation being led by her sister, started to get into her clinical trial she is doing for the government on behavior modification. She mentioned how she was able to get violent criminal to alter there behavior through hypnosis and suggestion. How they have responded quite well and through her psychological treatments began to change from seeing women and pray and objects to be dominated to fearing women and treating them with almost subservient attitudes.

There was one such prisoner who was spending life in prison for brutally raping a women after her psychological treatments they placed a naked women alone in his cell and all he could do was cringe in the corner in fear. She mentioned how she moderated later the treatments and he was able to be safely released on a limited bases on parole.

I smiled and laughed ya right, I have always been a doubter when it came to hypnosis. I don't think you can make a horse dance like a chicken just by waving a silver chain in front of it. No offence of course.

My sister in law just sat back and smiled, hmm I see. Care to try a experiment? I bet I can make yo love something you don't like. Care to give it a try? giving me a knowing smile. I love a challenge. Sure I said, I hope your not offended but its just what I think that's all. Care to give it a try? she asked again. Ok, ill humor you.

She said, fine now what is it that nauseates you more then anything else? What is a major turn off to you socially? My daughter chirped, I know something daddy doesn't like, the smell of feet. when me and mom were sitting next to him awhile back and we put our feet up on the dining table he said he hated the smell of our feet got up and left. Mom and I thought it was kind of funny.

Ok then, I bet i can make you not only tolerate but actually get turned on by feet and foot smell. I'll even make it more interesting, I'll have you still not liking feet but be compelled through sexual desire, be turned on by feet and there smell while at the same time hating the smell and look of them more then you already do.

That's a suckers bet, because no one could make me do that. I have always been repelled by feet and there smell, they are kind of gross. My wife was watching and listening as a cat watches a mouse. My daughter was just smiling waiting to see what was going to happen.

Ok. give it your best shot I smiled in a kind but skeptical way.

She pulled out a diamond neckless, told everyone to be quiet as she got me started. I sat back just watching her set up. She said, lets go over to your bed and get started. So all the ladies' and I went to our bed room. my Sister-in-law asked me to lay back and relax and watch the waving diamond sparkle left to right. My sister dimmed the room light and I watched the diamond and listened.

Sarah my sister-in Law pulled out a syringe and injected me with some fluid. I jumped, startled, what was that?!! Just part of the experiment it is perfectly safe. I said ok, I laid back and watched the swinging diamond. I felt very tired as she droned and counted after awhile i felt i was sleeping but still awake. I couldn't move my arms or legs.

All i could hear was he soft droning voice as if it came from another world the diamond was all i could see flickering above.

Sarah looked up at her sister and niece and smiled. Ok he is under. I gave him a relaxant that also has suggestive properties. He doesn't even hear us. Now, shall we began hehe.

My daughter Jen just said coool this is so cool. my wife also responded and said this is going to be so much fun the cheating bastard.

Sarah then pulled off one of the shoes and sked the other ladies to do the same. She said to them, now as I am imprinting suggestions and trigger words in his mind I need yo to both put your and my shoes over his face so the foot smell becomes associated with pleasure. Pleasure? my wife jumped in hesitantly. Yes Sara said, I want you to rub his goin slowly as i talk to him and as he smells the inside of our shoes.

Hehe ok, Jen you are never to tell anyone you saw this ok? promise? Oh yes of course mom she gave a crooked and knowing smile.

Ok. Dave Sarah said, every time you hear the word foot fetish you will be in a trance but still aware of everything but unable to control your sexual impulses. When you smell our or any other girls foot smell you will automatically be turned on almost uncontrollably. you will be able to fight it but only after a tremendous amount of effort. the more you smell at anyone time however the less able you will be to re
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