Create Your Own Reality
Joy is the main objective in life that many people fail to obtain. Why? Because their energy is directed towards misery. I come into contact with countless people who are seeking escape from the depths of depression, anxiety, stress, anger, insecurity, confusion, loneliness, money trouble you name it. Bad luck seems to follow them everywhere. Their world becomes topsy turvy and they can't seem to catch a break. This is called the Poltergeist Phenomenon which stems from people not understanding that their thoughts and emotions affect their external world. Thoughts and emotions carry a vibrational frequency which can range from very high to very low. Positive thoughts = high frequency, Negative thoughts = low frequency.
The vibration from one's internal matrix affects their aura (an invisible energy field that surrounds the body) and causes its glow to either be bright or dull in color. Holes or weak spots can honeycomb an aura - leaving the person vulnerable to negativity parasites that seek out vibrations that match their own. These negativity parasites latch onto a person's energy grid causing all sorts of havoc. Your aura works similar to an immune system; the weaker it is, the more susceptible you are to illness or "bad things" happening to you. The stronger it is, the likelier you are able to remain healthy or attract goodness. If you have a fully intact, healthy glowing aura, the likelihood of you attracting mishaps is almost null.
What I have detailed in the paragraphs above is one of the Universal Laws known as the Principle of Vibration which is popularly known as the Law of Attraction. It states, "the energy that you emit is the same energy you will get back."
Understanding the Principle of Vibration and another Universal Law known as the Law of Mentalism can turn a person's life 180 degrees. I will expound more on this point later on in the article.
The Poltergeist Phenomenon
People are familiar with the movie "Poltergeist" and the family being terrorized by evil ghosts tracking them at every turn trying to bring death and destruction to them. In actuality, many people suffer from this type of phenomenon but only there are no ghosts or goblins or external malevolent forces stalking them. To the contrary, the poltergeist is the Individual. There existence internal storm so explosive within the person that its force propels outwardly causing destruction to physically manifest around them. This volatile energy acts as a magnate and begins to draw to it elements on the same low vibrational scale. That's why when one thing goes wrong in a person's life everything seems to go wrong and their health begins to suffer as well. Illnesses that are developed in life are usually nothing more than the physical expression of emotional unrest. So therefore, the source of the chaos one experiences originates from them.
Some people have been living with this phenomenon so long that it becomes an addiction. They can't live without it because they don't know any other existence. They crave another lifestyle but subconsciously sabotage any positive aspects of their lives because they fear success - it is unfamiliar. Their feelings of inadequacy, low self-confidence overrides logic and good judgment and they end up blocking their blessings. One has to recognize this trait in themselves and understand that there are steps that must be taken in order to reprogram the mind from self-destruction to self-preservation.It all starts with Fear Based Living vs. Joy Based Living.
Fear based living consists of being consumed by guilt, low self esteem, jealousy, etc. The origins of these feelings are manifold; childhood trauma, adult trauma, media, religion are just a few. Over time, this fear can develop into deep depression which can express itself in the form of frustration with career/job, love/romance, friends/family etc. Some people feel spiritual awakening movies
they are being punished by God because they are unhappy. The cause lies with their unwillingness to accept responsibility for their own actions which lead to their current condition. Therefore they absolve themselves of this responsibility by placing blame elsewhere. One begins to take control by accepting responsibility, learning who they are, accepting who they are and knowing what they want; learning the art of balance and how to focus on the bright spots in their life and expand it until it illuminates the darkness.
Joy based living begins with overstanding that fear and faith/confidence/knowing do not belong in the same mind-set. Confidence, tranquility, love, living in abundance (despite not being monetarily rich) and stability are characteristics of joy based living. People who operate from this angle attract more of what they visualize. In order to make the switch to Joy based living, a person has to unplug periodically from the media, negative friends -- the world around them and plug into themselves. Identify what you have, what you want. Then begin to do an internal scan to uncover the root cause for your not having what you desire. It all starts with the mental state you are currently in. Are you in a particular situation because of anything that is listed under the Fear Based Living paragraph or something in the same vein?
For example, are you in want of a mate but can't find someone suitable? Do you feel it's because the dating pool is limited? Perhaps it is because of your preconceived notions about dating and relationships. Perhaps you have been fed misinformation about what to expect or what to look for in a partner. Perhaps you actually harbor some unhealthy feelings about dating and relationships or about a particular gender and those thoughts are generating the exact type you don't want. Maybe you have low self-esteem, low self-confidence or prior experiences that have left you jaded and bitter. These are all possible factors that have to be examined. Don't be afraid to see the ugly truth. Once you face it head on you can change it. That is how you evolve. That is the ONLY way to begin to make the necessary mental and spiritual changes in order to bring about the desired result.