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Question posted by curiousgallll on 8 Nov 2018
I usually have regular periods, I would get them every month. Although, I do notice that I would miss at least one or two months a year. Anyway, the last time I had my period was on September 26th which lasted for 6 days. After my period, I have had protected sex 2 times: October 4th and 8th. During both times, the condom did not break. My boyfriend and I would check to make sure that the condom has not broken by pouring water into it to see if water would seep out through any possible holes. Moving on, after having sex early in the month, I would notice that I missed my period when the month comes to an end. Though I missed it, I still continued to have protected sex before October ended. November comes and I still don't have my period. The last time I had protected sex was just recently, November 5th. Unfortunately, the condom broke this time around but no ejaculation occurred. I immediately rushed to the restroom, peed, and washed myself off with soap as if it would help. Afterwards, I rushed to get the plan B one-step pill and took it within 40 minutes after having sex. I knew that taking the pill sooner would be better -- it would be more effective. It is currently November 8th and I still have not gotten my period and I am concerned. What are my chances of getting pregnant?
FYI: I am not on birth control. My only contraception is condoms.
As your partner did not ejaculate, the chances of pregnancy are lower than if he had ejaculated. It's not impossible to become pregnant, as some guys have sperm in their pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum) even after urinating after an ejaculation (see the study by Human Fertility). Plan B is not as reliable as regular hormonal birth control. It's worth a try in an emergency, as long as you are not close to ovulation. If you are close to ovulation, then the other pill, Ella (Ulipristal Acetate), is more likely to help you. You have 5 days/120 hours after the sex, in which Ella can be used. There's no way of giving you a figure as to how likely pregnancy is. It's based on how close to ovulation you were, & whether the emergency contraception works, but also, whether or not you would have conceived, even if you hadn't used protection. There are many factors involved.
I took a pregnancy test this morning when I woke up. Because I wanted the most accurate results, I decided to use my first pee of the day to conduct the test on. The test turned out negative! I was relieved yet, I still do not have my period.
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Communities > HIV Prevention > Condom Broke - No Ejaculation

Hi. I'm a gay guy who is not very sexually active. I'm single but I had sex with another guy(one night stand) who said he was neg (but one cant be too sure) not too long ago. I was the bottom (receiver) and the guy was the top. We used a condom. During the first 5 to 10 minutes, we were having intercourse very gentle. At one point i was tightening my anus and I think it caused the condom to tear. I think it might have been on the side. I was probably exposed for about 10 seconds, there was no ejaculation. what are my chances of getting it if he is positive? about a week after I had night sweats on my chest & legs with no fever, just on my chest and legs, should I be freaking out? :-( im so scared

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thanks so much  i'll keep you informed!

symptoms cant diagnose hiv..
you need to test to find out...
most prob you will test negative...because of the reasons i gave above
but you need to test
keep us informed...

to make you feel on top of the wrld,
1- not everyone has got hiv

  2- it is not always it get transmitted by a single exposure

3-10 sec is a short duration of exposure

thanks. would you say my chances are low, even though i was performing a "high risk" act? and also, what about my night sweats?

10 seconds is a short time for an exposure..
test at 6-8 weeks for a good indication of your status
test again at 3 mths for a conclusive result..

to make you feel on top of the wrld,
1- not everyone has got hiv

  2- it is not always it get transmitted by a single exposure

3-10 sec is a short duration

sorry, let me rephrase that. "The condom DID tear/break"...i heard it snap and about 10 seconds later, i released myself from his penis.

At one point i was tightening my anus and I think it caused the condom to tear

if the condom had broke you and your partner would have noticed as condom breaks are catastrophic..you had protected anal intercourse...NO RISK

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Okay so me and my boyfriend had sex...we were really cautious about this and well, the condom with spermicide broke. He didn't cum and he went pee before we had sex so it killed all the precum. Should I be worried because I still haven't gotten my period..I'm like 5 days late. He said I'm not pregnant and I want to believe him but idk if I should just blow off worrying. I stress easily..and I have symptoms of PMS but could they also be early signs of pregnancy. I've had cravings, breakouts, mood swings, and I don't know if I'm ovulating. I honestly have no clue.

Can you please give me some answers, should I be worried, how much longer should I wait until I get a pregnancy test?
originally written 10.16.2007  •  updated 01.18.2009  •
If your period is only five days late, it'd be pretty unusual, even if you had become pregnant, for you to be having symptoms this soon. Plus, the symptoms you're describing are also common PMS symptoms, as you said.
Since the condom was spermicidal and there wasn't a full ejaculation , your pregnancy risk would have been very low. However, since your boyfriend is not a pregnancy psychic (and if he is, send him my way: we could use his talents around here with all these pregnancy scares!), the only way to be sure -- and it sounds like you need to -- is to take a pregnancy test . Given your period is late, you can do that now -- for future reference, you can take a test as soon as your period is late -- and I'd suggest that you do, if for nothing else than to restore your peace of mind.
You might also want to point out to your boyfriend that he really can't know if you become pregnant with any risk, and that since you're the one who would wind up being pregnant, not him, it's really in poor form on his part to dismiss or deny your concerns.
Too, you will have had a big STI risk with a condom breaking, so do be sure that on the next month, you and your boyfriend are each having a full STI test. Each of you should be doing that every year, and if you've recently both had screens and are monogamous , there's no need this time, but if you have not, now is the time to hop on that.
I just want to also clarify a few things for you so that you know the scoop.
Urine doesn't kill sperm . In other words, it's not a spermicide . What happens when a man urinates to flush out pre-ejaculate fluid is that it usually washes away that fluid. In other words, it doesn't kill any traces of sperm, it clears them away. However, men don't just pre-ejaculate once, but often more than once during arousal , so it's never wise to count on urine doing that job for us.
Too, I want to be sure you're using condoms properly, since when you are, it's very uncommon for them to break. You should be using condoms with lubricant from a bottle -- not just the scanty amount of lube on lubed condoms. Your boyfriend will put a couple drops inside the tip of the condom before he puts it on, then coat the outside of the condom more generously with lube after he rolls it down. During intercourse , if things start to feel drier, you'll want to just add a bit more lube unto your vulva or on the condom he's wearing. Since it broke before he ejaculated, if you were not using lubricant, that was the likely reason why. As well, he needs to make sure he's always leaving room in the tip of the condom when he is putting it on, and that he is using good-quality condoms which have been stored properly (as in, not in a pocket or wallet for a long time, or in a car dashboard), and which are not past the expiry date, which is printed on every condom package.
You should also be aware that should you ever have a condom failure again, that you can obtain and use emergency contraception within 120 hours of your risk, to give you good pregnancy prevention after the fact. If you're under 18, you cannot get it over the counter in some locations, but in that case, you can get a prescription from your regular doctor, your gynecologist , any sexual health clinic, and even the emergency room.
Sounds, too, like you want to be able to understand your fertility cycle better. Good onya! You won't be ovulating right before or when your period is due: a period happens, because the egg which was released earlier in your cycle (during ovulation ), was not fertilized. When ovulation occurs differs from woman to woman, but on average, for most women, it usually happens around the middle or just before the middle of each menstrual cycle.
Here's some more information for you on all the issues we touched on here:
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