Collar Kink

Collar Kink
Each stage of your relationship requires a different type of collar. At The Collar Shop, you can create custom collars, so you can get the right collar for the appropriate time in your relationship. There are several types of BDSM collars you can create, each with their own meaning.
A Collar of Protection is the type of collar a submissive would wear if they were being protected by a dominant. If a submissive is coming off of an abusive relationship, for instance, wearing this collar gives them time to heal and allows the dominant to protect them.
A collar of Consideration is a collar worn if a submissive and dominant are starting a new relationship. Generally, these collars are worn for a certain period of time before the two either part or move on to the second BDSM collar which would be…
The Training Collar which is offered to the submissive by the dominant. Think of this as “going steady”. The relationship is becoming more serious and the submissive is becoming more a part of the dominant’s life. This is the time to work out disagreements, make rules, etc… before the final BDSM collar is presented.
The Formal Collar, or slave collar, is the final step in a dominant and submissive relationship. This is the ultimate bond between the two and show complete submission to the dominant by the submissive. The collar is usually presented as a part of a ceremony and is a representation of the relationship.
No matter what step you are ready to take, The Collar Shop is here to let you make the most personalized collar available.

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Size small/medium fits 12-3/4"
to 16-1/2" neck and size medium/large fits 15" to 18-3/4" neck.

Genuine
leather collar in black, black patent, white or silver leather. This
collar has three rings. Sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with fleece lining. Lining available in blue, black, purple, leopard,
pink or red fleece lining. Also available in red patent or black patent
leather with black lining. Sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with lining and a solid metal O ring. Available in black leather,
red leather or black suede and sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.

Velvet
collar with metal O ring. Available in green, leopard, blue, purple,
red, burgundy or black velvet and sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Black leather
collar with one O and 2 D rings. Available in blue, red, black and
leopard fleece lining. Available in sizes Sm/Med and Med/Lg.
Genuine
leather collar with 3 D rings. Available in red, purple, pink, white,
blue, gold, silver, green and black leather. Available in sizes Sm/Med
and Med/Lg.

Genuine
leather heavy duty loop collar in black or pink leather. This collar is
secured in place with a solid shiny metal buckle. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with O ring and same colored fleece lining. Available in
blue, yellow, pink, black, black patent or red patent leather. Available
in size Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Garment
leather collar with shiny metal O ring. This collar is secured in place
with metal snaps. Available in red or blue leather and sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with O ring and same colored fleece lining.

Available in black patent, black, purple, red patent
or silver leather and sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with two rows of pyramid studs and O ring. Available
in purple, silver, black, red patent and black patent leather and
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with shiny metal pyramid and round studs. Available
in silver, black, purple, red patent or black patent leather and
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.

Genuine leather collar with oblong studs and a shiny metal O ring.
Available in black, silver, black patent, orange, purple or red
patent leather and sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.

Genuine
leather collar with long pyramid studs and a solid metal O ring.
Available in black, red patent, purple, silver or black patent
leather and sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.

Genuine leather bondage
collar with one solid metal O ring, 3 solid metal D rings and a
locking buckle. Available in yellow, ultra blue, white, red or gray
leather lining. Available in sizes Sm/Med
and Med/Lg.

Perforated red leather collar with 3 shiny metal D rings, shiny
metal rivets, black leather lining and a locking buckle to place a
small padlock on it. Available in sizes Sm/Med
and Med/Lg.
Black
leather collar with an O ring and a choice of red, black or pink
leather piping. Secured in place with a metal buckle. Available in
size Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with leather lace lining and an O ring. Available in
a choice of black with red lace or purple with black lace lining and
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
White
leather red cross leather with a shiny metal D ring. Available in
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large. Do check the matching toys such
as cuffs and strap on harness in the related items section.

Leather
collar with ring in yellow, white, silver, red patent, purple, pink,
honey bristo, burgundy, mahogany, black or black patent colors and
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather padded collar with 3 metal D rings.
Available in Black, Black/Gray, Black/Purple, Black/Red and All
White. Available in sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.

Camouflage collar with 1" solid metal ring. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather collar with shiny metal ring and leopard fleece piping.
Available in six vibrant colors. Available in sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
The color
of the lining on the edges of the collar is the color of the lining
inside the collar. Lockable buckle. Available in four color combinations, Available
in sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Made from
genuine leather, this stripe combination collar is available in
pink/white, white/red, black/purple, black/red, black patent/red
patent and black/white leather combination. Comes in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with O ring and hexagon spikes. Available in silver, black,
black patent, purple or red patent leather and sizes Small/Medium
and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with round studs and spikes. Available in silver,
black, black patent, purple or red patent leather and sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
2 Inch
wide collar with a hasp locking feature, a solid metal O ring and
fur like black fleece lining. Available in sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Genuine
black leather collar with 3 large solid metal D rings. This collar
is 2.5" wide and is only available in one size that fits most.

Soft
garment leather slave collar with a solid metal D ring. A small
padlock can be placed on this collar. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
black leather collar with chunky pyramid spikes and a solid metal O
ring. Available in size Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather 1.5" wide collar with has locking feature and a solid metal
D ring. Available in Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with two rows of eyelets, a solid metal O ring and a
hasp locking feature. Available in sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Black
leather collar with three D rings attached to the collar with
rivets. This collar has a hasp locking buckle and is available in
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather bondage collar with one solid metal O ring, 1 solid metal D
rings and a standard buckle. Available in red patent, gold, black
patent,
purple, pink or black.

Genuine
leather collar with O ring and shiny metal round studs placed in a
single row. This tough and charming leather collar is available in
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Black
leather collar with a unique cut to fit under the chin area. This
collar has a solid metal D ring and is available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with O ring and shiny metal spikes. This collar is
available in sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large and in black or
black patent leather.
Shiny
patent leather collar with leather lining and solid metal D rings.
Available in sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Unique
looking black garment collar with metal ring. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with unique hardware in the front. Available in
Black, Pink, Blue Metallic and Silver Metallic. Sizes:
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Genuine
leather collar with shiny metal O ring. This collar is available in
red/black, black/pink, black/red, black/purple, black/white and all
black leather color combinations and sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with halter ring, black metal pyramid studs and rivets.
Available in sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with black metal rings, pyramid studs and buckle. Available
in sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with shiny metal spot studs. Available in sizes Small/Medium
and Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with shiny metal halter ring. Available in sizes Small/Medium
and Medium/Large
Leather
collar with three halter rings. Available in sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with halter ring. Available in sizes Small/Medium and
Medium/Large.
Natural
and red leather combination collar. Sizes: Small/Medium and
Medium/Large. Matching LKK3953 and LKK3954 bondage cuffs.
Brocade
ring collar with red or pink leather lining. Sizes Small/Medium
and Medium/Large.
Black
leather halter ring collar. Colors: Blue, Camouflage, Plaid, Purple,
Maroon and Red.
Sizes: Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
and shiny metal chain slave collar.
Colors: Black, Pink, Purple, Red and White. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Black and
red heart genuine leather slave collar. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Plaid
garment collar with solid metal O ring. Available in sizes
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
padded collar with 3 metal D rings. Available in sizes Small/Medium
and Medium/Large.
Pink
leather collar with embedded O ring. Available in sizes Small/Med
and Med/Large.
Leather
collar with shiny metal ring and leopard fleece piping. Available in
sizes Small/Medium and Medium/Large.
Leather
collar with O ring and fleece lining. All black hardware. Sizes:
Small/Medium and Medium/Large.

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Collars can be found in a vast array of shapes and sizes, or even represented by completely non-collar items (necklaces, bracelets or rings, piercings, tattoos, etc.).  As such, they can be easy to recognize and very hard to mistake for anything else or might be very discrete or delicate pieces that can be incredibly subtle or have only an emotional significance to those directly involved.
The collar is a physical symbol of ownership and denotes the role of the submissive within the D/s (or Dominance and submission) lifestyle. However, the circumstances under which a collar is used can be quite varied, such as for short instances for the purposes of a scene, as the accompanying sub to their Dom attending a fetish event, to show relationship exclusivity, or the permanence of a couples bond. In long-term relationship, especially in M/s lifestyles, a collar is as the engagement or wedding ring is within “vanilla” relationships. Some, such as myself, take it just as if not more seriously than a ring, because of the formal and structured nature of the D/s or M/s relationship.
Collars may also be accompanied by contracts, each addressing the commitment and responsibilities in accordance with each progressive phase of the relationship. A new collar therefore may denote progression or promotion, much the way certain martial arts use belts, or the military use services stripes and insignia’s of rank or office. Similarly one might view collars as similar to martial arts “belts” in that it formally states and shows both the level of achievement as well as expectations demanded.  So the collar may also signify the level of serious, intent, or progress – with different collars denoting the levels in the relationship.
Even with this said, its important to bear in mind that the concept of the collar is symbolic, and often very much up to the Dominant and submissive that use them.  It is wise not to make too many assumptions if you see someone wearing an item that is a collar. Especially where there’s the risk of accidentally “ outing ” of someone in public or mixed company, which would be very inconsiderate, awkward at the very least.
As mentioned earlier, not all Dominants use all collars, or will sometimes combine as they see fit to create their own purposes instead. Far from an exhaustive list, some of the below types of collars one can usually find include:
Usually reserved for subs or slaves without an actual owner, where another Dominant has taken temporary custody to shield them – the submissive is under the protection of that Dominant. A collar of this type is most often due to a recently failed or abusive relationship with significant emotional or physical hurt, when an otherwise unattached submissive maybe being stalked or harassed by another, or just needs to feel comfortable knowing that someone that will protect them if ever needed.
Wearing a protection collar gives the submissive time to heal with the security of knowing they are safe. The submissive is therefore unapproachable for play or relationships without the knowledge of the protecting Dominant. Usually it is a Dominant of high standing in the community that will provide protection, as well established reputation and a respected circle of peers often keeps most trouble-makers at bay.
There is no time limit on a collar of protection; it is there for as long as it is needed.
A collar of this type is used for temporary occasions, such as while the Dominant and submissive attend fetish events, at get-togethers or one another’s homes, or are within a scene together. For the time it is worn, the roles are established and observed.
The purpose of “short-term” collar has two main typical uses. The first is assisting the submissive in being mindful of the role and facilitating entry into sub-space. When placed around the neck, it signals a change in habit and form from the outside and everyday world, and brings the submissives mind to the present moment. It is part of the uniform that helps the submissive adopt the appropriate change in behavior.
The second typical purpose of this type of collar is to serve as a signal to others that this submissive is under a Dominants protection, and ward her from unwanted attention or casual pick-up play from other Dominants. This can be crucial in newer or forming relationships where the Dominant and submissive are trying to establish a foundation of interaction and connection, as distraction or interruption from predatory behavior can create undesirable setbacks and emotions in the early development of a relationship.
A trial collar of is often the initial step in a potential new relationship between a Dominant and submissive. When offered to a potential new submissive, it essentially announces what is a mutual evaluative and adjustment period between Dominant and submissive as a couple. Other terms for this type of collar is a probationary collar, collar of consideration, or candidates collar (usually where the submissive has applied to membership of a Leather household).
Normally the Dominant will offer this collar after a couple of months of discussion and get-together’s, where the submissive is just learning about D/s; alternatively the collar can be offered after a few months of discussion, play parties, and fetish events, where its more about reaching an understanding of the Dominant’s way of life and developing a deeper sense of mutual needs, wants, and limits. The collar is typically worn for an agreed fixed period, say around 6 months, and then the situation will be reviewed. At that point, further continuation can be negotiated (say another 6-months), moving to the next progression in the relationship, or both parties can decide to go separate
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