Choked While Cumming

Choked While Cumming
Why Women Want To Be Choked During Sex - Part 1 of 2
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I found it a little weird at first when several years ago, the woman I was dating asked me to choke her while having sex.
I mean, I know everyone has their kicks and I know that everyone is unique , etc. But I’ve got to admit, I’ve been lucky enough to please a lot of women in the bedroom. But I found it just a little strange when this seemingly innocent, warm, generous, beautiful self-respecting woman wanted to be choked.
I mean, I had just never heard of this before and I’m a pretty “I’ll try anything once” kind of person.
I’m not afraid of sex either. I just don’t want to mix violence with pleasure during sex. So I thought it was weird and a little intimidating at first, but eventually I reasoned… it was what she wanted.
She asked for it more than a few times so eventually I knew I had to get over my fears and insecurities and just do it.
Now, I’m a nice guy and was raised to be a good Italian boy . I was raised in a Catholic home so it was hard to give her what she asked. I could feel my brain melting as she asked for it again and again while I was trying to make love to her.
It was about our fourth time having sex when it happened and the sex was already pretty good between us. I made her a promise that I intended to keep, so I eventually reached for her throat and tightened my grip. I couldn’t even call it choking even though that was she asked me for.
While I couldn’t fully bring myself to give her a full choking, I did my best to tighten my hands around her neck just a little. That seemed to turn her on a thousand times more! I felt the changes in her body language and I felt what could only be described as her ‘opening up’.
As odd as it was for me I figured, “Okay! Phew, I did it… It should be out of her system now.”
The next couple of times, there she was, asking me to choke her. It think she was educating me on something, but I couldn’t see what. It was too busy aggravating me. She was being more powerful than me. She was encouraging me to do it and even though I didn’t want to do it, she was calling me out, using my name like a bully calling me out in the schoolyard. (Which was really nerve wracking to me at the time.)
“Why would she do that? Why would she challenge my manhood?” I asked myself. “I’m a grown man. I treat her right. I know what I’m doing in the bedroom. Why would she want me to choke her?” I realized later after our next couple of sexual encounters, that it was a masculine/feminine power dynamic. She was interested in pushing me over the edge. She wanted to take me somewhere, and show me that edge. Powerful.
She didn’t know how to make love and she was only capable of fucking. (My current partner and I distinguish that there is a difference between the two in our Sensational Sex Seminar .)
Anyway, that woman and I didn’t work out and we only dated for several short months. (It wasn’t because of the choking.) Sex was good and that’s the only time I tried to be aggressive and truly embodied my masculinity with her. She was looking to be submissive and wanted me to be aggressive and dominating in the bedroom which was fine. I was a little slow to get it at first but I was open to growing it.
Then a year or so later, I met another girl and it came up again . We were having really good sex and thankfully she was more into making love than the first girl (phew!). We could both fuck AND make love and we had a real relationship that lasted for a year.
It was about three months into the relationship when the sex got really really good. I’m talking really really good. Then at some point while we were doing the other thing aside from making love, she said “Hurt me!” in a high pitched, oddly sexy, whiny, victim like voice. That again threw me off guard. I didn’t know what to do so I didn’t do anything! I just kept giving it to her. But I did admittedly do it a little bit harder in that moment.
Strangely enough, the demands did not go away! She kept asking me to hurt her, choke her and do very naughty little things to her you know what. In over time, I got progressively more okay with tightening my grip tighter and tighter although it did make me uncomfortable. At times mid choke, it made me feel like I was really going to hurt her (which was still very shocking to my still ‘good boy’ nature.) I was eventually able to tighten my grip over time and make it stronger and stronger, despite my cultural and familial programming.
I did notice the effects of what I did however.
While sex was already good, I did notice her eyes tended to roll back into her head with pleasure and delight. This was something else!! Something else was at play here. Now, I was really intrigued.
Find out what happened next in part two of this article here .
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Why do some people like to be choked during sex?
My girlfriend (and a few other girls I've known before) likes it when I put my hand around her throat and choke her during sex. I like it too. I'm just wondering what the psychology behind this is. Is it normal?
What would you do if a girl said "choke me" to you during sex?
What does it mean when a guy spanks you during sex?
My boyfriend is kind and gentle. However, when we have sex, he's very dominant and aggressive (but very attentive to my needs). Sex is great with him, but is it normal for that behavior?
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Why do some people like to be choked during sex?
My girlfriend (and a few other girls I've known before) likes it when I put my hand around her throat and choke her during sex. I like it too. I'm just wondering what the psychology behind this is. Is it normal?
What would you do if a girl said "choke me" to you during sex?
What does it mean when a guy spanks you during sex?
My boyfriend is kind and gentle. However, when we have sex, he's very dominant and aggressive (but very attentive to my needs). Sex is great with him, but is it normal for that behavior?
My boyfriend has a strange obsession to choking me. He always chokes me during sex. Why does he enjoy it?
If a girl likes being choked during sex, what else might she like?
If someone dies while being choked during sex, will they be charged?
My boyfriend choked me during sex and slapped my cheeks. Is he an abusive man?
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My boyfriend is usually aggressive during sex. He likes to pin me down while forcefully choking me. What does this mean about him?
My husband slapped me in the face during sex and I found it very disturbing. He said he was just playing around and I shouldn’t take it seriously. What are your opinions on this?
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Why do some people like to be choked during sex?
My girlfriend (and a few other girls I've known before) likes it when I put my hand around her throat and choke her during sex. I like it too. I'm just wondering what the psychology behind this is. Is it normal?
What would you do if a girl said "choke me" to you during sex?
What does it mean when a guy spanks you during sex?
My boyfriend is kind and gentle. However, when we have sex, he's very dominant and aggressive (but very attentive to my needs). Sex is great with him, but is it normal for that behavior?
My boyfriend has a strange obsession to choking me. He always chokes me during sex. Why does he enjoy it?
If a girl likes being choked during sex, what else might she like?
If someone dies while being choked during sex, will they be charged?
My boyfriend choked me during sex and slapped my cheeks. Is he an abusive man?
Does your husband abuse your breast during sex?
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I can remember reading about a case where a man was charged for murdering his wife by choking her .
He claimed that both him and his wife occasionally practiced choking during sex(to itensify orgasms) and that it was an accident. They were both medical practitioners and this is why the story stuck to my mind.
Be careful. Just settle for a blow job instead of the strangulation technique you're less likely to choke on a penis as long as it does not go past your tonsils.
Lack of oxygen creates a different state of consciousness. Some people find it exciting. It is a fetish. If it turns you on, there is no real explanation for why. It just turns you on.
It is, of course, among the more dangerous fetishes, and you need to be sure your partner knows how to do it properly.

We also do it to each other. The more we try the closer the connection and trust we have. I love that feeling, especially when she does it when I'm not expecting it. If she gets truly lost and in another place when you're being dominant, it won't change a thing. Great that you found something new that both of you love.

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A few times while I have been in the doggy position and my girlfriend has been fucking my ass, I have felt her hands on my neck. Not really choking me but applying some pressure as she fucked. I asked her about it later and she laughed and said she liked feeling that she was choking me even if she really wasn’t doing it. I like it when she is dominant like that while her cock is in me.
That's the stuff that makes my eyes roll to the back of my head and start drifting off to a different place.
Hey if she wants it and you're comfortable, go for it. I found out early on that my wife loved to be choked a little bit during sex and, honestly, I wouldn't have done it without her bringing it up first but I fucking love it. I can go from being good to wanting to cum in seconds. So, hey, if you both like it then do it.
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Any magazine can tell you how to spice up your sex life. You’ll find far fewer telling you how to add the spice safely , which, when you think about is more important than the spice itself. What good is an orgasm if it kills you? Take a moment to think about that.
This article will teach you how to properly choke your partner. Choking is confusingly both a form of assault and a simple way to enhance a sexual encounter. If you follow the steps in this article you’ll learn how to choke your partner without risking severe injuries or death, even if death is what your partner craves more than anything.
Erotic asphyxiation occurs by blocking the carotid arteries, in turn depriving the brain of oxygenated blood during sexual play. As the brain loses oxygen, the build-up of carbon dioxide can create feelings of euphoria and can heighten sexual stimulation exponentially; couples that engage in choke-play report heightened sensation in regions being penetrated, touched, or, in rare cases, looked at intensely. If your partner asks you to choke them you shouldn’t be bashful, as long as you know how to choke them safely and they know it is meant as a temporary high, not a permanent way out.
It can be tempting to just grab the neck and squeeze, but if you’re reckless you’ll end up making the move more dangerous than pleasurable. Avoid squeezing the windpipe – by obstructing the trachea you will increase the speed and likelihood of the receiver passing out. If your partner begs you to do so, remember: squeezing the windpipe is never a good idea. The pleasure this creates will be minimal compared to safer applications. Tell them this. If they still beg you to squeeze their windpipe you should consider putting the sex aside and having a serious conversation about who you are, what you want, and why now is not the time to give up.
It’s easy to get lost in lovemaking and, with many often conflicting and confusing sounds and motions, it can be difficult to tell when to stop. Do your best to read your partner. If they are enjoying the stimulus, continue; if they are not or seem to be in more pain than pleasure, stop; if they revel in how close you’re bringing them to death, stop immediately. Here are some other indicators to look for that will let you know it’s time to ease up.
If the life in their eyes starts to fade. Most people don’t know what this looks like from experience, but trust me, you’ll know. When one’s soul begins its escape you’ll see it in the eyes and you should choke no further. If you’re choking from behind, make sure there is a mirror around to keep track of your partner’s eyes.
If they prepare you with specific instructions . You might be dealing with a clever partner who knows how to fool you. Be aware that you might have been tapped ahead of time for this job, so if their directions to you include not questioning them, not stopping no matter what, or embracing your inner savage, don’t be afraid to be suspicious. You might also hear preemptive preparations like, “If I stop moving it’s because I’m in such intense pleasure that my locomotive functions cease, but please don’t release your grip.” That’s not how that works, so please release your grip.
If they use the phrase “If you loved me…” Don’t let your partner guilt you into killing them by misconstruing the love you share. This is a rhetorical fallacy that you should be ready to address. Have a response ready, like, “Honey, I do love you, but I’m not going to kill you,” or, “If you loved me you would ask this of me.” These replies are likely to kill the sexual momentum, which might be a momentary drag, but this is the correct choice 100 percent of the time.
If they drop names of deceased relatives or friends . This person has one goal in mind and it doesn’t involve either one of you climaxing. Yours doesn’t have to be the only name you hear in bed, but names of the living are a must. Be sure to listen to all of what they say and not just what you want to hear. You don’t want to hear “I’m cumming” when what they’re really saying is “I’m coming for you, Mom.”
If they tell you they’re not strong enough to do it on their own. Again, don’t allow yourself to be pushed around in this situation. Suicide is personal and you probably deserve better than being used as a tool in someone else’s attempt. If you went around killing everyone who isn’t strong enough to do it on their own you would find yourself in a lot of trouble, and there would be no one left in your writers’ group.
Sometimes it’s all a little more complicated. Maybe you’re deeply in love and your partner has good reason to die. Maybe you do actually want them dead. Maybe you’re so devoted to your lover that you’ve vowed never to deny them what they want. That’s all very sweet, but ultimately no one will believe you when you say it was your lover’s wish that you choke him or her to death. Even a hand-written note is unlikely to hold up in court. It’s murder, and you’re dumb to think otherwise.
Safety can seem nebulous, but it’s not. An orgasm is only worth so much, and never should you think it’s OK to actually fuck someone to death. Remember that one person’s idea of a good time could be another’s carefully planned end.
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