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Gretchen was six months pregnant when she found out that Marcus, her live-in partner of nearly 10 years, had been having an affair. Devastated, she confronted him, and he confessed. Today, more than a year after her discovery, she is raising their toddler daughter alone and has still not told her family the real reason she and Marcus parted.


Pregnancy can lead to greater intimacy , but it also can trigger less pleasant changes in a relationship, including infidelity. Estimates of the number of men who stray during their partner’s pregnancy are understandably difficult to gauge, because it’s a topic no one wants to discuss. “You’re not likely to hear about it, especially during the pregnancy, but it’s probably more common than people suspect,” said Scott Haltzman, M.D., a clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Brown University Medical School in Providence, R.I., and author of 2008’s The Secrets of Happily Married Women .


Perhaps surprisingly, the cheating isn’t necessarily about the need for sex itself. “It can also stem from an emotional need, like a desire to be cared for, to feel important or special,” Dr. Haltzman explained. Given all the changes that occur during pregnancy, such needs that might otherwise be satisfied by a man’s partner often go unmet. “For many men, engaging in sex is a form of emotional closeness,” Dr. Haltzman says. “When their partners push them away, they feel rejected not just sexually, but also emotionally.” Many men also fear the situation will get even worse after the baby is born.


Such was the case with Troy, who had an affair during his wife’s third pregnancy. “There was such a focus on her, with all she was going through and about to go through, that I became less and less relevant,” he recalled. At the same time, his wife began rejecting his sexual advances. Although he understood she was feeling insecure about her changing body, the rejection was still difficult to manage. “You only need to be turned away so many times before you get the picture,” he said. Troy’s wife never found out about his infidelity and they remain married today, although he has no regrets.


“I wanted to feel important and valued,” he said. “And it worked.” This doesn’t mean dads-to-be get a free pass for bad behavior. They should realize that a woman undergoes tremendous physical and emotional changes during pregnancy. A little understanding—on both sides—can go a long way.


While infidelity during pregnancy may be more common than we think, you shouldn't necessarily go looking for signs of infidelity. "Be alert in the same way you are alert to giving yourself a breast exam every month,” Dr. Houston said.


Ruth Houston, the founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and author of 2002’s Is He Cheating on You?–829 Telltale Signs , advises expectant moms to be mindful of the relationship challenges that pregnancy can pose. “It’s very important for women to be aware that this is a critical time and to be vigilant,” she advises, adding that potential clues include unexplained absences, strange phone calls, spending more time “at work,” less interest in sex and a greater focus on his appearance.


You have to be aware that hormones may be affecting your thoughts and emotions , Dr. Haltzman cautioned. Rather than jumping to conclusions alone, process your feelings with a trusted confidante outside the family. If a certain behavior seems suspect, ask questions rather than accuse when broaching the subject. “Your first approach may be to ask your partner if he can explain [the behavior in question],” Dr. Haltzman recommended. But because deceit is one of the hallmarks of infidelity, direct accusations will often be met with denial.


According to Dr. Haltzman, the only way to get confirmation may be to do a bit of investigating. Gretchen caught Marcus after reading incriminating text messages on his cellphone. If infidelity is confirmed, it’s time to seek assistance from an outsider. “You need to get a third party, like a therapist, involved to help you sort out what, if anything, is going on,” Dr. Haltzman said.


Despite the challenges pregnancy brings to a relationship, infidelity is not inevitable. One thing you can do is sit down with your partner as early as possible in the pregnancy to discuss what your plans might be if your sexual interest drops. “If you say, ‘I really want to talk about our options if I don’t feel like having sex,’ believe me, he’s going to pay attention,” Dr. Haltzman said. And sex doesn’t have to involve intercourse. “Experiencing sexual release through touch, mouth, or massage speaks very powerfully to men,” he explains.


Reassure your mate that he’s still a priority, too. “Nurture his emotional needs and his need to feel important,” advised Dr. Haltzman. “Encourage him by telling him he’s going to be a great father.” And get him involved in the pregnancy and planning for a baby, focusing on his skills. While he may not want to discuss nursery colors, he may want to build a crib. Difficult as it may feel, actively preventing or addressing the issue can strengthen a relationship. “Infidelity is not a death knell; it’s often just a wake-up call,” Dr. Haltzman says. “Couples can absolutely rebound from this. Remember, you are going to have a child who will really benefit from having two parents in the household,” he added. “If you can find a way to make that happen, you shouldn’t lose the opportunity.”



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15 Whisper Confessions From People Who Fell Pregnant While Cheating


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We have probably all done things that we aren’t too proud of, or didn’t want someone else to find out about. I think that’s a pretty normal feeling. More often than not it’s nothing major, because it’s not like you cheated on someone and are now pregnant with their baby. But wait… that actually happens.
Whisper is a fantastic place to find strange confessions, and some of the strangest and most tragic ones out their involve individuals who had been cheating on their partner, only to fall pregnant with another man’s baby. While this scenario may seem like something out of a bad movie, or a terrible reality program designed to deal with trashy confessions, it turns out it’s more common than you think. There are more than a handful of people who have taken to Whisper to reveal their absolutely shocking stories.
These confessions range from people who were unfaithful during a work trip, to those confessions where the person had been sleeping with both their significant other, and various members of the SO’s family! Seriously, how low can you go? Below are 15 of the most interesting, albeit strange, confessions from people who fell pregnant while cheating.
Dear cheater, just because you were in another area code, doesn’t mean that it was OK to be unfaithful. But apparently, a work trip out of town was the perfect opportunity for this woman to get some side action and cheat on her husband! The worst part is she didn’t just betray her spouse with a quick fling, she may be carrying the other man’s unborn child.
This woman confessed to being back from her trip, and a week later she has discovered that she’s pregnant. It’s possible that this child is her husband’s (although she hasn’t really given us enough information to make a clear deduction), but if it is, there is still the issue of her being with another man. Unsurprisingly, she doesn’t know what to do and is asking the good people of Whisper for advice.

I always think that the confessions where someone cheated on their significant other with another member of the family are the worst! In these scenarios, you’re not just hurting one or two people, you are essentially destroying an entire family. Think about it. Even moms and dads are going to start taking sides when they find themselves faced with a confession like this one.
According to this confession, this woman has been sleeping with her boyfriend’s brother, and she has now learned that she is pregnant with the brother’s baby. Not sure how she knows for sure who’s child it is, unless she and her boyfriend haven’t been having sex for a while, or she’s a master at checking her cycle, but I guess it’s a small miracle that she at least knows who the father is.

This is a pretty awful scenario, but according to this woman’s confession, she cheated on her boyfriend and is now pregnant with the other man’s child. The worst part is that her boyfriend seems to have no idea about her indiscretions, and thinks that the baby is his.
The obvious thing here would be to come clean, and tell the guy so that he doesn’t unwillingly raise a child that’s not his, as his own. Imagine the hurt of finding out somewhere down the line, that the child you thought was yours is actually the result of the woman you loved having an affair? You would think this would be enough to make most people instantly come clean about what they did, but this woman doesn’t seem to have much of a conscious because she didn’t automatically think to do this.

I’m assuming that the only reason this person decided to make the race of the man she slept with a relevant part of her confession, is that it’s different to her boyfriends. So, apparently this woman cheated on her boyfriend with a black man, and now she’s pregnant. When that baby is born, it’s going to be very hard to hide her indiscretions.
While we don’t know anything about her background, her relationship with her significant other, or the reasons as to why she decided to cheat in the first place, we do know the outcome. While she doesn’t appear to be asking for any advice relating to this issue, she obviously needs to have a very serious chat with her partner about what she’s done.

This confession is filled with so much drama that it’s hard to even understand. Firstly, this girl cheated on her boyfriend with a guy she knew from her past (and we’re really talking about the past here, because they apparently met in elementary school).
They obviously had a steamy love affair, and she figured that this guy was the one and finally had everything she wanted, except he didn’t want to be with her because he already had a wife and children — shame on him too, BTW! According to the woman in this confession, it’s now been five months since the affair, and she’s pregnant with the guy’s baby. No word on whether she is still with her boyfriend, or whether he thinks the child is his. Wow.

Cheating is one thing, but cheating with someone who is in your family is a whole new thing entirely. This particular confession is quite the tongue twister, because the woman is having an affair with her husband’s sister’s husband. Seriously, this sounds like a scenario that would not be out of place on Dr. Phil .
Like I said before, these types of confessions really bug me. Maybe it’s because I could never think of doing it to my own siblings. Anyway, according to this confession, the woman was cheating on her husband with his sister’s husband (hopefully she and her sister-in-law are not close), and she’s just found out that she’s pregnant. Poor child, who is going to be born into such a horribly dysfunctional family!

You know things are bad when you don’t know whose baby is growing inside your belly. Apparently, this is exactly what has happened to the person behind this confession. This woman revealed that she has been cheating on her boyfriend with the neighbour, and she’s now found out that she’s pregnant.
The problem is, she doesn’t seem to know whose baby it is, and if she does, it’s still no less complicated. While this woman didn’t share any more details about the circumstances which led to her being in this situation, and how she plans to deal with it, she does admit that her life is abnormally complicated at the moment. And I can’t even begin to imagine how she’s going to deal with it.

Just like the rest of these confessions, this woman freely admits to cheating on her boyfriend. An indiscretion that she claims happened three years prior to her confession on Whisper. But the strangest part of this confession is not that this woman messed up and cheated on her boyfriend, and then appeared to give birth to another man’s child. The real confusion about it is that she appears to be surprised, and maybe even a little mad, that her boyfriend left her because of her actions.
Girl, what do you expect? You broke his trust by having sex with another man, and your baby serves as a reminder of that to him every day! Not to be mean here, but I think it’s quite clear that this girl needs a reality check.

Again, I cannot believe how dysfunctional some of these people are! This confession is definitely one of the worst to make it onto this list. According to this woman she cheated on her fiancé with…wait for it… his dad! And if that wasn’t enough, she is now pregnant, and she doesn’t know who is the father of her child. This is a cruel scenario, especially since she is sleeping with the father of another child.
She also doesn’t know how to tell her fiancé.
This is possibly one of the most messed up scenarios you can ever find yourself in; and no matter what this woman does, she is going to tear a family apart. Something which she really should have thought about before getting involved with the father of the man she intends to marry.

It can’t be easy finding yourself in a situation like this woman has found herself in, because according to her confession, she has been cheating on her boyfriend and she’s pregnant. But she is obviously hesitant to come clean about her affair because she doesn’t know who the baby daddy is.
Of course, there are ways of finding out, especially if you have a regular cycle and you do some serious math. But probably the easiest thing to do here would be to come clean to both men, and then wait until you can get a paternity test. It’s heartless to let the man think he is bringing up his child when he may not be his. But if he has all the facts in front of him, then at least he can make his own decision.

Unfortunately, there seems to be a bit of a pattern with regards to Whisper confessions from people who have decided to keep it in the family (have fallen pregnant with someone their significant other is related to). This is yet another one of those confessions because according to this man, his brother recently called off his wedding to the woman he was in love with, because he found out that she had been cheating. Now he has learned that the ex-fiancée is actually pregnant, but he still has no idea who the father is — but his brother does.
According to the brother’s confession, he is the one who is responsible for making his brother’s fiancée pregnant, and he’s asking for advice on how to tell him.

According to this scenario, this woman had a crush on someone for a very long time, and it appears she finally got the opportunity to act on these feelings, which she did. The problem? She wasn’t single at the time and ended up cheating on her boyfriend.
And, if this wasn’t complicated enough already, apparently she is now pregnant with the other man’s baby. I don’t have all the details here, but I assume that the other guy in the scenario doesn’t have much interest in being in her long-term because otherwise, she wouldn’t have this dilemma. She would obviously choose him because she’s wanted him since she was a kid. That said, if you are with someone and you have feelings for someone else, you know there’s a serious problem in your relationship.

This confession is a little different to the other ones on this list, which mostly come from women who cheated and then fell pregnant. They either don’t know who the father is, or are terrified to come clean to their significant other. Instead, this confession comes from a man who reportedly cheated on his girlfriend, with her best friend. Which is disgusting, and the girlfriend deserves so much better than these two toxic people in her life.
According to this man, both his girlfriend, and her best friend are now pregnant with his children. It seems that the girlfriend is still in the dark about the paternity of her friends’ baby. All I want to say about this, is that this guy better start taking some responsibility for his actions, because these children need to be cared for.

This confession doesn’t come from the cheater, but the daughter of the cheater. She was so angry that her mother lectured her about being faithful, that she had to take to an anonymous app and vent about it. According to this person’s confession, her mother cheated on her father with another man, and ended up falling pregnant with that man’s baby.
She doesn’t shed any more light about the family dynamics and whether her parents are still together, or if she is close to that kid (which is technically her half-sibling), but it seems that the mother may regret her actions. I say this because if she is willing to tell her daughter to be faithful, then maybe she knows just how much pain cheating can cause.

Most of the confessions on this list come from people who fell pregnant while cheating and their child is, therefore, a product of an affair. However, this last entry is a little different. It still involves someone who was pregnant and cheated, but it appears that this woman, while pregnant with her husband’s child, decided to have sex with another man.
OK, I get that there are a whole lot of hormones during this time, but that is absolutely no excuse to go sleeping around; especially when you’re starting a life with someone and having his child. The worst thing is that this was meant to be a happy time between herself and her husband, and it’s their only child. The poor man doesn’t seem to suspect anything.
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