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Sarah Jameson |

Submitted On March 01, 2011

Many men who beg for male chastity prove recalcitrant and - in short - behave badly just so they'll get 'punishment'.
And the good news is, there are a few of things you can do, all depending on how annoyed you get with him.
They are all something he's really not going to like, but one is a bit more drastic than the others, and it's something I'd recommend only in the extreme.
Let's get the extreme and least-fun one out of the way first.
It's simply this: give him the key back and refuse to play the game.
In other words, treat him just like you would a child by withdrawing your attention from him.
I guarantee this will bring him into line very quickly.
If he's in chastity then the thought of being allowed free and just left free will stop him dead in his tracks.
But because it's quite an 'unfriendly' thing to do, I'd really do this only if it truly went beyond the pale and he simply wouldn't behave.
I don't expect my husband to be at my beck and call 24/7, even though we are in a female led relationship, although we do practice strict male chastity; but I do expect him to recognise and respect the effort it takes for me to keep him under lock and key and happy with it, and to accept my authority and obey my rules.
This is the killer - and I can guarantee when you read what it is, you won't think it's punishment at all.
Until you try it on him and see how he reacts.
It's simply this: give him a ruined orgasm.
It's easy: you just make sure his hands are restrained so he can't touch himself and then you treat him to a low, sensuous and deliciously torturous tease and denial session.
Only this time you're going to let him orgasm... BUT the instant he begins to orgasm, with the very first spasm, you let go of his penis and give him NO further stimulation whatsoever.
He will buck and moan and groan and beg, but you must NOT touch him.
Now, this is one of the worst things that can happen to a man, because while he gets the post-orgasm letdown, there is NONE of the pleasure normally associated with an orgasm.
I know this from experience - because my husband, John, occasionally has to suffer ruined orgasms and he gets only one proper one a year.
And if you really want to turn the screws and make it almost unbearable for him, you can give him several ruined orgasms in a row, one after the other. I guarantee, when your man has had three, four, six, ten ruined orgasms in a row, he'll have achning balls and will be on his best behaviour for some considerable time.
Now, if you're sick and tired of the hype and nonsense you read on the 'net about male chastity and orgasm denial, and you're really looking for safe, sane and realistic advice and information, then it makes sense to get it from a genuine 24/7 couple who are living the lifestyle for real, doesn't it?
More recently, since we have transitioned into a female-led relationship and John is bound by the oath of obedience he gave to me, I have started caning him if he displeases or disobeys me.
Now, John is not one of those men who enjoys this, so it's not a "funishment".
I restrain him on the bench and then cane him hard and without mercy so he understands the error of his ways (a minimum of 36 very hard strokes, and no warm up).
This is perhaps further than some people will want to go, but it works well for us, and it has definitely improved his behaviour all round.
If you'd like to know more about how to punish your man in chastity from a real woman who's living the lifestyle, just click the blue link and claim your FREE step-by-step chastity guide and discover the truth about male chastity and punishment .
... because right now I'm giving away this free Guide to anyone who visits my website, but this free offer won't last forever.
So if you're serious about strict and uncompromising chastity, be sure to get it as soon as you can.
Your FREE chastity guide is waiting for you here!
Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog , which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.
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So tonight I'm off work but a friend is coming over later. She's had a bad couple of weeks and just needs a night of tlaking and drinking. I know its tuesday but i can drink on any day that ends in day hehe. So i got a feeling she will be crashing here tonight. Luckily my bedroom has a lock and she's straight so hopefully nothing will try to happen between us hehe. So while i kill time till she gets here i figured I'd describe my belt again and the rest of my chastity stuff since it can be quite different. Hell i didnt know what it was a year ago. Belt first - is a hip model mysteel belt. MEaning it sits lower on my body, right ontop of my hips. A lot of belts you see sit higher, up on the belly button. Im glad my is lower for two reason, one i feel its more secure as there is no way it can slide down over my hips at all, and two, its much easier to conceal. Not a big issue right now but come summer i will be glad. I have tried on some new swimsuits that i got and it totally hides it. As long as no one looks to close i should be golden. Same goes for regular summer clothes. I can bare my middrift withour worry. Course i may need a bellybutton ring if im giong to do that hehe. The belt is stainless steel with a black rubber or silicone liner that makes it more bearble to wear. A solid steel band runs from the front of my belt around my crotch to the rear of the belt. THeres is a round opening in the rear that flares out for potty breaks hehe. no easier way to say that. The front of the belt has two padlocks, one at the top at the hip band that locks the whole belt together and one farther down near my crotch. This locks the front shield on and keeps my from being able to masturbate. With it off I still can't have sex but can rub my clit easier. I 've never actually worn it without that shield . Didn't really see the point. if you go to mysteel's webpage they have a whole gallery of photos of women wearing there belts and id say at least half of them are very similar to my style belt. Overall its pretty comfy, and its really getting better all the time. I had it off breifly the other day and last night and both times i remember breifly feeling off without it so to speak. not like i was insecure or uncomfy but just off, like it wasn't right. It truly does become a part of you. I suppose if someone had a ring on for years and suddenly lost it, there would be a similar feeling. Each time the belt comes off i feel it more so i guess im getting more used to and more attached to it. I'm sure there will come a time where i never want to take if off again. I can say without a doubt that you can not masturbate or have sex with it on. I've tried countless times to push it off or slide it to the side to get at my crotch. Even when i got longer nails and hoped to reach anything it was a waist of time. Unless you are capable of orgasming from anal sex you aren't going to get off with the belt off. High quality stuff Now on to the thigh cuffs and bra. I figured i would try to explain them the best i can since it can be confusing. THere are many different thigh cuffs out there bondage wise but only one real style for chastity. Now unlike the belt, both of these are cheapies off ebay. They arent' the thickest metal and im sure that if i ever got a high quality one i would never touch theses again. But they work at the moment and do the trick so its all good. while they don't use the same locking mechanism as my belt its similar in looks enough that they may as well go together. Ok the thigh cuffs first. My wrist nor ankles get locked by these. They are for the sole purpuse of locking both thighs together. In an effect keeping me from spreading my legs. It doesn't really do much to increase the chastity as the belt still provides that, however it is another layer of bondage which Im starting to find can be just as effective. It also serves to force whoever wears them into skirts and dress and to take shorter steps, which in reality is a good things, since shorter steps are more womenly and better with heels. The cuffs get padlocked on each thigh about halfway down to the knee. There is a chain running from each cuff up to the belt. This means that i can't pull them higher becasue of the tightness of them, nor can i slide them down and off my leg do to being chained to the belt. There is a short chain about 6 inches or so that connects the two cuffs and limits my stride. I have seen some ppl that have simply a padlock between the cuffs, i have no idea how they walk or do anything hehe. Like the belt, they are on for good once locked. you simply cannot get them off. Now the bra. Its simple thin stainless steel with a similar rubber liner as the other items. mysteel has a very similar style but just better quality im sure. There is a solid steel band that wraps from one bra cup around my back to the other cup. in between both cups is where it padlocks together, just picture a bra that hooks in the front. from the padlock location, 4 thin chains, two on each side of the padlock, run up and over my shoulders, crossing before attaching to the back of the bra. I do have optional chains that can go down to the belt but havent used them. I dont really see the point. I understand teh shoulder chains, even metal needs support hehe. and it keeps you from sliding the bra down off your breasts. However once your locked in it, i don't see any way to possibly slide it up. I've tried and i just end up pulling my breasts. I can just barely get a finger tip under the cups, but can come nowhere near my nipples or get enough breast to fondle hehe. again theres no way for any of it to come off. When its all on its pretty intense. YOu have absolutly no way of getting any pleasure minus your ass. Basically your just a girl cover and locked in metal. right now im locked in it and after 1 day i already wish i could at least rub my breasts and nipples. its amazxing what you miss when you can't touch it. Like the thigh cuffs you have to dress differently obviously. Nothing to low cut or revealing in that area. Luckily the chains just look like thick bra straps under the right shirt. Overall my stuff is holding up real well. The bra hasnt been worn much yet till now but seems ok. No real scratches or issues with it yet. I'm most worried about it getting deformed or bent and causing a physical issue, but no problems so far. The thigh cuffs are getting a little scratched up where the short chain connects them simiply from rubbign i beleive. The belt has obvioulsy gotten the most wear and tear and i can say i havent had a complaint yet. Had to do some bending at first to get it to fit perfectly but have had it on for over a month straight and no issues. no rust or dents or anything. THere are some wear spots from my belt buckle in the front but nothing that effects its use. I see no reason why i wont be wearing this a month from now. I know i wanted to take it off the week of my period but im not sure now. Luckily I only have one once every three months thats to my bc. Which i probably don't need in a belt anymore hehe. Have been reading of girls that wear theres on their period. They simple take the front shield off. Can't have sex but it makes that time of the month easier to handle. That way they can stay in their belts. Not sure if i trust myself after last week not to touch myself in ways other then cleaning and im not sure Mistress does either anymore so we will see what happens when we get there. Personally can' tbeleive it took this long for me to find out about chastity. i know its not for everyone but wish every girl got to expereince it for al ittle bit.
I loved reading this story. I was put in a chastity belt and I love every minute of it. My master sets me free when he is ready for me and I find I am more able to adjust to his needs after wearing my chastity belt for a few days. Sometimes if I talk back he adjusts it so tight that I actually bleed, so I have learned to watch my mouth and behave better. My manners have improved. My master now wants me to wear the stainless steel bra but it is cutting into my breasts. He has given me some Vaseline and telling me to suck it up. That helped in the past when he bruised me in the back door area ( my fault, I talked back) but my breasts are really raw. Also, what type of butt plug do you have? Mine expands while in my back door, but it is so painful and I’m bleeding. My master tells me this is normal and that I’m being a whiny, slut. I do not ever talk back to him, but I thought maybe he would listen to your suggestions for a butt plug. He likes them to be steel and expandable when in my Ass. He laughs and calls it putting the biggest cucumber up my ass and watching it grow until I’m screaming in pain. I would honestly say, I probably can take an eggplant up there. Well, I actually can, I had one shoved up my ass for half a day. That’s why I really need the butt plugs. Some of these things are really hurting me.I’m getting better at pleasing him and would appreciate any help in butt plugs.
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So hot! I'd never let you cum again if you were my sub.

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