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Chastity Lifestyle
Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole?” Then read this…
I t sometimes seems that sissies and chastity are mentioned in the same breath together more than any other two words. Whether that’s true or not isn’t really all that important. What is significant is that chastity and the sissy share a symbiotic relationship that just won’t be denied.
What is it about the two sharing the same bed that feels so goddamn right?
Chastity and sissies go together like paranoia and schizophrenia. They are pretty damn close to being inseparable. It’s not difficult to see why that’s true.
Sissies, by most all definitions, are submissive creatures. If you’re a sissy, then you were created to please. Although there are many ways to pleasure your partner, sex is one of the more obvious ways in which to express your willingness to submit.
This sexually submissive mentality can conjure up a multitude of sexual undertones. Both the sissy and her dominant partner—whether that happens to be a male or female—derive erotic pleasure from the extremely unequal power dynamic that is present.
It’s a huge turn-on for the dominant party to be sexually satisfied, sometimes to the point of blissful exhaustion, while their submissive sissy is kept completely denied and under wraps.
It wouldn’t be an exaggeration to say that this obvious discrepancy in sexual gratification is an even huger turn-on for the sissy. Therein lies the intoxicating power of chastity.
What better way for the dominant to flaunt his or her dominance than to physically ensure their chastised sissy is kept in a never-ending state of horniness and frustration.
On the flip-side, a denied sissy willingly foregoes her pleasure in order to funnel every last fragment of that pent-up sexual frustration in the direction of her lover. Could there be a more authentic way to demonstrate her submissiveness?
Many, if not most, sissies could probably benefit from some form of chastity. Orgasm denial is a sure-fire way of intensifying the entire sissification process . Also, younger sissies, with an abundance of testosterone flowing in their system, oftentimes need a little (or maybe a lot of) help to bolster their self-discipline—or as a replacement for their total lack of that remarkable trait.
A more mature sissy may be already acutely aware of her station in life and wouldn’t think of cumming—much less become erect—without the proper permission or command from her partner. In her case, a chastity cage could be a non-necessity.
For a sissy who enjoys venturing out in public often, sporting a flat feminine front is critical to her image. In that case, a chastity device would hinder her ability to have things tucked away in the proper fashion.
So, depending on the level of mind-control that the dominant party exerts over their sissy and the geographical proximity they are to each other, a chastity device might be—or might not be—entirely necessary.
Whether or not a sissy is chastised with or without a chastity device, the fact remains that sissies that have had their orgasm denied for a lengthy period of time are much more obedient than a sissy that is not kept chaste.
A locked sissy lives her life in a—more-or-less—constant state of low-level erotic arousal. Because of this, she makes for a more willing and enthusiastic partner in general; not to mention a stellar sex toy, fuck doll and all-around submissive slut. Since all of her pent-up sexual desire is internalized, it needs to manifest itself in some form.
It’s no secret that the Mistress or Master winds up being the beneficiary of those stifled sexual yearnings. A denied sissy is always super eager to please: in ways that are only limited by the cruelly creativity mind of her Dom. She mindlessly does as she’s instructed: from scrubbing the toilet to giving epic head to devotional ass worship .
From a purely aesthetic perspective, I find it to be much sexier to see a sissy locked away in a chastity device than to have her sporting anything that resembles a hard-on. After all, we’re talking about a sissy here.
A sissy, by definition , has relinquished her rights to manhood. She should be conjuring up ways—in her pretty little head—to keep her clitty tiny, limp and insignificant. She has accepted that she is now a sexual receptor, no longer in need (much less worthy) of wielding a real cock.
Wearing a cute chastity device is a constant reminder to herself, and the rest of her world, as to the submissive sexual creature that she truly is. And it looks absolutely perfect on her!
Like I’ve alluded to in the previous section, other than making herself look as sexually desirable as possible, a sissy’s goal should be to train her small, pathetic cock into something that resembles an eternally limp and shamefully impotent sissy clitty.
A chastity device can help to achieve that more-than-worthy objective and, there is a vast acreage of evidence to support that statement.
Searching online will reveal real stories of women who have been able to shrink their husband’s or boyfriend’s cocks down to a suitable sissy size by keeping them permanently locked away in chastity. The resulting size reduction can be shockingly significant.
Sissies that don’t have a current Domme or Dom to act as their chastity keyholder have been able to accomplish this on their own. Training your clitty to be permanently limp and useless by using a chastity device causes a psychological shift in your sexuality that needs to be experienced to be fully appreciated.
For a real-life example as to what’s possible, Devina Cox has spent (at the time I wrote this article) more than 1,700 days as a chastised sissy slut.
My very first chastity device was a crudely constructed, unsophisticated mess made from small leather straps sewn around thin metal rings. It was not only uncomfortable but highly ineffective. The current state of chastity has come a long way from way back then.
I eventually graduated to a CB-3000—used for several years—which was a huge improvement. I currently own a Prison Bird 316L stainless steel chastity cage. It’s quite heavy and obviously not airport friendly. But… it’s pretty damn comfortable.
Needless to say, there are soooooo many sissy chastity devices to choose from now-a-days; enough to make a sissy’s clitty twitch in her pretty panties. And because of there being such a large number of manufacturers competing for the privilege of helping to turn you into a chastised sissy, the prices have come waaaaaay down.
After being denied—or denying yourself—for a prolonged period of time, you begin to see yourself—and sex—from a more feminine perspective. My longest stretch so far has been 7 weeks (that wasn’t bragging… it was a cry for help).
Your masculinity slowly starts to succumb as your source of sexual pleasure subtly begins to shift southward from your increasingly limp and inadequate clitty.
You begin to explore a newfound interest in anal play. Of course you will need an appropriate toy, like a prostate massager . Your feminine fantasies will begin to inspire questions such as: “ What would it be like to cum like a real girl? ”
If you’re intrigued by the thought of having a sissygasm—one that is so goddamn intoxicating that you will lose all desire to cum like a real man ever again, then you might find my article: A Guide To The Elusive Sissygasm worth a read.
Are you ready to go “ Down The Sissification Rabbit Hole? ” Then you’ll want to read this…
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What’s more fun than having sex? Um, NOT having sex…? For many guys out there, the chastity lifestyle is a huge turn-on. Maybe it’s time you tried it!
It might sound extreme or scary, and for beginners, chastity is indeed a daunting prospect. 
“What do you mean I can’t use my cock however I want?”  
But for those willing to stick with it and really get into the meaning behind it all, it can be an incredibly rewarding and eye-opening experience for everyone involved. 
So let’s take a dive into the world of the chastity lifestyle. What it looks like, how it feels for the male being locked up, and how to do it better. 
Oh, for clarity’s sake: we’re referring to chastity in the context of BDSM and a kinky lifestyle. This isn’t an article about taking a vow of celibacy and never enjoying sex. If that’s your thing, awesome, but you won’t find any useful advice here.
Most commonly, the chastity lifestyle occurs in a BDSM context where the Dominant partner takes control of the submissive partner’s genitals and how they are used. 
That means NO more orgasming whenever the submissive partner wants. Often they will use a device to make sure they can’t touch themselves that can be locked, which is why you often see the dominant partner in these kinds of relationships called a “keyholder.” 
Whatever the keyholder says goes. If they say do the dishes, you do the dishes. If they say be my footstool, you’re their footstool now. If they want to tease you for three hours and not even let you out of your cage, well, that’s up to them.
Chastity is a way of reshaping a relationship and also a way to learn more about your partner and how to please them other than sexually. 
For the purposes of this article, we’re mostly looking at male chastity. 
Now let’s take a look at how it works, practically speaking.
Restraint is a key part of the chastity relationship: physical as well as psychological . 
Usually, a chastity-enforced partnership involves the use of restraining devices . 
It can go either way in a hetero relationship: if the Dom is male, then their sub can be made to wear a chastity belt, which covers the vulva in a way that prevents intercourse or masturbation. 
You might think this practice goes back to medieval times – we’ve all heard of the fantasy trope of the fair chaste maiden, right – but actually, this was rare throughout history. That means the most use of these devices is happening right now. What a time to be alive! 
If you switch the sexes around in the dynamic, the female Dom (Domme) can use a chastity cage to lock up her sub’s penis so that her pleasure and control are paramount. 
Cages and belts are designed to be inescapable , which means the sub’s orgasm and pleasure are entirely up to the keyholder’s discretion. 
So what’s going through the chaste partner’s mind at this time? Well, I don’t know all that much about how it is for women, but for male subs? Let’s see…
There are 4 basic stages of the chastity lifestyle that I think most people go through. The first one tends to occur only once, like a novelty . Sometimes people tend to switch back and forth between stages 2 and 3 for a while. 
This is the real honeymoon phase of chastity. The sub is eager and loving every second of being locked up. He is turned on by the feeling, the look of being locked up, and even the very idea of it in principle. It might be hard to put the cage on a guy because of the non-stop raging erections at the thought of being caged! 
The excitement comes from the thrill of having no control and no freedom. It’s new , it’s fantastic , it’s the doorway to a whole new world of adventure and pent-up release from building frustration. His penis is right there but inaccessible to him, and that’s enthralling. 
Unfortunately, like all honeymoons, this phase never lasts for long. 
At first, it felt fun, and it was on every level. The fantasy was being lived out. His Dom teased him and teased him until he couldn’t take it anymore, and he loved it. 
But then something happened, quite early on in the adventure. 
The guy realized, “oh crap. I actually can’t reach my penis.” Frustration stops being thrilling and starts being… well, actual frustration. 
He will be infuriated that pleasure is so close and yet totally inaccessible to him. His penis, which he was used to being able to get pleasure from at any time, is now a source of anger and bitterness. 
Chastity isn’t a reward in itself anymore but a thing to be tolerated in anticipation of release. This inevitably leads to annoyance, and the sub will likely be moody and irritable . This is the stage where he will most likely quit and want to return to a more “normal” dynamic. 
But if he sticks out through this tough period, eventually, things will turn around. 
After some time which can range anywhere from days to months, the sub will realize he’s not going to win by complaining and being sullen about it. It’s time to either shut the whole thing down or carry on through to the other side. 
Determination and willpower take over. The mind gets reprogrammed through sheer force of motivation , going from “I hate this” to “this is fine, and this is what I’m doing.” 
After some hard work and hopefully some kind of support from the dominant partner (whether that’s being more lenient or extra whipping is down to the particular dynamic), there’s a breakthrough. 
Finally, an epiphany . He’s been looking at it all wrong. This isn’t a punishment inflicted upon his unfortunate soul – it’s what he wanted! This is the reality he asked for, and it’s the one he’s got. 
All he has to do is accept it and embrace his role and all the joy and fulfilling feelings he had at first return. Except now they’re different. Where there was childish enthusiasm, there is now measured satisfaction and a more peaceful kind of joy. 
If you’ve never tried it before, then you’ll inevitably find the chaste lifestyle to be full of unexpected twists and turns. Here are some things to consider that you might not be expecting. 
The first time putting on a chastity cage is thrilling, but it’s also a daunting prospect. Also, they’re pretty uncomfortable at first and take some getting used to . It helps to remember this is normal – it’s sort of like going scuba diving or skiing, in a way. At first, all the gear on you feels weird and unnatural, but you quickly adjust until it feels like a natural extension of your body. 
Sleeping is the hardest. Getting erections in your sleep is a thing that happens to every guy, but the cage doesn’t care if you’re asleep or not. That takes a lot of getting used to, and you have to be prepared for a few sleepless nights or just take it off before going to bed for a while until you have time to get accustomed to day wear. 
Cleaning is more of an issue than you might expect. If you’ve ever worn braces, you’ll remember that learning how to brush your teeth again is a new thing you hadn’t thought about until now. 
Cleaning a cage is a lot like that – suddenly, there’s this new thing you must get used to. 
But there are fun surprises too, like how you can feel closer to your partner than ever before, in a non-sexual way. A lot of men, in particular, aren’t really used to this kind of intimacy, so the first time you feel like cuddling your partner without getting horny about it is a pleasant shock!
The advantages of a chastity lifestyle are myriad. Here are a few that I found especially nice: 
Greater Intimacy – You can feel closer to your partner than ever before by honoring and pleasuring them selflessly. You learn to adore them in new ways you might never have thought of before, which can do wonders for a relationship both inside and outside the bedroom. 
Willpower – Most people don’t really test their own endurance the way a chastity cage does. By committing to it, you learn more about how you’re capable of adapting to and overcoming problems in a way that few people educate themselves on how to do. This has benefits in everyday life – you might find people praising how well you stick to difficult tasks. 
More intense orgasms – they say hunger is the best sauce , good things come to those who wait , and all that. Well, it’s definitely true when it comes to sex and orgasms. Once you’re let out of the cage, be prepared to be hornier and more excited than you’ve ever been. And those orgasms after days or weeks of waiting are mind-blowing. 
To thrive in your male chastity lifestyle, you and your partner (or “keyholder”) must agree on the terms of the chastity. 
You need to make sure you both stay Safe, Sane, and Consensual throughout your experience. Here are a few things to check on your safety list upfront.
A common method of preventing overstepping boundaries is using a safe word:
Think of a safe word that you’ll both remember to use if anybody feels out of their depth (typically the sub!).
Maybe they’re in too much physical discomfort from punishment, they’re having second thoughts about the whole thing, or anything in between.
The sub should feel confident that when they communicate the safe word, all activity will come to a STOP. 
Fundamentally, you must have solid trust in each other! 
You could also try a ‘traffic light’ system.
If you need to slow something down (maybe a punishment or humiliation), say ‘orange.’ If you want to stop completely, say ‘red.’
This is a simple but effective way of communicating in a Dom/Sub situation.
To be super official, you can draw up a contract , signed by both you and your partner, outlining the rules and what you both expect (like the length of chastity and punishments/rewards).
Whatever you choose, it’s highly important that you both understand and agree to the terms to ensure everybody is on the same page.
You can learn more about safe ways to use chastity devices in our Permanent Chastity 101 Guide.
Having a spare key placed somewhere you both know is extremely important.
Imagine: something goes wrong, the keyholder is not around, and there isn’t a spare key. You need to avoid this.
Although uncommon, health issues (swelling, discoloration, or extreme discomfort) could arise, which would need sorting ASAP.
So, whether it’s in a drawer or in a shoe, ensure there’s a spare key to reach for!
Now, once we are clear on safety, let’s proceed to…
Just like in your normal sex life, things sometimes need ramping up a little! 
So, if the chastity lifestyle has started to feel a little ‘same old, same old,’ here are a few games you can play to relight that fire (plus, your sub can earn some rewards!):
Game #1 : Hide the key to his cock cage somewhere around the house. If he can find it, let him have a day cage-free!
Game #2 : Make folded paper slips mix them up in a container, with one slip having ‘O’ Day’ written on it, and the rest left blank. Tell him if he’s lucky, he could get a surprise. Make him choose!
Tip: If you’re feeling a little naughty, you could leave all the slips blank. Depending on how good he’s been…
These suggestions are the tip of the iceberg in terms of which games you can play! Check out our ultimate guide to chastity games for more ideas.
So, whether chastity is a short-term experiment, or a long- term thing, as keyholder, you certainly get some practical benefits, too!
Also, bringing a chastity lifestyle into the 24/7 could be a great way for the two of you to explore each other better, increase excitement in the relationship, and live out powerful fantasies together.
So, we’ve given you plenty of ideas on how to get started with your male chastity lifestyle.
But really, the possibilities are endless, and the boundaries are only as limited as your imagination is!
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